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  • Jim_MillerJim_Miller Posts: 3,263
    You don't have to go to the wilds, in my area, to find black bears: https://www.kiro7.com/news/local/black-bear-eats-goat-bellevue-attempts-second-attack/VZYAFZPF7ZFBJNYHX7UX6G62NU/

    That's about a mile from where I live. The Bridle Trails neighborhood centers around a park for those who ride horses, and many of the homes there have stables.

    Black bears visit these eastside suburbs every year, usually looking for easy food sources, like bird feeders.

    They aren't much of a problem. (Grizzly bears (Ursus arctos horribilis), in contrast, you really don't want near populated areas.)

    (Occasionally, mountain lions visit. There have even been a few in Seattle itself, over the years. There are many coyotes in this area, of course. It's my impression they keep the feral cat population under control -- but that's not something I mention to cat lovers.)
  • 148grss148grss Posts: 4,155
    TOPPING said:

    As I said I believe it is rude. I have invited the person for dinner and the essence of good manners is not to make someone feel awkward or out of place. Hence everyone gets veggie food. Rolling out a separate dish for them, although I'm sure would be appreciated, is imo bad manners. But then I'm an old fashioned kind of guy.
    Not a dinner party scenario - but at family get together / big work dos I get quite annoyed at the lack of veggie offering; not because there is nothing but because meat eaters will eat both their meat option and my veggie option, meaning the veggie option depletes quite quickly despite not many veggies being at a thing. At work we’ve started ordering veggie only buffets - half the team is veggie or vegan and when we ordered meat options alongside they were always left over but the veggie stuff would go quickly.
  • MortimerMortimer Posts: 14,188
    Sandpit said:

    In this context, “lost control of his party” would have to mean he’d lost a formal vote of confidence and was expected to resign as party leader.
    Or a VONC was pending, I'd say.
  • TOPPING said:

    As I said I believe it is rude. I have invited the person for dinner and the essence of good manners is not to make someone feel awkward or out of place. Hence everyone gets veggie food. Rolling out a separate dish for them, although I'm sure would be appreciated, is imo bad manners. But then I'm an old fashioned kind of guy.
    But you don't care if meat eaters feel awkward or out of place having a vegetarian meal given to them?
  • 148grss148grss Posts: 4,155

    So they expect to be served their own choice when they go to someone else's house but won't return the favour?
    Would you expect a Jewish friend to serve you pork?
  • So they expect to be served their own choice when they go to someone else's house but won't return the favour?
    I wouldn't invite someone for dinner if they expected me to serve them meat, and I wouldn't accept an invitation from someone who was going to insist on serving me meat. It's quite simple.
  • MortimerMortimer Posts: 14,188
    148grss said:

    Not a dinner party scenario - but at family get together / big work dos I get quite annoyed at the lack of veggie offering; not because there is nothing but because meat eaters will eat both their meat option and my veggie option, meaning the veggie option depletes quite quickly despite not many veggies being at a thing. At work we’ve started ordering veggie only buffets - half the team is veggie or vegan and when we ordered meat options alongside they were always left over but the veggie stuff would go quickly.
    Stupidity like this is why I'm glad to be the boss.
  • GhedebravGhedebrav Posts: 3,860
    Some amusingly contorted logic on here today. I enjoy it when we do vegan/veggie-ism. Keep it coming!
  • MortimerMortimer Posts: 14,188
    I wonder what percentage of the population is veggie and cycling mad. Probably 2%
  • 148grss said:

    Would you expect a Jewish friend to serve you pork?
    I'd be quite happy with beef or chicken.

    I wouldn't invite someone for dinner if they expected me to serve them meat, and I wouldn't accept an invitation from someone who was going to insist on serving me meat. It's quite simple.
    Exactly. The favour is never returned. But I'm guessing if you go elsewhere then you expect a vegetarian option and not simply going along with whatever the host is having?
  • El_CapitanoEl_Capitano Posts: 4,244
    rcs1000 said:

    I suspect that's right. Basically, there aren't that many vegetarian smokers :smile:
    There’s an entire demographic of crusty boat-dwelling vegans who smoke (rollups, mostly). Just boated through Oxford and it’s full of them. The Kennet & Avon above Bath is the other hotspot.
  • FoxyFoxy Posts: 51,262

    So they expect to be served their own choice when they go to someone else's house but won't return the favour?
    I wouldn't expect my Muslim friends to serve me bacon or my Hindu friends a beef steak.
  • TOPPINGTOPPING Posts: 43,705
    Pagan2 said:

    That is your choice, many though would be offended at not being served because someone is a vegetarian.
    Not my friends. If they are offended because they don't get their lamb cutlets because another of my, likely our friends is a veggie then they wouldn't be a friend.
  • I'd be quite happy with beef or chicken. Exactly. The favour is never returned. But I'm guessing if you go elsewhere then you expect a vegetarian option and not simply going along with whatever the host is having?
    I don't expect a vegetarian option anywhere, but I'm grateful if there is one. If there isn't, I'll just eat the vegetables.
  • TOPPINGTOPPING Posts: 43,705

    So they expect to be served their own choice when they go to someone else's house but won't return the favour?
    I've no idea how many dinner parties you host, nor the people you invite - it certainly sounds like it isn't your friends - but the whole thing sounds ghastly.
  • Pagan2Pagan2 Posts: 10,796
    TOPPING said:

    Not my friends. If they are offended because they don't get their lamb cutlets because another of my, likely our friends is a veggie then they wouldn't be a friend.
    Frankly I would rather cut the veggie out
  • TOPPINGTOPPING Posts: 43,705
    Mortimer said:

    Once took a vege German gal to a Hunt ball. Didn't last long after that....
    Oh she told you that it was because of the menu, now, did she?
  • MortimerMortimer Posts: 14,188
    All this talk of veggie options makes me think of my freshers dinner.

