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  • turbotubbsturbotubbs Posts: 22,444

    Any update from Derby? Not suggesting anything suspicious but surely they have enough to charge by now? I know they can no longer question once charged but seems a long time considering the alleged guy was arrested at the scene.

    He’s been charged.
    Ah. Nothing on the main BBC website.
    I just got an alert from Sky News.
    Aha!
  • TheScreamingEaglesTheScreamingEagles Posts: 127,198
    kle4 said:

    I am so glad I am such a good Muslim and do not drink the devil's buttermilk.

    It seems people get drunk and make complete arses of themselves.

    Teetotallers are more than able to make complete arses of themselves of course, believe me, but some people realllly cannot handle their booze it seems.
    One of the several reasons I don’t drink is that about 95% of people are the same person sober or drunk but some people end up saying or doing something that cannot be undone.

    I don’t want to be in that 5%.
  • kle4kle4 Posts: 101,955

    In the other war, the Ukrainians seem to be gaining the upper hand.

    https://x.com/jayinkyiv/status/2039096362516578382

    In addition to the Russian fighter jet lost 3 hours ago, now a Russian An-26 is down with 30 aboard.

    Rough night for Russian aviation.

    Hopefully the USA does not put a stop to that.
  • MarqueeMarkMarqueeMark Posts: 59,013
    boulay said:

    Leon said:

    maxh said:

    Leon said:

    kyf_100 said:

    Leon said:

    kyf_100 said:

    Foxy said:

    Taz said:

    This Kristi Noem husband story is quite something

    https://x.com/nypost/status/2039006843763044817?s=61

    It is a magnificent contribution of solidarity to mark Trans Day of Visibility.



    Incidentally we used to have a poster on PB who went by the name @byronic. I wonder if they are one and the same?
    I know you're only joking but I think it's important not to lump creepy fetishistic guys in with trans people, who experience a genuine disconnect between mind and body that only medical intervention can fix.

    Sadly it's often the transphobic, far right men who are most into kinky "trans" porn (all unrealistic tosh aimed squarely at male fetishists), which leads many to believe that trans women are in some way deviant and perverted, when it is perverted blokes that have the problem. If you look at the data, trans porn is, by the way, far more popular in red states in America than Blue.

    The louder the transphobe, the more interesting a peek at their browser history becomes.
    It’s not just men who like kink

    I once had a very pretty girlfriend who had really involved sexual fantasies surrounding bath time. She demanded that I go to Hamleys and a buy a bath toy which she found particularly arousing

    The toy had a clockwork mechanism meaning it could whirr around the bath-water and go into corners… and indeed into all sorts of places. The toy made her very happy. She called it “Mister Squiddy”

    In daily life she had a very sober and serious job. Humans are gloriously weird
    In my experience the ladies are far kinkier in the bedroom than I have ever been. I think it is because women use this thing called "the imagination" whereas men tend to be much more physical/visual in their choice of stimulus...
    I have a fair amount of experience in this. I’ve got a few kinks - indeed accepting then exploring them was a transformative moment in my life. I was encouraged by a wise female friend who pointed out my obvious tendencies. “Just accept it and find girlfriends that like it the other way round”

    I thank her for that because I became much happier. I had far better sex from then on. Indeed better relationships. I only wish I’d done it sooner

    As for gender differences I suspect men and women are equally kinky given the chance. Why should they not be? The only difference is that women have to be more cautious due to relative physical weakness. But they certainly don’t lack in relative imagination
    There is some interesting research ( I forget the source, sorry) that suggests hunter-gatherer societies were far less kinky than modern societies.

    The reason for this isn't certain, but the author suggested that it was because there was less repression of desire, fewer taboos against what we'd now call sexual deviancy, as well as fewer societies where monogamy was encouraged.

    The tentative conclusion is that kink relies on our desires to be taboo-breakers. No real idea if this is true but it's interesting.
    I’m not very convinced by this. Animals are kinky as fuck

    One of my favourite books of all time is all about kink and “perversity” in the animal world. It’s called Biological Exuberance by Bruce Bagemihl

    Ducks are particularly depraved and dolphins would shock the average Epstein dinner party
    I’m sure hedgehogs like a bit of man on man action. Could have been a weird dream though.

    Dolphins are dirty fuckers however with a nose like that you may as well use it.
    The clue is in the name bottle-nosed dolphin...
  • HYUFDHYUFD Posts: 135,195
    Leon said:

    Wowsers

    🚨EXC: The captain of one of Britain’s nuclear-armed submarines has stepped back from his role this week after being investigated over his relationship with Joani Reid, the Labour MP whose husband has been arrested on suspicion of spying for China

    Royal Navy launched investigation last year in response to allegations the senior military officer — who’s married — had conducted an inappropriate relationship w/ Reid, acc to people familiar with matter

    Probe was from “due diligence perspective” to examine any blackmail risk

    Fresh security checks were carried out this month after Reid’s husband was arrested under the UK National Security Act on suspicion of assisting China’s foreign intelligence service, the people said

    MoD was satisfied by the checks & remains confident of no breach of security

    This week, after the MoD was approached about the matter by the Financial Times, the officer decided to step back from his position for personal reasons. He has not left the Royal Navy

    People familiar with case said that allegations of an inappropriate relationship were thoroughly investigated last year and the captain was not subjected to disciplinary action. The officer has not broken any military rules

    However, the captain and Reid were found to have exchanged flirtatious messages & action was taken to mitigate any blackmail risk, one of the people said. Reid rejects that the messages were flirtatious, a person close to her said

    There was no physical relationship btwn the pair

    A Royal Navy spokesperson told the FT: “The security of the nuclear deterrent is our highest priority, and we have robust processes in place to protect the security of our people and capabilities. We will not comment on individual cases.”

    Reid’s spokesperson declined to comment


    https://x.com/LOS_Fisher/status/2039077567349621192

    I’m sure a common interest in nautical matters on the Clyde was what brought them together.
    As I said the other day, my MI5/6 psychiatrist boffin has told me the security services are terrified that the entire UK Establishment has been penetrated and compromised by the Chinese

    From the judiciary to defence to parliament. If it’s true it explains a lot of otherwise inexplicable things
    Like what? We haven't matched US tariffs on China?
  • TheScreamingEaglesTheScreamingEagles Posts: 127,198

    Any update from Derby? Not suggesting anything suspicious but surely they have enough to charge by now? I know they can no longer question once charged but seems a long time considering the alleged guy was arrested at the scene.

    He’s been charged.
    You sure? Can’t find anything anywhere to say that.
    https://news.sky.com/story/man-charged-after-car-hit-pedestrians-in-derby-city-centre-13525748
  • turbotubbsturbotubbs Posts: 22,444
    Ratters said:

    kyf_100 said:

    kyf_100 said:

    kyf_100 said:

    Foxy said:

    kyf_100 said:

    Foxy said:

    kyf_100 said:

    kyf_100 said:

    Foxy said:

    Taz said:

    This Kristi Noem husband story is quite something

    https://x.com/nypost/status/2039006843763044817?s=61

    It is a magnificent contribution of solidarity to mark Trans Day of Visibility.



    Incidentally we used to have a poster on PB who went by the name @byronic. I wonder if they are one and the same?
    I know you're only joking but I think it's important not to lump creepy fetishistic guys in with trans people, who experience a genuine disconnect between mind and body that only medical intervention can fix.

    Sadly it's often the transphobic, far right men who are most into kinky "trans" porn (all unrealistic tosh aimed squarely at male fetishists), which leads many to believe that trans women are in some way deviant and perverted, when it is perverted blokes that have the problem. If you look at the data, trans porn is, by the way, far more popular in red states in America than Blue.

    The louder the transphobe, the more interesting a peek at their browser history becomes.
    The lumping in of creepy fetishistic men with trans people isn't the fault of those sitting on the trans-sceptical side of the argument, it is a feature of a law that allows a person to declare themselves the opposite sex if they so desire. This silly sod with his bizarre uneven fake boobs is exactly the type who could demand his right to enter a ladies' changing room because he is a woman.
    This is not true. In the UK at least (I did quite a bit of research into this for Viewcode's article) you can only change gender markers and thus be considered female if you have a doctor's note and so called "real life experience", i.e. you need to prove you are living as a woman full time before you can change your status and be seen as one in law.

    And it is precisely to keep fetishistic men out of women's spaces that I oppose self ID and think medical intervention is necessary.
    The recent judgement does rather render a GRC meaningless, but I agree there should be some sort of formal medical evaluation.

    In practice it is very difficult to access gender services, and waiting lists are years long on the NHS, so people live in their new gender without any real support.
    Indeed, this was noted in my response to Viewcode (which I don't think anyone read) where I pointed out that the "transmedicalist view" (that one should have a diagnosis and be on active medical treatment to be treated as trans) is complicated by the fact the adult waiting time on the NHS for even a diagnosis in 12 years and full SRS up to a decade after that, so one could come out as a teenager and not be transitioned until middle age.

    Better trans healthcare for all who need it I say! Now, if only there was a party with a leader who knew something about growing breasts...

    Also - To briefly come back to luckyguy - there's no contradiction. I'm literally saying that only those with medical diagnoses should be granted access, which requires medical intervention and living full time as a woman. So your weird guy with latex boobs would not count, as no doctor would sign it off. That's why medical gatekeeping remains important.
    There is also the catch 22 of being required to live as the chosen gender for 2 years in order to get a GRC, but how can you do so without access to single sex spaces?
    Indeed. And it's not about toilets, either. "Prove you're a woman by living as a woman, by the way also you're banned from joining the Women's Institute"...
    How does one live as a woman?
    You sound interested in the process! I'm sure a friendly trans woman could tell you more - there are forums dedicated to it I'm sure! It's never too late to start HRT, my questioning friend.
    As in can you define it? Does it involve not liking football, or taking up knitting?
    Look up "social transition" and "lived experience requirements" as well as what a psychiatrist will ask as supporting evidence from friends and family. For contrast, you should also read Julia Serano's "Whipping Girl", which rails against precisely the sort of stereotyping you're bringing up here.

    You do seem very interested and I assure you, even at your age, it's totally normal to be questioning your feelings about your gender. Perhaps you could experiment a little bit by growing out your hair, painting your nails, or treating yourself to some other form of gender affirming care? I promise I won't tell!
    My interest is purely academic. I find the concept of gender being different to sex weird. And I think the idea of living as a different gender when there is no definition of how that gender lives is tricky. We are all different. Celebrate those differences. But you can’t change sex.
    Accepting at face value that gender now means something different to sex: I don't believe in gender.

    In the same way I don't believe in God. And just as with that, I support others rights' to believe they have a gender, whether that is the same or different to their sex. Or believe they are non-binary. Just as I support people's rights to practice their own religion, whatever that may be.
    Hard to disagree with that up to point where your ‘religion’ impinges on others ‘religions’.
  • HYUFDHYUFD Posts: 135,195
    kle4 said:

    HYUFD said:

    Projection based on the new Survation Scottish Parliament election poll has the SNP collapsing to just 56 MSPs in May, their lowest total since 2007. Reform official opposition just 1 seat ahead of Labour

    SNP: 56 (-8)
    RFM: 21 (+21)
    LAB: 20 (-2)
    CON: 13 (-18)
    GRN: 11 (+3)
    LDM: 8 (+4)

    Changes w/ 2021.

    https://x.com/ElectionMapsUK/status/2039024824303911155?s=20

    Still an SNP Green independence government
    Given the persistent levels of political support for Indy, and the divided unionist vote, then that kind of result seems likely to persist for some time.

    Which is funny when you consider the Westminster seats in Scotland have been through a rollercoaster of a time in the last 16 years.
    SNP still projected to lose almost 10 seats on 2021
  • MarqueeMarkMarqueeMark Posts: 59,013
    kle4 said:

    In the other war, the Ukrainians seem to be gaining the upper hand.

    https://x.com/jayinkyiv/status/2039096362516578382

    In addition to the Russian fighter jet lost 3 hours ago, now a Russian An-26 is down with 30 aboard.

    Rough night for Russian aviation.

    Hopefully the USA does not put a stop to that.
    The Ukranian AWACS is Swedish.

    The American AWACS is....er, was...
  • MalmesburyMalmesbury Posts: 62,048

    Any update from Derby? Not suggesting anything suspicious but surely they have enough to charge by now? I know they can no longer question once charged but seems a long time considering the alleged guy was arrested at the scene.

    He’s been charged.
    You sure? Can’t find anything anywhere to say that.
    https://news.sky.com/story/man-charged-after-car-hit-pedestrians-in-derby-city-centre-13525748
    As a lawyer, can you recite to the unwashed (including myself) the reasons why the police often wait to charge someone they have in custody?

    I seem to recall there are a bunch of reasons why they delay.
  • TheScreamingEaglesTheScreamingEagles Posts: 127,198

    Any update from Derby? Not suggesting anything suspicious but surely they have enough to charge by now? I know they can no longer question once charged but seems a long time considering the alleged guy was arrested at the scene.

    He’s been charged.
    You sure? Can’t find anything anywhere to say that.
    https://news.sky.com/story/man-charged-after-car-hit-pedestrians-in-derby-city-centre-13525748
    As a lawyer, can you recite to the unwashed (including myself) the reasons why the police often wait to charge someone they have in custody?

    I seem to recall there are a bunch of reasons why they delay.
    To collate evidence/witness statements etc.

    Also they wait for the CPS to work what the charges should be such as here attempted murder or GBH.
  • HYUFDHYUFD Posts: 135,195
    HYUFD said:

    Have we done this?

    British billionaire to donate £190m to Cambridge University

    https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c5y8gdwqklxo

    Given the light blues haven't produced a PM since Stanley Baldwin (who graduated with a Third in 1888) you might say a school of Government is long overdue. But £190m may not be enough to help them catch up.

    There is no PPE degree at Cambridge, most budding politicians there studied either History eg Rab Butler, Portillo, Jenrick and Streeting, Law eg Ken Clarke and Michael Howard or Economics eg Norman Lamont with the odd Social and Political Sciences graduate (eg Clegg which also includes anthropology and sociology). Burnham is also ex Cambridge but studied English
    Should also be pointed out the King went to Cambridge (and Aberystwyth for a term) not Oxford
  • TheuniondivvieTheuniondivvie Posts: 47,279
    kle4 said:

    Wowsers

    🚨EXC: The captain of one of Britain’s nuclear-armed submarines has stepped back from his role this week after being investigated over his relationship with Joani Reid, the Labour MP whose husband has been arrested on suspicion of spying for China

    Royal Navy launched investigation last year in response to allegations the senior military officer — who’s married — had conducted an inappropriate relationship w/ Reid, acc to people familiar with matter

    Probe was from “due diligence perspective” to examine any blackmail risk

    Fresh security checks were carried out this month after Reid’s husband was arrested under the UK National Security Act on suspicion of assisting China’s foreign intelligence service, the people said

    MoD was satisfied by the checks & remains confident of no breach of security

    This week, after the MoD was approached about the matter by the Financial Times, the officer decided to step back from his position for personal reasons. He has not left the Royal Navy

    People familiar with case said that allegations of an inappropriate relationship were thoroughly investigated last year and the captain was not subjected to disciplinary action. The officer has not broken any military rules

    However, the captain and Reid were found to have exchanged flirtatious messages & action was taken to mitigate any blackmail risk, one of the people said. Reid rejects that the messages were flirtatious, a person close to her said

    There was no physical relationship btwn the pair

    A Royal Navy spokesperson told the FT: “The security of the nuclear deterrent is our highest priority, and we have robust processes in place to protect the security of our people and capabilities. We will not comment on individual cases.”

