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  • FoxyFoxy Posts: 57,034
    DavidL said:

    MelonB said:

    Cyclefree said:

    "Varley's evil and graphic sexual abuse is beyond contempt. I don't believe a general extrapolation should be made because Varley was either, white, male, a teacher or gay."

    Well, one of those characteristics is a risk factor for crime - and particularly for sexual crimes against children: being male. His partner was also convicted of various offences. And he, Varley, was not just a teacher but safeguarding lead at his school.

    That does not mean that no men should ever adopt. It should mean that those doing the due diligence need to be very very thorough in their assessment - of character, history, motivation, lifestyle, ability to look after a baby, understanding of what looking after a very young baby involves and ability to do so - ie the emotional resilience to cope with a baby's needs and helping him thrive and develop, family support, female involvement, friends, hobbies etc etc . And not just all that.

    Those doing the due diligence need a sceptical investigative mind.

    The adoption went through pretty quickly. How good, how extensive was the due diligence? Did they pick up his extensive viewing of seriously revolting porn? Did they ask to look at his and his partner's computer and phones? Did they take too much comfort from the fact that he was a teacher and safeguarding lead and so relied on that rather than carry out their own inquiries? This is a classic trap and one which fraudsters and wrongdoers of all types exploit: they get past one check and then never get properly checked again because everyone else relies on that one check. And was this couple really the best set of adoptive parents to be found in Oldham?

    Even very intelligent people can be horrifyingly naive about offenders and offences and what stones to turn over to look for them. And very naive about the lengths deviant people like Varley and his partner will go to to satisfy their deviancy.

    Remember this case when people start talking about making surrogacy even easier than it is. There are far fewer checks than with adoptions and there has already been one horrific case in the US of two men buying a surrogate baby for the purpose of sexual abuse. Babies are not commodities to be bought and sold.

    You raise many good points as to whether social workers did X or Y.

    My experience from interacting with them over adult social care is they are under intense time pressure as the caseload is bonkers.

    Yes but let's not ignore the sentiments behind the post.

    Is she arguing gay men looking to adopt should be subjected to more scrutiny than straight men who are in a relationship with a woman? Because they are innately more dangerous? I suspect she is.
    That would obviously be wrong. But, on the other hand, if being male is a recognised risk factor 2 men in a relationship would surely have a higher statistical risk. Its only statistics though. this is a recent case of murder by a female of a young child:https://www.pressreader.com/uk/the-courier-advertiser-fife-edition/20260529/281745571049789

    I also recall a couple of years ago a gay female couple who got done for killing a child by abuse and neglect in Fife.
    Edit, it is actually quite a bit longer ago than I remembered, 2016: https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-edinburgh-east-fife-36333032 A horrific case as bad as the current one in many respects.
    Sadly, roughly one child a week dies from Non-Accidental Injury per week. Many more are injured. It is only the more unusual cases that make the news. The vast majority are from parents and step parents.

  • rottenboroughrottenborough Posts: 72,628

    Andrew Lilico
    @andrew_lilico
    ·
    6m
    Receiving advice & taking advice are by no means the same thing!

  • BenpointerBenpointer Posts: 37,114
    Andy_JS said:

    Makerfield

    Lab 1.1
    Ref 11
    Rest 75
    Grn 1000
    Con 1000
    LD 10000

    https://www.betfair.com/exchange/plus/politics/market/1.258206408

    Are you still of the opinion it's going to be close Andy? Your track record is very good.
  • rottenboroughrottenborough Posts: 72,628
    Andy_JS said:

    Makerfield

    Lab 1.1
    Ref 11
    Rest 75
    Grn 1000
    Con 1000
    LD 10000

    https://www.betfair.com/exchange/plus/politics/market/1.258206408

    I have a tiny bet on Restore from two weeks ago at 25/1 because if the Reichstag fire just happened in Makerfield I would like one last curry meal outing with my mates to be 'on the house' as it were.

  • FoxyFoxy Posts: 57,034
    Andy_JS said:

    Makerfield

    Lab 1.1
    Ref 11
    Rest 75
    Grn 1000
    Con 1000
    LD 10000

    https://www.betfair.com/exchange/plus/politics/market/1.258206408

    A much thinner marker in Aberdeen South but SNP on 1.23 with Con on 3.3 and both Lab and Ref on 4
  • rottenboroughrottenborough Posts: 72,628


    Ashley Armstrong
    @AArmstrong_says

    EXCL: Andy Burnham has drafted in former chair of OBR, Richard Hughes, to advise on fiscal rules. Burnham is still trying to live down “in hock to the bond markets” comments
    Hughes stepped down from OBR in Dec after it leaked the Budget prematurely online

    https://x.com/AArmstrong_says/status/2067641925679620117

    Never diss the bond markets . They are far more powerful than you !
    James Carville alert!

    Maybe there should be some PB code for a Carville moment?

    Like a Mike Godwin law?

  • williamglennwilliamglenn Posts: 60,087
    Andy_JS said:

    Makerfield

    Lab 1.1
    Ref 11
    Rest 75
    Grn 1000
    Con 1000
    LD 10000

    https://www.betfair.com/exchange/plus/politics/market/1.258206408

    Unless they're obviously having to weigh the votes for Burnham, there's got to be a big chance that rumours will push the Labour odds out at some point between now and the declaration.
  • viewcodeviewcode Posts: 28,937
    DavidL said:

    ...Its only statistics though...

    Go to your room young man, and don't come back down until you can tell me what you did wrong.
  • FoxyFoxy Posts: 57,034
    edited 7:04PM

    Andy_JS said:

    Makerfield

    Lab 1.1
    Ref 11
    Rest 75
    Grn 1000
    Con 1000
    LD 10000

    https://www.betfair.com/exchange/plus/politics/market/1.258206408

    Are you still of the opinion it's going to be close Andy? Your track record is very good.
    Consituency polling supports those odds, and in G and D underestimated the Anti-Reform vote.

    I still think comfortable win for Andy Burnham. SNP hold both in Scotland against divided opposition.
  • CyclefreeCyclefree Posts: 26,318
    MelonB said:

    Cyclefree said:

    "Varley's evil and graphic sexual abuse is beyond contempt. I don't believe a general extrapolation should be made because Varley was either, white, male, a teacher or gay."

    Well, one of those characteristics is a risk factor for crime - and particularly for sexual crimes against children: being male. His partner was also convicted of various offences. And he, Varley, was not just a teacher but safeguarding lead at his school.

    That does not mean that no men should ever adopt. It should mean that those doing the due diligence need to be very very thorough in their assessment - of character, history, motivation, lifestyle, ability to look after a baby, understanding of what looking after a very young baby involves and ability to do so - ie the emotional resilience to cope with a baby's needs and helping him thrive and develop, family support, female involvement, friends, hobbies etc etc . And not just all that.

    Those doing the due diligence need a sceptical investigative mind.

    The adoption went through pretty quickly. How good, how extensive was the due diligence? Did they pick up his extensive viewing of seriously revolting porn? Did they ask to look at his and his partner's computer and phones? Did they take too much comfort from the fact that he was a teacher and safeguarding lead and so relied on that rather than carry out their own inquiries? This is a classic trap and one which fraudsters and wrongdoers of all types exploit: they get past one check and then never get properly checked again because everyone else relies on that one check. And was this couple really the best set of adoptive parents to be found in Oldham?

    Even very intelligent people can be horrifyingly naive about offenders and offences and what stones to turn over to look for them. And very naive about the lengths deviant people like Varley and his partner will go to to satisfy their deviancy.

    Remember this case when people start talking about making surrogacy even easier than it is. There are far fewer checks than with adoptions and there has already been one horrific case in the US of two men buying a surrogate baby for the purpose of sexual abuse. Babies are not commodities to be bought and sold.

    You raise many good points as to whether social workers did X or Y.

    My experience from interacting with them over adult social care is they are under intense time pressure as the caseload is bonkers.

    Yes but let's not ignore the sentiments behind the post.

    Is she arguing gay men looking to adopt should be subjected to more scrutiny than straight men who are in a relationship with a woman? Because they are innately more dangerous? I suspect she is.
    No. Read it again. Carefully this time. I said that of all the factors listed - white, male, teacher, gay - there was only one which is a well known risk factor: being male. Not being gay.

    When doing checks, the scrutiny of the men should be very very thorough. And that applies to whether the man is straight, gay, in a relationship or single. Heterosexual men abuse children too.

    It is the maleness which is the risk factor. Not the sexuality.

    The sentiment behind my post was triggered by the apparent lack of effective due diligence. Because it has been my experience from the thousands of investigations I have done that, when you uncover a wrong'un, there is always a clue, usually several, many of them red flags, that the person was a wrong' un and, that for a variety of reasons these were either not spotted or, if spotted, not acted on. I will be interested to see what the Serious Case Review will show here.

    And it was a private adoption agency which placed this baby with this couple, which may also be a factor. The agency is still operating. How competent and effective are they?
  • DumbosaurusDumbosaurus Posts: 1,069
    edited 7:07PM

    Andy_JS said:

    Makerfield

    Lab 1.1
    Ref 11
    Rest 75
    Grn 1000
    Con 1000
    LD 10000

    https://www.betfair.com/exchange/plus/politics/market/1.258206408

    Unless they're obviously having to weigh the votes for Burnham, there's got to be a big chance that rumours will push the Labour odds out at some point between now and the declaration.
    Yup, although the better way to play that is fade the rumour, not lay now in anticipation therof

    Not that I will be bothering to stay up. Is there an exit poll?
  • DavidLDavidL Posts: 59,116
    viewcode said:

    DavidL said:

    ...Its only statistics though...

    Go to your room young man, and don't come back down until you can tell me what you did wrong.
    As Oakes once said, I may be some time. Really not sure what has caused offence here.
  • CookieCookie Posts: 17,623
    edited 7:10PM
    DavidL said:

    viewcode said:

    DavidL said:

    ...Its only statistics though...

    Go to your room young man, and don't come back down until you can tell me what you did wrong.
    As Oakes once said, I may be some time. Really not sure what has caused offence here.
    Viewcode is a statistician. 'Only statistics' was a bit of a verbal wedgie
  • Sunil_PrasannanSunil_Prasannan Posts: 60,011
    Cookie said:

    DavidL said:

    viewcode said:

    DavidL said:

    ...Its only statistics though...

    Go to your room young man, and don't come back down until you can tell me what you did wrong.
    As Oakes once said, I may be some time. Really not sure what has caused offence here.
    Viewcode is a statistician. 'Only statistics' was a bit of a verbal wedgie
    Liars, damn liars, and statisticians?

    #justkiddin'
  • DavidLDavidL Posts: 59,116
    Cookie said:

    DavidL said:

    viewcode said:

    DavidL said:

    ...Its only statistics though...

    Go to your room young man, and don't come back down until you can tell me what you did wrong.
    As Oakes once said, I may be some time. Really not sure what has caused offence here.
    Viewcode is a statistician. 'Only statistics' was a bit of a verbal wedgie
    Would he have preferred dammed lies?
  • AramintaMoonbeamQCAramintaMoonbeamQC Posts: 4,129
    Are we expecting about 4am declarations for Makerfield? Trying to time my power nap and fit in some exam marking.
  • CyclefreeCyclefree Posts: 26,318
    DavidL said:

    MelonB said:

    Cyclefree said:

    "Varley's evil and graphic sexual abuse is beyond contempt. I don't believe a general extrapolation should be made because Varley was either, white, male, a teacher or gay."