    They forgot to make a veggie main course. My tutor had a word, and suddenly the (very few, this was Oxford in the Noughties) veggies were all presented with a single, massive wedge of stilton.
  • Ohio Very Special Election, August 8 2023 - Issue 1 to require 60% super-majority to amend state constitution

    with over 99% of expected votes counted:
    No 1,744,094 57.01%
    Yes 1,315,346 42.99%

    > Rather cack-handed attempt by Republican-controlled legislature, to stymie proposed state constitutional amendment on November 2023 ballot to guarantee right to abortion in Ohio.

    > Fact that it was hastily put on August ballot (first summertime vote on const amend in over century) shows that Buckeye GOPers were relying on low turnout, dominated by avid anti-abortion voters, to derail effort at putting Roe v Wade protections into Ohio constitution this fall by simple majority.

    > Note the Leg did this immediately AFTER scrapping August statewide ballot measures, on grounds of low turnout!

    > Anyway, rather predictable that - as in case of Kansas last year - instead of sliding by via voter suppression, either indirect as in summer election or direct as in eliminating early voting Monday before election day, what GOP wingnuts (from SCOTUS to Columbus) did, was LIGHT A FIRE under the asses of pro-choice voters. In this case, from Ashtabula to Athens County.

    > Even in the ashes of their own defeat, however, Republican politicos and their henchpeople can derive some comfort from the fact that in most Ohio counties, voters said Yes to Issue 1. Reason it failed was because these are rural, small-town counties; the cities and suburbs voted No.

    Of course a few city rats did vote Yes, and an even higher percentage of country mice said No. Reflecting perspective of pro-choice Republicans and other generally-conservative voters, who were willing to break ranks with the GOP on this vote (and also in November).

    So local victories for Yes on Issue 1 across rural Ohio, from the cornfields on the Indiana border to the dystopian hell-on-earth that is Marietta, would appear to be down to two key factors:
    > strength of anti-abortion sentiment and organization (esp. church based) in many rural areas
    > strength of Republican voter identification and mobilization, the latter being aided by aging rural populations with above-average voting history and propensity.

    Of course the REAL question, is, what does the landslide defeat of Issue 1 portend for 2024, in Ohio and way beyond?

    Same as Kansas Summer 2022: that repeal of Roe v. Wade has energized MANY mainly Democratic voters, to actually turn out and vote. AND that there are likely to be impacts when the leaves start to fall this year, just as there were in 2022 midterms THAT autumn.

    Expect more of the same for 2024.
  • Incidentally for what its worth if I go to a vegan's home and get serve a vegan meal, I'd keep my feelings about it to myself and eat the meal. Because I wouldn't want to be rude. And if I have a vegan guest, I would serve them their choice, again because I want them to be happy.

    Which is basically why meat eaters are in my view better people than vegetarians.

    Most meat eaters will cater to vegetarians, to try to make them happy despite not agreeing with their choice.

    But most vegetarians won't cater to meat eaters, to make them happy.

    I do have one veggie friend who is an exception. He goes out of the way to buy in and cook a meat option for meat eating guests despite being a vegetarian - because he's a good person who wants to make his guests happy.
  • MortimerMortimer Posts: 14,188
    TOPPING said:

    Oh she told you that it was because of the menu, now, did she?
    Ha. Touche!

    Joking apart we're still in touch. She was in a minority of 4 amongst about 500 that night!
  • TOPPINGTOPPING Posts: 43,705

    You don't have to go to the wilds, in my area, to find black bears: https://www.kiro7.com/news/local/black-bear-eats-goat-bellevue-attempts-second-attack/VZYAFZPF7ZFBJNYHX7UX6G62NU/

    That's about a mile from where I live. The Bridle Trails neighborhood centers around a park for those who ride horses, and many of the homes there have stables.

    Black bears visit these eastside suburbs every year, usually looking for easy food sources, like bird feeders.

    They aren't much of a problem. (Grizzly bears (Ursus arctos horribilis), in contrast, you really don't want near populated areas.)

    (Occasionally, mountain lions visit. There have even been a few in Seattle itself, over the years. There are many coyotes in this area, of course. It's my impression they keep the feral cat population under control -- but that's not something I mention to cat lovers.)

    Plenty of bears underneath the lifts at eg Whistler, Banff, etc.
  • NigelbNigelb Posts: 76,729

    I like mushrooms - no conundrum.
    Indeed not - mycelium.
  • TOPPINGTOPPING Posts: 43,705

    But you don't care if meat eaters feel awkward or out of place having a vegetarian meal given to them?
    They are a) well-mannered, and b) my friends - they eat what they are given and are happy to be there. And in any case how absurd to feel "out of place" because you are given a nut cutlet.

    In any case the food is the least important part of a dp.
  • Jim_MillerJim_Miller Posts: 3,263
    Finally, on the subject of dangerous animals, I should mention the most dangerous mammal: "Deer are responsible for the deaths of about 440 of the estimated 458 Americans killed in physical confrontations with wildlife in an average year, according to Utah State University biologist Mike Conover, employing some educated guesswork in the latest edition of “Human-Wildlife Interactions.”