    Reid’s spokesperson declined to comment


    https://x.com/LOS_Fisher/status/2039077567349621192

    I’m sure a common interest in nautical matters on the Clyde was what brought them together.
    Story as old as time, the heart wants what it wants.
    There will be no hooliganism. There will be no vandalism. There will be no bevvying, because it may lead to inappropriate shagging.

    An adaption of a famous quote by Joani’s granda in case anyone was unaware.

    https://www.glasgowtimes.co.uk/lifestyle/13223850.jimmy-reid-1971-there-will-be-no-hooliganism-there-will-be-no-vandalism-there-will-be-no-bevvying-because-the-world-is-watching-us/

  • FlatlanderFlatlander Posts: 5,926

    Reasons not to be cheerful, part three.

    Andrew Neil on our economic prospects...

    https://x.com/afneil/status/2038966047592616420

    "We have yet to feel the full force of oil and gas price spikes and energy shortages.

    "But they’ve started in Asia, the destination for most oil and gas that went through the Strait of Hormuz. They’re now coming our way, arriving by the middle of April at the latest, as they roll west across the globe.

    "Just because it hasn’t happened yet doesn’t mean it isn’t going to. Energy shocks unfold sequentially NOT simultaneously...

    "Western governments need to wake up to the economic tsunami coming their way. The Starmer government in particular needs to get a grip.

    "The PM and his ministers are dangerously insouciant in the face of what’s about to hit them. They speak in generalities, with no sense of urgency, complacently out of their depth. I fear they have no idea what’s in store."

    I've been saying this since the start.

    We're headed for a de facto lockdown.

    Blessed be the EV drivers.
    I remember buying a big chest freezer before the pandemic got going (Feb I think) and asking in the store if there was a run on them, and the staff looking a bit nonplussed.

    It feels like we are at that stage. Everyone has noticed the fuel prices but they haven't twigged what happens next.

    If one were to want to acquire an electric runaround, some solar panels and a battery...where to start?

    In a month there aren't going to be any available.

    It would take about a month to charge a modern EV off an array of panels you could put in/around mists houses in the U.K.

    Unless you happen to have a pile of farmland.

    You can get second hand EVs for reasonable prices.

    An electric bike would be more practical for the solar panel charging thing,
    Yes, I think I'd get somewhere around 10 miles a day if I covered the garage. But might as well do the whole setup...

    I refuse to get an electric bike on the grounds that my legs still work. Using one is giving in!
  • kle4kle4 Posts: 101,955
    The Navy has never been the same since they adandoned rum, sodomy, and the lash.
  • FairlieredFairliered Posts: 7,739
    HYUFD said:

    HYUFD said:

    Have we done this?

    British billionaire to donate £190m to Cambridge University

    https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c5y8gdwqklxo

    Given the light blues haven't produced a PM since Stanley Baldwin (who graduated with a Third in 1888) you might say a school of Government is long overdue. But £190m may not be enough to help them catch up.

    There is no PPE degree at Cambridge, most budding politicians there studied either History eg Rab Butler, Portillo, Jenrick and Streeting, Law eg Ken Clarke and Michael Howard or Economics eg Norman Lamont with the odd Social and Political Sciences graduate (eg Clegg which also includes anthropology and sociology). Burnham is also ex Cambridge but studied English
    Should also be pointed out the King went to Cambridge (and Aberystwyth for a term) not Oxford
    Thank goodness, if we’re sending him to deal with Trump.
  • FairlieredFairliered Posts: 7,739
    kle4 said:

    The Navy has never been the same since they adandoned rum, sodomy, and the lash.

    Now they’re on the lash. It’s a rum do, but sod’em!
  • RattersRatters Posts: 1,914
    edited March 31

    Ratters said:

    kyf_100 said:

    kyf_100 said:

    kyf_100 said:

    Foxy said:

    kyf_100 said:

    Foxy said:

    kyf_100 said:

    kyf_100 said:

    Foxy said:

    Taz said:

    This Kristi Noem husband story is quite something

    https://x.com/nypost/status/2039006843763044817?s=61

    It is a magnificent contribution of solidarity to mark Trans Day of Visibility.



    Incidentally we used to have a poster on PB who went by the name @byronic. I wonder if they are one and the same?
    I know you're only joking but I think it's important not to lump creepy fetishistic guys in with trans people, who experience a genuine disconnect between mind and body that only medical intervention can fix.

    Sadly it's often the transphobic, far right men who are most into kinky "trans" porn (all unrealistic tosh aimed squarely at male fetishists), which leads many to believe that trans women are in some way deviant and perverted, when it is perverted blokes that have the problem. If you look at the data, trans porn is, by the way, far more popular in red states in America than Blue.

    The louder the transphobe, the more interesting a peek at their browser history becomes.
    The lumping in of creepy fetishistic men with trans people isn't the fault of those sitting on the trans-sceptical side of the argument, it is a feature of a law that allows a person to declare themselves the opposite sex if they so desire. This silly sod with his bizarre uneven fake boobs is exactly the type who could demand his right to enter a ladies' changing room because he is a woman.
    This is not true. In the UK at least (I did quite a bit of research into this for Viewcode's article) you can only change gender markers and thus be considered female if you have a doctor's note and so called "real life experience", i.e. you need to prove you are living as a woman full time before you can change your status and be seen as one in law.

    And it is precisely to keep fetishistic men out of women's spaces that I oppose self ID and think medical intervention is necessary.
    The recent judgement does rather render a GRC meaningless, but I agree there should be some sort of formal medical evaluation.

    In practice it is very difficult to access gender services, and waiting lists are years long on the NHS, so people live in their new gender without any real support.
    Indeed, this was noted in my response to Viewcode (which I don't think anyone read) where I pointed out that the "transmedicalist view" (that one should have a diagnosis and be on active medical treatment to be treated as trans) is complicated by the fact the adult waiting time on the NHS for even a diagnosis in 12 years and full SRS up to a decade after that, so one could come out as a teenager and not be transitioned until middle age.

    Better trans healthcare for all who need it I say! Now, if only there was a party with a leader who knew something about growing breasts...

    Also - To briefly come back to luckyguy - there's no contradiction. I'm literally saying that only those with medical diagnoses should be granted access, which requires medical intervention and living full time as a woman. So your weird guy with latex boobs would not count, as no doctor would sign it off. That's why medical gatekeeping remains important.
    There is also the catch 22 of being required to live as the chosen gender for 2 years in order to get a GRC, but how can you do so without access to single sex spaces?
    Indeed. And it's not about toilets, either. "Prove you're a woman by living as a woman, by the way also you're banned from joining the Women's Institute"...
    How does one live as a woman?
    You sound interested in the process! I'm sure a friendly trans woman could tell you more - there are forums dedicated to it I'm sure! It's never too late to start HRT, my questioning friend.
    As in can you define it? Does it involve not liking football, or taking up knitting?
    Look up "social transition" and "lived experience requirements" as well as what a psychiatrist will ask as supporting evidence from friends and family. For contrast, you should also read Julia Serano's "Whipping Girl", which rails against precisely the sort of stereotyping you're bringing up here.

    You do seem very interested and I assure you, even at your age, it's totally normal to be questioning your feelings about your gender. Perhaps you could experiment a little bit by growing out your hair, painting your nails, or treating yourself to some other form of gender affirming care? I promise I won't tell!
    My interest is purely academic. I find the concept of gender being different to sex weird. And I think the idea of living as a different gender when there is no definition of how that gender lives is tricky. We are all different. Celebrate those differences. But you can’t change sex.
    Accepting at face value that gender now means something different to sex: I don't believe in gender.

    In the same way I don't believe in God. And just as with that, I support others rights' to believe they have a gender, whether that is the same or different to their sex. Or believe they are non-binary. Just as I support people's rights to practice their own religion, whatever that may be.
    Hard to disagree with that up to point where your ‘religion’ impinges on others ‘religions’.
    Agreed. And the clashing of 'freedoms' between groups is always hard. Some areas are easier than others.

    But I think it's important to make the point that men should be free to wear dresses, make-up and heels and that they do not need to identify as a different gender to do so. They can just be a man doing something they enjoy.

    I think if deviations from gender norms were more widespread then fewer people would feel the need to change gender/sex.
  • HYUFDHYUFD Posts: 135,195

    HYUFD said:

    HYUFD said:

    Have we done this?

    British billionaire to donate £190m to Cambridge University

    https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c5y8gdwqklxo

    Given the light blues haven't produced a PM since Stanley Baldwin (who graduated with a Third in 1888) you might say a school of Government is long overdue. But £190m may not be enough to help them catch up.

    There is no PPE degree at Cambridge, most budding politicians there studied either History eg Rab Butler, Portillo, Jenrick and Streeting, Law eg Ken Clarke and Michael Howard or Economics eg Norman Lamont with the odd Social and Political Sciences graduate (eg Clegg which also includes anthropology and sociology). Burnham is also ex Cambridge but studied English
    Should also be pointed out the King went to Cambridge (and Aberystwyth for a term) not Oxford
    Thank goodness, if we’re sending him to deal with Trump.
    The Prince of Wales went to St Andrews, only most of their chief bureaucrats went to Oxford
  • Sunil_PrasannanSunil_Prasannan Posts: 58,758

    Any update from Derby? Not suggesting anything suspicious but surely they have enough to charge by now? I know they can no longer question once charged but seems a long time considering the alleged guy was arrested at the scene.

    He’s been charged.
    You sure? Can’t find anything anywhere to say that.
    https://news.sky.com/story/man-charged-after-car-hit-pedestrians-in-derby-city-centre-13525748
    Sandhu Ponnachan, aged 36.
  • rottenboroughrottenborough Posts: 70,974
    Trump: "What happens with the strait we're not gonna have anything to do with."
  • viewcodeviewcode Posts: 28,124
    kyf_100 said:

    viewcode said:

    kyf_100 said:

    ...only those with medical diagnoses should be granted access...

    I'm not being funny, but I'm extremely cynical about the "medical diagnosis" part now. Leaving aside the question of what the failure rate for the diagnosis is and what is the maximum we can accept, there is also the question of "what is it exactly we are diagnosing"? Things like brain sex may or may not be true but doesn't translate to a testable test. Past behavior can be faked. Narratives can be learned and regurgitated.

    If we limit ourselves to "does this person has a penis" or "is this person chemically or physically castrate" then I can do a test for that. But "I am a woman in a man's body"? Am I supposed to use divination? Vibe diagnosis?
    People are evaluated by a psychiarist/clinical psychologist (often over a number of sessions) according (in the UK) to specific diagnostic criteria, namely those set out in the ICD-11 under "gender incongruence". This in the UK if I understand it correctly also involves speaking to a friend or family member who knows the person to verify they are living "full time".

    Effectively, it is quite a large gatekeeping step, and as I say, no doctor is going to sign off on Mad Jack McFetishist who wears latex inflatable boobs while watching kink porn, but lives an everyday, straight, cis male existence in all other parts of his life. They would lose their license very quickly.

    It is why, despite trans people criticising this step as gatekeeping, i.e. allowing doctors to decide who is trans enough, I think it's a vital step. As it really does sort out the genuine cases from the fetishists.
    I know that, but it converts a putative mental condition into a set of behaviours that can be done by anyone. If person X changes their name by deed poll, crossdresses and uses the other pronouns in work and at home 24/7, performs minor surgical/cosmetic changes like having their facial hair removed, then I can convert that into a checklist ("This person has exhibited 7 out of 10 of the diagnostic behaviours") and diagnose. But that's not diagnosing a mental illness, it's diagnosing a set of behaviours, and anybody can do those behaviours. I don't know and can't know the reason for those behaviors other than by asking them, and they may lie, be mistaken, or erroneously recall.

    Hence my cynicism.
  • williamglennwilliamglenn Posts: 58,552
    This trend for mass shoplifting risks getting out of hand unless the police get a grip very quickly.

    https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15695845/Families-barricaded-inside-high-street-stores-mobs-youths-storm-Clapham-AGAIN.html
  • kle4kle4 Posts: 101,955

    Trump: "What happens with the strait we're not gonna have anything to do with."

    Victory?
  • viewcodeviewcode Posts: 28,124

    Leon said:

    maxh said:

    Leon said:

    maxh said:

    Leon said:

    kyf_100 said:

    Leon said:

    kyf_100 said:

    Foxy said:

    Taz said:

    This Kristi Noem husband story is quite something

    https://x.com/nypost/status/2039006843763044817?s=61

    It is a magnificent contribution of solidarity to mark Trans Day of Visibility.



    Incidentally we used to have a poster on PB who went by the name @byronic. I wonder if they are one and the same?
    I know you're only joking but I think it's important not to lump creepy fetishistic guys in with trans people, who experience a genuine disconnect between mind and body that only medical intervention can fix.

    Sadly it's often the transphobic, far right men who are most into kinky "trans" porn (all unrealistic tosh aimed squarely at male fetishists), which leads many to believe that trans women are in some way deviant and perverted, when it is perverted blokes that have the problem. If you look at the data, trans porn is, by the way, far more popular in red states in America than Blue.

    The louder the transphobe, the more interesting a peek at their browser history becomes.
    It’s not just men who like kink

    I once had a very pretty girlfriend who had really involved sexual fantasies surrounding bath time. She demanded that I go to Hamleys and a buy a bath toy which she found particularly arousing

    The toy had a clockwork mechanism meaning it could whirr around the bath-water and go into corners… and indeed into all sorts of places. The toy made her very happy. She called it “Mister Squiddy”

    In daily life she had a very sober and serious job. Humans are gloriously weird
    In my experience the ladies are far kinkier in the bedroom than I have ever been. I think it is because women use this thing called "the imagination" whereas men tend to be much more physical/visual in their choice of stimulus...
    I have a fair amount of experience in this. I’ve got a few kinks - indeed accepting then exploring them was a transformative moment in my life. I was encouraged by a wise female friend who pointed out my obvious tendencies. “Just accept it and find girlfriends that like it the other way round”

    I thank her for that because I became much happier. I had far better sex from then on. Indeed better relationships. I only wish I’d done it sooner

    As for gender differences I suspect men and women are equally kinky given the chance. Why should they not be? The only difference is that women have to be more cautious due to relative physical weakness. But they certainly don’t lack in relative imagination
    There is some interesting research ( I forget the source, sorry) that suggests hunter-gatherer societies were far less kinky than modern societies.