    Well, one of those characteristics is a risk factor for crime - and particularly for sexual crimes against children: being male. His partner was also convicted of various offences. And he, Varley, was not just a teacher but safeguarding lead at his school.

    That does not mean that no men should ever adopt. It should mean that those doing the due diligence need to be very very thorough in their assessment - of character, history, motivation, lifestyle, ability to look after a baby, understanding of what looking after a very young baby involves and ability to do so - ie the emotional resilience to cope with a baby's needs and helping him thrive and develop, family support, female involvement, friends, hobbies etc etc . And not just all that.

    Those doing the due diligence need a sceptical investigative mind.

    The adoption went through pretty quickly. How good, how extensive was the due diligence? Did they pick up his extensive viewing of seriously revolting porn? Did they ask to look at his and his partner's computer and phones? Did they take too much comfort from the fact that he was a teacher and safeguarding lead and so relied on that rather than carry out their own inquiries? This is a classic trap and one which fraudsters and wrongdoers of all types exploit: they get past one check and then never get properly checked again because everyone else relies on that one check. And was this couple really the best set of adoptive parents to be found in Oldham?

    Even very intelligent people can be horrifyingly naive about offenders and offences and what stones to turn over to look for them. And very naive about the lengths deviant people like Varley and his partner will go to to satisfy their deviancy.

    Remember this case when people start talking about making surrogacy even easier than it is. There are far fewer checks than with adoptions and there has already been one horrific case in the US of two men buying a surrogate baby for the purpose of sexual abuse. Babies are not commodities to be bought and sold.

    You raise many good points as to whether social workers did X or Y.

    My experience from interacting with them over adult social care is they are under intense time pressure as the caseload is bonkers.

    Yes but let's not ignore the sentiments behind the post.

    Is she arguing gay men looking to adopt should be subjected to more scrutiny than straight men who are in a relationship with a woman? Because they are innately more dangerous? I suspect she is.
    That would obviously be wrong. But, on the other hand, if being male is a recognised risk factor 2 men in a relationship would surely have a higher statistical risk. Its only statistics though. this is a recent case of murder by a female of a young child:https://www.pressreader.com/uk/the-courier-advertiser-fife-edition/20260529/281745571049789

    I also recall a couple of years ago a gay female couple who got done for killing a child by abuse and neglect in Fife.
    Edit, it is actually quite a bit longer ago than I remembered, 2016: https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-edinburgh-east-fife-36333032 A horrific case as bad as the current one in many respects.
    Oh, undoubtedly women abuse children too: Baby P, Arthur Labinjo-Hughes, Victoria Climbie etc.

    I think, for the avoidance of doubt, checks should be very very extensive on anyone looking to adopt. And if there are particular risk factors among prospective adoptive parents, these should be looked at very carefully indeed. The use of extreme pornography should be a no-no in my view.

    Adoption of a child is not some sort of right for adults. It is something we do for children so we owe it to them to put them with the best possible parents and keep a close eye on them thereafter. A child should not go from happy and healthy to dead - with many injuries in between - in the space of barely 3 months.
  • CatManCatMan Posts: 3,859
    Cookie said:

    DavidL said:

    viewcode said:

    DavidL said:

    ...Its only statistics though...

    Go to your room young man, and don't come back down until you can tell me what you did wrong.
    As Oakes once said, I may be some time. Really not sure what has caused offence here.
    Viewcode is a statistician. 'Only statistics' was a bit of a verbal wedgie
    As with a lot of things, The Simpsons sums it up perfectly:

    https://youtu.be/c1cpA4M0Hgo?is=Y-7ZYUJnOTB_-RE0
  • FoxyFoxy Posts: 57,034
    Cyclefree said:

    MelonB said:

    Cyclefree said:

    "Varley's evil and graphic sexual abuse is beyond contempt. I don't believe a general extrapolation should be made because Varley was either, white, male, a teacher or gay."

    Well, one of those characteristics is a risk factor for crime - and particularly for sexual crimes against children: being male. His partner was also convicted of various offences. And he, Varley, was not just a teacher but safeguarding lead at his school.

    That does not mean that no men should ever adopt. It should mean that those doing the due diligence need to be very very thorough in their assessment - of character, history, motivation, lifestyle, ability to look after a baby, understanding of what looking after a very young baby involves and ability to do so - ie the emotional resilience to cope with a baby's needs and helping him thrive and develop, family support, female involvement, friends, hobbies etc etc . And not just all that.

    Those doing the due diligence need a sceptical investigative mind.

    The adoption went through pretty quickly. How good, how extensive was the due diligence? Did they pick up his extensive viewing of seriously revolting porn? Did they ask to look at his and his partner's computer and phones? Did they take too much comfort from the fact that he was a teacher and safeguarding lead and so relied on that rather than carry out their own inquiries? This is a classic trap and one which fraudsters and wrongdoers of all types exploit: they get past one check and then never get properly checked again because everyone else relies on that one check. And was this couple really the best set of adoptive parents to be found in Oldham?

    Even very intelligent people can be horrifyingly naive about offenders and offences and what stones to turn over to look for them. And very naive about the lengths deviant people like Varley and his partner will go to to satisfy their deviancy.

    Remember this case when people start talking about making surrogacy even easier than it is. There are far fewer checks than with adoptions and there has already been one horrific case in the US of two men buying a surrogate baby for the purpose of sexual abuse. Babies are not commodities to be bought and sold.

    You raise many good points as to whether social workers did X or Y.

    My experience from interacting with them over adult social care is they are under intense time pressure as the caseload is bonkers.

    Yes but let's not ignore the sentiments behind the post.

    Is she arguing gay men looking to adopt should be subjected to more scrutiny than straight men who are in a relationship with a woman? Because they are innately more dangerous? I suspect she is.
    No. Read it again. Carefully this time. I said that of all the factors listed - white, male, teacher, gay - there was only one which is a well known risk factor: being male. Not being gay.

    When doing checks, the scrutiny of the men should be very very thorough. And that applies to whether the man is straight, gay, in a relationship or single. Heterosexual men abuse children too.

    It is the maleness which is the risk factor. Not the sexuality.

    The sentiment behind my post was triggered by the apparent lack of effective due diligence. Because it has been my experience from the thousands of investigations I have done that, when you uncover a wrong'un, there is always a clue, usually several, many of them red flags, that the person was a wrong' un and, that for a variety of reasons these were either not spotted or, if spotted, not acted on. I will be interested to see what the Serious Case Review will show here.

    And it was a private adoption agency which placed this baby with this couple, which may also be a factor. The agency is still operating. How competent and effective are they?
    I think there has been a push in recent years for adoption as fostering is both expensive and unstable, and that has created a market for these agencies.

    It was the 3rd hospital visit with the elbow fracture that should have been the red flag. 13 month babies almost never get such injuries naturally. There was a Social Work assessment afterwards but clearly did not pick up on the danger.
  • rottenboroughrottenborough Posts: 72,628
    Cyclefree said:

    MelonB said:

    Cyclefree said:

    "Varley's evil and graphic sexual abuse is beyond contempt. I don't believe a general extrapolation should be made because Varley was either, white, male, a teacher or gay."

    Well, one of those characteristics is a risk factor for crime - and particularly for sexual crimes against children: being male. His partner was also convicted of various offences. And he, Varley, was not just a teacher but safeguarding lead at his school.

    That does not mean that no men should ever adopt. It should mean that those doing the due diligence need to be very very thorough in their assessment - of character, history, motivation, lifestyle, ability to look after a baby, understanding of what looking after a very young baby involves and ability to do so - ie the emotional resilience to cope with a baby's needs and helping him thrive and develop, family support, female involvement, friends, hobbies etc etc . And not just all that.

    Those doing the due diligence need a sceptical investigative mind.

    The adoption went through pretty quickly. How good, how extensive was the due diligence? Did they pick up his extensive viewing of seriously revolting porn? Did they ask to look at his and his partner's computer and phones? Did they take too much comfort from the fact that he was a teacher and safeguarding lead and so relied on that rather than carry out their own inquiries? This is a classic trap and one which fraudsters and wrongdoers of all types exploit: they get past one check and then never get properly checked again because everyone else relies on that one check. And was this couple really the best set of adoptive parents to be found in Oldham?

    Even very intelligent people can be horrifyingly naive about offenders and offences and what stones to turn over to look for them. And very naive about the lengths deviant people like Varley and his partner will go to to satisfy their deviancy.

    Remember this case when people start talking about making surrogacy even easier than it is. There are far fewer checks than with adoptions and there has already been one horrific case in the US of two men buying a surrogate baby for the purpose of sexual abuse. Babies are not commodities to be bought and sold.

    You raise many good points as to whether social workers did X or Y.

    My experience from interacting with them over adult social care is they are under intense time pressure as the caseload is bonkers.

    Yes but let's not ignore the sentiments behind the post.

    Is she arguing gay men looking to adopt should be subjected to more scrutiny than straight men who are in a relationship with a woman? Because they are innately more dangerous? I suspect she is.
    No. Read it again. Carefully this time. I said that of all the factors listed - white, male, teacher, gay - there was only one which is a well known risk factor: being male. Not being gay.

    When doing checks, the scrutiny of the men should be very very thorough. And that applies to whether the man is straight, gay, in a relationship or single. Heterosexual men abuse children too.

    It is the maleness which is the risk factor. Not the sexuality.

    The sentiment behind my post was triggered by the apparent lack of effective due diligence. Because it has been my experience from the thousands of investigations I have done that, when you uncover a wrong'un, there is always a clue, usually several, many of them red flags, that the person was a wrong' un and, that for a variety of reasons these were either not spotted or, if spotted, not acted on. I will be interested to see what the Serious Case Review will show here.

    And it was a private adoption agency which placed this baby with this couple, which may also be a factor. The agency is still operating. How competent and effective are they?
    So, two things.

    One - will we see the transcripts/notes from social workers as they assessed these two maniacs for whether they could be parents?

    Maybe we have - and I have missed it???

    Two - what's the betting a private adoption agency is under pressure for cash flow to do X and Y???

  • rottenboroughrottenborough Posts: 72,628

    Are we expecting about 4am declarations for Makerfield? Trying to time my power nap and fit in some exam marking.

    It's a TRIPE breakfast at 6 am followed by the March on Westminster.

    Jarrow march style but on the WCML.

    Burnham to take Tuesday's regular Cabinet meeting????



  • FoxyFoxy Posts: 57,034
    edited 7:20PM

    Are we expecting about 4am declarations for Makerfield? Trying to time my power nap and fit in some exam marking.

    The Mexico vs South Korea match at 0200 sounds quite competitive if you are planning an all-nighter.

    Presumably the Scottish seats will be a similar time.
  • AramintaMoonbeamQCAramintaMoonbeamQC Posts: 4,129
    Foxy said:

    Are we expecting about 4am declarations for Makerfield? Trying to time my power nap and fit in some exam marking.

    The Mexico vs South Korea match at 0200 sounds quite competitive if you are planning an all-nighter.

    Presumably the Scottish seats will be a similar time.
    It is tempting just to stay up and watch football, not gonna lie.
  • dixiedeandixiedean Posts: 32,667
    Cyclefree said:

    MelonB said:

    Cyclefree said:

    "Varley's evil and graphic sexual abuse is beyond contempt. I don't believe a general extrapolation should be made because Varley was either, white, male, a teacher or gay."