    Those deer-inflicted fatalities are not, so far as we know, caused by deer-on-human predation. They’re the unfortunate result of more than 2 million people a year plowing into deer with their sedans and SUVs, usually on a two-lane road, often at high speed."
    source$: https://www.washingtonpost.com/business/2023/01/20/deer-car-collisions/

    (The most dangerous animal in the US is probably one of the disease-carrying mosquitos -- and I am gratedul that they are mostly under control, here.)
  • TOPPINGTOPPING Posts: 43,705
    Pagan2 said:

    Frankly I would rather cut the veggie out
    Again, more of a comment on you and I'm sure your dinner parties are a guinea a minute.
  • NigelbNigelb Posts: 76,729

    This week I am mostly eating corugettes and tomatoes because the blooming things always come in a glut.

    Corrugated courgettes ?
  • TOPPING said:

    They are a) well-mannered, and b) my friends - they eat what they are given and are happy to be there. And in any case how absurd to feel "out of place" because you are given a nut cutlet.

    In any case the food is the least important part of a dp.
    Exactly. Meat eaters are better people and have better manners. 👍
  • NigelbNigelb Posts: 76,729
    148grss said:

    Not a dinner party scenario - but at family get together / big work dos I get quite annoyed at the lack of veggie offering; not because there is nothing but because meat eaters will eat both their meat option and my veggie option, meaning the veggie option depletes quite quickly despite not many veggies being at a thing. At work we’ve started ordering veggie only buffets - half the team is veggie or vegan and when we ordered meat options alongside they were always left over but the veggie stuff would go quickly.
    My wife complains of this, frequently.
  • MiklosvarMiklosvar Posts: 1,855
    Mortimer said:

    Or a VONC was pending, I'd say.
    Just look at the letter

    "no wise Sovereign—that is, one who has at heart the true interest of the country, the constitution, and the Monarchy—would deny a dissolution to his Prime Minister unless he were satisfied that: (1) the existing Parliament was still vital, viable, and capable of doing its job; (2) a General Election would be detrimental to the national economy; (3) he could rely on finding another Prime Minister who could carry on his Government, for a reasonable period, with a working majority in the House of Commons."

    Barty wants (1) to mean there's a working majority, but that is nonsense because that's (3). It actually means what it says. Who is going to look at a tory party squabbling over whether the 6 month rump of the parliament should be presided over by Braverman or RM and think "vital, viable, and capable of doing its job"? This is a nonsense.

    Anyway, a vonc ain't pending till Old Lady says so. There will be weeks for Sunak to act in. And it gives KC a chance for a splendid monarchist/republican crossover line: “You have sat too long here for any good you have been doing. Depart, I say, and let us have done with you. In the name of God, go.”
  • TOPPINGTOPPING Posts: 43,705
    edited August 2023

    Incidentally for what its worth if I go to a vegan's home and get serve a vegan meal, I'd keep my feelings about it to myself and eat the meal. Because I wouldn't want to be rude. And if I have a vegan guest, I would serve them their choice, again because I want them to be happy.

    Which is basically why meat eaters are in my view better people than vegetarians.

    Most meat eaters will cater to vegetarians, to try to make them happy despite not agreeing with their choice.

    But most vegetarians won't cater to meat eaters, to make them happy.

    I do have one veggie friend who is an exception. He goes out of the way to buy in and cook a meat option for meat eating guests despite being a vegetarian - because he's a good person who wants to make his guests happy.

    Why would you go to a vegan's home and be served a vegan meal if they weren't a friend of yours. And if they were a friend of yours you wouldn't give a damn what you were served because you would appreciate the effort they had made, and would value their company more than what you stuff down your gullet. Wouldn't you?
  • Pagan2Pagan2 Posts: 10,796
    TOPPING said:

    Again, more of a comment on you and I'm sure your dinner parties are a guinea a minute.
    In my experience vegan/vegetarian friends are short term.....pretty much everyone I have had has at some point tried to lecture me about meat means murder and get told to fuck off
  • NigelbNigelb Posts: 76,729
    TOPPING said:

    Again, more of a comment on you and I'm sure your dinner parties are a guinea a minute.
    Sometimes a partridge, too.
  • Luckyguy1983Luckyguy1983 Posts: 30,825
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    Miklosvar said:

    "Lost control of his party" will be PB tittle tattle, not something of which regal notice has to be taken, at the time he asks Chas to blow the whistle.

    Let me guess, you are a disgruntled party member, voted for Truss, itching for a Sunakian Ides of March. Not going to happen. He, to coin a phrase, holds all the cards.
    Sunak is history. Shockingly, it would appear that a lot of Tories would like him to drift off before he leads the party to electoral annihilation.
  • Nigelb said:

    My wife complains of this, frequently.
    Because meat eaters eat a balanced diet?

    That's what you're supposed to do.

    If meat eaters are eating veggie sides to go with their meat then they're not doing anything wrong, they're having a balanced meal.

