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  • rcs1000rcs1000 Posts: 57,662
    Westie said:

    Is there much evidence for the view that teenagers who give birth when they're aged over 16y9m wouldn't have got pregnant if they'd had more sex education?

    "Teenage pregnancy" is an annoying term. There's a big difference between 13 and 19. It's not the state's business to discourage 19yos from getting pregnant.

    https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8872707/
  • ydoethurydoethur Posts: 71,780
    dixiedean said:

    As ever, when the topic drifts on to education, I am left wondering who on Earth certain posters think is responsible for the current curriculum?

    Some useless twat. Or several.

    There's no shortage of them in the DfE or in politics.

    And they're all Tories.
  • HYUFDHYUFD Posts: 123,987
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    Ross not keen on drag Queen story time

    @Douglas4Moray
    It’s totally inappropriate to hold a show like this for kids under the age of six.

    Story time for babies and young kids shouldn’t focus on gender or sexual identity.

    That is common sense and on behalf of constituents who’ve contacted me, I’ve raised this with the council.
    https://twitter.com/Douglas4Moray/status/1666006173932290048?s=20

    Is Roaster Ross going to get outraged by pantomimes?
    His argument seems to be pantomime dames don't push gender ideology
    I don't think Drag Queen Story Hour does either. This is just Moray copying US nonsense.
    'Encouraging children to develop a love of reading through imaginative story time, while promoting inclusion, diversity and acceptance...' Now nobody wants intolerance but 6 and under is rather young to be discussing Trans
    We teach kinds younger than that that there are different sexes. Is that wrong too?
    Well there are, that is a biological fact
    And there are transgender people. That is a sociological fact.
    Only through surgery and even with that and hormones treatment trans cyclists are no longer allowed to compete in female races as even with hormone suppression they still have an advantage over female cyclists
    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/cycling/65718748
    No, transgender people are transgender even without undergoing surgery.

    Maybe if you'd been taught this stuff at a younger age you'd be a little more clued in to the facts.
    So you want to teach 6 year olds they are transgender? No wonder you on the left are out of touch!
    You're confusing being taught that you are something, with being taught about other people. No wonder the Tories are out of touch with humanity.
    It is not appropriate for 6 year olds or even older primary school children. It should be a secondary school issue only
    Bollocks.

    I literally head the same arguments made about not exposing kids to gay ideology when Section 28 was a thing.

    My then 4 year old only had one question about attending a same sex wedding.

    'Which one of you throws the bouquet, and can you make sure my dad catches it?'
    I have a 5 year old and it's not appropriate to discuss sexual intercourse at that age.
    Your five year old presumably knows that there are men and women. They don't need to hear about intercourse to have an understanding of that fact. They don't need to know about penetration to understand that some couples are different genders and some couples are the same gender. They don't need to know what adults do with their genitals to know that sometimes people are born as one gender but prefer to live as another.

    You don't need to deliver all the yucky truth about everything all at once.
    Personally I wouldn't allow any sex education or discussion of gender identity in schools until pupils are 11 or over and have reached puberty
    Wait until kids have hit puberty before discussing puberty?

    Talk about waiting until the horse has bolted before closing the door.
    Unless you are a paedophile kids shoudn't be engaging in or discussing sex until they have reached puberty absolutely
    Kids absolutely shouldn't be engaging in sex until they are young adults.

    They should however be learning about it, at appropriate levels, before their hormones go wild rather than afterwards.
    NO they should not. Absolutely not. They should only start to learn about sex, only at an appropriate level, from age 11 and only in more detail from 16, the age of consent
    Okay.

    So, when my eldest daughter was ten, one of her schoolfriends came to visit. She was the same age.

    She (the schoolfriend) was extremely inappropriate towards me, to the point where I immediately went to get my wife and asked her to stay near me for the duration of this girl's visit, so she (the schoolfriend) never got to see me alone. This successfully dissuaded her from doing it any more (other than a few comments that got our eyebrows raising).

    Should her parents have spoken to her about sex and what was and was not appropriate? I thought they should; she'd obviously picked up what she had from conversations with other children and what appeared to be early hormones. Personally, I thought she was going to be very vulnerable to any adult with paedophilic tendencies.

    I take it you disagree?
    Clearly an illustration of too much sexualisation of young people in our culture generally, when we didn't have as much sex in the media and more traditional Christian family values it was less of an issue
    This particular event happened twenty years ago.

    Kids have always talked between each other about sex. Discussions on that happened when I was a child in the Seventies, and this particular event happened twenty years ago.

    Sexual abuse of children was more prevalent in the Seventies, Sixties, and Fifties - it was just brushed under the carpet and not discussed. Less sex in the media, more Christian family values, and more children getting abused and raped.

    People just preferred to go into denial. That same tendency is visible in some today.
    Is there any evidence there was more paedophilia in the fifties? I highly doubt it, we also had lower divorce rates, higher marriage rates and a birthrate above replacement level
  • rcs1000rcs1000 Posts: 57,662
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    Ross not keen on drag Queen story time

    @Douglas4Moray
    It’s totally inappropriate to hold a show like this for kids under the age of six.

    Story time for babies and young kids shouldn’t focus on gender or sexual identity.

    That is common sense and on behalf of constituents who’ve contacted me, I’ve raised this with the council.
    https://twitter.com/Douglas4Moray/status/1666006173932290048?s=20

    Is Roaster Ross going to get outraged by pantomimes?
    His argument seems to be pantomime dames don't push gender ideology
    I don't think Drag Queen Story Hour does either. This is just Moray copying US nonsense.
    'Encouraging children to develop a love of reading through imaginative story time, while promoting inclusion, diversity and acceptance...' Now nobody wants intolerance but 6 and under is rather young to be discussing Trans
    We teach kinds younger than that that there are different sexes. Is that wrong too?
    Well there are, that is a biological fact
    And there are transgender people. That is a sociological fact.
    Only through surgery and even with that and hormones treatment trans cyclists are no longer allowed to compete in female races as even with hormone suppression they still have an advantage over female cyclists
    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/cycling/65718748
    No, transgender people are transgender even without undergoing surgery.

    Maybe if you'd been taught this stuff at a younger age you'd be a little more clued in to the facts.
    So you want to teach 6 year olds they are transgender? No wonder you on the left are out of touch!
    You're confusing being taught that you are something, with being taught about other people. No wonder the Tories are out of touch with humanity.
    It is not appropriate for 6 year olds or even older primary school children. It should be a secondary school issue only
    Bollocks.

    I literally head the same arguments made about not exposing kids to gay ideology when Section 28 was a thing.

    My then 4 year old only had one question about attending a same sex wedding.

    'Which one of you throws the bouquet, and can you make sure my dad catches it?'
    I have a 5 year old and it's not appropriate to discuss sexual intercourse at that age.
    Your five year old presumably knows that there are men and women. They don't need to hear about intercourse to have an understanding of that fact. They don't need to know about penetration to understand that some couples are different genders and some couples are the same gender. They don't need to know what adults do with their genitals to know that sometimes people are born as one gender but prefer to live as another.