    The reason for this isn't certain, but the author suggested that it was because there was less repression of desire, fewer taboos against what we'd now call sexual deviancy, as well as fewer societies where monogamy was encouraged.

    The tentative conclusion is that kink relies on our desires to be taboo-breakers. No real idea if this is true but it's interesting.
    I’m not very convinced by this. Animals are kinky as fuck

    One of my favourite books of all time is all about kink and “perversity” in the animal world. It’s called Biological Exuberance by Bruce Bagemihl

    Ducks are particularly depraved and dolphins would shock the average Epstein dinner party
    I have just done a quick hunt for the research and can't find it, so I shall defer to your knowledge of dolphin depravity.
    Looks like it’s out of print. Which is nuts. It’s a masterpiece

    https://orionmagazine.org/article/homosexuality-nature-animals-mating-biological-exhuberance/

    Try and find a 2nd hand copy. You won’t regret it. At the very least it will give you a lifetime supply of killer animal kink facts, like “wuzzles”

    (A wuzzle is a same sex dolphin orgy where groups of dolphins ride on each other’s dorsal fins giving each other homosexual orgasms for hours)
    There's a slightly more recent take on the theme:
    https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/0099283751

    Lots of biology is weird.
    Duck sex is basically rape combined with waterboarding. And sheep farmers accept that a certain proportion (around 10%?) of rams are gay.
    Well this news drastically changes my view of Donald and Daisy's relationship.
    Since Donald famously walks around wearing a sailor's hat and top and nothing below the waist, it shouldn't have been a surprise.
  • viewcodeviewcode Posts: 28,124
    kle4 said:

    Wowsers

    🚨EXC: The captain of one of Britain’s nuclear-armed submarines has stepped back from his role this week after being investigated over his relationship with Joani Reid, the Labour MP whose husband has been arrested on suspicion of spying for China

    Royal Navy launched investigation last year in response to allegations the senior military officer — who’s married — had conducted an inappropriate relationship w/ Reid, acc to people familiar with matter

    Probe was from “due diligence perspective” to examine any blackmail risk

    Fresh security checks were carried out this month after Reid’s husband was arrested under the UK National Security Act on suspicion of assisting China’s foreign intelligence service, the people said

    MoD was satisfied by the checks & remains confident of no breach of security

    This week, after the MoD was approached about the matter by the Financial Times, the officer decided to step back from his position for personal reasons. He has not left the Royal Navy

    People familiar with case said that allegations of an inappropriate relationship were thoroughly investigated last year and the captain was not subjected to disciplinary action. The officer has not broken any military rules

    However, the captain and Reid were found to have exchanged flirtatious messages & action was taken to mitigate any blackmail risk, one of the people said. Reid rejects that the messages were flirtatious, a person close to her said

    There was no physical relationship btwn the pair

    A Royal Navy spokesperson told the FT: “The security of the nuclear deterrent is our highest priority, and we have robust processes in place to protect the security of our people and capabilities. We will not comment on individual cases.”

    Reid’s spokesperson declined to comment


    https://x.com/LOS_Fisher/status/2039077567349621192

    I’m sure a common interest in nautical matters on the Clyde was what brought them together.
    Story as old as time, the heart wants what it wants.
    Um, that's not the heart exactly...
  • williamglennwilliamglenn Posts: 58,552
    https://x.com/disclosetv/status/2039103858840862782

    Trump mocks Iran for threatening to strike U.S. tech companies in the Middle East: "What did they threaten them with BB guns?! They don't have much left to threaten."
  • kyf_100kyf_100 Posts: 5,081
    viewcode said:

    kyf_100 said:

    viewcode said:

    kyf_100 said:

    ...only those with medical diagnoses should be granted access...

    I'm not being funny, but I'm extremely cynical about the "medical diagnosis" part now. Leaving aside the question of what the failure rate for the diagnosis is and what is the maximum we can accept, there is also the question of "what is it exactly we are diagnosing"? Things like brain sex may or may not be true but doesn't translate to a testable test. Past behavior can be faked. Narratives can be learned and regurgitated.

    If we limit ourselves to "does this person has a penis" or "is this person chemically or physically castrate" then I can do a test for that. But "I am a woman in a man's body"? Am I supposed to use divination? Vibe diagnosis?
    People are evaluated by a psychiarist/clinical psychologist (often over a number of sessions) according (in the UK) to specific diagnostic criteria, namely those set out in the ICD-11 under "gender incongruence". This in the UK if I understand it correctly also involves speaking to a friend or family member who knows the person to verify they are living "full time".

    Effectively, it is quite a large gatekeeping step, and as I say, no doctor is going to sign off on Mad Jack McFetishist who wears latex inflatable boobs while watching kink porn, but lives an everyday, straight, cis male existence in all other parts of his life. They would lose their license very quickly.

    It is why, despite trans people criticising this step as gatekeeping, i.e. allowing doctors to decide who is trans enough, I think it's a vital step. As it really does sort out the genuine cases from the fetishists.
    I know that, but it converts a putative mental condition into a set of behaviours that can be done by anyone. If person X changes their name by deed poll, crossdresses and uses the other pronouns in work and at home 24/7, performs minor surgical/cosmetic changes like having their facial hair removed, then I can convert that into a checklist ("This person has exhibited 7 out of 10 of the diagnostic behaviours") and diagnose. But that's not diagnosing a mental illness, it's diagnosing a set of behaviours, and anybody can do those behaviours. I don't know and can't know the reason for those behaviors other than by asking them, and they may lie, be mistaken, or erroneously recall.

    Hence my cynicism.
    As others have pointed out, the same can be said of autism, depression etc. It is up to the psychiatrist - whose reputation and indeed ability to practice - is on the line if they give out "you're trans now" passes to all and sundry. Which is precisely why trans people get annoyed. Because they are, at the moment, heavily gatekept.

    Indeed, while not a specific, named "checklist requirement" for the letter the doctor has to write you in support of your ID change, I am pretty certain that few if any doctors are prepared to write the letter required if you are not in active medical treatment, i.e. taking hormones. While researching my response to you I noticed a large number of doctors were rejecting letters of support for ID changes on this very basis. Taking hormones is a pretty good, reliable, medically demonstrable way of proving transness. Not only does it demonstrate commitment (if a guy is a perv, there are easier ways to perv on women than taking hormones that will permanently destroy their fertility, make them unable to maintain an erection, and grow a pair, so to speak). Furthermore there is substantial evidence that being on the wrong hormones or being forcibly transitioned causes revulsion in those who aren't legitimately trans. See Alan Turing, who was forced onto female hormones as a way of curtailing his sex drive (again, HRT causes loss of male sexual function) and grew breasts, which caused him to become dysphoric.

    Your cynicism seems to be of the "just asking questions" type which is actually masking a deep disbelief in the existence of trans people, tbh. Which is your right, but you should just be up front about it and join the official TERF crowd.
  • PulpstarPulpstar Posts: 80,749

    This trend for mass shoplifting risks getting out of hand unless the police get a grip very quickly.

    https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15695845/Families-barricaded-inside-high-street-stores-mobs-youths-storm-Clapham-AGAIN.html

    Dark day for Clapham
  • rottenboroughrottenborough Posts: 70,974

    The Kobeissi Letter
    @KobeissiLetter
    BREAKING: President Trump says the US will leave Iran in “2 to 3 weeks.”

    ===

    Two weeks you say?

    Always with the two weeks thing. Is this some childhood shit? Told he couldn't have another bigmac for two weeks.
  • rottenboroughrottenborough Posts: 70,974
    Trump on the Straits issue: "That's not for us, it's for France"

  • dixiedeandixiedean Posts: 31,762


    The Kobeissi Letter
    @KobeissiLetter
    BREAKING: President Trump says the US will leave Iran in “2 to 3 weeks.”

    ===

    Two weeks you say?

    Always with the two weeks thing. Is this some childhood shit? Told he couldn't have another bigmac for two weeks.

    And what if he does and Iran doesn't comply?
    Content note. He isn't actually IN Iran at all. So can't "leave".
  • viewcodeviewcode Posts: 28,124
    kyf_100 said:

    viewcode said:

    kyf_100 said:

    viewcode said:

    kyf_100 said:

    ...only those with medical diagnoses should be granted access...

    I'm not being funny, but I'm extremely cynical about the "medical diagnosis" part now. Leaving aside the question of what the failure rate for the diagnosis is and what is the maximum we can accept, there is also the question of "what is it exactly we are diagnosing"? Things like brain sex may or may not be true but doesn't translate to a testable test. Past behavior can be faked. Narratives can be learned and regurgitated.

    If we limit ourselves to "does this person has a penis" or "is this person chemically or physically castrate" then I can do a test for that. But "I am a woman in a man's body"? Am I supposed to use divination? Vibe diagnosis?
    People are evaluated by a psychiarist/clinical psychologist (often over a number of sessions) according (in the UK) to specific diagnostic criteria, namely those set out in the ICD-11 under "gender incongruence". This in the UK if I understand it correctly also involves speaking to a friend or family member who knows the person to verify they are living "full time".

    Effectively, it is quite a large gatekeeping step, and as I say, no doctor is going to sign off on Mad Jack McFetishist who wears latex inflatable boobs while watching kink porn, but lives an everyday, straight, cis male existence in all other parts of his life. They would lose their license very quickly.

    It is why, despite trans people criticising this step as gatekeeping, i.e. allowing doctors to decide who is trans enough, I think it's a vital step. As it really does sort out the genuine cases from the fetishists.
    I know that, but it converts a putative mental condition into a set of behaviours that can be done by anyone. If person X changes their name by deed poll, crossdresses and uses the other pronouns in work and at home 24/7, performs minor surgical/cosmetic changes like having their facial hair removed, then I can convert that into a checklist ("This person has exhibited 7 out of 10 of the diagnostic behaviours") and diagnose. But that's not diagnosing a mental illness, it's diagnosing a set of behaviours, and anybody can do those behaviours. I don't know and can't know the reason for those behaviors other than by asking them, and they may lie, be mistaken, or erroneously recall.

    Hence my cynicism.
    As others have pointed out, the same can be said of autism, depression etc. It is up to the psychiatrist - whose reputation and indeed ability to practice - is on the line if they give out "you're trans now" passes to all and sundry. Which is precisely why trans people get annoyed. Because they are, at the moment, heavily gatekept.

    Indeed, while not a specific, named "checklist requirement" for the letter the doctor has to write you in support of your ID change, I am pretty certain that few if any doctors are prepared to write the letter required if you are not in active medical treatment, i.e. taking hormones. While researching my response to you I noticed a large number of doctors were rejecting letters of support for ID changes on this very basis. Taking hormones is a pretty good, reliable, medically demonstrable way of proving transness. Not only does it demonstrate commitment (if a guy is a perv, there are easier ways to perv on women than taking hormones that will permanently destroy their fertility, make them unable to maintain an erection, and grow a pair, so to speak). Furthermore there is substantial evidence that being on the wrong hormones or being forcibly transitioned causes revulsion in those who aren't legitimately trans. See Alan Turing, who was forced onto female hormones as a way of curtailing his sex drive (again, HRT causes loss of male sexual function) and grew breasts, which caused him to become dysphoric.

    Your cynicism seems to be of the "just asking questions" type which is actually masking a deep disbelief in the existence of trans people, tbh. Which is your right, but you should just be up front about it and join the official TERF crowd.
    Don't be silly. I'm a statistician working for a contract research organisation. Asking these questions - converting surgeon/medic feels into something measurable - is my job.

    With regards to "the same can be said of autism, depression etc", I'm dubious about those as well, and I remind you of my long-standing dislike of spectrum diagnoses.
  • Andy_JS said:

    Andy_JS said:

    Does anyone know what on earth is going on with the Italian football team? They've failed to beat Bosnia in normal time (with ten men) and it's gone to penalties.

    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/football/live/c624z0yy530t

    You don't watch football much do you?

    Italy last qualified for the world cup in 2014..
    I still thought Italy was one of the best teams in the world.
    England have had bleak qualifying for tournaments. Euro92 was notable for Greece winning and for England not being there. And then not at the 94 World Cup after making the semis in 1990. In recent times they’ve made qualifying look rather easy, but it hasn’t always been so. Expanding tournaments helps, of course. Even Scotland make it these days…
    1992 - Denmark
    2004 - Greece
  • dixiedeandixiedean Posts: 31,762
    viewcode said:

    kyf_100 said:

    viewcode said:

    kyf_100 said:

    viewcode said:

    kyf_100 said:

    ...only those with medical diagnoses should be granted access...

    I'm not being funny, but I'm extremely cynical about the "medical diagnosis" part now. Leaving aside the question of what the failure rate for the diagnosis is and what is the maximum we can accept, there is also the question of "what is it exactly we are diagnosing"? Things like brain sex may or may not be true but doesn't translate to a testable test. Past behavior can be faked. Narratives can be learned and regurgitated.

    If we limit ourselves to "does this person has a penis" or "is this person chemically or physically castrate" then I can do a test for that. But "I am a woman in a man's body"? Am I supposed to use divination? Vibe diagnosis?
    People are evaluated by a psychiarist/clinical psychologist (often over a number of sessions) according (in the UK) to specific diagnostic criteria, namely those set out in the ICD-11 under "gender incongruence". This in the UK if I understand it correctly also involves speaking to a friend or family member who knows the person to verify they are living "full time".

    Effectively, it is quite a large gatekeeping step, and as I say, no doctor is going to sign off on Mad Jack McFetishist who wears latex inflatable boobs while watching kink porn, but lives an everyday, straight, cis male existence in all other parts of his life. They would lose their license very quickly.

    It is why, despite trans people criticising this step as gatekeeping, i.e. allowing doctors to decide who is trans enough, I think it's a vital step. As it really does sort out the genuine cases from the fetishists.
    I know that, but it converts a putative mental condition into a set of behaviours that can be done by anyone. If person X changes their name by deed poll, crossdresses and uses the other pronouns in work and at home 24/7, performs minor surgical/cosmetic changes like having their facial hair removed, then I can convert that into a checklist ("This person has exhibited 7 out of 10 of the diagnostic behaviours") and diagnose. But that's not diagnosing a mental illness, it's diagnosing a set of behaviours, and anybody can do those behaviours. I don't know and can't know the reason for those behaviors other than by asking them, and they may lie, be mistaken, or erroneously recall.

    Hence my cynicism.
    As others have pointed out, the same can be said of autism, depression etc. It is up to the psychiatrist - whose reputation and indeed ability to practice - is on the line if they give out "you're trans now" passes to all and sundry. Which is precisely why trans people get annoyed. Because they are, at the moment, heavily gatekept.