    Well, one of those characteristics is a risk factor for crime - and particularly for sexual crimes against children: being male. His partner was also convicted of various offences. And he, Varley, was not just a teacher but safeguarding lead at his school.

    That does not mean that no men should ever adopt. It should mean that those doing the due diligence need to be very very thorough in their assessment - of character, history, motivation, lifestyle, ability to look after a baby, understanding of what looking after a very young baby involves and ability to do so - ie the emotional resilience to cope with a baby's needs and helping him thrive and develop, family support, female involvement, friends, hobbies etc etc . And not just all that.

    Those doing the due diligence need a sceptical investigative mind.

    The adoption went through pretty quickly. How good, how extensive was the due diligence? Did they pick up his extensive viewing of seriously revolting porn? Did they ask to look at his and his partner's computer and phones? Did they take too much comfort from the fact that he was a teacher and safeguarding lead and so relied on that rather than carry out their own inquiries? This is a classic trap and one which fraudsters and wrongdoers of all types exploit: they get past one check and then never get properly checked again because everyone else relies on that one check. And was this couple really the best set of adoptive parents to be found in Oldham?

    Even very intelligent people can be horrifyingly naive about offenders and offences and what stones to turn over to look for them. And very naive about the lengths deviant people like Varley and his partner will go to to satisfy their deviancy.

    Remember this case when people start talking about making surrogacy even easier than it is. There are far fewer checks than with adoptions and there has already been one horrific case in the US of two men buying a surrogate baby for the purpose of sexual abuse. Babies are not commodities to be bought and sold.

    You raise many good points as to whether social workers did X or Y.

    My experience from interacting with them over adult social care is they are under intense time pressure as the caseload is bonkers.

    Yes but let's not ignore the sentiments behind the post.

    Is she arguing gay men looking to adopt should be subjected to more scrutiny than straight men who are in a relationship with a woman? Because they are innately more dangerous? I suspect she is.
    No. Read it again. Carefully this time. I said that of all the factors listed - white, male, teacher, gay - there was only one which is a well known risk factor: being male. Not being gay.

    When doing checks, the scrutiny of the men should be very very thorough. And that applies to whether the man is straight, gay, in a relationship or single. Heterosexual men abuse children too.

    It is the maleness which is the risk factor. Not the sexuality.

    The sentiment behind my post was triggered by the apparent lack of effective due diligence. Because it has been my experience from the thousands of investigations I have done that, when you uncover a wrong'un, there is always a clue, usually several, many of them red flags, that the person was a wrong' un and, that for a variety of reasons these were either not spotted or, if spotted, not acted on. I will be interested to see what the Serious Case Review will show here.

    And it was a private adoption agency which placed this baby with this couple, which may also be a factor. The agency is still operating. How competent and effective are they?
    Who's going to do these very thorough checks?
  • TheScreamingEaglesTheScreamingEagles Posts: 128,877

    Foxy said:

    Are we expecting about 4am declarations for Makerfield? Trying to time my power nap and fit in some exam marking.

    The Mexico vs South Korea match at 0200 sounds quite competitive if you are planning an all-nighter.

    Presumably the Scottish seats will be a similar time.
    It is tempting just to stay up and watch football, not gonna lie.
    My plan is early night tonight as tomorrow has the Scotland match which kicks off at 11pm.
  • AramintaMoonbeamQCAramintaMoonbeamQC Posts: 4,129

    Foxy said:

    Are we expecting about 4am declarations for Makerfield? Trying to time my power nap and fit in some exam marking.

    The Mexico vs South Korea match at 0200 sounds quite competitive if you are planning an all-nighter.

    Presumably the Scottish seats will be a similar time.
    It is tempting just to stay up and watch football, not gonna lie.
    My plan is early night tonight as tomorrow has the Scotland match which kicks off at 11pm.
    This whole World Cup in which Scotland are competitive, plus by elections, and A level marking is very inconvenient for me. When will Burnham condemn?
  • DoctorGDoctorG Posts: 775
    Evening everyone

    Putting my head on the block

    I'll go for Burnham win in Makerfield by 4,500 over Reform/Restore etc

    Arbroath

    Snp win by 3000 over Lab, Reform third

    Aberdeen South

    SNP win by 1,500 over Tory, something like

    Snp 31.5 %
    Con 27
    Ref 16
    Lab 12
  • kle4kle4 Posts: 103,921
    DoctorG said:

    Evening everyone

    Putting my head on the block

    I'll go for Burnham win in Makerfield by 4,500 over Reform/Restore etc

    Arbroath

    Snp win by 3000 over Lab, Reform third

    Aberdeen South

    SNP win by 1,500 over Tory, something like

    Snp 31.5 %
    Con 27
    Ref 16
    Lab 12

    All looks pretty plausible to me, only I'd reverse the Con/Reform scores.
  • FairlieredFairliered Posts: 8,148
    DavidL said:

    Cyclefree said:

    DavidL said:

    MelonB said:

    Cyclefree said:

    "Varley's evil and graphic sexual abuse is beyond contempt. I don't believe a general extrapolation should be made because Varley was either, white, male, a teacher or gay."

    Well, one of those characteristics is a risk factor for crime - and particularly for sexual crimes against children: being male. His partner was also convicted of various offences. And he, Varley, was not just a teacher but safeguarding lead at his school.

    That does not mean that no men should ever adopt. It should mean that those doing the due diligence need to be very very thorough in their assessment - of character, history, motivation, lifestyle, ability to look after a baby, understanding of what looking after a very young baby involves and ability to do so - ie the emotional resilience to cope with a baby's needs and helping him thrive and develop, family support, female involvement, friends, hobbies etc etc . And not just all that.

    Those doing the due diligence need a sceptical investigative mind.

    The adoption went through pretty quickly. How good, how extensive was the due diligence? Did they pick up his extensive viewing of seriously revolting porn? Did they ask to look at his and his partner's computer and phones? Did they take too much comfort from the fact that he was a teacher and safeguarding lead and so relied on that rather than carry out their own inquiries? This is a classic trap and one which fraudsters and wrongdoers of all types exploit: they get past one check and then never get properly checked again because everyone else relies on that one check. And was this couple really the best set of adoptive parents to be found in Oldham?

    Even very intelligent people can be horrifyingly naive about offenders and offences and what stones to turn over to look for them. And very naive about the lengths deviant people like Varley and his partner will go to to satisfy their deviancy.

    Remember this case when people start talking about making surrogacy even easier than it is. There are far fewer checks than with adoptions and there has already been one horrific case in the US of two men buying a surrogate baby for the purpose of sexual abuse. Babies are not commodities to be bought and sold.

    You raise many good points as to whether social workers did X or Y.

    My experience from interacting with them over adult social care is they are under intense time pressure as the caseload is bonkers.

    Yes but let's not ignore the sentiments behind the post.

    Is she arguing gay men looking to adopt should be subjected to more scrutiny than straight men who are in a relationship with a woman? Because they are innately more dangerous? I suspect she is.
    That would obviously be wrong. But, on the other hand, if being male is a recognised risk factor 2 men in a relationship would surely have a higher statistical risk. Its only statistics though. this is a recent case of murder by a female of a young child:https://www.pressreader.com/uk/the-courier-advertiser-fife-edition/20260529/281745571049789

    I also recall a couple of years ago a gay female couple who got done for killing a child by abuse and neglect in Fife.
    Edit, it is actually quite a bit longer ago than I remembered, 2016: https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-edinburgh-east-fife-36333032 A horrific case as bad as the current one in many respects.
    Oh, undoubtedly women abuse children too: Baby P, Arthur Labinjo-Hughes, Victoria Climbie etc.

    I think, for the avoidance of doubt, checks should be very very extensive on anyone looking to adopt. And if there are particular risk factors among prospective adoptive parents, these should be looked at very carefully indeed. The use of extreme pornography should be a no-no in my view.

    Adoption of a child is not some sort of right for adults. It is something we do for children so we owe it to them to put them with the best possible parents and keep a close eye on them thereafter. A child should not go from happy and healthy to dead - with many injuries in between - in the space of barely 3 months.
    I obviously agree that the test for adoption is the best interests of the child. However, I think you also need to recognise that the risks of abuse, including abuse we are not allowed to talk about, whilst in care are horrendous. Most children are both safer and better cared for once they are adopted than being in a care home.

    The problem with your approach is that it would become so intrusive that very few would be willing to go through the process resulting in even more children being abused and the use of adoption being severely curtailed.

    I do think that one of the major problems we have in this country is the completely bizarre idea that you can regulate risk out of existence, if only we have a few more hurdles and rules. The awful Soham murder case led to the current regulations for PVG scheme membership. This has caused enormous damage to many voluntary organisations. Has it really made children any safer? I think the evidence is thin, at best.
    PVG only picks up anything that has been recorded. If the person being checked has no relevant recorded history, the system won’t pick them up. It’s a typical arse covering piece of paper beloved by our administrators.
  • bigjohnowlsbigjohnowls Posts: 23,744
    Do we have a declaration time for the Kings Coronation?
  • FoxyFoxy Posts: 57,034
    DavidL said:

    Cyclefree said:

    DavidL said:

    MelonB said:

    Cyclefree said:

    "Varley's evil and graphic sexual abuse is beyond contempt. I don't believe a general extrapolation should be made because Varley was either, white, male, a teacher or gay."

    Well, one of those characteristics is a risk factor for crime - and particularly for sexual crimes against children: being male. His partner was also convicted of various offences. And he, Varley, was not just a teacher but safeguarding lead at his school.

    That does not mean that no men should ever adopt. It should mean that those doing the due diligence need to be very very thorough in their assessment - of character, history, motivation, lifestyle, ability to look after a baby, understanding of what looking after a very young baby involves and ability to do so - ie the emotional resilience to cope with a baby's needs and helping him thrive and develop, family support, female involvement, friends, hobbies etc etc . And not just all that.

    Those doing the due diligence need a sceptical investigative mind.

    The adoption went through pretty quickly. How good, how extensive was the due diligence? Did they pick up his extensive viewing of seriously revolting porn? Did they ask to look at his and his partner's computer and phones? Did they take too much comfort from the fact that he was a teacher and safeguarding lead and so relied on that rather than carry out their own inquiries? This is a classic trap and one which fraudsters and wrongdoers of all types exploit: they get past one check and then never get properly checked again because everyone else relies on that one check. And was this couple really the best set of adoptive parents to be found in Oldham?

    Even very intelligent people can be horrifyingly naive about offenders and offences and what stones to turn over to look for them. And very naive about the lengths deviant people like Varley and his partner will go to to satisfy their deviancy.

    Remember this case when people start talking about making surrogacy even easier than it is. There are far fewer checks than with adoptions and there has already been one horrific case in the US of two men buying a surrogate baby for the purpose of sexual abuse. Babies are not commodities to be bought and sold.

    You raise many good points as to whether social workers did X or Y.

    My experience from interacting with them over adult social care is they are under intense time pressure as the caseload is bonkers.

    Yes but let's not ignore the sentiments behind the post.