    You don't need to deliver all the yucky truth about everything all at once.
    Personally I wouldn't allow any sex education or discussion of gender identity in schools until pupils are 11 or over and have reached puberty
    Wait until kids have hit puberty before discussing puberty?

    Talk about waiting until the horse has bolted before closing the door.
    Unless you are a paedophile kids shoudn't be engaging in or discussing sex until they have reached puberty absolutely
    Kids absolutely shouldn't be engaging in sex until they are young adults.

    They should however be learning about it, at appropriate levels, before their hormones go wild rather than afterwards.
    NO they should not. Absolutely not. They should only start to learn about sex, only at an appropriate level, from age 11 and only in more detail from 16, the age of consent
    Okay.

    So, when my eldest daughter was ten, one of her schoolfriends came to visit. She was the same age.

    She (the schoolfriend) was extremely inappropriate towards me, to the point where I immediately went to get my wife and asked her to stay near me for the duration of this girl's visit, so she (the schoolfriend) never got to see me alone. This successfully dissuaded her from doing it any more (other than a few comments that got our eyebrows raising).

    Should her parents have spoken to her about sex and what was and was not appropriate? I thought they should; she'd obviously picked up what she had from conversations with other children and what appeared to be early hormones. Personally, I thought she was going to be very vulnerable to any adult with paedophilic tendencies.

    I take it you disagree?
    Clearly an illustration of too much sexualisation of young people in our culture generally, when we didn't have as much sex in the media and more traditional Christian family values it was less of an issue
    Right. So turns out hardly anybody believes in Christianity any more, in the sense of a God who sends you to Eternal Hellfire for sleeping with someone before marriage. Now what do you have to recommend?
    Remember: it's not premarital sex if you never get married.
  • turbotubbsturbotubbs Posts: 17,694

    This is what Drag Queen Story Hour is all about: written by a trans teacher and a drag queen

    Drag pedagogy: The playful practice of queer imagination in early childhood
    https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/03626784.2020.1864621

    "Though hardly uncontroversial in either domain, play remains a critical component of both drag and early childhood education. Like other forms of make-believe, drag functions as a uniquely queer form of embodied and unscripted play that invites creative world-building. In this way, drag aligns with many early theories of play. Johan Huizinga (Citation1949) described play as “a free activity standing quite consciously outside ‘ordinary’ life as being ‘not serious,’ but at the same time absorbing the player intensely and utterly” (p. 13). What is drag if not dressing up in special costumes and acting out a fantasy outside of everyday life? Play is also framed as inherently un-productive, or as Roger Caillois (1958/2001) stated, “an occasion of pure waste” (p. 5). We suggest that drag’s larger value lies largely outside of formal economies. Instead, our understanding of play is rooted in a spirit of amusement without a productive outcome. While drag has some conventions, it ultimately has no rules – its defining quality is often to break as many rules as possible! Thus, drag can be thought of as a kind of queer praxis that may be especially well-suited to early childhood education, not because of any qualities essential to young children, and instead because early education is one of the few remaining school settings that encourages play."

    Terrifying! They want children to play!
    "We are guided by the following question: what might Drag Queen Story Hour offer educators as a way of bringing queer ways of knowing and being into the education of young children?"
    "While there is a loose and practically oriented common architecture to a story hour (read a story, sing a song, rinse, and repeat), the queens do very little to teach anything explicitly. There is no lesson on the meaning of gender, no worksheets on how to be kind – all that is blasé. Such activities would betray integrity to form. Instead, the queens employ a more dialogic approach to pedagogy that is largely built on a captivating aesthetic that seeks to broaden the imagination."
    They could try writing in clear, rather than trying to dress up the language to make it sound better.






    And yes, pun intended.
  • NickPalmerNickPalmer Posts: 21,569
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    NO they should not. Absolutely not. They should only start to learn about sex, only at an appropriate level, from age 11 and only in more detail from 16, the age of consent

    Being informed about the minimum age of consent before you reach it is just sensible, don't you think? It gives you a pretty strong response to paedophilia - "What you're suggesting would actually be a criminal offence even if you persuaded me, so stop trying." It's a minimum, not a requirement, in the same way that a speed limit is a maximum, not a target.
  • ohnotnowohnotnow Posts: 4,034

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    Ross not keen on drag Queen story time

    @Douglas4Moray
    It’s totally inappropriate to hold a show like this for kids under the age of six.

    Story time for babies and young kids shouldn’t focus on gender or sexual identity.

    That is common sense and on behalf of constituents who’ve contacted me, I’ve raised this with the council.
    https://twitter.com/Douglas4Moray/status/1666006173932290048?s=20

    Is Roaster Ross going to get outraged by pantomimes?
    His argument seems to be pantomime dames don't push gender ideology
    I don't think Drag Queen Story Hour does either. This is just Moray copying US nonsense.
    'Encouraging children to develop a love of reading through imaginative story time, while promoting inclusion, diversity and acceptance...' Now nobody wants intolerance but 6 and under is rather young to be discussing Trans
    We teach kinds younger than that that there are different sexes. Is that wrong too?
    Well there are, that is a biological fact
    And there are transgender people. That is a sociological fact.
    Only through surgery and even with that and hormones treatment trans cyclists are no longer allowed to compete in female races as even with hormone suppression they still have an advantage over female cyclists
    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/cycling/65718748
    No, transgender people are transgender even without undergoing surgery.

    Maybe if you'd been taught this stuff at a younger age you'd be a little more clued in to the facts.
    So you want to teach 6 year olds they are transgender? No wonder you on the left are out of touch!
    You're confusing being taught that you are something, with being taught about other people. No wonder the Tories are out of touch with humanity.
    It is not appropriate for 6 year olds or even older primary school children. It should be a secondary school issue only
    Bollocks.

    I literally head the same arguments made about not exposing kids to gay ideology when Section 28 was a thing.

    My then 4 year old only had one question about attending a same sex wedding.

    'Which one of you throws the bouquet, and can you make sure my dad catches it?'
    I have a 5 year old and it's not appropriate to discuss sexual intercourse at that age.
    Your five year old presumably knows that there are men and women. They don't need to hear about intercourse to have an understanding of that fact. They don't need to know about penetration to understand that some couples are different genders and some couples are the same gender. They don't need to know what adults do with their genitals to know that sometimes people are born as one gender but prefer to live as another.

    You don't need to deliver all the yucky truth about everything all at once.
    Personally I wouldn't allow any sex education or discussion of gender identity in schools until pupils are 11 or over and have reached puberty
    Wait until kids have hit puberty before discussing puberty?

    Talk about waiting until the horse has bolted before closing the door.
    Unless you are a paedophile kids shoudn't be engaging in or discussing sex until they have reached puberty absolutely
    Kids absolutely shouldn't be engaging in sex until they are young adults.

    They should however be learning about it, at appropriate levels, before their hormones go wild rather than afterwards.
    NO they should not. Absolutely not. They should only start to learn about sex, only at an appropriate level, from age 11 and only in more detail from 16, the age of consent
    Okay.