    Indeed, while not a specific, named "checklist requirement" for the letter the doctor has to write you in support of your ID change, I am pretty certain that few if any doctors are prepared to write the letter required if you are not in active medical treatment, i.e. taking hormones. While researching my response to you I noticed a large number of doctors were rejecting letters of support for ID changes on this very basis. Taking hormones is a pretty good, reliable, medically demonstrable way of proving transness. Not only does it demonstrate commitment (if a guy is a perv, there are easier ways to perv on women than taking hormones that will permanently destroy their fertility, make them unable to maintain an erection, and grow a pair, so to speak). Furthermore there is substantial evidence that being on the wrong hormones or being forcibly transitioned causes revulsion in those who aren't legitimately trans. See Alan Turing, who was forced onto female hormones as a way of curtailing his sex drive (again, HRT causes loss of male sexual function) and grew breasts, which caused him to become dysphoric.

    Your cynicism seems to be of the "just asking questions" type which is actually masking a deep disbelief in the existence of trans people, tbh. Which is your right, but you should just be up front about it and join the official TERF crowd.
    Don't be silly. I'm a statistician working for a contract research organisation. Asking these questions - converting surgeon/medic feels into something measurable - is my job.

    With regards to "the same can be said of autism, depression etc", I'm dubious about those as well, and I remind you of my long-standing dislike of spectrum diagnoses.
    I dislike cancer diagnoses.
  • rottenboroughrottenborough Posts: 70,974
    dixiedean said:


    The Kobeissi Letter
    @KobeissiLetter
    BREAKING: President Trump says the US will leave Iran in “2 to 3 weeks.”

    ===

    Two weeks you say?

    Always with the two weeks thing. Is this some childhood shit? Told he couldn't have another bigmac for two weeks.

    And what if he does and Iran doesn't comply?
    Content note. He isn't actually IN Iran at all. So can't "leave".
    The enemy has a vote is one of many things he does not understand.

  • viewcodeviewcode Posts: 28,124
    edited March 31
    dixiedean said:

    viewcode said:

    kyf_100 said:

    viewcode said:

    kyf_100 said:

    viewcode said:

    kyf_100 said:

    ...only those with medical diagnoses should be granted access...

    I'm not being funny, but I'm extremely cynical about the "medical diagnosis" part now. Leaving aside the question of what the failure rate for the diagnosis is and what is the maximum we can accept, there is also the question of "what is it exactly we are diagnosing"? Things like brain sex may or may not be true but doesn't translate to a testable test. Past behavior can be faked. Narratives can be learned and regurgitated.

    If we limit ourselves to "does this person has a penis" or "is this person chemically or physically castrate" then I can do a test for that. But "I am a woman in a man's body"? Am I supposed to use divination? Vibe diagnosis?
    People are evaluated by a psychiarist/clinical psychologist (often over a number of sessions) according (in the UK) to specific diagnostic criteria, namely those set out in the ICD-11 under "gender incongruence". This in the UK if I understand it correctly also involves speaking to a friend or family member who knows the person to verify they are living "full time".

    Effectively, it is quite a large gatekeeping step, and as I say, no doctor is going to sign off on Mad Jack McFetishist who wears latex inflatable boobs while watching kink porn, but lives an everyday, straight, cis male existence in all other parts of his life. They would lose their license very quickly.

    It is why, despite trans people criticising this step as gatekeeping, i.e. allowing doctors to decide who is trans enough, I think it's a vital step. As it really does sort out the genuine cases from the fetishists.
    I know that, but it converts a putative mental condition into a set of behaviours that can be done by anyone. If person X changes their name by deed poll, crossdresses and uses the other pronouns in work and at home 24/7, performs minor surgical/cosmetic changes like having their facial hair removed, then I can convert that into a checklist ("This person has exhibited 7 out of 10 of the diagnostic behaviours") and diagnose. But that's not diagnosing a mental illness, it's diagnosing a set of behaviours, and anybody can do those behaviours. I don't know and can't know the reason for those behaviors other than by asking them, and they may lie, be mistaken, or erroneously recall.

    Hence my cynicism.
    As others have pointed out, the same can be said of autism, depression etc. It is up to the psychiatrist - whose reputation and indeed ability to practice - is on the line if they give out "you're trans now" passes to all and sundry. Which is precisely why trans people get annoyed. Because they are, at the moment, heavily gatekept.

    Indeed, while not a specific, named "checklist requirement" for the letter the doctor has to write you in support of your ID change, I am pretty certain that few if any doctors are prepared to write the letter required if you are not in active medical treatment, i.e. taking hormones. While researching my response to you I noticed a large number of doctors were rejecting letters of support for ID changes on this very basis. Taking hormones is a pretty good, reliable, medically demonstrable way of proving transness. Not only does it demonstrate commitment (if a guy is a perv, there are easier ways to perv on women than taking hormones that will permanently destroy their fertility, make them unable to maintain an erection, and grow a pair, so to speak). Furthermore there is substantial evidence that being on the wrong hormones or being forcibly transitioned causes revulsion in those who aren't legitimately trans. See Alan Turing, who was forced onto female hormones as a way of curtailing his sex drive (again, HRT causes loss of male sexual function) and grew breasts, which caused him to become dysphoric.

    Your cynicism seems to be of the "just asking questions" type which is actually masking a deep disbelief in the existence of trans people, tbh. Which is your right, but you should just be up front about it and join the official TERF crowd.
    Don't be silly. I'm a statistician working for a contract research organisation. Asking these questions - converting surgeon/medic feels into something measurable - is my job.

    With regards to "the same can be said of autism, depression etc", I'm dubious about those as well, and I remind you of my long-standing dislike of spectrum diagnoses.
    I dislike cancer diagnoses.
    That's...not what I meant
  • rottenboroughrottenborough Posts: 70,974

    David Axelrod
    @davidaxelrod

    Pass the hot sauce.
    We've reached the predicted TACO moment.
    In his presser right now, he basically says, adios Iran!

    Mission Accomplished!

    https://x.com/davidaxelrod/status/2039100781400625366
  • viewcodeviewcode Posts: 28,124
    viewcode said:

    kyf_100 said:

    viewcode said:

    kyf_100 said:

    viewcode said:

    kyf_100 said:

    ...only those with medical diagnoses should be granted access...

    I'm not being funny, but I'm extremely cynical about the "medical diagnosis" part now. Leaving aside the question of what the failure rate for the diagnosis is and what is the maximum we can accept, there is also the question of "what is it exactly we are diagnosing"? Things like brain sex may or may not be true but doesn't translate to a testable test. Past behavior can be faked. Narratives can be learned and regurgitated.

    If we limit ourselves to "does this person has a penis" or "is this person chemically or physically castrate" then I can do a test for that. But "I am a woman in a man's body"? Am I supposed to use divination? Vibe diagnosis?
    People are evaluated by a psychiarist/clinical psychologist (often over a number of sessions) according (in the UK) to specific diagnostic criteria, namely those set out in the ICD-11 under "gender incongruence". This in the UK if I understand it correctly also involves speaking to a friend or family member who knows the person to verify they are living "full time".

    Effectively, it is quite a large gatekeeping step, and as I say, no doctor is going to sign off on Mad Jack McFetishist who wears latex inflatable boobs while watching kink porn, but lives an everyday, straight, cis male existence in all other parts of his life. They would lose their license very quickly.

    It is why, despite trans people criticising this step as gatekeeping, i.e. allowing doctors to decide who is trans enough, I think it's a vital step. As it really does sort out the genuine cases from the fetishists.
    I know that, but it converts a putative mental condition into a set of behaviours that can be done by anyone. If person X changes their name by deed poll, crossdresses and uses the other pronouns in work and at home 24/7, performs minor surgical/cosmetic changes like having their facial hair removed, then I can convert that into a checklist ("This person has exhibited 7 out of 10 of the diagnostic behaviours") and diagnose. But that's not diagnosing a mental illness, it's diagnosing a set of behaviours, and anybody can do those behaviours. I don't know and can't know the reason for those behaviors other than by asking them, and they may lie, be mistaken, or erroneously recall.

    Hence my cynicism.
    As others have pointed out, the same can be said of autism, depression etc. It is up to the psychiatrist - whose reputation and indeed ability to practice - is on the line if they give out "you're trans now" passes to all and sundry. Which is precisely why trans people get annoyed. Because they are, at the moment, heavily gatekept.

    Indeed, while not a specific, named "checklist requirement" for the letter the doctor has to write you in support of your ID change, I am pretty certain that few if any doctors are prepared to write the letter required if you are not in active medical treatment, i.e. taking hormones. While researching my response to you I noticed a large number of doctors were rejecting letters of support for ID changes on this very basis. Taking hormones is a pretty good, reliable, medically demonstrable way of proving transness. Not only does it demonstrate commitment (if a guy is a perv, there are easier ways to perv on women than taking hormones that will permanently destroy their fertility, make them unable to maintain an erection, and grow a pair, so to speak). Furthermore there is substantial evidence that being on the wrong hormones or being forcibly transitioned causes revulsion in those who aren't legitimately trans. See Alan Turing, who was forced onto female hormones as a way of curtailing his sex drive (again, HRT causes loss of male sexual function) and grew breasts, which caused him to become dysphoric.

    Your cynicism seems to be of the "just asking questions" type which is actually masking a deep disbelief in the existence of trans people, tbh. Which is your right, but you should just be up front about it and join the official TERF crowd.
    Don't be silly. I'm a statistician working for a contract research organisation. Asking these questions - converting surgeon/medic feels into something measurable - is my job.

    With regards to "the same can be said of autism, depression etc", I'm dubious about those as well, and I remind you of my long-standing dislike of spectrum diagnoses.
    ...And, come to that, don't be rude. I spent six months writing an article and pulled you, NigelB, Cyclefree and many others in specifically to retain a balance between pro-trans and gender-critical folk.
  • Andy_JSAndy_JS Posts: 39,693

    This trend for mass shoplifting risks getting out of hand unless the police get a grip very quickly.

    https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15695845/Families-barricaded-inside-high-street-stores-mobs-youths-storm-Clapham-AGAIN.html

    Not forgetting fare dodging on the tube, which is also out of control.
  • kyf_100kyf_100 Posts: 5,081
    edited March 31
    viewcode said:

    kyf_100 said:

    viewcode said:

    kyf_100 said:

    viewcode said:

    kyf_100 said:

    ...only those with medical diagnoses should be granted access...

    I'm not being funny, but I'm extremely cynical about the "medical diagnosis" part now. Leaving aside the question of what the failure rate for the diagnosis is and what is the maximum we can accept, there is also the question of "what is it exactly we are diagnosing"? Things like brain sex may or may not be true but doesn't translate to a testable test. Past behavior can be faked. Narratives can be learned and regurgitated.

    If we limit ourselves to "does this person has a penis" or "is this person chemically or physically castrate" then I can do a test for that. But "I am a woman in a man's body"? Am I supposed to use divination? Vibe diagnosis?
    People are evaluated by a psychiarist/clinical psychologist (often over a number of sessions) according (in the UK) to specific diagnostic criteria, namely those set out in the ICD-11 under "gender incongruence". This in the UK if I understand it correctly also involves speaking to a friend or family member who knows the person to verify they are living "full time".

    Effectively, it is quite a large gatekeeping step, and as I say, no doctor is going to sign off on Mad Jack McFetishist who wears latex inflatable boobs while watching kink porn, but lives an everyday, straight, cis male existence in all other parts of his life. They would lose their license very quickly.

    It is why, despite trans people criticising this step as gatekeeping, i.e. allowing doctors to decide who is trans enough, I think it's a vital step. As it really does sort out the genuine cases from the fetishists.
    I know that, but it converts a putative mental condition into a set of behaviours that can be done by anyone. If person X changes their name by deed poll, crossdresses and uses the other pronouns in work and at home 24/7, performs minor surgical/cosmetic changes like having their facial hair removed, then I can convert that into a checklist ("This person has exhibited 7 out of 10 of the diagnostic behaviours") and diagnose. But that's not diagnosing a mental illness, it's diagnosing a set of behaviours, and anybody can do those behaviours. I don't know and can't know the reason for those behaviors other than by asking them, and they may lie, be mistaken, or erroneously recall.

    Hence my cynicism.
    As others have pointed out, the same can be said of autism, depression etc. It is up to the psychiatrist - whose reputation and indeed ability to practice - is on the line if they give out "you're trans now" passes to all and sundry. Which is precisely why trans people get annoyed. Because they are, at the moment, heavily gatekept.

    Indeed, while not a specific, named "checklist requirement" for the letter the doctor has to write you in support of your ID change, I am pretty certain that few if any doctors are prepared to write the letter required if you are not in active medical treatment, i.e. taking hormones. While researching my response to you I noticed a large number of doctors were rejecting letters of support for ID changes on this very basis. Taking hormones is a pretty good, reliable, medically demonstrable way of proving transness. Not only does it demonstrate commitment (if a guy is a perv, there are easier ways to perv on women than taking hormones that will permanently destroy their fertility, make them unable to maintain an erection, and grow a pair, so to speak). Furthermore there is substantial evidence that being on the wrong hormones or being forcibly transitioned causes revulsion in those who aren't legitimately trans. See Alan Turing, who was forced onto female hormones as a way of curtailing his sex drive (again, HRT causes loss of male sexual function) and grew breasts, which caused him to become dysphoric.

    Your cynicism seems to be of the "just asking questions" type which is actually masking a deep disbelief in the existence of trans people, tbh. Which is your right, but you should just be up front about it and join the official TERF crowd.
    Don't be silly. I'm a statistician working for a contract research organisation. Asking these questions - converting surgeon/medic feels into something measurable - is my job.

    With regards to "the same can be said of autism, depression etc", I'm dubious about those as well, and I remind you of my long-standing dislike of spectrum diagnoses.
    Honestly, it feels like you're trying to "no true scotsman" me. If someone reports their personal identity, you argue it isn't reliable. If someone meets generally accepted criteria, you argue those criteria are insufficient. I suggest hormones as a criteria, i.e. turning "medic feels" into something measurable, you ignore it. In your world, the very category of "transness" becomes impossible to satisfy in practice. Which is a very TERFy move, I'm afraid.

    I note that Brandolini's Law was discussed here in a recent thread, and I think the amount of time I have to put into refuting all your "just asking questions" questions is disproportionate to the amount of time it takes you to go something like "well, any behavioural criterion can be faked or turned into a tick box, any medical step could be done for the wrong reasons, therefore no evidence is sufficient". This is very similar to how gender criticals are trying to shape reviews of NHS care of trans people to deny trans healthcare, if you are unaware.

    I have given clear criteria, namely those set out in the ICD-11 under gender incongruence. This is certified by a psychiatrist who loses their licence if they don't take it very seriously, which is why trans people are currently very, very heavily gatekept and many denied (much to their annoyance - the criteria are arguably too strict!). When this isn't enough for you, I've suggested hormones as the gold standard as there is provable evidence that giving cross sex hormones to non trans people makes them freak out, as "real men" don't like growing boobies and other side effects.

    As I say, I'm not going to keep going down the no true scotsman argument with you, because it's a TERF tactic to delegitimise the existence of trans people. If that's not your aim, I'm sorry, but it is the cumulative effect.
  • Andy_JSAndy_JS Posts: 39,693

    Have we done this?