    Is she arguing gay men looking to adopt should be subjected to more scrutiny than straight men who are in a relationship with a woman? Because they are innately more dangerous? I suspect she is.
    That would obviously be wrong. But, on the other hand, if being male is a recognised risk factor 2 men in a relationship would surely have a higher statistical risk. Its only statistics though. this is a recent case of murder by a female of a young child:https://www.pressreader.com/uk/the-courier-advertiser-fife-edition/20260529/281745571049789

    I also recall a couple of years ago a gay female couple who got done for killing a child by abuse and neglect in Fife.
    Edit, it is actually quite a bit longer ago than I remembered, 2016: https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-edinburgh-east-fife-36333032 A horrific case as bad as the current one in many respects.
    Oh, undoubtedly women abuse children too: Baby P, Arthur Labinjo-Hughes, Victoria Climbie etc.

    I think, for the avoidance of doubt, checks should be very very extensive on anyone looking to adopt. And if there are particular risk factors among prospective adoptive parents, these should be looked at very carefully indeed. The use of extreme pornography should be a no-no in my view.

    Adoption of a child is not some sort of right for adults. It is something we do for children so we owe it to them to put them with the best possible parents and keep a close eye on them thereafter. A child should not go from happy and healthy to dead - with many injuries in between - in the space of barely 3 months.
    I obviously agree that the test for adoption is the best interests of the child. However, I think you also need to recognise that the risks of abuse, including abuse we are not allowed to talk about, whilst in care are horrendous. Most children are both safer and better cared for once they are adopted than being in a care home.

    The problem with your approach is that it would become so intrusive that very few would be willing to go through the process resulting in even more children being abused and the use of adoption being severely curtailed.

    I do think that one of the major problems we have in this country is the completely bizarre idea that you can regulate risk out of existence, if only we have a few more hurdles and rules. The awful Soham murder case led to the current regulations for PVG scheme membership. This has caused enormous damage to many voluntary organisations. Has it really made children any safer? I think the evidence is thin, at best.
    I agree. Indeed in the government's Adoption strategy from 2021 there is a deliberate policy of reducing red tape in order to accelerate adoptions and to not turn down so many prospective parents. In part this was of cases where Social Workers refused to accept some parents, causing a tabloid furore.
  • DavidLDavidL Posts: 59,116

    Foxy said:

    Are we expecting about 4am declarations for Makerfield? Trying to time my power nap and fit in some exam marking.

    The Mexico vs South Korea match at 0200 sounds quite competitive if you are planning an all-nighter.

    Presumably the Scottish seats will be a similar time.
    It is tempting just to stay up and watch football, not gonna lie.
    My plan is early night tonight as tomorrow has the Scotland match which kicks off at 11pm.
    This whole World Cup in which Scotland are competitive, plus by elections, and A level marking is very inconvenient for me. When will Burnham condemn?
    You haven't been paying sufficient attention. If you want Burnham to condemn something or agree with the same thing you only need to be the last person to ask him.
  • TheScreamingEaglesTheScreamingEagles Posts: 128,877

    Foxy said:

    Are we expecting about 4am declarations for Makerfield? Trying to time my power nap and fit in some exam marking.

    The Mexico vs South Korea match at 0200 sounds quite competitive if you are planning an all-nighter.

    Presumably the Scottish seats will be a similar time.
    It is tempting just to stay up and watch football, not gonna lie.
    My plan is early night tonight as tomorrow has the Scotland match which kicks off at 11pm.
    This whole World Cup in which Scotland are competitive, plus by elections, and A level marking is very inconvenient for me. When will Burnham condemn?
    I know, I am also watching Scotland being competitive in the women's T20 world cup right now.

    I cancelled all my meetings for tomorrow, I told the CEO, COO, and CFO, soz the meeting has to take place on Monday.
  • CookieCookie Posts: 17,623
    Foxy said:

    DavidL said:

    Cyclefree said:

    DavidL said:

    MelonB said:

    Cyclefree said:

    "Varley's evil and graphic sexual abuse is beyond contempt. I don't believe a general extrapolation should be made because Varley was either, white, male, a teacher or gay."

    Well, one of those characteristics is a risk factor for crime - and particularly for sexual crimes against children: being male. His partner was also convicted of various offences. And he, Varley, was not just a teacher but safeguarding lead at his school.

    That does not mean that no men should ever adopt. It should mean that those doing the due diligence need to be very very thorough in their assessment - of character, history, motivation, lifestyle, ability to look after a baby, understanding of what looking after a very young baby involves and ability to do so - ie the emotional resilience to cope with a baby's needs and helping him thrive and develop, family support, female involvement, friends, hobbies etc etc . And not just all that.

    Those doing the due diligence need a sceptical investigative mind.

    The adoption went through pretty quickly. How good, how extensive was the due diligence? Did they pick up his extensive viewing of seriously revolting porn? Did they ask to look at his and his partner's computer and phones? Did they take too much comfort from the fact that he was a teacher and safeguarding lead and so relied on that rather than carry out their own inquiries? This is a classic trap and one which fraudsters and wrongdoers of all types exploit: they get past one check and then never get properly checked again because everyone else relies on that one check. And was this couple really the best set of adoptive parents to be found in Oldham?

    Even very intelligent people can be horrifyingly naive about offenders and offences and what stones to turn over to look for them. And very naive about the lengths deviant people like Varley and his partner will go to to satisfy their deviancy.

    Remember this case when people start talking about making surrogacy even easier than it is. There are far fewer checks than with adoptions and there has already been one horrific case in the US of two men buying a surrogate baby for the purpose of sexual abuse. Babies are not commodities to be bought and sold.

    You raise many good points as to whether social workers did X or Y.

    My experience from interacting with them over adult social care is they are under intense time pressure as the caseload is bonkers.

    Yes but let's not ignore the sentiments behind the post.

    Is she arguing gay men looking to adopt should be subjected to more scrutiny than straight men who are in a relationship with a woman? Because they are innately more dangerous? I suspect she is.
    That would obviously be wrong. But, on the other hand, if being male is a recognised risk factor 2 men in a relationship would surely have a higher statistical risk. Its only statistics though. this is a recent case of murder by a female of a young child:https://www.pressreader.com/uk/the-courier-advertiser-fife-edition/20260529/281745571049789

    I also recall a couple of years ago a gay female couple who got done for killing a child by abuse and neglect in Fife.
    Edit, it is actually quite a bit longer ago than I remembered, 2016: https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-edinburgh-east-fife-36333032 A horrific case as bad as the current one in many respects.
    Oh, undoubtedly women abuse children too: Baby P, Arthur Labinjo-Hughes, Victoria Climbie etc.

    I think, for the avoidance of doubt, checks should be very very extensive on anyone looking to adopt. And if there are particular risk factors among prospective adoptive parents, these should be looked at very carefully indeed. The use of extreme pornography should be a no-no in my view.

    Adoption of a child is not some sort of right for adults. It is something we do for children so we owe it to them to put them with the best possible parents and keep a close eye on them thereafter. A child should not go from happy and healthy to dead - with many injuries in between - in the space of barely 3 months.
    I obviously agree that the test for adoption is the best interests of the child. However, I think you also need to recognise that the risks of abuse, including abuse we are not allowed to talk about, whilst in care are horrendous. Most children are both safer and better cared for once they are adopted than being in a care home.

    The problem with your approach is that it would become so intrusive that very few would be willing to go through the process resulting in even more children being abused and the use of adoption being severely curtailed.

    I do think that one of the major problems we have in this country is the completely bizarre idea that you can regulate risk out of existence, if only we have a few more hurdles and rules. The awful Soham murder case led to the current regulations for PVG scheme membership. This has caused enormous damage to many voluntary organisations. Has it really made children any safer? I think the evidence is thin, at best.
    I agree. Indeed in the government's Adoption strategy from 2021 there is a deliberate policy of reducing red tape in order to accelerate adoptions and to not turn down so many prospective parents. In part this was of cases where Social Workers refused to accept some parents, causing a tabloid furore.
    Was that the one where they were turned down because the parents voted UKIP? (In Rotherham, ironically).
  • DavidLDavidL Posts: 59,116

    Foxy said:

    Are we expecting about 4am declarations for Makerfield? Trying to time my power nap and fit in some exam marking.

    The Mexico vs South Korea match at 0200 sounds quite competitive if you are planning an all-nighter.

    Presumably the Scottish seats will be a similar time.
    It is tempting just to stay up and watch football, not gonna lie.
    My plan is early night tonight as tomorrow has the Scotland match which kicks off at 11pm.
    This whole World Cup in which Scotland are competitive, plus by elections, and A level marking is very inconvenient for me. When will Burnham condemn?
    I know, I am also watching Scotland being competitive in the women's T20 world cup right now.

    I cancelled all my meetings for tomorrow, I told the CEO, COO, and CFO, soz the meeting has to take place on Monday.
    I have a test match, 2 teams to cheer on at the WC, some excellent women's T20 matches and the small matter of an ongoing trial. Its a hectic schedule and I am getting worn out.
  • GarethoftheVale2GarethoftheVale2 Posts: 2,538
    The LD MP for Tewkesbury has been arrested. Sounds like the allegations are serious as temporarily barred from the HoC
  • noneoftheabovenoneoftheabove Posts: 28,101
    DavidL said:

    Foxy said:

    Are we expecting about 4am declarations for Makerfield? Trying to time my power nap and fit in some exam marking.

    The Mexico vs South Korea match at 0200 sounds quite competitive if you are planning an all-nighter.

    Presumably the Scottish seats will be a similar time.
    It is tempting just to stay up and watch football, not gonna lie.
    My plan is early night tonight as tomorrow has the Scotland match which kicks off at 11pm.
    This whole World Cup in which Scotland are competitive, plus by elections, and A level marking is very inconvenient for me. When will Burnham condemn?
    I know, I am also watching Scotland being competitive in the women's T20 world cup right now.

    I cancelled all my meetings for tomorrow, I told the CEO, COO, and CFO, soz the meeting has to take place on Monday.
    I have a test match, 2 teams to cheer on at the WC, some excellent women's T20 matches and the small matter of an ongoing trial. Its a hectic schedule and I am getting worn out.
    Why not relax a bit and catch some of the US Open golf?
  • Andy_JSAndy_JS Posts: 40,315
    Matches involving Switzerland often seem to be boring affairs with no more than 1 or 2 goals being scored.
  • noneoftheabovenoneoftheabove Posts: 28,101

    Do we have a declaration time for the Kings Coronation?

    It has to be in the winter for King of the North surely?
  • Andy_JSAndy_JS Posts: 40,315

    Are we expecting about 4am declarations for Makerfield? Trying to time my power nap and fit in some exam marking.

    4am at the earliest, probably.
  • NigelbNigelb Posts: 90,040
    Foxy said:

    Cyclefree said:

    MelonB said:

    Cyclefree said:

    "Varley's evil and graphic sexual abuse is beyond contempt. I don't believe a general extrapolation should be made because Varley was either, white, male, a teacher or gay."

    Well, one of those characteristics is a risk factor for crime - and particularly for sexual crimes against children: being male. His partner was also convicted of various offences. And he, Varley, was not just a teacher but safeguarding lead at his school.

    That does not mean that no men should ever adopt. It should mean that those doing the due diligence need to be very very thorough in their assessment - of character, history, motivation, lifestyle, ability to look after a baby, understanding of what looking after a very young baby involves and ability to do so - ie the emotional resilience to cope with a baby's needs and helping him thrive and develop, family support, female involvement, friends, hobbies etc etc . And not just all that.

    Those doing the due diligence need a sceptical investigative mind.