    If there's insufficient side orders/veg options then that's a balance problem, not a reason to cut out the meat. 🤦‍♂️
  • TOPPINGTOPPING Posts: 43,705
    Pagan2 said:

    In my experience vegan/vegetarian friends are short term.....pretty much everyone I have had has at some point tried to lecture me about meat means murder and get told to fuck off
    QED. People are lining up to bemoan the attitude of people at their dinner parties that they are never going to invite to their dinner parties.
  • Pagan2Pagan2 Posts: 10,796
    TOPPING said:

    QED. People are lining up to bemoan the attitude of people at their dinner parties that they are never going to invite to their dinner parties.
    No it means I am happy to invite them, make an effort for them. They don't however get to impose their standards on others.
  • kjhkjh Posts: 12,525
    Pagan2 said:

    Frankly I would rather cut the veggie out
    I don't get the issue. I've eaten and enjoyed most parts of many animals, but equally happy with a veggie meal. To take an example I had a potato and cauliflower curry last night. The night before I had BBQ duck breast and pork medallions. I don't think most meat eaters object to veggie meals and as some else pointed out if you offer veggie options with meat options the meat eaters will often consume the veggie options leaving the veggies short.
  • MiklosvarMiklosvar Posts: 1,855

    Finally, on the subject of dangerous animals, I should mention the most dangerous mammal: "Deer are responsible for the deaths of about 440 of the estimated 458 Americans killed in physical confrontations with wildlife in an average year, according to Utah State University biologist Mike Conover, employing some educated guesswork in the latest edition of “Human-Wildlife Interactions.”

    Those deer-inflicted fatalities are not, so far as we know, caused by deer-on-human predation. They’re the unfortunate result of more than 2 million people a year plowing into deer with their sedans and SUVs, usually on a two-lane road, often at high speed."
    source$: https://www.washingtonpost.com/business/2023/01/20/deer-car-collisions/

    (The most dangerous animal in the US is probably one of the disease-carrying mosquitos -- and I am gratedul that they are mostly under control, here.)

    Horses effortlessly outperform the wildlife at 700 per year

    https://horsesonly.com/horse-riding-accidents/
  • Luckyguy1983Luckyguy1983 Posts: 30,825
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    TOPPING said:

    I've no idea how many dinner parties you host, nor the people you invite - it certainly sounds like it isn't your friends - but the whole thing sounds ghastly.
    I commend your effort, but with the amount of dietary variations that are relatively mainstream these days (veggie, vegan, coeliac), it doesn't leave your more conventional attendees with a very delicious or satisfying meal.
  • MortimerMortimer Posts: 14,188
    Miklosvar said:

    Just look at the letter

    "no wise Sovereign—that is, one who has at heart the true interest of the country, the constitution, and the Monarchy—would deny a dissolution to his Prime Minister unless he were satisfied that: (1) the existing Parliament was still vital, viable, and capable of doing its job; (2) a General Election would be detrimental to the national economy; (3) he could rely on finding another Prime Minister who could carry on his Government, for a reasonable period, with a working majority in the House of Commons."

    Barty wants (1) to mean there's a working majority, but that is nonsense because that's (3). It actually means what it says. Who is going to look at a tory party squabbling over whether the 6 month rump of the parliament should be presided over by Braverman or RM and think "vital, viable, and capable of doing its job"? This is a nonsense.

    Anyway, a vonc ain't pending till Old Lady says so. There will be weeks for Sunak to act in. And it gives KC a chance for a splendid monarchist/republican crossover line: “You have sat too long here for any good you have been doing. Depart, I say, and let us have done with you. In the name of God, go.”
    The funny thing about those who whip out the Lascelles principles is that they think what they're doing is showing how strong their position is, when in fact by having to claim how 'strong' their case is, they are in fact showing how weak a position their lad is in....
  • TOPPING said:

    Why would you go to a vegan's home and be served a vegan meal if they weren't a friend of yours. And if they were a friend of yours you wouldn't give a damn what you were served because you would appreciate the effort they had made, and would value their company more than what you stuff down your gullet. Wouldn't you?
    As I said, I'm a good person so I'll keep my opinions of veganism to myself and eat whatever I'm served, even if I don't agree with it. That's just good manners.

    If you want to make guests happy though, putting some effort into catering to their choices isn't a bad thing.

    This goes with meats too not just vegetables. If I'm serving steaks, I eat those rare myself but if someone else prefers medium rare, medium or even *shudders* well done then I'll cater to them and serve them as they like it - not give them my choice.
  • TOPPINGTOPPING Posts: 43,705
    Pagan2 said:

    No it means I am happy to invite them, make an effort for them. They don't however get to impose their standards on others.
    Doesn't sound like you are talking about a friend. Sounds like you are talking about an imaginary vegan about whom you like to rant. If you are talking about a friend what a nasty attitude you have to your friends.
  • CarnyxCarnyx Posts: 44,620

    Finally, on the subject of dangerous animals, I should mention the most dangerous mammal: "Deer are responsible for the deaths of about 440 of the estimated 458 Americans killed in physical confrontations with wildlife in an average year, according to Utah State University biologist Mike Conover, employing some educated guesswork in the latest edition of “Human-Wildlife Interactions.”

    Those deer-inflicted fatalities are not, so far as we know, caused by deer-on-human predation. They’re the unfortunate result of more than 2 million people a year plowing into deer with their sedans and SUVs, usually on a two-lane road, often at high speed."
    source$: https://www.washingtonpost.com/business/2023/01/20/deer-car-collisions/

    (The most dangerous animal in the US is probably one of the disease-carrying mosquitos -- and I am gratedul that they are mostly under control, here.)

    The most dangerous mammal in America? Wrong order, you need the primates, and more specifically the hominines.
  • rcs1000rcs1000 Posts: 59,395
    Pagan2 said:

    I tend to be live and let live...eat what you enjoy but I have found some but not all vegans/vegetarians evangelical, indeed a vegan was one of the only two times I have lodged a complaint with hr about a co worker
    Vegetarians tend to be relatively pragmatic folk, it's the vegans who are usually the religious nuts.

    Personally, if I cook for guests it will usually be with an animal (fish or meat) main course.