    British billionaire to donate £190m to Cambridge University

    https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c5y8gdwqklxo

    Given the light blues haven't produced a PM since Stanley Baldwin (who graduated with a Third in 1888) you might say a school of Government is long overdue. But £190m may not be enough to help them catch up.

    Places like Grimsby College or Flint Polytechnic could probably do with the money a lot more than Cambridge.
  • rottenboroughrottenborough Posts: 70,974
    Pentagon spokesperson:


    Sean Parnell

    @SeanParnellASW
    ·
    1h
    If Iran is wise, they will make a deal.

    If not, the War Department will respond with even greater force—at levels they have never seen before.

    https://x.com/SeanParnellASW/status/2039093858236019044


    Narrator:

    Trump: I'm not bothered. This is all France's problem. I have a ballroom to build.
  • MalmesburyMalmesbury Posts: 62,048

    Pentagon spokesperson:


    Sean Parnell

    @SeanParnellASW
    ·
    1h
    If Iran is wise, they will make a deal.

    If not, the War Department will respond with even greater force—at levels they have never seen before.

    https://x.com/SeanParnellASW/status/2039093858236019044


    Narrator:

    Trump: I'm not bothered. This is all France's problem. I have a ballroom to build.

    My theory is that Trump has fixated on “America is a net exporter of oil and gas.”

    So, inside his head closing Hormuz is a problem for everyone else.

    Every now and then, someone tries to shake him out of it. But he reverts to what he feels.
  • viewcodeviewcode Posts: 28,124
    kyf_100 said:

    viewcode said:

    kyf_100 said:

    viewcode said:

    kyf_100 said:

    viewcode said:

    kyf_100 said:

    ...only those with medical diagnoses should be granted access...

    I'm not being funny, but I'm extremely cynical about the "medical diagnosis" part now. Leaving aside the question of what the failure rate for the diagnosis is and what is the maximum we can accept, there is also the question of "what is it exactly we are diagnosing"? Things like brain sex may or may not be true but doesn't translate to a testable test. Past behavior can be faked. Narratives can be learned and regurgitated.

    If we limit ourselves to "does this person has a penis" or "is this person chemically or physically castrate" then I can do a test for that. But "I am a woman in a man's body"? Am I supposed to use divination? Vibe diagnosis?
    People are evaluated by a psychiarist/clinical psychologist (often over a number of sessions) according (in the UK) to specific diagnostic criteria, namely those set out in the ICD-11 under "gender incongruence". This in the UK if I understand it correctly also involves speaking to a friend or family member who knows the person to verify they are living "full time".

    Effectively, it is quite a large gatekeeping step, and as I say, no doctor is going to sign off on Mad Jack McFetishist who wears latex inflatable boobs while watching kink porn, but lives an everyday, straight, cis male existence in all other parts of his life. They would lose their license very quickly.

    It is why, despite trans people criticising this step as gatekeeping, i.e. allowing doctors to decide who is trans enough, I think it's a vital step. As it really does sort out the genuine cases from the fetishists.
    I know that, but it converts a putative mental condition into a set of behaviours that can be done by anyone. If person X changes their name by deed poll, crossdresses and uses the other pronouns in work and at home 24/7, performs minor surgical/cosmetic changes like having their facial hair removed, then I can convert that into a checklist ("This person has exhibited 7 out of 10 of the diagnostic behaviours") and diagnose. But that's not diagnosing a mental illness, it's diagnosing a set of behaviours, and anybody can do those behaviours. I don't know and can't know the reason for those behaviors other than by asking them, and they may lie, be mistaken, or erroneously recall.

    Hence my cynicism.
    As others have pointed out, the same can be said of autism, depression etc. It is up to the psychiatrist - whose reputation and indeed ability to practice - is on the line if they give out "you're trans now" passes to all and sundry. Which is precisely why trans people get annoyed. Because they are, at the moment, heavily gatekept.

    Indeed, while not a specific, named "checklist requirement" for the letter the doctor has to write you in support of your ID change, I am pretty certain that few if any doctors are prepared to write the letter required if you are not in active medical treatment, i.e. taking hormones. While researching my response to you I noticed a large number of doctors were rejecting letters of support for ID changes on this very basis. Taking hormones is a pretty good, reliable, medically demonstrable way of proving transness. Not only does it demonstrate commitment (if a guy is a perv, there are easier ways to perv on women than taking hormones that will permanently destroy their fertility, make them unable to maintain an erection, and grow a pair, so to speak). Furthermore there is substantial evidence that being on the wrong hormones or being forcibly transitioned causes revulsion in those who aren't legitimately trans. See Alan Turing, who was forced onto female hormones as a way of curtailing his sex drive (again, HRT causes loss of male sexual function) and grew breasts, which caused him to become dysphoric.

    Your cynicism seems to be of the "just asking questions" type which is actually masking a deep disbelief in the existence of trans people, tbh. Which is your right, but you should just be up front about it and join the official TERF crowd.
    Don't be silly. I'm a statistician working for a contract research organisation. Asking these questions - converting surgeon/medic feels into something measurable - is my job.

    With regards to "the same can be said of autism, depression etc", I'm dubious about those as well, and I remind you of my long-standing dislike of spectrum diagnoses.
    Honestly, it feels like you're trying to "no true scotsman" me. If someone reports their personal identity, you argue it isn't reliable. If someone meets generally accepted criteria, you argue those criteria are insufficient. I suggest hormones as a criteria, i.e. turning "medic feels" into something measurable, you ignore it. In your world, the very category of "transness" becomes impossible to satisfy in practice. Which is a very TERFy move, I'm afraid.

    I note that Brandolini's Law was discussed here in a recent thread, and I think the amount of time I have to put into refuting all your "just asking questions" questions is disproportionate to the amount of time it takes you to go something like "well, any behavioural criterion can be faked or turned into a tick box, any medical step could be done for the wrong reasons, therefore no evidence is sufficient". This is very similar to how gender criticals are trying to shape reviews of NHS care of trans people to deny trans healthcare, if you are unaware.

    I have given clear criteria, namely those set out in the ICD-11 under gender incongruence. This is certified by a psychiatrist who loses their licence if they don't take it very seriously, which is why trans people are currently very, very heavily gatekept and many denied (much to their annoyance - the criteria are arguably too strict!). When this isn't enough for you, I've suggested hormones as the gold standard as there is provable evidence that giving cross sex hormones to non trans people makes them freak out, as "real men" don't like growing boobies and other side effects.

    As I say, I'm not going to keep going down the no true scotsman argument with you, because it's a TERF tactic to delegitimise the existence of trans people. If that's not your aim, I'm sorry, but it is the cumulative effect.
    It wasn't my aim.
  • kyf_100kyf_100 Posts: 5,081
    viewcode said:

    viewcode said:

    kyf_100 said:

    viewcode said:

    kyf_100 said:

    viewcode said:

    kyf_100 said:

    ...only those with medical diagnoses should be granted access...

    I'm not being funny, but I'm extremely cynical about the "medical diagnosis" part now. Leaving aside the question of what the failure rate for the diagnosis is and what is the maximum we can accept, there is also the question of "what is it exactly we are diagnosing"? Things like brain sex may or may not be true but doesn't translate to a testable test. Past behavior can be faked. Narratives can be learned and regurgitated.

    If we limit ourselves to "does this person has a penis" or "is this person chemically or physically castrate" then I can do a test for that. But "I am a woman in a man's body"? Am I supposed to use divination? Vibe diagnosis?
    People are evaluated by a psychiarist/clinical psychologist (often over a number of sessions) according (in the UK) to specific diagnostic criteria, namely those set out in the ICD-11 under "gender incongruence". This in the UK if I understand it correctly also involves speaking to a friend or family member who knows the person to verify they are living "full time".

    Effectively, it is quite a large gatekeeping step, and as I say, no doctor is going to sign off on Mad Jack McFetishist who wears latex inflatable boobs while watching kink porn, but lives an everyday, straight, cis male existence in all other parts of his life. They would lose their license very quickly.

    It is why, despite trans people criticising this step as gatekeeping, i.e. allowing doctors to decide who is trans enough, I think it's a vital step. As it really does sort out the genuine cases from the fetishists.
    I know that, but it converts a putative mental condition into a set of behaviours that can be done by anyone. If person X changes their name by deed poll, crossdresses and uses the other pronouns in work and at home 24/7, performs minor surgical/cosmetic changes like having their facial hair removed, then I can convert that into a checklist ("This person has exhibited 7 out of 10 of the diagnostic behaviours") and diagnose. But that's not diagnosing a mental illness, it's diagnosing a set of behaviours, and anybody can do those behaviours. I don't know and can't know the reason for those behaviors other than by asking them, and they may lie, be mistaken, or erroneously recall.

    Hence my cynicism.
    As others have pointed out, the same can be said of autism, depression etc. It is up to the psychiatrist - whose reputation and indeed ability to practice - is on the line if they give out "you're trans now" passes to all and sundry. Which is precisely why trans people get annoyed. Because they are, at the moment, heavily gatekept.

    Indeed, while not a specific, named "checklist requirement" for the letter the doctor has to write you in support of your ID change, I am pretty certain that few if any doctors are prepared to write the letter required if you are not in active medical treatment, i.e. taking hormones. While researching my response to you I noticed a large number of doctors were rejecting letters of support for ID changes on this very basis. Taking hormones is a pretty good, reliable, medically demonstrable way of proving transness. Not only does it demonstrate commitment (if a guy is a perv, there are easier ways to perv on women than taking hormones that will permanently destroy their fertility, make them unable to maintain an erection, and grow a pair, so to speak). Furthermore there is substantial evidence that being on the wrong hormones or being forcibly transitioned causes revulsion in those who aren't legitimately trans. See Alan Turing, who was forced onto female hormones as a way of curtailing his sex drive (again, HRT causes loss of male sexual function) and grew breasts, which caused him to become dysphoric.

    Your cynicism seems to be of the "just asking questions" type which is actually masking a deep disbelief in the existence of trans people, tbh. Which is your right, but you should just be up front about it and join the official TERF crowd.
    Don't be silly. I'm a statistician working for a contract research organisation. Asking these questions - converting surgeon/medic feels into something measurable - is my job.

    With regards to "the same can be said of autism, depression etc", I'm dubious about those as well, and I remind you of my long-standing dislike of spectrum diagnoses.
    ...And, come to that, don't be rude. I spent six months writing an article and pulled you, NigelB, Cyclefree and many others in specifically to retain a balance between pro-trans and gender-critical folk.
    I don't believe there's any need for us to start lobbing unfair criticism at each other, I'm simply pointing out that many of the arguments you've deployed lately have been - even if unconsciously and without intention - very TERF adjacent. They are the same tactics gender criticals use to delegitimise trans people, and even if that is not your intent, it is the effect, which is why I'm having trouble engaging with them.

  • kyf_100kyf_100 Posts: 5,081
    viewcode said:

    kyf_100 said:

    viewcode said:

    kyf_100 said:

    viewcode said:

    kyf_100 said:

    viewcode said:

    kyf_100 said:

    ...only those with medical diagnoses should be granted access...

    I'm not being funny, but I'm extremely cynical about the "medical diagnosis" part now. Leaving aside the question of what the failure rate for the diagnosis is and what is the maximum we can accept, there is also the question of "what is it exactly we are diagnosing"? Things like brain sex may or may not be true but doesn't translate to a testable test. Past behavior can be faked. Narratives can be learned and regurgitated.

    If we limit ourselves to "does this person has a penis" or "is this person chemically or physically castrate" then I can do a test for that. But "I am a woman in a man's body"? Am I supposed to use divination? Vibe diagnosis?
    People are evaluated by a psychiarist/clinical psychologist (often over a number of sessions) according (in the UK) to specific diagnostic criteria, namely those set out in the ICD-11 under "gender incongruence". This in the UK if I understand it correctly also involves speaking to a friend or family member who knows the person to verify they are living "full time".

    Effectively, it is quite a large gatekeeping step, and as I say, no doctor is going to sign off on Mad Jack McFetishist who wears latex inflatable boobs while watching kink porn, but lives an everyday, straight, cis male existence in all other parts of his life. They would lose their license very quickly.

    It is why, despite trans people criticising this step as gatekeeping, i.e. allowing doctors to decide who is trans enough, I think it's a vital step. As it really does sort out the genuine cases from the fetishists.
    I know that, but it converts a putative mental condition into a set of behaviours that can be done by anyone. If person X changes their name by deed poll, crossdresses and uses the other pronouns in work and at home 24/7, performs minor surgical/cosmetic changes like having their facial hair removed, then I can convert that into a checklist ("This person has exhibited 7 out of 10 of the diagnostic behaviours") and diagnose. But that's not diagnosing a mental illness, it's diagnosing a set of behaviours, and anybody can do those behaviours. I don't know and can't know the reason for those behaviors other than by asking them, and they may lie, be mistaken, or erroneously recall.

    Hence my cynicism.
    As others have pointed out, the same can be said of autism, depression etc. It is up to the psychiatrist - whose reputation and indeed ability to practice - is on the line if they give out "you're trans now" passes to all and sundry. Which is precisely why trans people get annoyed. Because they are, at the moment, heavily gatekept.

    Indeed, while not a specific, named "checklist requirement" for the letter the doctor has to write you in support of your ID change, I am pretty certain that few if any doctors are prepared to write the letter required if you are not in active medical treatment, i.e. taking hormones. While researching my response to you I noticed a large number of doctors were rejecting letters of support for ID changes on this very basis. Taking hormones is a pretty good, reliable, medically demonstrable way of proving transness. Not only does it demonstrate commitment (if a guy is a perv, there are easier ways to perv on women than taking hormones that will permanently destroy their fertility, make them unable to maintain an erection, and grow a pair, so to speak). Furthermore there is substantial evidence that being on the wrong hormones or being forcibly transitioned causes revulsion in those who aren't legitimately trans. See Alan Turing, who was forced onto female hormones as a way of curtailing his sex drive (again, HRT causes loss of male sexual function) and grew breasts, which caused him to become dysphoric.

    Your cynicism seems to be of the "just asking questions" type which is actually masking a deep disbelief in the existence of trans people, tbh. Which is your right, but you should just be up front about it and join the official TERF crowd.
    Don't be silly. I'm a statistician working for a contract research organisation. Asking these questions - converting surgeon/medic feels into something measurable - is my job.

    With regards to "the same can be said of autism, depression etc", I'm dubious about those as well, and I remind you of my long-standing dislike of spectrum diagnoses.
    Honestly, it feels like you're trying to "no true scotsman" me. If someone reports their personal identity, you argue it isn't reliable. If someone meets generally accepted criteria, you argue those criteria are insufficient. I suggest hormones as a criteria, i.e. turning "medic feels" into something measurable, you ignore it. In your world, the very category of "transness" becomes impossible to satisfy in practice. Which is a very TERFy move, I'm afraid.