    So, when my eldest daughter was ten, one of her schoolfriends came to visit. She was the same age.

    She (the schoolfriend) was extremely inappropriate towards me, to the point where I immediately went to get my wife and asked her to stay near me for the duration of this girl's visit, so she (the schoolfriend) never got to see me alone. This successfully dissuaded her from doing it any more (other than a few comments that got our eyebrows raising).

    Should her parents have spoken to her about sex and what was and was not appropriate? I thought they should; she'd obviously picked up what she had from conversations with other children and what appeared to be early hormones. Personally, I thought she was going to be very vulnerable to any adult with paedophilic tendencies.

    I take it you disagree?
    Clearly an illustration of too much sexualisation of young people in our culture generally, when we didn't have as much sex in the media and more traditional Christian family values it was less of an issue
    This particular event happened twenty years ago.

    Kids have always talked between each other about sex. Discussions on that happened when I was a child in the Seventies, and this particular event happened twenty years ago.

    Sexual abuse of children was more prevalent in the Seventies, Sixties, and Fifties - it was just brushed under the carpet and not discussed. Less sex in the media, more Christian family values, and more children getting abused and raped.

    People just preferred to go into denial. That same tendency is visible in some today.
    I remember late 70s/early 80s a house 'catching on fire' near me. The fire brigade turned up but the police wouldn't let them do anything until they'd carted out a whole load of 'paperwork'. Turned out the guy who lived there was a known kiddy-fiddler and also a friend of various councillors.

    Paperwork mysteriously disappeared shortly after and nothing more said.
  • LeonLeon Posts: 56,606
    At some point you will need to erect a special PB statue to me



    “US urged to reveal UFO evidence after claim that it has intact alien vehicles
    Whistleblower former intelligence official says government posseses ‘intact and partially intact’ craft of non-human origin”

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    “Biden ‘knew of Ukrainian plan to attack Nord Stream’ three months before explosion
    Washington Post reports that European intelligence service told CIA Ukrainian military was planning attack”


    https://www.theguardian.com/business/2023/jun/06/biden-knew-of-plan-to-attack-nord-stream-three-months-before-explosion
  • ydoethurydoethur Posts: 71,780
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    Ross not keen on drag Queen story time

    @Douglas4Moray
    It’s totally inappropriate to hold a show like this for kids under the age of six.

    Story time for babies and young kids shouldn’t focus on gender or sexual identity.

    That is common sense and on behalf of constituents who’ve contacted me, I’ve raised this with the council.
    https://twitter.com/Douglas4Moray/status/1666006173932290048?s=20

    Is Roaster Ross going to get outraged by pantomimes?
    His argument seems to be pantomime dames don't push gender ideology
    I don't think Drag Queen Story Hour does either. This is just Moray copying US nonsense.
    'Encouraging children to develop a love of reading through imaginative story time, while promoting inclusion, diversity and acceptance...' Now nobody wants intolerance but 6 and under is rather young to be discussing Trans
    We teach kinds younger than that that there are different sexes. Is that wrong too?
    Well there are, that is a biological fact
    And there are transgender people. That is a sociological fact.
    Only through surgery and even with that and hormones treatment trans cyclists are no longer allowed to compete in female races as even with hormone suppression they still have an advantage over female cyclists
    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/cycling/65718748
    No, transgender people are transgender even without undergoing surgery.

    Maybe if you'd been taught this stuff at a younger age you'd be a little more clued in to the facts.
    So you want to teach 6 year olds they are transgender? No wonder you on the left are out of touch!
    You're confusing being taught that you are something, with being taught about other people. No wonder the Tories are out of touch with humanity.
    It is not appropriate for 6 year olds or even older primary school children. It should be a secondary school issue only
    Bollocks.

    I literally head the same arguments made about not exposing kids to gay ideology when Section 28 was a thing.

    My then 4 year old only had one question about attending a same sex wedding.

    'Which one of you throws the bouquet, and can you make sure my dad catches it?'
    I have a 5 year old and it's not appropriate to discuss sexual intercourse at that age.
    Your five year old presumably knows that there are men and women. They don't need to hear about intercourse to have an understanding of that fact. They don't need to know about penetration to understand that some couples are different genders and some couples are the same gender. They don't need to know what adults do with their genitals to know that sometimes people are born as one gender but prefer to live as another.

    You don't need to deliver all the yucky truth about everything all at once.
    Personally I wouldn't allow any sex education or discussion of gender identity in schools until pupils are 11 or over and have reached puberty
    Wait until kids have hit puberty before discussing puberty?

    Talk about waiting until the horse has bolted before closing the door.
    Unless you are a paedophile kids shoudn't be engaging in or discussing sex until they have reached puberty absolutely
    Kids absolutely shouldn't be engaging in sex until they are young adults.

    They should however be learning about it, at appropriate levels, before their hormones go wild rather than afterwards.
    NO they should not. Absolutely not. They should only start to learn about sex, only at an appropriate level, from age 11 and only in more detail from 16, the age of consent
    Wow, just wow. Wait until they're past the age of consent before learning about it properly?

    Recipe for teenage pregnancies that.
    Is this the world you want, HYUFD?

    https://news.yahoo.com/colorado-rep-lauren-boebert-36-011800351.html

    Colorado representative Lauren Boebert, 36, announced she’s going to be a grandmother next month.

    The Republican firebrand made the declaration earlier this week at a Moms for America event, from which video started making the rounds Thursday.

    “Not only am I mom of four boys, but come April, I will be a GG to a brand new grandson,” she beamed.

    Newsweek reports that the child’s father is Boebert’s 17-year-old son, Tyler.

    Boebert’s announcement comes just days after she called for the elimination of “comprehensive sex ed” in public schools, according to Raw Story.
    The son was 17 when he became a father, 100 years ago that wouldn't have been uncommon when we had more traditional family values and over the age of consent in his state
    Would you mind answering the question? Is this the world you want now, today, not 100 years ago? Yes or no?
    Plenty of things were better in the 1920s
    I'm pretty conservative in my tastes.
    Yet I can't think of a single thing that was better in the 1920s.
    Train services, perhaps.
    Depends what you mean by better. They were more widespread, but slower, much dirtier, less comfortable and somewhat less safe.

    I can't think of one thing in the 1920s I would describe as better than today. Possibly the quality and variety of popular music, but that would be about it.
  • turbotubbsturbotubbs Posts: 17,694
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    Personally I wouldn't allow any sex education or discussion of gender identity in schools until pupils are 11 or over and have reached puberty

    Here's a recent systematic review on sex education: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1054139X20304560

    This review found strong evidence for the effectiveness of child sex abuse prevention efforts in elementary school. Such programs typically use behavioral practice and role-play [80] and encourage parental involvement [81,82]. They teach about body ownership and children's right to control their bodies [82] and about communication and self-protection [81,82]. A strong meta-analysis of 27 preschool through Grade 5 programs [80] and a systematic review of 24 K-5 programs [83] demonstrate significant effects on a wide range of outcomes, including behaviors in simulated at-risk situations. Another large systematic review concluded that, in general, parental involvement, opportunities for practice, repeated exposure, and sensitivity to developmental level were key characteristics of effective child sex abuse programs [81].