    The adoption went through pretty quickly. How good, how extensive was the due diligence? Did they pick up his extensive viewing of seriously revolting porn? Did they ask to look at his and his partner's computer and phones? Did they take too much comfort from the fact that he was a teacher and safeguarding lead and so relied on that rather than carry out their own inquiries? This is a classic trap and one which fraudsters and wrongdoers of all types exploit: they get past one check and then never get properly checked again because everyone else relies on that one check. And was this couple really the best set of adoptive parents to be found in Oldham?

    Even very intelligent people can be horrifyingly naive about offenders and offences and what stones to turn over to look for them. And very naive about the lengths deviant people like Varley and his partner will go to to satisfy their deviancy.

    Remember this case when people start talking about making surrogacy even easier than it is. There are far fewer checks than with adoptions and there has already been one horrific case in the US of two men buying a surrogate baby for the purpose of sexual abuse. Babies are not commodities to be bought and sold.

    You raise many good points as to whether social workers did X or Y.

    My experience from interacting with them over adult social care is they are under intense time pressure as the caseload is bonkers.

    Yes but let's not ignore the sentiments behind the post.

    Is she arguing gay men looking to adopt should be subjected to more scrutiny than straight men who are in a relationship with a woman? Because they are innately more dangerous? I suspect she is.
    No. Read it again. Carefully this time. I said that of all the factors listed - white, male, teacher, gay - there was only one which is a well known risk factor: being male. Not being gay.

    When doing checks, the scrutiny of the men should be very very thorough. And that applies to whether the man is straight, gay, in a relationship or single. Heterosexual men abuse children too.

    It is the maleness which is the risk factor. Not the sexuality.

    The sentiment behind my post was triggered by the apparent lack of effective due diligence. Because it has been my experience from the thousands of investigations I have done that, when you uncover a wrong'un, there is always a clue, usually several, many of them red flags, that the person was a wrong' un and, that for a variety of reasons these were either not spotted or, if spotted, not acted on. I will be interested to see what the Serious Case Review will show here.

    And it was a private adoption agency which placed this baby with this couple, which may also be a factor. The agency is still operating. How competent and effective are they?
    I think there has been a push in recent years for adoption as fostering is both expensive and unstable, and that has created a market for these agencies.

    It was the 3rd hospital visit with the elbow fracture that should have been the red flag. 13 month babies almost never get such injuries naturally. There was a Social Work assessment afterwards but clearly did not pick up on the danger.
    There is, of course, more continuing risk assessment with fostering, which is slightly odd when you think about it.
  • TheScreamingEaglesTheScreamingEagles Posts: 128,877
    third Test against New Zealand at Trent Bridge.

    Stokes and pace bowler Gus Atkinson are under investigation for their part in an incident in a London nightclub, when they broke England's midnight curfew.

    It is understood the process is progressing to a point where a path for the pair to come back is cleared, although an official announcement may not arrive until the conclusion of the ongoing second Test at The Oval.

    While all outcomes remain possible, there is a growing likelihood Stokes is back to lead England in Nottingham, with the match starting on Thursday, 25 June.


    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/cricket/articles/clyeggrj8ddo
  • AramintaMoonbeamQCAramintaMoonbeamQC Posts: 4,129

    Foxy said:

    Are we expecting about 4am declarations for Makerfield? Trying to time my power nap and fit in some exam marking.

    The Mexico vs South Korea match at 0200 sounds quite competitive if you are planning an all-nighter.

    Presumably the Scottish seats will be a similar time.
    It is tempting just to stay up and watch football, not gonna lie.
    My plan is early night tonight as tomorrow has the Scotland match which kicks off at 11pm.
    This whole World Cup in which Scotland are competitive, plus by elections, and A level marking is very inconvenient for me. When will Burnham condemn?
    I know, I am also watching Scotland being competitive in the women's T20 world cup right now.

    I cancelled all my meetings for tomorrow, I told the CEO, COO, and CFO, soz the meeting has to take place on Monday.
    Thankfully I'm not teaching tomorrow, so I'll be hiding in my office with a vat of coffee, whilst marking exams.

    During the 2024 election, I was off on the Friday to visit friends in Durham. I stayed up right through to Liz Truss getting ousted, had a refreshing nap then drove up the A1 with an apparently misplaced sense of optimism.
  • TheScreamingEaglesTheScreamingEagles Posts: 128,877
    DavidL said:

    Foxy said:

    Are we expecting about 4am declarations for Makerfield? Trying to time my power nap and fit in some exam marking.

    The Mexico vs South Korea match at 0200 sounds quite competitive if you are planning an all-nighter.

    Presumably the Scottish seats will be a similar time.
    It is tempting just to stay up and watch football, not gonna lie.
    My plan is early night tonight as tomorrow has the Scotland match which kicks off at 11pm.
    This whole World Cup in which Scotland are competitive, plus by elections, and A level marking is very inconvenient for me. When will Burnham condemn?
    I know, I am also watching Scotland being competitive in the women's T20 world cup right now.

    I cancelled all my meetings for tomorrow, I told the CEO, COO, and CFO, soz the meeting has to take place on Monday.
    I have a test match, 2 teams to cheer on at the WC, some excellent women's T20 matches and the small matter of an ongoing trial. Its a hectic schedule and I am getting worn out.
    I've also got the fun next week where I have to prep the first 3 days of the week to do stuff before I go on holidays for four weeks.

    We might have a leadership challenge next week.

    I am not sure I have the mental bandwidth to cope.
  • Daveyboy1961Daveyboy1961 Posts: 5,552

    Foxy said:

    Are we expecting about 4am declarations for Makerfield? Trying to time my power nap and fit in some exam marking.

    The Mexico vs South Korea match at 0200 sounds quite competitive if you are planning an all-nighter.

    Presumably the Scottish seats will be a similar time.
    It is tempting just to stay up and watch football, not gonna lie.
    My plan is early night tonight as tomorrow has the Scotland match which kicks off at 11pm.
    This whole World Cup in which Scotland are competitive, plus by elections, and A level marking is very inconvenient for me. When will Burnham condemn?
    I know, I am also watching Scotland being competitive in the women's T20 world cup right now.

    I cancelled all my meetings for tomorrow, I told the CEO, COO, and CFO, soz the meeting has to take place on Monday.
    Thankfully I'm not teaching tomorrow, so I'll be hiding in my office with a vat of coffee, whilst marking exams.

    During the 2024 election, I was off on the Friday to visit friends in Durham. I stayed up right through to Liz Truss getting ousted, had a refreshing nap then drove up the A1 with an apparently misplaced sense of optimism.
    Are you doing paid marking or just school marking?
  • ManchesterKurtManchesterKurt Posts: 1,009
    When was the last time we had such an important, pivotal election this close to the summer solstice

    It's going to be light after the poll closes
  • DecrepiterJohnLDecrepiterJohnL Posts: 36,604

    We’re Rejoining!

    It’s inevitable.

    We hold all the cards.


    UK could keep special pre-Brexit terms if it rejoined EU, Michel Barnier says

    Exclusive: Former chief Brexit negotiator says staying out of euro and Schengen area would be ‘perfectly possible’


    https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2026/jun/18/uk-could-keep-special-pre-brexit-terms-if-it-rejoined-eu-michel-barnier-says

    That is interesting because while there is no groundswell to rejoin the EU, there does seem to be a consensus that Brexit was a mistake or at best a damp squib. While no-one wants to go through the whole Brexit sturm und drang again, they might respond to an EU offer of a time machine or big red reset button that will magically take us back to where we were, and perhaps that has occurred to Barnier too.
  • kinabalukinabalu Posts: 50,935

    DavidL said:

    Foxy said:

    Are we expecting about 4am declarations for Makerfield? Trying to time my power nap and fit in some exam marking.

    The Mexico vs South Korea match at 0200 sounds quite competitive if you are planning an all-nighter.

    Presumably the Scottish seats will be a similar time.
    It is tempting just to stay up and watch football, not gonna lie.
    My plan is early night tonight as tomorrow has the Scotland match which kicks off at 11pm.
    This whole World Cup in which Scotland are competitive, plus by elections, and A level marking is very inconvenient for me. When will Burnham condemn?
    I know, I am also watching Scotland being competitive in the women's T20 world cup right now.

    I cancelled all my meetings for tomorrow, I told the CEO, COO, and CFO, soz the meeting has to take place on Monday.
    I have a test match, 2 teams to cheer on at the WC, some excellent women's T20 matches and the small matter of an ongoing trial. Its a hectic schedule and I am getting worn out.
    Why not relax a bit and catch some of the US Open golf?
    And Royal Ascot and Queens tennis. This is a ridiculous period for sports nuts, of which I am one.
  • MelonBMelonB Posts: 17,391
    Cyclefree said:

    MelonB said:

    Cyclefree said:

    "Varley's evil and graphic sexual abuse is beyond contempt. I don't believe a general extrapolation should be made because Varley was either, white, male, a teacher or gay."

    Well, one of those characteristics is a risk factor for crime - and particularly for sexual crimes against children: being male. His partner was also convicted of various offences. And he, Varley, was not just a teacher but safeguarding lead at his school.

    That does not mean that no men should ever adopt. It should mean that those doing the due diligence need to be very very thorough in their assessment - of character, history, motivation, lifestyle, ability to look after a baby, understanding of what looking after a very young baby involves and ability to do so - ie the emotional resilience to cope with a baby's needs and helping him thrive and develop, family support, female involvement, friends, hobbies etc etc . And not just all that.

    Those doing the due diligence need a sceptical investigative mind.

    The adoption went through pretty quickly. How good, how extensive was the due diligence? Did they pick up his extensive viewing of seriously revolting porn? Did they ask to look at his and his partner's computer and phones? Did they take too much comfort from the fact that he was a teacher and safeguarding lead and so relied on that rather than carry out their own inquiries? This is a classic trap and one which fraudsters and wrongdoers of all types exploit: they get past one check and then never get properly checked again because everyone else relies on that one check. And was this couple really the best set of adoptive parents to be found in Oldham?

    Even very intelligent people can be horrifyingly naive about offenders and offences and what stones to turn over to look for them. And very naive about the lengths deviant people like Varley and his partner will go to to satisfy their deviancy.

    Remember this case when people start talking about making surrogacy even easier than it is. There are far fewer checks than with adoptions and there has already been one horrific case in the US of two men buying a surrogate baby for the purpose of sexual abuse. Babies are not commodities to be bought and sold.

    You raise many good points as to whether social workers did X or Y.

    My experience from interacting with them over adult social care is they are under intense time pressure as the caseload is bonkers.

    Yes but let's not ignore the sentiments behind the post.

    Is she arguing gay men looking to adopt should be subjected to more scrutiny than straight men who are in a relationship with a woman? Because they are innately more dangerous? I suspect she is.
    No. Read it again. Carefully this time. I said that of all the factors listed - white, male, teacher, gay - there was only one which is a well known risk factor: being male. Not being gay.

    When doing checks, the scrutiny of the men should be very very thorough. And that applies to whether the man is straight, gay, in a relationship or single. Heterosexual men abuse children too.

    It is the maleness which is the risk factor. Not the sexuality.

    The sentiment behind my post was triggered by the apparent lack of effective due diligence. Because it has been my experience from the thousands of investigations I have done that, when you uncover a wrong'un, there is always a clue, usually several, many of them red flags, that the person was a wrong' un and, that for a variety of reasons these were either not spotted or, if spotted, not acted on. I will be interested to see what the Serious Case Review will show here.