    I note that Brandolini's Law was discussed here in a recent thread, and I think the amount of time I have to put into refuting all your "just asking questions" questions is disproportionate to the amount of time it takes you to go something like "well, any behavioural criterion can be faked or turned into a tick box, any medical step could be done for the wrong reasons, therefore no evidence is sufficient". This is very similar to how gender criticals are trying to shape reviews of NHS care of trans people to deny trans healthcare, if you are unaware.

    I have given clear criteria, namely those set out in the ICD-11 under gender incongruence. This is certified by a psychiatrist who loses their licence if they don't take it very seriously, which is why trans people are currently very, very heavily gatekept and many denied (much to their annoyance - the criteria are arguably too strict!). When this isn't enough for you, I've suggested hormones as the gold standard as there is provable evidence that giving cross sex hormones to non trans people makes them freak out, as "real men" don't like growing boobies and other side effects.

    As I say, I'm not going to keep going down the no true scotsman argument with you, because it's a TERF tactic to delegitimise the existence of trans people. If that's not your aim, I'm sorry, but it is the cumulative effect.
    It wasn't my aim.
    That I understand, see my most recent comment. Truce.
  • viewcodeviewcode Posts: 28,124
    edited March 31
    kyf_100 said:

    ...I suggest hormones as a criteria, i.e. turning "medic feels" into something measurable, you ignore it...

    I ignored it because you were also calling me a TERF and I wanted to respond to that first
  • HYUFDHYUFD Posts: 135,195
    Andy_JS said:

    Have we done this?

    British billionaire to donate £190m to Cambridge University

    https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c5y8gdwqklxo

    Given the light blues haven't produced a PM since Stanley Baldwin (who graduated with a Third in 1888) you might say a school of Government is long overdue. But £190m may not be enough to help them catch up.

    Places like Grimsby College or Flint Polytechnic could probably do with the money a lot more than Cambridge.
    Not necessarily, 'The Times Higher Education website claimed recently, external that philanthropy to elite UK universities is in decline. It found donations to Russell Group institutions had peaked at just over £650m in 2023-24, and since declined to around £546m last year.'

    https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c5y8gdwqklxo
  • kle4kle4 Posts: 101,955


    The Kobeissi Letter
    @KobeissiLetter
    BREAKING: President Trump says the US will leave Iran in “2 to 3 weeks.”

    ===

    Two weeks you say?

    Always with the two weeks thing. Is this some childhood shit? Told he couldn't have another bigmac for two weeks.

    Iran: So we hold out another three weeks and we're good?

    (Ok, clearly they've suffered a lot of damage, but this 'we'll be out of there at any moment' messaging from Trump seems odd in terms of any negotiations going on)
  • williamglennwilliamglenn Posts: 58,552
    edited March 31
    Pulpstar said:

    This trend for mass shoplifting risks getting out of hand unless the police get a grip very quickly.

    https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15695845/Families-barricaded-inside-high-street-stores-mobs-youths-storm-Clapham-AGAIN.html

    Dark day for Clapham
    Posted earlier:

    https://x.com/jamesd_graham/status/2039056848825823240

    Have just tried to go to M&S on Clapham high street.

    It is flanked by police who inform me all shops on the high street are closed as they are being looted by teenagers.

    Lawful citizens can’t shop, private businesses closed. Youths still causing havoc.

    Sainsbury’s, Waitrose, Boots, all locked down
  • HYUFDHYUFD Posts: 135,195

    Pulpstar said:

    This trend for mass shoplifting risks getting out of hand unless the police get a grip very quickly.

    https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15695845/Families-barricaded-inside-high-street-stores-mobs-youths-storm-Clapham-AGAIN.html

    Dark day for Clapham
    Posted earlier:

    https://x.com/jamesd_graham/status/2039056848825823240

    Have just tried to go to M&S on Clapham high street.

    It is flanked by police who inform me all shops on the high street are closed as they are being looted by teenagers.

    Lawful citizens can’t shop, private businesses closed. Youths still causing havoc.

    Sainsbury’s, Waitrose, Boots, all locked down
    I hope the police arrest the looters who forced the shops closure
  • kyf_100kyf_100 Posts: 5,081
    viewcode said:

    kyf_100 said:

    ...I suggest hormones as a criteria, i.e. turning "medic feels" into something measurable, you ignore it...

    I ignored it because you were also calling me a TERF and I wanted to respond to that first
    Apologies. To clarify, my point is that some of the arguments deployed (namely no diagnostic criteria can ever truly prove transness) are functionally identical to the arguments TERFs are currently deploying to shape the adult review of trans health care services, which would effectively deny trans people gender affirming care on the NHS if it goes through. Which you may be unaware of. But this is why I got snippy and said "well if you're gonna keep deploying TERF arguments, you might as well come out as a TERF". That doesn't mean *no* questions can be asked, or you don't have a valid point about checklists being turning into box ticking exercises, I just wanted to halt the one true scotsmanning and say well actually, some people are trans and there are legitimate ways of knowing with reasonable confidence (which is why psychiatrists are paid a large amount of money and licenced to give out diagnoses).
  • NigelbNigelb Posts: 87,732
    .


    The Kobeissi Letter
    @KobeissiLetter
    BREAKING: President Trump says the US will leave Iran in “2 to 3 weeks.”

    ===

    Two weeks you say?

    Always with the two weeks thing. Is this some childhood shit? Told he couldn't have another bigmac for two weeks.

    He has problems with numbers larger than two, I think.
    "One, two, bigly."
  • OnlyLivingBoyOnlyLivingBoy Posts: 18,141

    Reasons not to be cheerful, part three.

    Andrew Neil on our economic prospects...

    https://x.com/afneil/status/2038966047592616420

    "We have yet to feel the full force of oil and gas price spikes and energy shortages.

    "But they’ve started in Asia, the destination for most oil and gas that went through the Strait of Hormuz. They’re now coming our way, arriving by the middle of April at the latest, as they roll west across the globe.

    "Just because it hasn’t happened yet doesn’t mean it isn’t going to. Energy shocks unfold sequentially NOT simultaneously...

    "Western governments need to wake up to the economic tsunami coming their way. The Starmer government in particular needs to get a grip.

    "The PM and his ministers are dangerously insouciant in the face of what’s about to hit them. They speak in generalities, with no sense of urgency, complacently out of their depth. I fear they have no idea what’s in store."

    I've been saying this since the start.

    We're headed for a de facto lockdown.

    Blessed be the EV drivers.
    I remember buying a big chest freezer before the pandemic got going (Feb I think) and asking in the store if there was a run on them, and the staff looking a bit nonplussed.

    It feels like we are at that stage. Everyone has noticed the fuel prices but they haven't twigged what happens next.

    If one were to want to acquire an electric runaround, some solar panels and a battery...where to start?

    In a month there aren't going to be any available.

    Getting solar panels and a battery installed in a few weeks! Don't really need a car so not bothering with an EV.
  • NigelbNigelb Posts: 87,732
    Oops.

    https://x.com/Jeremybtc/status/2039077799643005198
    Anthropic accidentally leaked their entire source code yesterday. What happened next is one of the most insane stories in tech history.

    Anthropic pushed a software update for Claude Code at 4AM.

    A debugging file was accidentally bundled inside it.

    That file contained 512,000 lines of their proprietary source code.

    A researcher named Chaofan Shou spotted it within minutes and posted the download link on X.

    21 million people have seen the thread.

    The entire codebase was downloaded, copied and mirrored across GitHub before Anthropic's team had even woken up.

    Anthropic pulled the package and started firing DMCA takedowns at every repo hosting it.

    That's when a Korean developer named Sigrid Jin woke up at 4AM to his phone blowing up.

    He is the most active Claude Code user in the world with the Wall Street Journal reporting he personally used 25 billion tokens last year.

    His girlfriend was worried he'd get sued just for having the code on his machine.

    So he did what any engineer would do.

    He rewrote the entire thing in Python from scratch before sunrise.

    Called it claw-code and Pushed it to GitHub.

    A Python rewrite is a new creative work. DMCA can't touch it.

    The repo hit 30,000 stars faster than any repository in GitHub history.

    He wasn't satisfied. He started rewriting it again in Rust.

    It now has 49,000 stars and 56,000 forks.

    Someone mirrored the original to a decentralised platform with one message, "will never be taken down."

    The code is now permanent. Anthropic cannot get it back...<.I>
  • DumbosaurusDumbosaurus Posts: 1,035
    Nigelb said:

    Oops.

    https://x.com/Jeremybtc/status/2039077799643005198
    Anthropic accidentally leaked their entire source code yesterday.

    It's not "their entire source code". It was a source map for claude code. Anyone bothered could have read most of this from the minified source anyway. Sure, some of the comments and so on are amusing but this is a meh.
  • Casino_RoyaleCasino_Royale Posts: 65,909
    HYUFD said:

    Pulpstar said:

    This trend for mass shoplifting risks getting out of hand unless the police get a grip very quickly.

    https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15695845/Families-barricaded-inside-high-street-stores-mobs-youths-storm-Clapham-AGAIN.html

    Dark day for Clapham
    Posted earlier:

    https://x.com/jamesd_graham/status/2039056848825823240

    Have just tried to go to M&S on Clapham high street.

    It is flanked by police who inform me all shops on the high street are closed as they are being looted by teenagers.

    Lawful citizens can’t shop, private businesses closed. Youths still causing havoc.

    Sainsbury’s, Waitrose, Boots, all locked down
    I hope the police arrest the looters who forced the shops closure
    Chuck them all in youth detention for 10 days. Solitary.
  • Casino_RoyaleCasino_Royale Posts: 65,909

    kyf_100 said:

    Leon said:

    kyf_100 said:

    Leon said:

    kyf_100 said:

    Foxy said:

    Taz said:

    This Kristi Noem husband story is quite something

    https://x.com/nypost/status/2039006843763044817?s=61

    It is a magnificent contribution of solidarity to mark Trans Day of Visibility.



    Incidentally we used to have a poster on PB who went by the name @byronic. I wonder if they are one and the same?
    I know you're only joking but I think it's important not to lump creepy fetishistic guys in with trans people, who experience a genuine disconnect between mind and body that only medical intervention can fix.

    Sadly it's often the transphobic, far right men who are most into kinky "trans" porn (all unrealistic tosh aimed squarely at male fetishists), which leads many to believe that trans women are in some way deviant and perverted, when it is perverted blokes that have the problem. If you look at the data, trans porn is, by the way, far more popular in red states in America than Blue.

    The louder the transphobe, the more interesting a peek at their browser history becomes.
    It’s not just men who like kink

    I once had a very pretty girlfriend who had really involved sexual fantasies surrounding bath time. She demanded that I go to Hamleys and a buy a bath toy which she found particularly arousing

    The toy had a clockwork mechanism meaning it could whirr around the bath-water and go into corners… and indeed into all sorts of places. The toy made her very happy. She called it “Mister Squiddy”

    In daily life she had a very sober and serious job. Humans are gloriously weird
    In my experience the ladies are far kinkier in the bedroom than I have ever been. I think it is because women use this thing called "the imagination" whereas men tend to be much more physical/visual in their choice of stimulus...
    I have a fair amount of experience in this. I’ve got a few kinks - indeed accepting then exploring them was a transformative moment in my life. I was encouraged by a wise female friend who pointed out my obvious tendencies. “Just accept it and find girlfriends that like it the other way round”

    I thank her for that because I became much happier. I had far better sex from then on. Indeed better relationships. I only wish I’d done it sooner

    As for gender differences I suspect men and women are equally kinky given the chance. Why should they not be? The only difference is that women have to be more cautious due to relative physical weakness. But they certainly don’t lack in relative imagination
    You are probably right, I will admit my total lack of experience - I've often said the only Kinks I have are in my record collection. But this is mostly due to being a bit of a fraidy-cat and a repressed prig and never really experimenting when I was young. And I feel that sex parties are for cool, attractive young things, rather than paunchy middle aged men in ill fitting leather chaps looking slightly out of place. I have mates who are into torture garden and killing kittens and all that, but I wouldn't know where to look, much less begin!
    Sex parties should be for Coll, attractive, young things, but are, I understand, largely filled with paunchy middle aged men.
    I don't know how you get in.
  • DecrepiterJohnLDecrepiterJohnL Posts: 35,509
    edited 3:26AM
    kle4 said:

    Barnesian said:

    eek said:


    🚨 JUST IN — IT’S OFFICIAL: Palm Beach International Airport is now Donald J. Trump International Airport, following Gov. Ron DeSantis’ signature on HB919

    The name change goes into effect on July 1st.

    As well as the greed and vindictiveness, I think Trump has two main drivers:
    Short term it is being in the limelight. Dominating the news. In this he is very successful.
    Longer term it is his legacy. The naming, the portraits, the buildings etc.
    In this he is not going to be so successful. He will have a legacy but not the one he craves.
    We can hope so.

    I did see one online Democratic supporter saying they hope Trump survives his full term, since if he dies in office the GOP will put his face up on Mount Rushmore.
    You are editor of the Daily Mail AICMFP. Or at least its April Fool correspondent.

    Taking shape, the new face of Mount Rushmore
    https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15696415/Taking-shape-new-face-Mount-Rushmore.html


  • MarqueeMarkMarqueeMark Posts: 59,013

    kyf_100 said:

    Leon said:

    kyf_100 said:

    Leon said:

    kyf_100 said:

    Foxy said:

    Taz said:

    This Kristi Noem husband story is quite something

    https://x.com/nypost/status/2039006843763044817?s=61

    It is a magnificent contribution of solidarity to mark Trans Day of Visibility.



    Incidentally we used to have a poster on PB who went by the name @byronic. I wonder if they are one and the same?
    I know you're only joking but I think it's important not to lump creepy fetishistic guys in with trans people, who experience a genuine disconnect between mind and body that only medical intervention can fix.

    Sadly it's often the transphobic, far right men who are most into kinky "trans" porn (all unrealistic tosh aimed squarely at male fetishists), which leads many to believe that trans women are in some way deviant and perverted, when it is perverted blokes that have the problem. If you look at the data, trans porn is, by the way, far more popular in red states in America than Blue.