    Improved knowledge, attitudes, skills and social–emotional outcomes related to personal safety and touch
    A systematic review of 22 North American and UK curricula for K-6 children found significant increases in knowledge across programs, improved self-protective skills, particularly among older elementary students, and emotional gains in self-esteem, self-efficacy, and feelings of safety, in approximately one third of the programs. Gains in knowledge and some social–emotional outcomes remained at 3- to 5-month follow-up [84]. In a rigorous cluster randomized study of six New York City elementary schools, Safe Touches for second and third graders showed significant improvement in knowledge of safe touch [85]. Notably, intervention–control group differences were larger when “stranger danger” items were removed, suggesting that this curriculum was able to address inappropriate touch in a more nuanced way. Stay Safe primary prevention, for 7- and 10-year-olds in Ireland, demonstrated gains in knowledge, skills, and self-esteem, maintained at 3-month follow-up. Notably, gains were greatest for the younger students [82].

    Child abuse prevention programs for second to fourth graders demonstrated significant increases in knowledge of appropriate and inappropriate touch, what to do in an inappropriate situation [86], and increased knowledge and skill to identify unsafe situations [87]. A strong randomized study in 21 urban U.S. schools found gains were maintained at 1 year, with no increase in anxiety, concluding that it is safe to discuss sensitive subjects with young children, and demonstrating the value of early education [87]. A kindergarten program showed significant improvement in knowledge of unsafe secrets and distinguishing between tattling and reporting [88], and another program conducted with 123 Latinx preschoolers demonstrated increased knowledge and skills at post-test and 3-month follow-up [89].
    Don't talk to strangers worked fine, we don't need leftwing academic studies pushing sex education and gender identity lessons in primary schools. Full stop
    DTS didn't work.

    "Talk" and "strangers" don't match the facts, in various ways. Uncle X don't want to talk when he wants playtime.
    Yes it does work and always has, just it doesn't suit the ideology of you and your fellow leftwingers who want to sexualise young childrens' education.

    Trying to use a paedophile argument is pathetic, the number of paedophile encounters is less than 1% for per 100 children and that is for social services and the police to sort out instead of yet another attempt by the left to undermine the traditional family.
    The whole idea of DTS was to avoid paedophiles ... and plainly it is not working, given the scholarly evidence presented on this thread.
    Sadly the idea of the stranger as the main paedophile danger is wrong.
  • rcs1000rcs1000 Posts: 57,662
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    Ross not keen on drag Queen story time

    @Douglas4Moray
    It’s totally inappropriate to hold a show like this for kids under the age of six.

    Story time for babies and young kids shouldn’t focus on gender or sexual identity.

    That is common sense and on behalf of constituents who’ve contacted me, I’ve raised this with the council.
    https://twitter.com/Douglas4Moray/status/1666006173932290048?s=20

    Is Roaster Ross going to get outraged by pantomimes?
    His argument seems to be pantomime dames don't push gender ideology
    I don't think Drag Queen Story Hour does either. This is just Moray copying US nonsense.
    'Encouraging children to develop a love of reading through imaginative story time, while promoting inclusion, diversity and acceptance...' Now nobody wants intolerance but 6 and under is rather young to be discussing Trans
    We teach kinds younger than that that there are different sexes. Is that wrong too?
    Well there are, that is a biological fact
    And there are transgender people. That is a sociological fact.
    Only through surgery and even with that and hormones treatment trans cyclists are no longer allowed to compete in female races as even with hormone suppression they still have an advantage over female cyclists
    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/cycling/65718748
    No, transgender people are transgender even without undergoing surgery.

    Maybe if you'd been taught this stuff at a younger age you'd be a little more clued in to the facts.
    So you want to teach 6 year olds they are transgender? No wonder you on the left are out of touch!
    You're confusing being taught that you are something, with being taught about other people. No wonder the Tories are out of touch with humanity.
    It is not appropriate for 6 year olds or even older primary school children. It should be a secondary school issue only
    Bollocks.

    I literally head the same arguments made about not exposing kids to gay ideology when Section 28 was a thing.

    My then 4 year old only had one question about attending a same sex wedding.

    'Which one of you throws the bouquet, and can you make sure my dad catches it?'
    I have a 5 year old and it's not appropriate to discuss sexual intercourse at that age.
    Your five year old presumably knows that there are men and women. They don't need to hear about intercourse to have an understanding of that fact. They don't need to know about penetration to understand that some couples are different genders and some couples are the same gender. They don't need to know what adults do with their genitals to know that sometimes people are born as one gender but prefer to live as another.

    You don't need to deliver all the yucky truth about everything all at once.
    Personally I wouldn't allow any sex education or discussion of gender identity in schools until pupils are 11 or over and have reached puberty
    Wait until kids have hit puberty before discussing puberty?

    Talk about waiting until the horse has bolted before closing the door.
    Unless you are a paedophile kids shoudn't be engaging in or discussing sex until they have reached puberty absolutely
    Kids absolutely shouldn't be engaging in sex until they are young adults.

    They should however be learning about it, at appropriate levels, before their hormones go wild rather than afterwards.
    NO they should not. Absolutely not. They should only start to learn about sex, only at an appropriate level, from age 11 and only in more detail from 16, the age of consent
    Okay.

    So, when my eldest daughter was ten, one of her schoolfriends came to visit. She was the same age.

    She (the schoolfriend) was extremely inappropriate towards me, to the point where I immediately went to get my wife and asked her to stay near me for the duration of this girl's visit, so she (the schoolfriend) never got to see me alone. This successfully dissuaded her from doing it any more (other than a few comments that got our eyebrows raising).

    Should her parents have spoken to her about sex and what was and was not appropriate? I thought they should; she'd obviously picked up what she had from conversations with other children and what appeared to be early hormones. Personally, I thought she was going to be very vulnerable to any adult with paedophilic tendencies.

    I take it you disagree?
    Clearly an illustration of too much sexualisation of young people in our culture generally, when we didn't have as much sex in the media and more traditional Christian family values it was less of an issue
    This particular event happened twenty years ago.

    Kids have always talked between each other about sex. Discussions on that happened when I was a child in the Seventies, and this particular event happened twenty years ago.

    Sexual abuse of children was more prevalent in the Seventies, Sixties, and Fifties - it was just brushed under the carpet and not discussed. Less sex in the media, more Christian family values, and more children getting abused and raped.

    People just preferred to go into denial. That same tendency is visible in some today.
    Is there any evidence there was more paedophilia in the fifties? I highly doubt it, we also had lower divorce rates, higher marriage rates and a birthrate above replacement level
    The Catholic Church waves "hello!"