    But not always.

    Sometimes I do risotto with halloumi cheese for a main, and that is veggie. (Albeit, if I'm doing a veggie main, I'll probably have meat or fish for the starter.)

    There are some really excellent South Indian restaurants around Drummond Street in London (near Euston) that are all vegetarian. I would highly recommend Diwana, and have been going there for at least 45 of my 48 years on this planet.
  • MortimerMortimer Posts: 14,188

    Because meat eaters eat a balanced diet?

    That's what you're supposed to do.

    If meat eaters are eating veggie sides to go with their meat then they're not doing anything wrong, they're having a balanced meal.

    If there's insufficient side orders/veg options then that's a balance problem, not a reason to cut out the meat. 🤦‍♂️
    Exactly, the lesson to take from this is to order more varied buffets, not cut out the food that the majority eat.
  • TOPPINGTOPPING Posts: 43,705

    As I said, I'm a good person so I'll keep my opinions of veganism to myself and eat whatever I'm served, even if I don't agree with it. That's just good manners.

    If you want to make guests happy though, putting some effort into catering to their choices isn't a bad thing.

    This goes with meats too not just vegetables. If I'm serving steaks, I eat those rare myself but if someone else prefers medium rare, medium or even *shudders* well done then I'll cater to them and serve them as they like it - not give them my choice.
    As I said, and of course neither you nor I will ever have to worry about this, your attitude doesn't sound like one you would have towards a friend. An imaginary internet vegan guest perhaps who comes into your house demanding nut roasts, but not a friend.

    A friend you wouldn't give a damn about any of this and if you did, for a friend, then that is pretty sad tbh.
  • FoxyFoxy Posts: 51,262
    Pagan2 said:

    In my experience vegan/vegetarian friends are short term.....pretty much everyone I have had has at some point tried to lecture me about meat means murder and get told to fuck off
    Yes, I can believe that.
  • rcs1000rcs1000 Posts: 59,395
    Pagan2 said:

    In my experience vegan/vegetarian friends are short term.....pretty much everyone I have had has at some point tried to lecture me about meat means murder and get told to fuck off
    Don't you tell pretty much everyone to fuck off anyway?
  • Jim_MillerJim_Miller Posts: 3,263
    Carnyx - True. I should have said wild animals, or "wildlife", as the article I quoted did.
  • Mortimer said:

    Exactly, the lesson to take from this is to order more varied buffets, not cut out the food that the majority eat.
    The lesson is that you need more nut cutlets than you think.
  • CarnyxCarnyx Posts: 44,620
    edited August 2023
    TOPPING said:

    As I said, and of course neither you nor I will ever have to worry about this, your attitude doesn't sound like one you would have towards a friend. An imaginary internet vegan guest perhaps who comes into your house demanding nut roasts, but not a friend.

    A friend you wouldn't give a damn about any of this and if you did, for a friend, then that is pretty sad tbh.
    Nut roasts! Did someone say nut roast? Yum. Where is it??

    Positively a treat.
  • Pagan2Pagan2 Posts: 10,796
    TOPPING said:

    Doesn't sound like you are talking about a friend. Sounds like you are talking about an imaginary vegan about whom you like to rant. If you are talking about a friend what a nasty attitude you have to your friends.
    Ok here is another example. My step brother only likes his roast potato's, parsnips etc. burnt to a crisp. When I have him over for the sunday roast I get the potato's etc out then leave enough for him in the oven to overcook. By your argument I should serve everyone blackened roasties so he is not singled out.

    I goto the extra hassle of making a good main dish for a vegetarian/vegan but that is not good enough....no it is there faddy diet and their choice. I catered for it just like I do with my stepbrother. I just refuse to let it impact others
  • Pagan2Pagan2 Posts: 10,796
    rcs1000 said:

    Don't you tell pretty much everyone to fuck off anyway?
    Only when they annoy me. Life is too short to put up with idiots
  • CarnyxCarnyx Posts: 44,620

    Carnyx - True. I should have said wild animals, or "wildlife", as the article I quoted did.

    Indeed - I expect horses and cattle also score quite highly. Not to mention pooches. And perhaps cats, if one counts the brain parasites they carry.
  • CarnyxCarnyx Posts: 44,620
    rcs1000 said:

    Don't you tell pretty much everyone to fuck off anyway?
    It's his way of telling us on PB he loves us.
  • NigelbNigelb Posts: 76,729
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    Because meat eaters eat a balanced diet?

    That's what you're supposed to do.

    If meat eaters are eating veggie sides to go with their meat then they're not doing anything wrong, they're having a balanced meal.

    If there's insufficient side orders/veg options then that's a balance problem, not a reason to cut out the meat. 🤦‍♂️
    Er, no.

    I was talking about the vegetarian alternative to meat dishes, not "veggie sides", a phrase which suggests your ideological stance on the matter.

    It's also provides a little perspective on the relative desirability of vegetarian dishes, and your "we're better people" belief.
  • TOPPINGTOPPING Posts: 43,705
    edited August 2023

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    I commend your effort, but with the amount of dietary variations that are relatively mainstream these days (veggie, vegan, coeliac), it doesn't leave your more conventional attendees with a very delicious or satisfying meal.
    Says you. Plus as I have noted, the food is the least important thing about a dinner party and certainly not something that would detain me a moment when I think about my "attitude" towards any particular dietary requirements. As long as the wine and conversation is flowing I couldn't care less what is eaten and I certainly wouldn't think any less of a friend for cooking me the "wrong" kind of meal.
  • Pagan2 said:

    Ok here is another example. My step brother only likes his roast potato's, parsnips etc. burnt to a crisp. When I have him over for the sunday roast I get the potato's etc out then leave enough for him in the oven to overcook. By your argument I should serve everyone blackened roasties so he is not singled out.