    The louder the transphobe, the more interesting a peek at their browser history becomes.
    It’s not just men who like kink

    I once had a very pretty girlfriend who had really involved sexual fantasies surrounding bath time. She demanded that I go to Hamleys and a buy a bath toy which she found particularly arousing

    The toy had a clockwork mechanism meaning it could whirr around the bath-water and go into corners… and indeed into all sorts of places. The toy made her very happy. She called it “Mister Squiddy”

    In daily life she had a very sober and serious job. Humans are gloriously weird
    In my experience the ladies are far kinkier in the bedroom than I have ever been. I think it is because women use this thing called "the imagination" whereas men tend to be much more physical/visual in their choice of stimulus...
    I have a fair amount of experience in this. I’ve got a few kinks - indeed accepting then exploring them was a transformative moment in my life. I was encouraged by a wise female friend who pointed out my obvious tendencies. “Just accept it and find girlfriends that like it the other way round”

    I thank her for that because I became much happier. I had far better sex from then on. Indeed better relationships. I only wish I’d done it sooner

    As for gender differences I suspect men and women are equally kinky given the chance. Why should they not be? The only difference is that women have to be more cautious due to relative physical weakness. But they certainly don’t lack in relative imagination
    You are probably right, I will admit my total lack of experience - I've often said the only Kinks I have are in my record collection. But this is mostly due to being a bit of a fraidy-cat and a repressed prig and never really experimenting when I was young. And I feel that sex parties are for cool, attractive young things, rather than paunchy middle aged men in ill fitting leather chaps looking slightly out of place. I have mates who are into torture garden and killing kittens and all that, but I wouldn't know where to look, much less begin!
    Sex parties should be for Coll, attractive, young things, but are, I understand, largely filled with paunchy middle aged men.
    I don't know how you get in.
    You needed to know Epstein...
  • DecrepiterJohnLDecrepiterJohnL Posts: 35,509

    Nigelb said:

    Oops.

    https://x.com/Jeremybtc/status/2039077799643005198
    Anthropic accidentally leaked their entire source code yesterday. What happened next is one of the most insane stories in tech history.

    Anthropic pushed a software update for Claude Code at 4AM.

    A debugging file was accidentally bundled inside it.

    That file contained 512,000 lines of their proprietary source code.

    A researcher named Chaofan Shou spotted it within minutes and posted the download link on X.

    21 million people have seen the thread.

    The entire codebase was downloaded, copied and mirrored across GitHub before Anthropic's team had even woken up.

    Anthropic pulled the package and started firing DMCA takedowns at every repo hosting it.

    That's when a Korean developer named Sigrid Jin woke up at 4AM to his phone blowing up.

    He is the most active Claude Code user in the world with the Wall Street Journal reporting he personally used 25 billion tokens last year.

    His girlfriend was worried he'd get sued just for having the code on his machine.

    So he did what any engineer would do.

    He rewrote the entire thing in Python from scratch before sunrise.

    Called it claw-code and Pushed it to GitHub.

    A Python rewrite is a new creative work. DMCA can't touch it.

    The repo hit 30,000 stars faster than any repository in GitHub history.

    He wasn't satisfied. He started rewriting it again in Rust.

    It now has 49,000 stars and 56,000 forks.

    Someone mirrored the original to a decentralised platform with one message, "will never be taken down."

    The code is now permanent. Anthropic cannot get it back...<.I>

    The most impressive thing about that were the words “ his girlfriend”
    The least surprising thing is that Claude wrote the code including the security lapse. Can't trust AI.
  • MarqueeMarkMarqueeMark Posts: 59,013

    https://x.com/disclosetv/status/2039103858840862782

    Trump mocks Iran for threatening to strike U.S. tech companies in the Middle East: "What did they threaten them with BB guns?! They don't have much left to threaten."

    Presumably he means "They don't have much to threaten us with". Unless these firms have already left the ME.

    Let' see whether Iran still has the bot farm means to crash them. I suspect they do.

    Or whether Iran's fellow SPECTRE member Putin does.
  • MarqueeMarkMarqueeMark Posts: 59,013

    kle4 said:

    Barnesian said:

    eek said:


    🚨 JUST IN — IT’S OFFICIAL: Palm Beach International Airport is now Donald J. Trump International Airport, following Gov. Ron DeSantis’ signature on HB919

    The name change goes into effect on July 1st.

    As well as the greed and vindictiveness, I think Trump has two main drivers:
    Short term it is being in the limelight. Dominating the news. In this he is very successful.
    Longer term it is his legacy. The naming, the portraits, the buildings etc.
    In this he is not going to be so successful. He will have a legacy but not the one he craves.
    We can hope so.

    I did see one online Democratic supporter saying they hope Trump survives his full term, since if he dies in office the GOP will put his face up on Mount Rushmore.
    You are editor of the Daily Mail AICMFP. Or at least its April Fool correspondent.

    Taking shape, the new face of Mount Rushmore
    https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15696415/Taking-shape-new-face-Mount-Rushmore.html


    Sorry, but the scale is all wrong. Trump would be tiny beside the other heads. Which would be funny, but...
  • NigelbNigelb Posts: 87,732
    The US is now making the same mistake with biotech that it did with a dozen other industries; outsourcing everything to China.
    Along with Trump's gutting of federal research, the future for US biopharma looks rather grim.

    U.S. venture capital firms are no longer waiting for Chinese biotech assets to surface before investing in them — they’re moving upstream, embedding themselves inside labs and courting scientists before they publish their research
    https://x.com/matthewherper/status/2038990748444475793
  • TazTaz Posts: 26,423
    HYUFD said:

    Pulpstar said:

    This trend for mass shoplifting risks getting out of hand unless the police get a grip very quickly.

    https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15695845/Families-barricaded-inside-high-street-stores-mobs-youths-storm-Clapham-AGAIN.html

    Dark day for Clapham
    Posted earlier:

    https://x.com/jamesd_graham/status/2039056848825823240

    Have just tried to go to M&S on Clapham high street.

    It is flanked by police who inform me all shops on the high street are closed as they are being looted by teenagers.

    Lawful citizens can’t shop, private businesses closed. Youths still causing havoc.

    Sainsbury’s, Waitrose, Boots, all locked down
    I hope the police arrest the looters who forced the shops closure
    Highly unlikely. Up and down the country ASB is high streets is a problem the police seem unable or unwilling to properly deal with.

    The solution appears to be closing the shops temporarily. The Co-op has threatened to discipline anyone trying to stop shoplifters nicking goods.

    If poor behaviour is not pursued it becomes normalised.

    How long before shops start closing in areas because of continued pilfering ?
  • TazTaz Posts: 26,423

    Pulpstar said:

    This trend for mass shoplifting risks getting out of hand unless the police get a grip very quickly.

    https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15695845/Families-barricaded-inside-high-street-stores-mobs-youths-storm-Clapham-AGAIN.html

    Dark day for Clapham
    Posted earlier:

    https://x.com/jamesd_graham/status/2039056848825823240

    Have just tried to go to M&S on Clapham high street.

    It is flanked by police who inform me all shops on the high street are closed as they are being looted by teenagers.

    Lawful citizens can’t shop, private businesses closed. Youths still causing havoc.

    Sainsbury’s, Waitrose, Boots, all locked down
    Paging Fraser Nelson
  • TazTaz Posts: 26,423
    SKS to address the nation this morning.

    https://x.com/politlcsuk/status/2039206163527458865?s=61
  • scampi25scampi25 Posts: 469
    Taz said:

    SKS to address the nation this morning.

    https://x.com/politlcsuk/status/2039206163527458865?s=61

    I'm guessing we're talking April fools?
  • JohnLilburneJohnLilburne Posts: 8,076
    Taz said:

    HYUFD said:

    Pulpstar said:

    This trend for mass shoplifting risks getting out of hand unless the police get a grip very quickly.

    https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15695845/Families-barricaded-inside-high-street-stores-mobs-youths-storm-Clapham-AGAIN.html

    Dark day for Clapham
    Posted earlier:

    https://x.com/jamesd_graham/status/2039056848825823240

    Have just tried to go to M&S on Clapham high street.

    It is flanked by police who inform me all shops on the high street are closed as they are being looted by teenagers.

    Lawful citizens can’t shop, private businesses closed. Youths still causing havoc.

    Sainsbury’s, Waitrose, Boots, all locked down
    I hope the police arrest the looters who forced the shops closure
    Highly unlikely. Up and down the country ASB is high streets is a problem the police seem unable or unwilling to properly deal with.

    The solution appears to be closing the shops temporarily. The Co-op has threatened to discipline anyone trying to stop shoplifters nicking goods.

    If poor behaviour is not pursued it becomes normalised.

    How long before shops start closing in areas because of continued pilfering ?
    In situations like this, I don't see what is wrong with some applied violence by the police. Break a few heads.
  • MattWMattW Posts: 32,810
    edited 5:58AM
    My photo for the day, related to @Benpointer having moved into his new bungalow, which I had not copped yet. That is 15 months from buying the plot to moving in. It's a great example of a professionally run project with all the features of a modern house - near-passive spec, high quality materials and fittings, uncluttered, well-finished, no corners visibly cut, but leaving out unnecessary things.

    There's a lot of in-roof solar (830 sqft of it), which is 50% more than I have - and I went right up to the legal max grid connection of 10kW. As a general number, I make the amount of roofing material saved a saving of maybe £6-7k in the purchase of zinc sheet for the roof. I reckon it will be generating 10-12 MWh per annum, or a little more.

    I love the shower panels, which are printed views to make it feel as if you are having a shower in the forest.

    The final "we moved in" blog is linked below, and my borrowed piccie is the "crystal collection" - which all sensible PBers are required to have in our bathrooms.

    It's a great read.

    https://forum.buildhub.org.uk/blogs/entry/1087-let-the-fun-begin/

  • squareroot2squareroot2 Posts: 7,780
    edited 6:03AM

    kyf_100 said:

    Leon said:

    kyf_100 said:

    Leon said:

    kyf_100 said:

    Foxy said:

    Taz said:

    This Kristi Noem husband story is quite something

    https://x.com/nypost/status/2039006843763044817?s=61

    It is a magnificent contribution of solidarity to mark Trans Day of Visibility.



    Incidentally we used to have a poster on PB who went by the name @byronic. I wonder if they are one and the same?
    I know you're only joking but I think it's important not to lump creepy fetishistic guys in with trans people, who experience a genuine disconnect between mind and body that only medical intervention can fix.

    Sadly it's often the transphobic, far right men who are most into kinky "trans" porn (all unrealistic tosh aimed squarely at male fetishists), which leads many to believe that trans women are in some way deviant and perverted, when it is perverted blokes that have the problem. If you look at the data, trans porn is, by the way, far more popular in red states in America than Blue.

    The louder the transphobe, the more interesting a peek at their browser history becomes.
    It’s not just men who like kink

    I once had a very pretty girlfriend who had really involved sexual fantasies surrounding bath time. She demanded that I go to Hamleys and a buy a bath toy which she found particularly arousing

    The toy had a clockwork mechanism meaning it could whirr around the bath-water and go into corners… and indeed into all sorts of places. The toy made her very happy. She called it “Mister Squiddy”

    In daily life she had a very sober and serious job. Humans are gloriously weird
    In my experience the ladies are far kinkier in the bedroom than I have ever been. I think it is because women use this thing called "the imagination" whereas men tend to be much more physical/visual in their choice of stimulus...
    I have a fair amount of experience in this. I’ve got a few kinks - indeed accepting then exploring them was a transformative moment in my life. I was encouraged by a wise female friend who pointed out my obvious tendencies. “Just accept it and find girlfriends that like it the other way round”

    I thank her for that because I became much happier. I had far better sex from then on. Indeed better relationships. I only wish I’d done it sooner

    As for gender differences I suspect men and women are equally kinky given the chance. Why should they not be? The only difference is that women have to be more cautious due to relative physical weakness. But they certainly don’t lack in relative imagination
    You are probably right, I will admit my total lack of experience - I've often said the only Kinks I have are in my record collection. But this is mostly due to being a bit of a fraidy-cat and a repressed prig and never really experimenting when I was young. And I feel that sex parties are for cool, attractive young things, rather than paunchy middle aged men in ill fitting leather chaps looking slightly out of place. I have mates who are into torture garden and killing kittens and all that, but I wouldn't know where to look, much less begin!
    Sex parties should be for Coll, attractive, young things, but are, I understand, largely filled with paunchy middle aged men.
    I don't know how you get in.
    You shoukd have asked Bob monkhouse. He went to a party and was smooching some bird and was offered a room only to.find it was some kinky arrangement when all.the other "guests" were watching.. .. from his book Crying with laughter...
  • squareroot2squareroot2 Posts: 7,780

    Taz said:

    HYUFD said:

    Pulpstar said:

    This trend for mass shoplifting risks getting out of hand unless the police get a grip very quickly.

    https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15695845/Families-barricaded-inside-high-street-stores-mobs-youths-storm-Clapham-AGAIN.html

    Dark day for Clapham
    Posted earlier:

    https://x.com/jamesd_graham/status/2039056848825823240

    Have just tried to go to M&S on Clapham high street.

    It is flanked by police who inform me all shops on the high street are closed as they are being looted by teenagers.

    Lawful citizens can’t shop, private businesses closed. Youths still causing havoc.

    Sainsbury’s, Waitrose, Boots, all locked down
    I hope the police arrest the looters who forced the shops closure
    Highly unlikely. Up and down the country ASB is high streets is a problem the police seem unable or unwilling to properly deal with.

    The solution appears to be closing the shops temporarily. The Co-op has threatened to discipline anyone trying to stop shoplifters nicking goods.

    If poor behaviour is not pursued it becomes normalised.

    How long before shops start closing in areas because of continued pilfering ?
    In situations like this, I don't see what is wrong with some applied violence by the police. Break a few heads.
    👍👍👍👍👍
  • bondegezoubondegezou Posts: 19,726
    Nigelb said:

    .


    The Kobeissi Letter
    @KobeissiLetter
    BREAKING: President Trump says the US will leave Iran in “2 to 3 weeks.”

    ===

    Two weeks you say?

    Always with the two weeks thing. Is this some childhood shit? Told he couldn't have another bigmac for two weeks.

    He has problems with numbers larger than two, I think.
    "One, two, bigly."
    I see Trump also claims that he has achieved regime change in Iran. So, that’s good. @BartholomewRoberts and @HYUFD will be happy.
  • MexicanpeteMexicanpete Posts: 38,490

    "It almost felt like Jeremy was handing over the reins of the leadership of the left - which is why I felt it was important to bring in some of the lessons learned from Corbynism."


    From Corbyn to Polanski - in and against the state

    https://graceblakeley.substack.com/p/from-corbyn-to-polanski-in-and-against?triedRedirect=true



    Thoughts and prayers for the voters of N Herefordshire.

    But like Jeremy, Zack can deliver Conservative Governments ad infinitum, satisfied in the knowledge that he can carp from the comfort of opposition until the cows come home.

    And no, the Tory burghers of North Herefordshire won't be buying that.
  • bondegezoubondegezou Posts: 19,726
    Andy_JS said:

    This trend for mass shoplifting risks getting out of hand unless the police get a grip very quickly.

    https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15695845/Families-barricaded-inside-high-street-stores-mobs-youths-storm-Clapham-AGAIN.html

    Not forgetting fare dodging on the tube, which is also out of control.
    I travel on the Tube about every other day. I’ve not witnessed any fare dodging this year. I saw one incident last year, IIRC.
  • MexicanpeteMexicanpete Posts: 38,490
    edited 6:20AM
    Taz said:

    SKS to address the nation this morning.

    https://x.com/politlcsuk/status/2039206163527458865?s=61

    He should have been doing this every day since the war started like Boris did so beautifully during COVID. We were reassured!