    And it was a private adoption agency which placed this baby with this couple, which may also be a factor. The agency is still operating. How competent and effective are they?
    Well I'm reassured by that. Your posts describing the risks to women and children of biological males are about 90%+ focused on trans women, so you can perhaps understand why a foray into commenting on the risks posed by gay men wasn't entirely unexpected.

    I'm a father of a gay son who would very much like to have children one day.
  • TheScreamingEaglesTheScreamingEagles Posts: 128,877

    When was the last time we had such an important, pivotal election this close to the summer solstice

    It's going to be light after the poll closes

    The 1987 general election?

    11th of June.
  • JohnLilburneJohnLilburne Posts: 8,283

    Do we have a declaration time for the Kings Coronation?

    It has to be in the winter for King of the North surely?
    I would have thought he wants to be more than a Winter King.
  • FoxyFoxy Posts: 57,034
    Cookie said:

    Foxy said:

    DavidL said:

    Cyclefree said:

    DavidL said:

    MelonB said:

    Cyclefree said:

    "Varley's evil and graphic sexual abuse is beyond contempt. I don't believe a general extrapolation should be made because Varley was either, white, male, a teacher or gay."

    Well, one of those characteristics is a risk factor for crime - and particularly for sexual crimes against children: being male. His partner was also convicted of various offences. And he, Varley, was not just a teacher but safeguarding lead at his school.

    That does not mean that no men should ever adopt. It should mean that those doing the due diligence need to be very very thorough in their assessment - of character, history, motivation, lifestyle, ability to look after a baby, understanding of what looking after a very young baby involves and ability to do so - ie the emotional resilience to cope with a baby's needs and helping him thrive and develop, family support, female involvement, friends, hobbies etc etc . And not just all that.

    Those doing the due diligence need a sceptical investigative mind.

    The adoption went through pretty quickly. How good, how extensive was the due diligence? Did they pick up his extensive viewing of seriously revolting porn? Did they ask to look at his and his partner's computer and phones? Did they take too much comfort from the fact that he was a teacher and safeguarding lead and so relied on that rather than carry out their own inquiries? This is a classic trap and one which fraudsters and wrongdoers of all types exploit: they get past one check and then never get properly checked again because everyone else relies on that one check. And was this couple really the best set of adoptive parents to be found in Oldham?

    Even very intelligent people can be horrifyingly naive about offenders and offences and what stones to turn over to look for them. And very naive about the lengths deviant people like Varley and his partner will go to to satisfy their deviancy.

    Remember this case when people start talking about making surrogacy even easier than it is. There are far fewer checks than with adoptions and there has already been one horrific case in the US of two men buying a surrogate baby for the purpose of sexual abuse. Babies are not commodities to be bought and sold.

    You raise many good points as to whether social workers did X or Y.

    My experience from interacting with them over adult social care is they are under intense time pressure as the caseload is bonkers.

    Yes but let's not ignore the sentiments behind the post.

    Is she arguing gay men looking to adopt should be subjected to more scrutiny than straight men who are in a relationship with a woman? Because they are innately more dangerous? I suspect she is.
    That would obviously be wrong. But, on the other hand, if being male is a recognised risk factor 2 men in a relationship would surely have a higher statistical risk. Its only statistics though. this is a recent case of murder by a female of a young child:https://www.pressreader.com/uk/the-courier-advertiser-fife-edition/20260529/281745571049789

    I also recall a couple of years ago a gay female couple who got done for killing a child by abuse and neglect in Fife.
    Edit, it is actually quite a bit longer ago than I remembered, 2016: https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-edinburgh-east-fife-36333032 A horrific case as bad as the current one in many respects.
    Oh, undoubtedly women abuse children too: Baby P, Arthur Labinjo-Hughes, Victoria Climbie etc.

    I think, for the avoidance of doubt, checks should be very very extensive on anyone looking to adopt. And if there are particular risk factors among prospective adoptive parents, these should be looked at very carefully indeed. The use of extreme pornography should be a no-no in my view.

    Adoption of a child is not some sort of right for adults. It is something we do for children so we owe it to them to put them with the best possible parents and keep a close eye on them thereafter. A child should not go from happy and healthy to dead - with many injuries in between - in the space of barely 3 months.
    I obviously agree that the test for adoption is the best interests of the child. However, I think you also need to recognise that the risks of abuse, including abuse we are not allowed to talk about, whilst in care are horrendous. Most children are both safer and better cared for once they are adopted than being in a care home.

    The problem with your approach is that it would become so intrusive that very few would be willing to go through the process resulting in even more children being abused and the use of adoption being severely curtailed.

    I do think that one of the major problems we have in this country is the completely bizarre idea that you can regulate risk out of existence, if only we have a few more hurdles and rules. The awful Soham murder case led to the current regulations for PVG scheme membership. This has caused enormous damage to many voluntary organisations. Has it really made children any safer? I think the evidence is thin, at best.
    I agree. Indeed in the government's Adoption strategy from 2021 there is a deliberate policy of reducing red tape in order to accelerate adoptions and to not turn down so many prospective parents. In part this was of cases where Social Workers refused to accept some parents, causing a tabloid furore.
    Was that the one where they were turned down because the parents voted UKIP? (In Rotherham, ironically).
    Yes, that was the one, so as so often we see an over-correction.
  • KnightOutKnightOut Posts: 274
    Cyclefree said:



    No. Read it again. Carefully this time. I said that of all the factors listed - white, male, teacher, gay - there was only one which is a well known risk factor: being male. Not being gay.

    When doing checks, the scrutiny of the men should be very very thorough. And that applies to whether the man is straight, gay, in a relationship or single. Heterosexual men abuse children too.

    It is the maleness which is the risk factor. Not the sexuality.


    I think the bit that makes for uncomfortable discussion is the correlation between the sexuality of the perpetrators and the sex of the children they adopt.

    I've been unfortunate enough to have known several paedophiles/abusers in my life (which sometimes feels like an almost inevitable consequence of being a church musician) and most were gay men who exclusively abused boys. One was a straight man who exclusively abused girls.

    The 'not allowed to say it' part is that a baby girl would almost certainly have been less likely to be sexually abused by this gay male couple. A heterosexual man in the same situation would be less prone to sexually abusing a boy.

    It would be ridiculous to have rules like: gay male couples can only adopt girls or lesbians can only adopt boys etc. But I suspect the system is wilfully blind to the increased risk.
  • bondegezoubondegezou Posts: 21,193

    We’re Rejoining!

    It’s inevitable.

    We hold all the cards.


    UK could keep special pre-Brexit terms if it rejoined EU, Michel Barnier says

    Exclusive: Former chief Brexit negotiator says staying out of euro and Schengen area would be ‘perfectly possible’


    https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2026/jun/18/uk-could-keep-special-pre-brexit-terms-if-it-rejoined-eu-michel-barnier-says

    That is interesting because while there is no groundswell to rejoin the EU, there does seem to be a consensus that Brexit was a mistake or at best a damp squib. While no-one wants to go through the whole Brexit sturm und drang again, they might respond to an EU offer of a time machine or big red reset button that will magically take us back to where we were, and perhaps that has occurred to Barnier too.
    Ireland and Cyprus aren’t in Schengen. The case for Schengen is reduced when you’re not dealing with land borders. So I don’t think staying out of Schengen for the UK was ever going to be a big issue.
  • StuartinromfordStuartinromford Posts: 23,032

    When was the last time we had such an important, pivotal election this close to the summer solstice

    It's going to be light after the poll closes

    A new dusk has set, has it not?
  • Daveyboy1961Daveyboy1961 Posts: 5,552

    When was the last time we had such an important, pivotal election this close to the summer solstice

    It's going to be light after the poll closes

    The 1987 general election?

    11th of June.
    2024, 4th July?
  • CyclefreeCyclefree Posts: 26,318
    edited 8:02PM
    DavidL said:

    Cyclefree said:

    DavidL said:

    MelonB said:

    Cyclefree said:

    "Varley's evil and graphic sexual abuse is beyond contempt. I don't believe a general extrapolation should be made because Varley was either, white, male, a teacher or gay."

    Well, one of those characteristics is a risk factor for crime - and particularly for sexual crimes against children: being male. His partner was also convicted of various offences. And he, Varley, was not just a teacher but safeguarding lead at his school.

    That does not mean that no men should ever adopt. It should mean that those doing the due diligence need to be very very thorough in their assessment - of character, history, motivation, lifestyle, ability to look after a baby, understanding of what looking after a very young baby involves and ability to do so - ie the emotional resilience to cope with a baby's needs and helping him thrive and develop, family support, female involvement, friends, hobbies etc etc . And not just all that.

    Those doing the due diligence need a sceptical investigative mind.

    The adoption went through pretty quickly. How good, how extensive was the due diligence? Did they pick up his extensive viewing of seriously revolting porn? Did they ask to look at his and his partner's computer and phones? Did they take too much comfort from the fact that he was a teacher and safeguarding lead and so relied on that rather than carry out their own inquiries? This is a classic trap and one which fraudsters and wrongdoers of all types exploit: they get past one check and then never get properly checked again because everyone else relies on that one check. And was this couple really the best set of adoptive parents to be found in Oldham?

    Even very intelligent people can be horrifyingly naive about offenders and offences and what stones to turn over to look for them. And very naive about the lengths deviant people like Varley and his partner will go to to satisfy their deviancy.

    Remember this case when people start talking about making surrogacy even easier than it is. There are far fewer checks than with adoptions and there has already been one horrific case in the US of two men buying a surrogate baby for the purpose of sexual abuse. Babies are not commodities to be bought and sold.

    You raise many good points as to whether social workers did X or Y.

    My experience from interacting with them over adult social care is they are under intense time pressure as the caseload is bonkers.

    Yes but let's not ignore the sentiments behind the post.

    Is she arguing gay men looking to adopt should be subjected to more scrutiny than straight men who are in a relationship with a woman? Because they are innately more dangerous? I suspect she is.
    That would obviously be wrong. But, on the other hand, if being male is a recognised risk factor 2 men in a relationship would surely have a higher statistical risk. Its only statistics though. this is a recent case of murder by a female of a young child:https://www.pressreader.com/uk/the-courier-advertiser-fife-edition/20260529/281745571049789

    I also recall a couple of years ago a gay female couple who got done for killing a child by abuse and neglect in Fife.
    Edit, it is actually quite a bit longer ago than I remembered, 2016: https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-edinburgh-east-fife-36333032 A horrific case as bad as the current one in many respects.
    Oh, undoubtedly women abuse children too: Baby P, Arthur Labinjo-Hughes, Victoria Climbie etc.

    I think, for the avoidance of doubt, checks should be very very extensive on anyone looking to adopt. And if there are particular risk factors among prospective adoptive parents, these should be looked at very carefully indeed. The use of extreme pornography should be a no-no in my view.

    Adoption of a child is not some sort of right for adults. It is something we do for children so we owe it to them to put them with the best possible parents and keep a close eye on them thereafter. A child should not go from happy and healthy to dead - with many injuries in between - in the space of barely 3 months.
    I obviously agree that the test for adoption is the best interests of the child. However, I think you also need to recognise that the risks of abuse, including abuse we are not allowed to talk about, whilst in care are horrendous. Most children are both safer and better cared for once they are adopted than being in a care home.

    The problem with your approach is that it would become so intrusive that very few would be willing to go through the process resulting in even more children being abused and the use of adoption being severely curtailed.