    And yes, there is ample evidence. People aged 60-79 are much more likely to report having been abused as a child than people aged 20 to 39.
  • HYUFDHYUFD Posts: 123,987

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    NO they should not. Absolutely not. They should only start to learn about sex, only at an appropriate level, from age 11 and only in more detail from 16, the age of consent

    Being informed about the minimum age of consent before you reach it is just sensible, don't you think? It gives you a pretty strong response to paedophilia - "What you're suggesting would actually be a criminal offence even if you persuaded me, so stop trying." It's a minimum, not a requirement, in the same way that a speed limit is a maximum, not a target.
    Once you reach puberty at 11 maybe, not earlier
  • dixiedeandixiedean Posts: 29,481
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    As ever, when the topic drifts on to education, I am left wondering who on Earth certain posters think is responsible for the current curriculum?

    Some useless twat. Or several.

    There's no shortage of them in the DfE or in politics.

    And they're all Tories.
    Indeed.
    Not a woke cabal of Cultural Marxists.
    Just Tory Party placemen and women.
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    Ross not keen on drag Queen story time

    @Douglas4Moray
    It’s totally inappropriate to hold a show like this for kids under the age of six.

    Story time for babies and young kids shouldn’t focus on gender or sexual identity.

    That is common sense and on behalf of constituents who’ve contacted me, I’ve raised this with the council.
    https://twitter.com/Douglas4Moray/status/1666006173932290048?s=20

    Is Roaster Ross going to get outraged by pantomimes?
    His argument seems to be pantomime dames don't push gender ideology
    I don't think Drag Queen Story Hour does either. This is just Moray copying US nonsense.
    'Encouraging children to develop a love of reading through imaginative story time, while promoting inclusion, diversity and acceptance...' Now nobody wants intolerance but 6 and under is rather young to be discussing Trans
    We teach kinds younger than that that there are different sexes. Is that wrong too?
    Well there are, that is a biological fact
    And there are transgender people. That is a sociological fact.
    Only through surgery and even with that and hormones treatment trans cyclists are no longer allowed to compete in female races as even with hormone suppression they still have an advantage over female cyclists
    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/cycling/65718748
    No, transgender people are transgender even without undergoing surgery.

    Maybe if you'd been taught this stuff at a younger age you'd be a little more clued in to the facts.
    So you want to teach 6 year olds they are transgender? No wonder you on the left are out of touch!
    You're confusing being taught that you are something, with being taught about other people. No wonder the Tories are out of touch with humanity.
    It is not appropriate for 6 year olds or even older primary school children. It should be a secondary school issue only
    Bollocks.

    I literally head the same arguments made about not exposing kids to gay ideology when Section 28 was a thing.

    My then 4 year old only had one question about attending a same sex wedding.

    'Which one of you throws the bouquet, and can you make sure my dad catches it?'
    I have a 5 year old and it's not appropriate to discuss sexual intercourse at that age.
    Your five year old presumably knows that there are men and women. They don't need to hear about intercourse to have an understanding of that fact. They don't need to know about penetration to understand that some couples are different genders and some couples are the same gender. They don't need to know what adults do with their genitals to know that sometimes people are born as one gender but prefer to live as another.

    You don't need to deliver all the yucky truth about everything all at once.
    Personally I wouldn't allow any sex education or discussion of gender identity in schools until pupils are 11 or over and have reached puberty
    Wait until kids have hit puberty before discussing puberty?

    Talk about waiting until the horse has bolted before closing the door.
    Unless you are a paedophile kids shoudn't be engaging in or discussing sex until they have reached puberty absolutely
    Kids absolutely shouldn't be engaging in sex until they are young adults.

    They should however be learning about it, at appropriate levels, before their hormones go wild rather than afterwards.
    NO they should not. Absolutely not. They should only start to learn about sex, only at an appropriate level, from age 11 and only in more detail from 16, the age of consent
    Wow, just wow. Wait until they're past the age of consent before learning about it properly?

    Recipe for teenage pregnancies that.
    Is this the world you want, HYUFD?

    https://news.yahoo.com/colorado-rep-lauren-boebert-36-011800351.html

    Colorado representative Lauren Boebert, 36, announced she’s going to be a grandmother next month.

    The Republican firebrand made the declaration earlier this week at a Moms for America event, from which video started making the rounds Thursday.

    “Not only am I mom of four boys, but come April, I will be a GG to a brand new grandson,” she beamed.

    Newsweek reports that the child’s father is Boebert’s 17-year-old son, Tyler.

    Boebert’s announcement comes just days after she called for the elimination of “comprehensive sex ed” in public schools, according to Raw Story.
    The son was 17 when he became a father, 100 years ago that wouldn't have been uncommon when we had more traditional family values and over the age of consent in his state
    Would you mind answering the question? Is this the world you want now, today, not 100 years ago? Yes or no?
    Plenty of things were better in the 1920s
    I'm pretty conservative in my tastes.
    Yet I can't think of a single thing that was better in the 1920s.
    Train services, perhaps.
    Huddersfield Town. 3 times champions and in top 3 six years in a row.
  • HYUFDHYUFD Posts: 123,987
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    Ross not keen on drag Queen story time

    @Douglas4Moray
    It’s totally inappropriate to hold a show like this for kids under the age of six.

    Story time for babies and young kids shouldn’t focus on gender or sexual identity.

    That is common sense and on behalf of constituents who’ve contacted me, I’ve raised this with the council.
    https://twitter.com/Douglas4Moray/status/1666006173932290048?s=20

    Is Roaster Ross going to get outraged by pantomimes?
    His argument seems to be pantomime dames don't push gender ideology
    I don't think Drag Queen Story Hour does either. This is just Moray copying US nonsense.
    'Encouraging children to develop a love of reading through imaginative story time, while promoting inclusion, diversity and acceptance...' Now nobody wants intolerance but 6 and under is rather young to be discussing Trans
    We teach kinds younger than that that there are different sexes. Is that wrong too?
    Well there are, that is a biological fact
    And there are transgender people. That is a sociological fact.
    Only through surgery and even with that and hormones treatment trans cyclists are no longer allowed to compete in female races as even with hormone suppression they still have an advantage over female cyclists
    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/cycling/65718748
    No, transgender people are transgender even without undergoing surgery.

    Maybe if you'd been taught this stuff at a younger age you'd be a little more clued in to the facts.
    So you want to teach 6 year olds they are transgender? No wonder you on the left are out of touch!
    You're confusing being taught that you are something, with being taught about other people. No wonder the Tories are out of touch with humanity.
    It is not appropriate for 6 year olds or even older primary school children. It should be a secondary school issue only
    Bollocks.

    I literally head the same arguments made about not exposing kids to gay ideology when Section 28 was a thing.

    My then 4 year old only had one question about attending a same sex wedding.

    'Which one of you throws the bouquet, and can you make sure my dad catches it?'
    I have a 5 year old and it's not appropriate to discuss sexual intercourse at that age.
    Your five year old presumably knows that there are men and women. They don't need to hear about intercourse to have an understanding of that fact. They don't need to know about penetration to understand that some couples are different genders and some couples are the same gender. They don't need to know what adults do with their genitals to know that sometimes people are born as one gender but prefer to live as another.