    He's probably going to say that in order to placate the Leader of the Free World and save the special relationship he's unilaterally putting British boots on Kharg Island.
  • scampi25scampi25 Posts: 469

    Taz said:

    SKS to address the nation this morning.

    https://x.com/politlcsuk/status/2039206163527458865?s=61

    He should have been doing this every day since the war started like Boris did so beautifully during COVID. We were reassured!

    He's probably going to say that in order to placate the Leader of the Free World and save the special relationship he's unilaterally putting British boots on Kharg Island.
    It would be something to know exactly what the plan is for the UK and Europe. Reliance on the USA is gone. I'm not sure if that will ever return. So let's know Keir, how do we all cope?
  • MexicanpeteMexicanpete Posts: 38,490

    Andy_JS said:

    This trend for mass shoplifting risks getting out of hand unless the police get a grip very quickly.

    https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15695845/Families-barricaded-inside-high-street-stores-mobs-youths-storm-Clapham-AGAIN.html

    Not forgetting fare dodging on the tube, which is also out of control.
    I travel on the Tube about every other day. I’ve not witnessed any fare dodging this year. I saw one incident last year, IIRC.
    If you look for it you'll find criminality around every corner on the tube. Honest Bob did a video on foreign fare dodgers. Remember when some ruffian stole Susan Hall's purse before cynically handing it in to lost property without removing an item.
  • MexicanpeteMexicanpete Posts: 38,490
    edited 6:33AM
    scampi25 said:

    Taz said:

    SKS to address the nation this morning.

    https://x.com/politlcsuk/status/2039206163527458865?s=61

    He should have been doing this every day since the war started like Boris did so beautifully during COVID. We were reassured!

    He's probably going to say that in order to placate the Leader of the Free World and save the special relationship he's unilaterally putting British boots on Kharg Island.
    It would be something to know exactly what the plan is for the UK and Europe. Reliance on the USA is gone. I'm not sure if that will ever return. So let's know Keir, how do we all cope?
    Starmer has behaved irresponsibly and disrespectfully to the office of POTUS over this adventure, but that wasn't my point.

    My point was that we need to know how the government are dealing with the side effects of the war and how it affects us and how the government are ameliorating the chaos
  • ydoethurydoethur Posts: 78,393

    Andy_JS said:

    This trend for mass shoplifting risks getting out of hand unless the police get a grip very quickly.

    https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15695845/Families-barricaded-inside-high-street-stores-mobs-youths-storm-Clapham-AGAIN.html

    Not forgetting fare dodging on the tube, which is also out of control.
    I travel on the Tube about every other day. I’ve not witnessed any fare dodging this year. I saw one incident last year, IIRC.
    If you look for it you'll find criminality around every corner on the tube. Honest Bob did a video on foreign fare dodgers. Remember when some ruffian stole Susan Hall's purse before cynically handing it in to lost property without removing an item.
    There was also some idiot who did a load of filming on a tube platform without permission, which is a fineable offence, what was his name now?
  • scampi25scampi25 Posts: 469

    scampi25 said:

    Taz said:

    SKS to address the nation this morning.

    https://x.com/politlcsuk/status/2039206163527458865?s=61

    He should have been doing this every day since the war started like Boris did so beautifully during COVID. We were reassured!

    He's probably going to say that in order to placate the Leader of the Free World and save the special relationship he's unilaterally putting British boots on Kharg Island.
    It would be something to know exactly what the plan is for the UK and Europe. Reliance on the USA is gone. I'm not sure if that will ever return. So let's know Keir, how do we all cope?
    Starmer has behaved irresponsibly and disrespectfully to the office of POTUS over this adventure, but that wasn't my point.

    My point was that we need to know how the government are dealing with the side effects of the war and how it affects us and how the government are ameliorating the chaos
    That's exactly what I said! I'm not optimistic that an address on April Fools morning has got the best optics... But we'll see!
  • Scott_xPScott_xP Posts: 43,080
    April Fool in the age of the Mad King. I have no idea if this is real or not...

    @ottoenglish.bsky.social‬

    Former PM Liz Truss appointed NASA chief as Trump becomes increasingly obsessed with her online presence

    https://bsky.app/profile/ottoenglish.bsky.social/post/3mifznty6ac26
  • Brixian59Brixian59 Posts: 1,815

    scampi25 said:

    Taz said:

    SKS to address the nation this morning.

    https://x.com/politlcsuk/status/2039206163527458865?s=61

    He should have been doing this every day since the war started like Boris did so beautifully during COVID. We were reassured!

    He's probably going to say that in order to placate the Leader of the Free World and save the special relationship he's unilaterally putting British boots on Kharg Island.
    It would be something to know exactly what the plan is for the UK and Europe. Reliance on the USA is gone. I'm not sure if that will ever return. So let's know Keir, how do we all cope?
    Starmer has behaved irresponsibly and disrespectfully to the office of POTUS over this adventure, but that wasn't my point.

    My point was that we need to know how the government are dealing with the side effects of the war and how it affects us and how the government are ameliorating the chaos
    Starmer has done the polar opposite of the disgusting comments you have made.

    THANK GOD we have Starmer at this time and not the trigger happy right wing alternatives who would have us at war on the side of two utterly deluded evil despots.

    The "special relationship" will long term SURVIVE Trump, that will happen when the lunatics leave the fucking asylum they have turned the White House in to. Diplomatic (non political ties) remain and hopefully will endure his brain addled clusterfuck of a presidency.

    We are in a position to work WITH our European and wider Global allies.

    If the USA is going to continue to vote for these runts (assuming there are free and fair elections under TRump which is unlikely) then the UK and Europe and the rest of the (decent) Planet will have to adapt.

    One massive benefit of decoupling militarily from the US and NATO will be that we don't feel obliged to get in to US sponsored wars which cost us European Countries a fortune financially and in manpower.

    Trump will no doubt at some point try to shore up Putin, we have to be prepared for that. We also have to prepare to forge CLOSER ties with China, who pose NO military threat to us. However closer ties with them will neuter Putin as no matter what Trump does to assist him in the Balkans, with Russia on its knees, Putin simply cannot defend his east flank from China and that could be the straw that breaks Putins back and ties the cnut Trump in knots.

    The immediate removal of ALL American bases from UK and UK soil should be Starmers next card.

    To suggest that he has played Trump anything other than skilfully on trade and traiffs and reining in his bloodlust is utter garbage.
  • MexicanpeteMexicanpete Posts: 38,490
    Brixian59 said:

    scampi25 said:

    Taz said:

    SKS to address the nation this morning.

    https://x.com/politlcsuk/status/2039206163527458865?s=61

    He should have been doing this every day since the war started like Boris did so beautifully during COVID. We were reassured!

    He's probably going to say that in order to placate the Leader of the Free World and save the special relationship he's unilaterally putting British boots on Kharg Island.
    It would be something to know exactly what the plan is for the UK and Europe. Reliance on the USA is gone. I'm not sure if that will ever return. So let's know Keir, how do we all cope?
    Starmer has behaved irresponsibly and disrespectfully to the office of POTUS over this adventure, but that wasn't my point.

    My point was that we need to know how the government are dealing with the side effects of the war and how it affects us and how the government are ameliorating the chaos
    Starmer has done the polar opposite of the disgusting comments you have made.

    THANK GOD we have Starmer at this time and not the trigger happy right wing alternatives who would have us at war on the side of two utterly deluded evil despots.

    The "special relationship" will long term SURVIVE Trump, that will happen when the lunatics leave the fucking asylum they have turned the White House in to. Diplomatic (non political ties) remain and hopefully will endure his brain addled clusterfuck of a presidency.

    We are in a position to work WITH our European and wider Global allies.

    If the USA is going to continue to vote for these runts (assuming there are free and fair elections under TRump which is unlikely) then the UK and Europe and the rest of the (decent) Planet will have to adapt.

    One massive benefit of decoupling militarily from the US and NATO will be that we don't feel obliged to get in to US sponsored wars which cost us European Countries a fortune financially and in manpower.

    Trump will no doubt at some point try to shore up Putin, we have to be prepared for that. We also have to prepare to forge CLOSER ties with China, who pose NO military threat to us. However closer ties with them will neuter Putin as no matter what Trump does to assist him in the Balkans, with Russia on its knees, Putin simply cannot defend his east flank from China and that could be the straw that breaks Putins back and ties the cnut Trump in knots.

    The immediate removal of ALL American bases from UK and UK soil should be Starmers next card.

    To suggest that he has played Trump anything other than skilfully on trade and traiffs and reining in his bloodlust is utter garbage.
    That is a great April Fool. Well done!
  • TheScreamingEaglesTheScreamingEagles Posts: 127,198

    NEW THREAD

  • NigelbNigelb Posts: 87,732

    Brixian59 said:

    scampi25 said:

    Taz said:

    SKS to address the nation this morning.

    https://x.com/politlcsuk/status/2039206163527458865?s=61

    He should have been doing this every day since the war started like Boris did so beautifully during COVID. We were reassured!

    He's probably going to say that in order to placate the Leader of the Free World and save the special relationship he's unilaterally putting British boots on Kharg Island.
    It would be something to know exactly what the plan is for the UK and Europe. Reliance on the USA is gone. I'm not sure if that will ever return. So let's know Keir, how do we all cope?
    Starmer has behaved irresponsibly and disrespectfully to the office of POTUS over this adventure, but that wasn't my point.

    My point was that we need to know how the government are dealing with the side effects of the war and how it affects us and how the government are ameliorating the chaos
    Starmer has done the polar opposite of the disgusting comments you have made.

    THANK GOD we have Starmer at this time and not the trigger happy right wing alternatives who would have us at war on the side of two utterly deluded evil despots.

    The "special relationship" will long term SURVIVE Trump, that will happen when the lunatics leave the fucking asylum they have turned the White House in to. Diplomatic (non political ties) remain and hopefully will endure his brain addled clusterfuck of a presidency.

    We are in a position to work WITH our European and wider Global allies.

    If the USA is going to continue to vote for these runts (assuming there are free and fair elections under TRump which is unlikely) then the UK and Europe and the rest of the (decent) Planet will have to adapt.

    One massive benefit of decoupling militarily from the US and NATO will be that we don't feel obliged to get in to US sponsored wars which cost us European Countries a fortune financially and in manpower.

    Trump will no doubt at some point try to shore up Putin, we have to be prepared for that. We also have to prepare to forge CLOSER ties with China, who pose NO military threat to us. However closer ties with them will neuter Putin as no matter what Trump does to assist him in the Balkans, with Russia on its knees, Putin simply cannot defend his east flank from China and that could be the straw that breaks Putins back and ties the cnut Trump in knots.

    The immediate removal of ALL American bases from UK and UK soil should be Starmers next card.

    To suggest that he has played Trump anything other than skilfully on trade and traiffs and reining in his bloodlust is utter garbage.
    That is a great April Fool. Well done!
    Good one from Rubio, too.

    Rubio : Unfortunately, after this conflict is concluded, we're going to have to re examine that relationship. We're going to have to re examine the value of NATO & that alliance for our country. Ultimately, that's a decision for the President to make, and he'll have to make it.
    https://x.com/HibaNasr/status/2039151647310368819

    It is, of course, the Senate which decides on treaties, and Rubio was one of the Senators who voted in a law explicitly preventing the President withdrawing from NATO.
  • BattlebusBattlebus Posts: 2,812
    Trump is keen on testing his followers. New White House installation.


  • NigelbNigelb Posts: 87,732
    It's going to be a great word cup.

    MAGA man looking to call ICE at the airport—on Iraqi soccer fans traveling for the World Cup.

    He runs into crowd and tears up the homemade banner that fans were holding—written in Arabic and Spanish.

    "You're in America!" he yells.
    "You don't come to America and do that!"

    Traveling to support Iraq in a World Cup 2026 qualifier playoff match vs. Bolivia in Monterrey, Mexico.

    The incident occurred near Gate D12 in the Dallas-Fort Worth International Airport.

    https://x.com/LongTimeHistory/status/2039067880105365945
  • Luckyguy1983Luckyguy1983 Posts: 34,576

    Andy_JS said:

    This trend for mass shoplifting risks getting out of hand unless the police get a grip very quickly.

    https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15695845/Families-barricaded-inside-high-street-stores-mobs-youths-storm-Clapham-AGAIN.html

    Not forgetting fare dodging on the tube, which is also out of control.
    I travel on the Tube about every other day. I’ve not witnessed any fare dodging this year. I saw one incident last year, IIRC.
    If you look for it you'll find criminality around every corner on the tube. Honest Bob did a video on foreign fare dodgers. Remember when some ruffian stole Susan Hall's purse before cynically handing it in to lost property without removing an item.
    I see no ships.
  • TazTaz Posts: 26,423
    Anyone know what time SKS is speaking ?
  • MexicanpeteMexicanpete Posts: 38,490
    Brixian59 said:

    scampi25 said:

    Taz said:

    SKS to address the nation this morning.

    https://x.com/politlcsuk/status/2039206163527458865?s=61

    He should have been doing this every day since the war started like Boris did so beautifully during COVID. We were reassured!

    He's probably going to say that in order to placate the Leader of the Free World and save the special relationship he's unilaterally putting British boots on Kharg Island.
    It would be something to know exactly what the plan is for the UK and Europe. Reliance on the USA is gone. I'm not sure if that will ever return. So let's know Keir, how do we all cope?
    Starmer has behaved irresponsibly and disrespectfully to the office of POTUS over this adventure, but that wasn't my point.

    My point was that we need to know how the government are dealing with the side effects of the war and how it affects us and how the government are ameliorating the chaos
    Starmer has done the polar opposite of the disgusting comments you have made.

    THANK GOD we have Starmer at this time and not the trigger happy right wing alternatives who would have us at war on the side of two utterly deluded evil despots.

    The "special relationship" will long term SURVIVE Trump, that will happen when the lunatics leave the fucking asylum they have turned the White House in to. Diplomatic (non political ties) remain and hopefully will endure his brain addled clusterfuck of a presidency.

    We are in a position to work WITH our European and wider Global allies.

    If the USA is going to continue to vote for these runts (assuming there are free and fair elections under TRump which is unlikely) then the UK and Europe and the rest of the (decent) Planet will have to adapt.

    One massive benefit of decoupling militarily from the US and NATO will be that we don't feel obliged to get in to US sponsored wars which cost us European Countries a fortune financially and in manpower.

    Trump will no doubt at some point try to shore up Putin, we have to be prepared for that. We also have to prepare to forge CLOSER ties with China, who pose NO military threat to us. However closer ties with them will neuter Putin as no matter what Trump does to assist him in the Balkans, with Russia on its knees, Putin simply cannot defend his east flank from China and that could be the straw that breaks Putins back and ties the cnut Trump in knots.

    The immediate removal of ALL American bases from UK and UK soil should be Starmers next card.

    To suggest that he has played Trump anything other than skilfully on trade and traiffs and reining in his bloodlust is utter garbage.
    Why have you flagged me @Brixian59 ?

    Blue on blue action absolutely, but us reds should stick together.
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