    I goto the extra hassle of making a good main dish for a vegetarian/vegan but that is not good enough....no it is there faddy diet and their choice. I catered for it just like I do with my stepbrother. I just refuse to let it impact others
    Well said.

    Everyone I know with a funny diet is generally happy to be catered to their requests, very rare to see anyone expect everyone to have to have what they want.

    Perhaps fair to say anyone who proselytised and expected everyone to have what they want wouldn't remain a friend for long. Relatives are more of an issue, you can't choose your relatives.
  • Pagan2Pagan2 Posts: 10,796
    Foxy said:

    Yes, I can believe that.
    So you are married and monogamous....a friend telling you that is wrong and you should be polyamorous and it is immoral not to be that way would not piss you off?

    Vegetarianism is a niche fad, so is polyamory
  • kjhkjh Posts: 12,525
    Pagan2 said:

    Ok here is another example. My step brother only likes his roast potato's, parsnips etc. burnt to a crisp. When I have him over for the sunday roast I get the potato's etc out then leave enough for him in the oven to overcook. By your argument I should serve everyone blackened roasties so he is not singled out.

    I goto the extra hassle of making a good main dish for a vegetarian/vegan but that is not good enough....no it is there faddy diet and their choice. I catered for it just like I do with my stepbrother. I just refuse to let it impact others
    But that is not the same is it. I'm a meat eater but I also love a veggie meal. Most (all) meat eaters do.
  • NigelbNigelb Posts: 76,729
    edited August 2023
    rcs1000 said:

    Vegetarians tend to be relatively pragmatic folk, it's the vegans who are usually the religious nuts.

    Personally, if I cook for guests it will usually be with an animal (fish or meat) main course.

    But not always.

    Sometimes I do risotto with halloumi cheese for a main, and that is veggie. (Albeit, if I'm doing a veggie main, I'll probably have meat or fish for the starter.)

    There are some really excellent South Indian restaurants around Drummond Street in London (near Euston) that are all vegetarian. I would highly recommend Diwana, and have been going there for at least 45 of my 48 years on this planet.
    You are a reasonable person, Robert.
    (Though perhaps tending to the doctrinaire in your - admittedly sound - musical tastes.)
  • Andy_JSAndy_JS Posts: 34,295
    FPT

    Civil Servants are only human, and humans are nosy, so the more information you make available to government officials the more information they will see.

    If you think that if you had free access to a super-government database that you wouldn't be looking at your neighbour's income then you are kidding yourself. The best that can be hoped for is that you would have the good sense not to tell anyone that you had done so and keep the information to yourself.
    Difficult to disagree with this.
  • CarnyxCarnyx Posts: 44,620
    Carnyx said:

    Indeed - I expect horses and cattle also score quite highly. Not to mention pooches. And perhaps cats, if one counts the brain parasites they carry.
    PS It is a good point you make about the deer, though; I've heard similar re kangaroos (which can slip through the broken windsreen and then kick out, for added fun).

    Deer are a problem in Scotland partly thanks to some shooting estates pushing up numbers, and refusing to discuss cooperation in control, but sheep are also dangerous as so unpredictable - I always make my friends slow down if there are sheep on the road.
  • MiklosvarMiklosvar Posts: 1,855
    Mortimer said:

    The funny thing about those who whip out the Lascelles principles is that they think what they're doing is showing how strong their position is, when in fact by having to claim how 'strong' their case is, they are in fact showing how weak a position their lad is in....
    He's not "my lad", I despise him only slightly less than I despise his predecessor, her predecessor and his possible successors, I am just pointing out the way things are. And if people are forever whipping out their Lascelles principles to you (matron!) it's odd how little understanding you have of them.

    And I would point out that it wasn't me who whipped them out, it was you. I think they are utterly irrelevant.
  • Carnyx said:

    It's his way of telling us on PB he loves us.
    So is Lee Anderson saying to immigrants that he loves them to France?
  • TOPPINGTOPPING Posts: 43,705
    edited August 2023
    Pagan2 said:

    Ok here is another example. My step brother only likes his roast potato's, parsnips etc. burnt to a crisp. When I have him over for the sunday roast I get the potato's etc out then leave enough for him in the oven to overcook. By your argument I should serve everyone blackened roasties so he is not singled out.

    I goto the extra hassle of making a good main dish for a vegetarian/vegan but that is not good enough....no it is there faddy diet and their choice. I catered for it just like I do with my stepbrother. I just refuse to let it impact others
    Not at all - you have the perfect approach. It is not analogous at all. Everyone is getting potatoes, just that you are cooking them differently (same with steaks, right?).
  • .
    Nigelb said:

    .

    Er, no.

    I was talking about the vegetarian alternative to meat dishes, not "veggie sides", a phrase which suggests your ideological stance on the matter.

    It's also provides a little perspective on the relative desirability of vegetarian dishes, and your "we're better people" belief.
    The conversation was about a buffet.