    You don't need to deliver all the yucky truth about everything all at once.
    Personally I wouldn't allow any sex education or discussion of gender identity in schools until pupils are 11 or over and have reached puberty
    Wait until kids have hit puberty before discussing puberty?

    Talk about waiting until the horse has bolted before closing the door.
    Unless you are a paedophile kids shoudn't be engaging in or discussing sex until they have reached puberty absolutely
    Kids absolutely shouldn't be engaging in sex until they are young adults.

    They should however be learning about it, at appropriate levels, before their hormones go wild rather than afterwards.
    NO they should not. Absolutely not. They should only start to learn about sex, only at an appropriate level, from age 11 and only in more detail from 16, the age of consent
    Okay.

    So, when my eldest daughter was ten, one of her schoolfriends came to visit. She was the same age.

    She (the schoolfriend) was extremely inappropriate towards me, to the point where I immediately went to get my wife and asked her to stay near me for the duration of this girl's visit, so she (the schoolfriend) never got to see me alone. This successfully dissuaded her from doing it any more (other than a few comments that got our eyebrows raising).

    Should her parents have spoken to her about sex and what was and was not appropriate? I thought they should; she'd obviously picked up what she had from conversations with other children and what appeared to be early hormones. Personally, I thought she was going to be very vulnerable to any adult with paedophilic tendencies.

    I take it you disagree?
    Clearly an illustration of too much sexualisation of young people in our culture generally, when we didn't have as much sex in the media and more traditional Christian family values it was less of an issue
    This particular event happened twenty years ago.

    Kids have always talked between each other about sex. Discussions on that happened when I was a child in the Seventies, and this particular event happened twenty years ago.

    Sexual abuse of children was more prevalent in the Seventies, Sixties, and Fifties - it was just brushed under the carpet and not discussed. Less sex in the media, more Christian family values, and more children getting abused and raped.

    People just preferred to go into denial. That same tendency is visible in some today.
    Is there any evidence there was more paedophilia in the fifties? I highly doubt it, we also had lower divorce rates, higher marriage rates and a birthrate above replacement level
    The Catholic Church waves "hello!"

    And yes, there is ample evidence. People aged 60-79 are much more likely to report having been abused as a child than people aged 20 to 39.
    Stats for that? Say what you like about the Catholic church, at least they promote traditional marriage and having children and the family
  • Big_G_NorthWalesBig_G_NorthWales Posts: 63,657

    Can we please get HYUFamilyvaluesD out on the stump? Lets get that Tory % down below 20%.

    He certainly does not represent my views but then the little englander right of the conservative party is a big problem for the party
  • dixiedeandixiedean Posts: 29,481
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    Ross not keen on drag Queen story time

    @Douglas4Moray
    It’s totally inappropriate to hold a show like this for kids under the age of six.

    Story time for babies and young kids shouldn’t focus on gender or sexual identity.

    That is common sense and on behalf of constituents who’ve contacted me, I’ve raised this with the council.
    https://twitter.com/Douglas4Moray/status/1666006173932290048?s=20

    Is Roaster Ross going to get outraged by pantomimes?
    His argument seems to be pantomime dames don't push gender ideology
    I don't think Drag Queen Story Hour does either. This is just Moray copying US nonsense.
    'Encouraging children to develop a love of reading through imaginative story time, while promoting inclusion, diversity and acceptance...' Now nobody wants intolerance but 6 and under is rather young to be discussing Trans
    We teach kinds younger than that that there are different sexes. Is that wrong too?
    Well there are, that is a biological fact
    And there are transgender people. That is a sociological fact.
    Only through surgery and even with that and hormones treatment trans cyclists are no longer allowed to compete in female races as even with hormone suppression they still have an advantage over female cyclists
    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/cycling/65718748
    No, transgender people are transgender even without undergoing surgery.

    Maybe if you'd been taught this stuff at a younger age you'd be a little more clued in to the facts.
    So you want to teach 6 year olds they are transgender? No wonder you on the left are out of touch!
    You're confusing being taught that you are something, with being taught about other people. No wonder the Tories are out of touch with humanity.
    It is not appropriate for 6 year olds or even older primary school children. It should be a secondary school issue only
    Bollocks.

    I literally head the same arguments made about not exposing kids to gay ideology when Section 28 was a thing.

    My then 4 year old only had one question about attending a same sex wedding.

    'Which one of you throws the bouquet, and can you make sure my dad catches it?'
    I have a 5 year old and it's not appropriate to discuss sexual intercourse at that age.
    Your five year old presumably knows that there are men and women. They don't need to hear about intercourse to have an understanding of that fact. They don't need to know about penetration to understand that some couples are different genders and some couples are the same gender. They don't need to know what adults do with their genitals to know that sometimes people are born as one gender but prefer to live as another.

    You don't need to deliver all the yucky truth about everything all at once.
    Personally I wouldn't allow any sex education or discussion of gender identity in schools until pupils are 11 or over and have reached puberty
    Wait until kids have hit puberty before discussing puberty?

    Talk about waiting until the horse has bolted before closing the door.
    Unless you are a paedophile kids shoudn't be engaging in or discussing sex until they have reached puberty absolutely
    Kids absolutely shouldn't be engaging in sex until they are young adults.

    They should however be learning about it, at appropriate levels, before their hormones go wild rather than afterwards.
    NO they should not. Absolutely not. They should only start to learn about sex, only at an appropriate level, from age 11 and only in more detail from 16, the age of consent
    Okay.

    So, when my eldest daughter was ten, one of her schoolfriends came to visit. She was the same age.

    She (the schoolfriend) was extremely inappropriate towards me, to the point where I immediately went to get my wife and asked her to stay near me for the duration of this girl's visit, so she (the schoolfriend) never got to see me alone. This successfully dissuaded her from doing it any more (other than a few comments that got our eyebrows raising).

    Should her parents have spoken to her about sex and what was and was not appropriate? I thought they should; she'd obviously picked up what she had from conversations with other children and what appeared to be early hormones. Personally, I thought she was going to be very vulnerable to any adult with paedophilic tendencies.

    I take it you disagree?
    Clearly an illustration of too much sexualisation of young people in our culture generally, when we didn't have as much sex in the media and more traditional Christian family values it was less of an issue
    This particular event happened twenty years ago.

    Kids have always talked between each other about sex. Discussions on that happened when I was a child in the Seventies, and this particular event happened twenty years ago.

    Sexual abuse of children was more prevalent in the Seventies, Sixties, and Fifties - it was just brushed under the carpet and not discussed. Less sex in the media, more Christian family values, and more children getting abused and raped.

    People just preferred to go into denial. That same tendency is visible in some today.
    I remember late 70s/early 80s a house 'catching on fire' near me. The fire brigade turned up but the police wouldn't let them do anything until they'd carted out a whole load of 'paperwork'. Turned out the guy who lived there was a known kiddy-fiddler and also a friend of various councillors.

    Paperwork mysteriously disappeared shortly after and nothing more said.
    Wouldn't it have been simpler to let said paperwork burn?
  • HYUFDHYUFD Posts: 123,987

    Can we please get HYUFamilyvaluesD out on the stump? Lets get that Tory % down below 20%.