    I do think that one of the major problems we have in this country is the completely bizarre idea that you can regulate risk out of existence, if only we have a few more hurdles and rules. The awful Soham murder case led to the current regulations for PVG scheme membership. This has caused enormous damage to many voluntary organisations. Has it really made children any safer? I think the evidence is thin, at best.
    Well that is a fair point.

    I don't think you can regulate risk out of existence. What you should be aiming to do is (1) to minimise it as far as reasonably possible based on good risk assessment; and (2) not shutting your eyes once you've done the initial assessment and, as soon as a problem, however small happens, investigate it properly.

    Plus intelligent scepticism and good judgment. The latter two are better than tick box processes. And understanding where the risks come from.

    This little boy was with loving foster parents - not in a care home - and his grandmother wanted to care for him and asked the social workers to wait a few months while her cancer was being cured. Why the rush to put him with this couple?

    I think the point about safeguarding is that we focus on the process rather than on the substance. So as you say we get lots of rules with no-one thinking about what is the mischief we are trying to avoid or limit and how best to achieve that. This involves judgment.

    To give an example: when I was a teenager there was probably no such thing as safeguarding rules but the adults around me saw it as their business to keep an eye out for me. I was once walked to school by my Italian uncle - much younger than my mother and very handsome. At school we said goodbye and I kissed him on the cheek as normal. This was seen by a teacher and I was instantly called to the head and asked who he was etc and this was then checked with my mother. There was nothing remotely off by either my or my uncle's behaviour but the teacher wanted to make sure. We shouldn't really need rules to tell us to do this. We need eyes to see, judgment and adults remembering that we need to look out for our children.

    Too many adults these days forget that they are meant to be adult.
  • kinabalukinabalu Posts: 50,935
    So Labour are 1.1. I'd say this translates to Burnham being expected to win by several thousand votes. If it's close that will be a surprise and a Reform win would be a genuine shock.
  • IanB2IanB2 Posts: 55,522

    Do we have a declaration time for the Kings Coronation?

    Get up early, don’t stay up late. Sunderland, they ain’t
  • TheScreamingEaglesTheScreamingEagles Posts: 128,877

    When was the last time we had such an important, pivotal election this close to the summer solstice

    It's going to be light after the poll closes

    The 1987 general election?

    11th of June.
    2024, 4th July?
    That's 13 days from the solstice, 1987 was 10 days away.
  • PeterCairnsPeterCairns Posts: 152
    MelonB said:

    Cyclefree said:

    MelonB said:

    Cyclefree said:

    "Varley's evil and graphic sexual abuse is beyond contempt. I don't believe a general extrapolation should be made because Varley was either, white, male, a teacher or gay."

    Well, one of those characteristics is a risk factor for crime - and particularly for sexual crimes against children: being male. His partner was also convicted of various offences. And he, Varley, was not just a teacher but safeguarding lead at his school.

    That does not mean that no men should ever adopt. It should mean that those doing the due diligence need to be very very thorough in their assessment - of character, history, motivation, lifestyle, ability to look after a baby, understanding of what looking after a very young baby involves and ability to do so - ie the emotional resilience to cope with a baby's needs and helping him thrive and develop, family support, female involvement, friends, hobbies etc etc . And not just all that.

    Those doing the due diligence need a sceptical investigative mind.

    The adoption went through pretty quickly. How good, how extensive was the due diligence? Did they pick up his extensive viewing of seriously revolting porn? Did they ask to look at his and his partner's computer and phones? Did they take too much comfort from the fact that he was a teacher and safeguarding lead and so relied on that rather than carry out their own inquiries? This is a classic trap and one which fraudsters and wrongdoers of all types exploit: they get past one check and then never get properly checked again because everyone else relies on that one check. And was this couple really the best set of adoptive parents to be found in Oldham?

    Even very intelligent people can be horrifyingly naive about offenders and offences and what stones to turn over to look for them. And very naive about the lengths deviant people like Varley and his partner will go to to satisfy their deviancy.

    Remember this case when people start talking about making surrogacy even easier than it is. There are far fewer checks than with adoptions and there has already been one horrific case in the US of two men buying a surrogate baby for the purpose of sexual abuse. Babies are not commodities to be bought and sold.

    You raise many good points as to whether social workers did X or Y.

    My experience from interacting with them over adult social care is they are under intense time pressure as the caseload is bonkers.

    Yes but let's not ignore the sentiments behind the post.

    Is she arguing gay men looking to adopt should be subjected to more scrutiny than straight men who are in a relationship with a woman? Because they are innately more dangerous? I suspect she is.
    No. Read it again. Carefully this time. I said that of all the factors listed - white, male, teacher, gay - there was only one which is a well known risk factor: being male. Not being gay.

    When doing checks, the scrutiny of the men should be very very thorough. And that applies to whether the man is straight, gay, in a relationship or single. Heterosexual men abuse children too.

    It is the maleness which is the risk factor. Not the sexuality.

    The sentiment behind my post was triggered by the apparent lack of effective due diligence. Because it has been my experience from the thousands of investigations I have done that, when you uncover a wrong'un, there is always a clue, usually several, many of them red flags, that the person was a wrong' un and, that for a variety of reasons these were either not spotted or, if spotted, not acted on. I will be interested to see what the Serious Case Review will show here.

    And it was a private adoption agency which placed this baby with this couple, which may also be a factor. The agency is still operating. How competent and effective are they?
    Well I'm reassured by that. Your posts describing the risks to women and children of biological males are about 90%+ focused on trans women, so you can perhaps understand why a foray into commenting on the risks posed by gay men wasn't entirely unexpected.

    I'm a father of a gay son who would very much like to have children one day.

    I am married to a Psychologist who sadly over the years has come across too many cases of maltreatment, neglect and abuse.

    One of the sadest most recurring features is the number of people who after the fact come out with stories and anecdotes about those involved that were red flags that should have been picked up on.

    We tend to castugate social workers but in reality if those around the perpretartors had just shared their fears, rather than not wanting to accuse or get involved, so many cases would never have got as bad as they did.

    Peter.
  • CyclefreeCyclefree Posts: 26,318

    We’re Rejoining!

    It’s inevitable.

    We hold all the cards.


    UK could keep special pre-Brexit terms if it rejoined EU, Michel Barnier says

    Exclusive: Former chief Brexit negotiator says staying out of euro and Schengen area would be ‘perfectly possible’


    https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2026/jun/18/uk-could-keep-special-pre-brexit-terms-if-it-rejoined-eu-michel-barnier-says

    That is interesting because while there is no groundswell to rejoin the EU, there does seem to be a consensus that Brexit was a mistake or at best a damp squib. While no-one wants to go through the whole Brexit sturm und drang again, they might respond to an EU offer of a time machine or big red reset button that will magically take us back to where we were, and perhaps that has occurred to Barnier too.
    Does Barnier speak for the EU? I thought he had retired from there.
  • PeterCairnsPeterCairns Posts: 152
    edited 8:07PM

    We’re Rejoining!

    It’s inevitable.

    We hold all the cards.


    UK could keep special pre-Brexit terms if it rejoined EU, Michel Barnier says

    Exclusive: Former chief Brexit negotiator says staying out of euro and Schengen area would be ‘perfectly possible’


    https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2026/jun/18/uk-could-keep-special-pre-brexit-terms-if-it-rejoined-eu-michel-barnier-says

    That is interesting because while there is no groundswell to rejoin the EU, there does seem to be a consensus that Brexit was a mistake or at best a damp squib. While no-one wants to go through the whole Brexit sturm und drang again, they might respond to an EU offer of a time machine or big red reset button that will magically take us back to where we were, and perhaps that has occurred to Barnier too.
    Unfortunately "Perfectly Possible" and "Actually offered" are two very different things. He's entitled to his opinion but opinion is all it is!"

    Peter.
  • viewcodeviewcode Posts: 28,937
    DavidL said:

    viewcode said:

    DavidL said:

    ...Its only statistics though...

    Go to your room young man, and don't come back down until you can tell me what you did wrong.
    As Oakes once said, I may be some time. Really not sure what has caused offence here.
    I'm a statistician. Yes, really
  • TheScreamingEaglesTheScreamingEagles Posts: 128,877
    viewcode said:

    DavidL said:

    viewcode said:

    DavidL said:

    ...Its only statistics though...

    Go to your room young man, and don't come back down until you can tell me what you did wrong.
    As Oakes once said, I may be some time. Really not sure what has caused offence here.
    I'm a statistician. Yes, really
    Tell me about your deviations

    Is the standard deviation enough for you or are you more deviated?
  • CyclefreeCyclefree Posts: 26,318
    MelonB said:

    Cyclefree said:

    MelonB said:

    Cyclefree said:

    "Varley's evil and graphic sexual abuse is beyond contempt. I don't believe a general extrapolation should be made because Varley was either, white, male, a teacher or gay."

    Well, one of those characteristics is a risk factor for crime - and particularly for sexual crimes against children: being male. His partner was also convicted of various offences. And he, Varley, was not just a teacher but safeguarding lead at his school.

    That does not mean that no men should ever adopt. It should mean that those doing the due diligence need to be very very thorough in their assessment - of character, history, motivation, lifestyle, ability to look after a baby, understanding of what looking after a very young baby involves and ability to do so - ie the emotional resilience to cope with a baby's needs and helping him thrive and develop, family support, female involvement, friends, hobbies etc etc . And not just all that.

    Those doing the due diligence need a sceptical investigative mind.

    The adoption went through pretty quickly. How good, how extensive was the due diligence? Did they pick up his extensive viewing of seriously revolting porn? Did they ask to look at his and his partner's computer and phones? Did they take too much comfort from the fact that he was a teacher and safeguarding lead and so relied on that rather than carry out their own inquiries? This is a classic trap and one which fraudsters and wrongdoers of all types exploit: they get past one check and then never get properly checked again because everyone else relies on that one check. And was this couple really the best set of adoptive parents to be found in Oldham?

    Even very intelligent people can be horrifyingly naive about offenders and offences and what stones to turn over to look for them. And very naive about the lengths deviant people like Varley and his partner will go to to satisfy their deviancy.

    Remember this case when people start talking about making surrogacy even easier than it is. There are far fewer checks than with adoptions and there has already been one horrific case in the US of two men buying a surrogate baby for the purpose of sexual abuse. Babies are not commodities to be bought and sold.

    You raise many good points as to whether social workers did X or Y.

    My experience from interacting with them over adult social care is they are under intense time pressure as the caseload is bonkers.

    Yes but let's not ignore the sentiments behind the post.

    Is she arguing gay men looking to adopt should be subjected to more scrutiny than straight men who are in a relationship with a woman? Because they are innately more dangerous? I suspect she is.
    No. Read it again. Carefully this time. I said that of all the factors listed - white, male, teacher, gay - there was only one which is a well known risk factor: being male. Not being gay.

    When doing checks, the scrutiny of the men should be very very thorough. And that applies to whether the man is straight, gay, in a relationship or single. Heterosexual men abuse children too.

    It is the maleness which is the risk factor. Not the sexuality.

    The sentiment behind my post was triggered by the apparent lack of effective due diligence. Because it has been my experience from the thousands of investigations I have done that, when you uncover a wrong'un, there is always a clue, usually several, many of them red flags, that the person was a wrong' un and, that for a variety of reasons these were either not spotted or, if spotted, not acted on. I will be interested to see what the Serious Case Review will show here.