    I'm sorry but veggie options at a buffet are almost all perfectly reasonable sides to have with your meat. If the buffet is running out of veggie options then order more veggie options next buffet, don't cut out the meat.
  • CarnyxCarnyx Posts: 44,620

    So is Lee Anderson saying to immigrants that he loves them to France?
    Well, Mr Sunak will have to decide *that* sooner or later, if at all.
  • MortimerMortimer Posts: 14,188

    The lesson is that you need more nut cutlets than you think.
    Haha. I think they're ghastly personally.
  • TOPPINGTOPPING Posts: 43,705
    I think what this is proving is that PB is full of social misfits who despite their declarations to the contrary all live in the basements of their parents' houses, don't really understand personal interactions and still less have any of them, and use their "friends" to prove points they are trying to make to strangers on the internet.
  • Pagan2Pagan2 Posts: 10,796
    kjh said:

    But that is not the same is it. I'm a meat eater but I also love a veggie meal. Most (all) meat eaters do.
    I like vegetables, I like meat and they go well together. Cannot remember the last time a meal I had was vegan certainly. Vegetarian when I have a cheese salad is about the closest I get.

    I am not a huge fan of pulses and avoid them like the plague because I find them disgusting. Most vegetarian or vegan meals seem replete with them so yes I don't want generally to eat them as I don't like pulses (by which I mean any type of bean, lentils etc).
  • TOPPING said:

    I think what this is proving is that PB is full of social misfits who despite their declarations to the contrary all live in the basements of their parents' houses, don't really understand personal interactions and still less have any of them, and use their "friends" to prove points they are trying to make to strangers on the internet.

    Or perhaps people like to play devils advocate a bit on the internet and sometimes take things a bit far. ;)
  • Andy_JSAndy_JS Posts: 34,295
    O/T

    Problem: we keep getting calls on the landline from people saying we've been ringing them up. We haven't. Obviously scammers have been calling people, but making it seem as if the call was coming from us rather than them. It's happened 3 times so far. (We don't want to get rid of the landline phone number, so that isn't a solution).
  • Pagan2Pagan2 Posts: 10,796
    TOPPING said:

    Not at all - you have the perfect approach. It is not analogous at all. Everyone is getting potatoes, just that you are cooking them differently (same with steaks, right?).
    Actually would never serve a steak for others as it makes me wince if they want it other than blue
  • MortimerMortimer Posts: 14,188
    edited August 2023
    TOPPING said:

    I think what this is proving is that PB is full of social misfits who despite their declarations to the contrary all live in the basements of their parents' houses, don't really understand personal interactions and still less have any of them, and use their "friends" to prove points they are trying to make to strangers on the internet.

    I dispute that entirely........

    I couldn't possibly fit in my parents' basement, it's too full of claret.
  • kjhkjh Posts: 12,525
    Nigelb said:

    You are a reasonable person, Robert.
    (Though perhaps tending to the doctrinaire in your - admittedly sound - musical tastes.)
    I would have liked but the use of 'sound musical tastes' put me off.
  • Luckyguy1983Luckyguy1983 Posts: 30,825
    ...
    TOPPING said:

    Says you. Plus as I have noted, the food is the least important thing about a dinner party and certainly not something that would detain me a moment when I think about my "attitude" towards any particular dietary requirements. As long as the wine and conversation is flowing I couldn't care less what is eaten and I certainly wouldn't think any less of a friend for cooking me the "wrong" kind of meal.
    Ok. So if one of your 11 guests was vegan, and another was coeliac, everyone would get very unconventional (most of it is shit to be honest) bread, no cheese, eggs, milk or honey, no conventional pastry, no butter, etc. etc. etc. The (vegan) wine would have to flow to make that a less than underwhelming experience. It might even be less awkward for the dietary divergers if you didn't subject everyone to their choices. But they are your dinner parties and clearly you work it out OK.
  • MortimerMortimer Posts: 14,188
    Andy_JS said:

    O/T

    Problem: we keep getting calls on the landline from people saying we've been ringing them up. We haven't. Obviously scammers have been calling people, but making it seem as if the call was coming from us rather than them. It's happened 3 times so far. (We don't want to get rid of the landline phone number, so that isn't a solution).

    Gah how frustrating.

    We have a biz landline at the shop. 9/10 calls are sales calls or 'Microsoft safety team' scammers.

    My pet peeve is my bank wanting me to 'approve' almost every transaction via my app now.

    I mean, sure, maybe check the transactions with new vendors. But do I REALLY need to approve my almost daily courier bookings with the same company?
  • MalmesburyMalmesbury Posts: 54,216
    Miklosvar said:

    Elk and red deer are within a whisker of being the same species: they can interbreed and the offspring is fertile (so closer than horses and donkeys)

    https://agri.idaho.gov/main/wp-content/uploads/2021/05/Red-Deer-versus-Elk-Genetics-002.pdf
    https://www.backcountryhunters.org/elk_shoulder_bacon
  • TOPPINGTOPPING Posts: 43,705

    Or perhaps people like to play devils advocate a bit on the internet and sometimes take things a bit far. ;)
    Never happens on PB.
  • Pagan2Pagan2 Posts: 10,796
    Mortimer said:

    Gah how frustrating.

    We have a biz landline at the shop. 9/10 calls are sales calls or 'Microsoft safety team' scammers.

    My pet peeve is my bank wanting me to 'approve' almost every transaction via my app now.

    I mean, sure, maybe check the transactions with new vendors. But do I REALLY need to approve my almost daily courier bookings with the same company?
    While I theoretically have a landline I havent had a phone plugged into for just this reason. At least on my mobile unknown number I can just let goto voicemail and scammers generally wont leave them
  • Andy_JSAndy_JS Posts: 34,295
    This is the third data leak in about 24 hours.