    He certainly does not represent my views but then the little englander right of the conservative party is a big problem for the party
    Many Irish Catholic nationalists would agree with me on this
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    Ross not keen on drag Queen story time

    @Douglas4Moray
    It’s totally inappropriate to hold a show like this for kids under the age of six.

    Story time for babies and young kids shouldn’t focus on gender or sexual identity.

    That is common sense and on behalf of constituents who’ve contacted me, I’ve raised this with the council.
    https://twitter.com/Douglas4Moray/status/1666006173932290048?s=20

    Is Roaster Ross going to get outraged by pantomimes?
    His argument seems to be pantomime dames don't push gender ideology
    I don't think Drag Queen Story Hour does either. This is just Moray copying US nonsense.
    'Encouraging children to develop a love of reading through imaginative story time, while promoting inclusion, diversity and acceptance...' Now nobody wants intolerance but 6 and under is rather young to be discussing Trans
    We teach kinds younger than that that there are different sexes. Is that wrong too?
    Well there are, that is a biological fact
    And there are transgender people. That is a sociological fact.
    Only through surgery and even with that and hormones treatment trans cyclists are no longer allowed to compete in female races as even with hormone suppression they still have an advantage over female cyclists
    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/cycling/65718748
    No, transgender people are transgender even without undergoing surgery.

    Maybe if you'd been taught this stuff at a younger age you'd be a little more clued in to the facts.
    So you want to teach 6 year olds they are transgender? No wonder you on the left are out of touch!
    You're confusing being taught that you are something, with being taught about other people. No wonder the Tories are out of touch with humanity.
    It is not appropriate for 6 year olds or even older primary school children. It should be a secondary school issue only
    Bollocks.

    I literally head the same arguments made about not exposing kids to gay ideology when Section 28 was a thing.

    My then 4 year old only had one question about attending a same sex wedding.

    'Which one of you throws the bouquet, and can you make sure my dad catches it?'
    I have a 5 year old and it's not appropriate to discuss sexual intercourse at that age.
    Your five year old presumably knows that there are men and women. They don't need to hear about intercourse to have an understanding of that fact. They don't need to know about penetration to understand that some couples are different genders and some couples are the same gender. They don't need to know what adults do with their genitals to know that sometimes people are born as one gender but prefer to live as another.

    You don't need to deliver all the yucky truth about everything all at once.
    Personally I wouldn't allow any sex education or discussion of gender identity in schools until pupils are 11 or over and have reached puberty
    Wait until kids have hit puberty before discussing puberty?

    Talk about waiting until the horse has bolted before closing the door.
    Unless you are a paedophile kids shoudn't be engaging in or discussing sex until they have reached puberty absolutely
    Kids absolutely shouldn't be engaging in sex until they are young adults.

    They should however be learning about it, at appropriate levels, before their hormones go wild rather than afterwards.
    NO they should not. Absolutely not. They should only start to learn about sex, only at an appropriate level, from age 11 and only in more detail from 16, the age of consent
    Okay.

    So, when my eldest daughter was ten, one of her schoolfriends came to visit. She was the same age.

    She (the schoolfriend) was extremely inappropriate towards me, to the point where I immediately went to get my wife and asked her to stay near me for the duration of this girl's visit, so she (the schoolfriend) never got to see me alone. This successfully dissuaded her from doing it any more (other than a few comments that got our eyebrows raising).

    Should her parents have spoken to her about sex and what was and was not appropriate? I thought they should; she'd obviously picked up what she had from conversations with other children and what appeared to be early hormones. Personally, I thought she was going to be very vulnerable to any adult with paedophilic tendencies.

    I take it you disagree?
    Clearly an illustration of too much sexualisation of young people in our culture generally, when we didn't have as much sex in the media and more traditional Christian family values it was less of an issue
    This particular event happened twenty years ago.

    Kids have always talked between each other about sex. Discussions on that happened when I was a child in the Seventies, and this particular event happened twenty years ago.

    Sexual abuse of children was more prevalent in the Seventies, Sixties, and Fifties - it was just brushed under the carpet and not discussed. Less sex in the media, more Christian family values, and more children getting abused and raped.

    People just preferred to go into denial. That same tendency is visible in some today.
    Is there any evidence there was more paedophilia in the fifties? I highly doubt it, we also had lower divorce rates, higher marriage rates and a birthrate above replacement level
    The Catholic Church waves "hello!"

    And yes, there is ample evidence. People aged 60-79 are much more likely to report having been abused as a child than people aged 20 to 39.
    Stats for that? Say what you like about the Catholic church, at least they promote traditional marriage and having children and the family
    We will.

    And there is a significant difference between 'promoting' and 'practising' in this case.
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    Ross not keen on drag Queen story time

    @Douglas4Moray
    It’s totally inappropriate to hold a show like this for kids under the age of six.

    Story time for babies and young kids shouldn’t focus on gender or sexual identity.

    That is common sense and on behalf of constituents who’ve contacted me, I’ve raised this with the council.
    https://twitter.com/Douglas4Moray/status/1666006173932290048?s=20

    Is Roaster Ross going to get outraged by pantomimes?
    His argument seems to be pantomime dames don't push gender ideology
    I don't think Drag Queen Story Hour does either. This is just Moray copying US nonsense.
    'Encouraging children to develop a love of reading through imaginative story time, while promoting inclusion, diversity and acceptance...' Now nobody wants intolerance but 6 and under is rather young to be discussing Trans
    We teach kinds younger than that that there are different sexes. Is that wrong too?
    Well there are, that is a biological fact
    And there are transgender people. That is a sociological fact.
    Only through surgery and even with that and hormones treatment trans cyclists are no longer allowed to compete in female races as even with hormone suppression they still have an advantage over female cyclists
    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/cycling/65718748
    No, transgender people are transgender even without undergoing surgery.

    Maybe if you'd been taught this stuff at a younger age you'd be a little more clued in to the facts.
    So you want to teach 6 year olds they are transgender? No wonder you on the left are out of touch!
    You're confusing being taught that you are something, with being taught about other people. No wonder the Tories are out of touch with humanity.
    It is not appropriate for 6 year olds or even older primary school children. It should be a secondary school issue only
    Bollocks.

    I literally head the same arguments made about not exposing kids to gay ideology when Section 28 was a thing.

    My then 4 year old only had one question about attending a same sex wedding.

    'Which one of you throws the bouquet, and can you make sure my dad catches it?'
    I have a 5 year old and it's not appropriate to discuss sexual intercourse at that age.
    Your five year old presumably knows that there are men and women. They don't need to hear about intercourse to have an understanding of that fact. They don't need to know about penetration to understand that some couples are different genders and some couples are the same gender. They don't need to know what adults do with their genitals to know that sometimes people are born as one gender but prefer to live as another.

    You don't need to deliver all the yucky truth about everything all at once.
    Personally I wouldn't allow any sex education or discussion of gender identity in schools until pupils are 11 or over and have reached puberty
    Wait until kids have hit puberty before discussing puberty?