    And it was a private adoption agency which placed this baby with this couple, which may also be a factor. The agency is still operating. How competent and effective are they?
    Well I'm reassured by that. Your posts describing the risks to women and children of biological males are about 90%+ focused on trans women, so you can perhaps understand why a foray into commenting on the risks posed by gay men wasn't entirely unexpected.

    I'm a father of a gay son who would very much like to have children one day.
    I have been writing about the risks to women from men for a very long time on here. And once again I did not say that the risk was from being gay - children of lesbian couples generally do very well - but from being male. And I too have a gay son. Though he has shown no interest in having children so far but does enjoy buying books and Lego for his cousins children.
  • viewcodeviewcode Posts: 28,937

    viewcode said:

    DavidL said:

    viewcode said:

    DavidL said:

    ...Its only statistics though...

    Go to your room young man, and don't come back down until you can tell me what you did wrong.
    As Oakes once said, I may be some time. Really not sure what has caused offence here.
    I'm a statistician. Yes, really
    Tell me about your deviations

    Is the standard deviation enough for you or are you more deviated?
    I'm skewed, and my kurtosis has to be seen to be believed.
  • GIN1138GIN1138 Posts: 23,267
    edited 8:13PM
    Have got champagne and Hot Pot (maybe or maybe not, Betty's) ready for the start of the King Of The Norths ascension....

    #LetsGo 👀
  • stodgestodge Posts: 16,739

    When was the last time we had such an important, pivotal election this close to the summer solstice

    It's going to be light after the poll closes

    The 1987 general election?

    11th of June.
    1970 - exactly 56 years to the day.
  • TheScreamingEaglesTheScreamingEagles Posts: 128,877
    edited 8:22PM
    So I have heard from a reliable source in Makerfield, they've found a lot of people saying they are voting Restore than they expected.

    One thing to note, a lot of these people last voted in 2016 or 2019.

    On the downside, the Restore canvassers are very belligerent, in a way other parties are not.

    'If you don't vote for us, you're helping to end white Christian Britain/wanting your daughters to be raped.'
  • williamglennwilliamglenn Posts: 60,087
    The content everyone has been waiting for. Liz Truss and June Slater discuss Andy Burnham:

    https://x.com/trussliz/status/2067676462082093138
  • carnforthcarnforth Posts: 9,360
    Cyclefree said:

    We’re Rejoining!

    It’s inevitable.

    We hold all the cards.


    UK could keep special pre-Brexit terms if it rejoined EU, Michel Barnier says

    Exclusive: Former chief Brexit negotiator says staying out of euro and Schengen area would be ‘perfectly possible’


    https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2026/jun/18/uk-could-keep-special-pre-brexit-terms-if-it-rejoined-eu-michel-barnier-says

    That is interesting because while there is no groundswell to rejoin the EU, there does seem to be a consensus that Brexit was a mistake or at best a damp squib. While no-one wants to go through the whole Brexit sturm und drang again, they might respond to an EU offer of a time machine or big red reset button that will magically take us back to where we were, and perhaps that has occurred to Barnier too.
    Does Barnier speak for the EU? I thought he had retired from there.
    Another retiree says we can't have any special terms:

    https://www.telegraph.co.uk/world-news/2026/06/15/eus-brexit-negotiator-juncker-uk-block-rejoining/

    Old generals etc..
  • StuartinromfordStuartinromford Posts: 23,032
    edited 8:20PM

    When was the last time we had such an important, pivotal election this close to the summer solstice

    It's going to be light after the poll closes

    The 1987 general election?

    11th of June.
    2024, 4th July?
    That's 13 days from the solstice, 1987 was 10 days away.
    Though the shape of the graph is pretty flat around the solstices- kind of the converse of that horrid bit of mid January when it feels like the days should be noticeably lengthening, but they don't. Bastards.

    (Though this bit- where it fails to get dark- is less good than July and August, when it's nice to be out at 9 pm and it's also dark. That's when we really get one over on nature. Oh, and the Proms are happening.)
  • GIN1138GIN1138 Posts: 23,267
    edited 8:26PM

    Young women now have 'close to zero' risk of cervical cancer death after HPV jab
    https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c621z28z138o

    That is wonderful news. Hopefully is also helping to lower the risk of a certain sub-set of head and neck cancers, too.... (Though obviously it doesn't do much for the smokers and the drunks)

    Sadly there will always be some mad bastards that will be anti-vax come what may, and thanks to the internet there will be occasional cut-through so there will be the odd person that refuses the HPV jab and dies needlessly as a result, but overall this is great news!
  • Brixian59Brixian59 Posts: 2,381
    edited 8:23PM
    IanB2 said:

    Do we have a declaration time for the Kings Coronation?

    Get up early, don’t stay up late. Sunderland, they ain’t
    When the dawn is breaking on the future my child
  • Andy_JSAndy_JS Posts: 40,315

    So I have heard from a reliable source in Makerfield, they've found a lot of people saying they are voting Restore than they expected.

    One thing to note, a lot of these people last voted in 2016 or 2019.

    On the downside, the Restore canvassers are very belligerent, in a way other parties are not.

    'If you don't vote for us, you're helping to end white Christian Britain/wanting your daughters to be raped.'

    They may get 5%. Surprised if it's more.
  • williamglennwilliamglenn Posts: 60,087
    Andy_JS said:

    So I have heard from a reliable source in Makerfield, they've found a lot of people saying they are voting Restore than they expected.

    One thing to note, a lot of these people last voted in 2016 or 2019.

    On the downside, the Restore canvassers are very belligerent, in a way other parties are not.

    'If you don't vote for us, you're helping to end white Christian Britain/wanting your daughters to be raped.'

    They may get 5%. Surprised if it's more.
    The BNP got 7.4% in 2010.
  • StuartinromfordStuartinromford Posts: 23,032

    So I have heard from a reliable source in Makerfield, they've found a lot of people saying they are voting Restore than they expected.

    One thing to note, a lot of these people last voted in 2016 or 2019.

    On the downside, the Restore canvassers are very belligerent, in a way other parties are not.

    'If you don't vote for us, you're helping to end white Christian Britain/wanting your daughters to be raped.'

    Talking of which, the "Muslims for Reform" thing this morning... not on, surely?

    And I'm fairly sure that the election day front page paid advert for Party X ought to be taboo as well... Yes, freedom of speech; yes, newspapers need the money... but I'm pretty sure that the reputational cost to the papers involved is greater than the money they bring in.
  • Brixian59Brixian59 Posts: 2,381
    kinabalu said:

    DavidL said:

    Foxy said:

    Are we expecting about 4am declarations for Makerfield? Trying to time my power nap and fit in some exam marking.

    The Mexico vs South Korea match at 0200 sounds quite competitive if you are planning an all-nighter.

    Presumably the Scottish seats will be a similar time.
    It is tempting just to stay up and watch football, not gonna lie.
    My plan is early night tonight as tomorrow has the Scotland match which kicks off at 11pm.
    This whole World Cup in which Scotland are competitive, plus by elections, and A level marking is very inconvenient for me. When will Burnham condemn?
    I know, I am also watching Scotland being competitive in the women's T20 world cup right now.

    I cancelled all my meetings for tomorrow, I told the CEO, COO, and CFO, soz the meeting has to take place on Monday.
    I have a test match, 2 teams to cheer on at the WC, some excellent women's T20 matches and the small matter of an ongoing trial. Its a hectic schedule and I am getting worn out.
    Why not relax a bit and catch some of the US Open golf?
    And Royal Ascot and Queens tennis. This is a ridiculous period for sports nuts, of which I am one.
    Draw bias on the straight Course at Ascot today was insane.

    They might just be tempted to overwater the Stands rail to try to equalise it.
  • Brixian59Brixian59 Posts: 2,381
    Andy_JS said:

    Matches involving Switzerland often seem to be boring affairs with no more than 1 or 2 goals being scored.

    They are always 90 minutes exactly though and end spot on time
  • FoxyFoxy Posts: 57,034

    We’re Rejoining!

    It’s inevitable.

    We hold all the cards.


    UK could keep special pre-Brexit terms if it rejoined EU, Michel Barnier says

    Exclusive: Former chief Brexit negotiator says staying out of euro and Schengen area would be ‘perfectly possible’


    https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2026/jun/18/uk-could-keep-special-pre-brexit-terms-if-it-rejoined-eu-michel-barnier-says

    That is interesting because while there is no groundswell to rejoin the EU, there does seem to be a consensus that Brexit was a mistake or at best a damp squib. While no-one wants to go through the whole Brexit sturm und drang again, they might respond to an EU offer of a time machine or big red reset button that will magically take us back to where we were, and perhaps that has occurred to Barnier too.
    Ireland and Cyprus aren’t in Schengen. The case for Schengen is reduced when you’re not dealing with land borders. So I don’t think staying out of Schengen for the UK was ever going to be a big issue.
    We have the Common Travel Area with Ireland, and I think they want to stay that way too. Us joining Shengen would force them in too. In practice it is easier for the EU if we do not join.

    The Euro is effectively optional too. Countries only join if they want to. It is a bit like Turkish Accession, in theory but not in practice.
  • AramintaMoonbeamQCAramintaMoonbeamQC Posts: 4,129

    Foxy said:

    Are we expecting about 4am declarations for Makerfield? Trying to time my power nap and fit in some exam marking.

    The Mexico vs South Korea match at 0200 sounds quite competitive if you are planning an all-nighter.

    Presumably the Scottish seats will be a similar time.
    It is tempting just to stay up and watch football, not gonna lie.
    My plan is early night tonight as tomorrow has the Scotland match which kicks off at 11pm.
    This whole World Cup in which Scotland are competitive, plus by elections, and A level marking is very inconvenient for me. When will Burnham condemn?
    I know, I am also watching Scotland being competitive in the women's T20 world cup right now.

    I cancelled all my meetings for tomorrow, I told the CEO, COO, and CFO, soz the meeting has to take place on Monday.
    Thankfully I'm not teaching tomorrow, so I'll be hiding in my office with a vat of coffee, whilst marking exams.

    During the 2024 election, I was off on the Friday to visit friends in Durham. I stayed up right through to Liz Truss getting ousted, had a refreshing nap then drove up the A1 with an apparently misplaced sense of optimism.
    Are you doing paid marking or just school marking?
    Paid marking for one of the exam boards - my students have left for the academic year, and my employer encourages us to mark for the boards.
  • FoxyFoxy Posts: 57,034
    Brixian59 said:

    Andy_JS said:

    Matches involving Switzerland often seem to be boring affairs with no more than 1 or 2 goals being scored.

    They are always 90 minutes exactly though and end spot on time
    You can bank on it...
  • MarqueeMarkMarqueeMark Posts: 60,553
    Andy_JS said:

    Are we expecting about 4am declarations for Makerfield? Trying to time my power nap and fit in some exam marking.

    4am at the earliest, probably.
    Surely, Labour should know by now if it has got its vote out?
  • Pro_RataPro_Rata Posts: 6,332
    I've not predicted tonight's results, as I've not processed the data as much for these. I'll not go numerical but I think liveable comfortable for Burnham but not as comfortable as for the SNP in Aberdeen South - looking at the balance in the two relevant Holyrood constituencies, I don't think Con started that close.

    The corollary of Aberdeen South is that Arbroath and Broughty Ferry should also be very comfortable.
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