    "Adopted children's names were disclosed on Scotland's People website"

    https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-66448432
  • kjhkjh Posts: 12,525
    Pagan2 said:

    I like vegetables, I like meat and they go well together. Cannot remember the last time a meal I had was vegan certainly. Vegetarian when I have a cheese salad is about the closest I get.

    I am not a huge fan of pulses and avoid them like the plague because I find them disgusting. Most vegetarian or vegan meals seem replete with them so yes I don't want generally to eat them as I don't like pulses (by which I mean any type of bean, lentils etc).
    Macaroni cheese, Cauliflower cheese, vegetable curry. I had a lovely potato and cauliflower curry last night. My wife does a lovely stilton and walnut tart. How about a simple cheese omelette. Other favourites of mine are a fennel casserole or a vegetable crumble. How about beans on toast? Most of us have that sometimes.

    There are lots of veggie meals. Vegan I grant you is a challenge.
  • Andy_JS said:

    This is the third data leak in about 24 hours.

    "Adopted children's names were disclosed on Scotland's People website"

    https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-66448432

    And still we had people calling earlier today for ID cards and unified databases ...
  • kjh said:

    Macaroni cheese, Cauliflower cheese, vegetable curry. I had a lovely potato and cauliflower curry last night. My wife does a lovely stilton and walnut tart. How about a simple cheese omelette. Other favourites of mine are a fennel casserole or a vegetable crumble. How about beans on toast? Most of us have that sometimes.

    There are lots of veggie meals. Vegan I grant you is a challenge.
    Macaroni cheese should have bacon in it.

    There's few things that aren't improved with bacon though.
  • kjhkjh Posts: 12,525

    Macaroni cheese should have bacon in it.

    There's few things that aren't improved with bacon though.
    Well I'm not going to disagree with that, ever.
  • TOPPINGTOPPING Posts: 43,705
    kjh said:

    Well I'm not going to disagree with that, ever.
    Conversely, few things aren't improved with cheese.
  • CarnyxCarnyx Posts: 44,620
    edited August 2023
    Andy_JS said:

    This is the third data leak in about 24 hours.

    "Adopted children's names were disclosed on Scotland's People website"

    https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-66448432

    Not a "third" data leak, but more a concern with the combination of statutory data and searchable databases. The issue of [edit] anonymization, more generally, is well known in medical research. Edit: that's why sales of NHS data to commercial firms are such a sensitive issue.
  • Casino_RoyaleCasino_Royale Posts: 62,309
    148grss said:

    I like the idea that veggies and vegans have tried to make you eat “their food” at events. Like, vegetables? Would you just like a plate of meat and nothing else?
    They have served just vegetables and offered nothing else.

    This is well documented - and indeed even some leftwing councils do it deliberately- so let's not pretend this isn't a thing please.
  • Casino_RoyaleCasino_Royale Posts: 62,309

    So they expect to be served their own choice when they go to someone else's house but won't return the favour?
    They are huge hypocrites.
  • TheuniondivvieTheuniondivvie Posts: 43,338

    Broken sleazy Tories on the slide!
    Shame, I was hoping the national Con numbers might converge with those for their SCon sub branch, just for neatness sake.
  • Casino_RoyaleCasino_Royale Posts: 62,309

    Vegan food puts me off my food. I'll still make it for my guests if that's what they eat, despite the fact its not what I eat, even if I'm not keen on the smell.

    What amuses me too is vegans on Tripadvisor. Go to non-vegan restaurants and vegans will complain about the lack of vegan options on the menu if there aren't enough on the menu in their eyes. Yet there's no options for me in a vegan restaurant - you won't see me leave scathing 1* reviews on their restaurant though, I'll simply go to one that suits me instead.

    Vegans always feel like they should be catered to everywhere, yet don't think I should be. Funny that.
    I go the other way and complain when there are too many vegan options on the menu.
  • kjh said:

    Well I'm not going to disagree with that, ever.
    One good thing about Canada is they put bacon in everything.

    One Christmas there I even had Brussels Sprouts which were diced and served with diced bacon. Only enjoyable Brussels Sprouts I've ever had.
  • CarnyxCarnyx Posts: 44,620

    I go the other way and complain when there are too many vegan options on the menu.
    Game pie? yum.
  • viewcodeviewcode Posts: 24,291
    Good news! Marvel VFX artists are voting to unionise

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6YMuOMXqleI
  • Casino_RoyaleCasino_Royale Posts: 62,309
    TOPPING said:

    As I said I believe it is rude. I have invited the person for dinner and the essence of good manners is not to make someone feel awkward or out of place. Hence everyone gets veggie food. Rolling out a separate dish for them, although I'm sure would be appreciated, is imo bad manners. But then I'm an old fashioned kind of guy.
    So you're rude to the non veggies then?

    Got it.
  • rcs1000rcs1000 Posts: 59,395
    I challenge anyone who says there is no such thing as a good vegetarian meal to visit Diwana on Drummond Street. It is South indian cuisine: thalis, bhel poori and dhosas, and it is absolutely delicious.

    I love myself a bit of steak. I love lamb chops.

    But the food there is absolutely superb. When I'm in London, I nearly always try and go there.
  • kjhkjh Posts: 12,525
    edited August 2023

    One good thing about Canada is they put bacon in everything.

    One Christmas there I even had Brussels Sprouts which were diced and served with diced bacon. Only enjoyable Brussels Sprouts I've ever had.
    For Christmas dinner I always serve Brussels with bacon and chestnuts

    Edit: it just dawned on me I might have to invite you to Christmas dinner.
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