    Talk about waiting until the horse has bolted before closing the door.
    Unless you are a paedophile kids shoudn't be engaging in or discussing sex until they have reached puberty absolutely
    Kids absolutely shouldn't be engaging in sex until they are young adults.

    They should however be learning about it, at appropriate levels, before their hormones go wild rather than afterwards.
    NO they should not. Absolutely not. They should only start to learn about sex, only at an appropriate level, from age 11 and only in more detail from 16, the age of consent
    Wow, just wow. Wait until they're past the age of consent before learning about it properly?

    Recipe for teenage pregnancies that.
    Is this the world you want, HYUFD?

    https://news.yahoo.com/colorado-rep-lauren-boebert-36-011800351.html

    Colorado representative Lauren Boebert, 36, announced she’s going to be a grandmother next month.

    The Republican firebrand made the declaration earlier this week at a Moms for America event, from which video started making the rounds Thursday.

    “Not only am I mom of four boys, but come April, I will be a GG to a brand new grandson,” she beamed.

    Newsweek reports that the child’s father is Boebert’s 17-year-old son, Tyler.

    Boebert’s announcement comes just days after she called for the elimination of “comprehensive sex ed” in public schools, according to Raw Story.
    The son was 17 when he became a father, 100 years ago that wouldn't have been uncommon when we had more traditional family values and over the age of consent in his state
    Would you mind answering the question? Is this the world you want now, today, not 100 years ago? Yes or no?
    Plenty of things were better in the 1920s
    I'm pretty conservative in my tastes.
    Yet I can't think of a single thing that was better in the 1920s.
    Train services, perhaps.
    Far superior cloche hats. Wax cylinder tech was amazing. And you could post a handwritten note to "Mssrs Politicalbetting, NW1 0GH" and have it appear in print just a few months later.
  • ydoethurydoethur Posts: 71,780
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    Ross not keen on drag Queen story time

    @Douglas4Moray
    It’s totally inappropriate to hold a show like this for kids under the age of six.

    Story time for babies and young kids shouldn’t focus on gender or sexual identity.

    That is common sense and on behalf of constituents who’ve contacted me, I’ve raised this with the council.
    https://twitter.com/Douglas4Moray/status/1666006173932290048?s=20

    Is Roaster Ross going to get outraged by pantomimes?
    His argument seems to be pantomime dames don't push gender ideology
    I don't think Drag Queen Story Hour does either. This is just Moray copying US nonsense.
    'Encouraging children to develop a love of reading through imaginative story time, while promoting inclusion, diversity and acceptance...' Now nobody wants intolerance but 6 and under is rather young to be discussing Trans
    We teach kinds younger than that that there are different sexes. Is that wrong too?
    Well there are, that is a biological fact
    And there are transgender people. That is a sociological fact.
    Only through surgery and even with that and hormones treatment trans cyclists are no longer allowed to compete in female races as even with hormone suppression they still have an advantage over female cyclists
    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/cycling/65718748
    No, transgender people are transgender even without undergoing surgery.

    Maybe if you'd been taught this stuff at a younger age you'd be a little more clued in to the facts.
    So you want to teach 6 year olds they are transgender? No wonder you on the left are out of touch!
    You're confusing being taught that you are something, with being taught about other people. No wonder the Tories are out of touch with humanity.
    It is not appropriate for 6 year olds or even older primary school children. It should be a secondary school issue only
    Bollocks.

    I literally head the same arguments made about not exposing kids to gay ideology when Section 28 was a thing.

    My then 4 year old only had one question about attending a same sex wedding.

    'Which one of you throws the bouquet, and can you make sure my dad catches it?'
    I have a 5 year old and it's not appropriate to discuss sexual intercourse at that age.
    Your five year old presumably knows that there are men and women. They don't need to hear about intercourse to have an understanding of that fact. They don't need to know about penetration to understand that some couples are different genders and some couples are the same gender. They don't need to know what adults do with their genitals to know that sometimes people are born as one gender but prefer to live as another.

    You don't need to deliver all the yucky truth about everything all at once.
    Personally I wouldn't allow any sex education or discussion of gender identity in schools until pupils are 11 or over and have reached puberty
    Wait until kids have hit puberty before discussing puberty?

    Talk about waiting until the horse has bolted before closing the door.
    Unless you are a paedophile kids shoudn't be engaging in or discussing sex until they have reached puberty absolutely
    Kids absolutely shouldn't be engaging in sex until they are young adults.

    They should however be learning about it, at appropriate levels, before their hormones go wild rather than afterwards.
    NO they should not. Absolutely not. They should only start to learn about sex, only at an appropriate level, from age 11 and only in more detail from 16, the age of consent
    Wow, just wow. Wait until they're past the age of consent before learning about it properly?

    Recipe for teenage pregnancies that.
    Is this the world you want, HYUFD?

    https://news.yahoo.com/colorado-rep-lauren-boebert-36-011800351.html

    Colorado representative Lauren Boebert, 36, announced she’s going to be a grandmother next month.

    The Republican firebrand made the declaration earlier this week at a Moms for America event, from which video started making the rounds Thursday.

    “Not only am I mom of four boys, but come April, I will be a GG to a brand new grandson,” she beamed.

    Newsweek reports that the child’s father is Boebert’s 17-year-old son, Tyler.

    Boebert’s announcement comes just days after she called for the elimination of “comprehensive sex ed” in public schools, according to Raw Story.
    The son was 17 when he became a father, 100 years ago that wouldn't have been uncommon when we had more traditional family values and over the age of consent in his state
    Would you mind answering the question? Is this the world you want now, today, not 100 years ago? Yes or no?
    Plenty of things were better in the 1920s
    I'm pretty conservative in my tastes.
    Yet I can't think of a single thing that was better in the 1920s.
    Train services, perhaps.
    Graffiti vandals used chalk, not spray paint.

    Also Twitter wasn't invented yet.
    They also used paint and brushes, actually.

    Twitter I will give you.
  • viewcodeviewcode Posts: 22,424
    Farooq said:

    HYUFD said:

    HYUFD said:

    Ross not keen on drag Queen story time

    @Douglas4Moray
    It’s totally inappropriate to hold a show like this for kids under the age of six.

    Story time for babies and young kids shouldn’t focus on gender or sexual identity.

    That is common sense and on behalf of constituents who’ve contacted me, I’ve raised this with the council.
    https://twitter.com/Douglas4Moray/status/1666006173932290048?s=20

    Is Roaster Ross going to get outraged by pantomimes?
    His argument seems to be pantomime dames don't push gender ideology
    Oh yes they do
    Oh no they don't 😀
  • LeonLeon Posts: 56,606
    “The non-human intelligence phenomenon is real. We are not alone,” Grey said. “Retrievals of this kind are not limited to the United States. This is a global phenomenon, and yet a global solution continues to elude us.”

    😎😶
  • ohnotnowohnotnow Posts: 4,034
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    Ross not keen on drag Queen story time

    @Douglas4Moray
    It’s totally inappropriate to hold a show like this for kids under the age of six.

    Story time for babies and young kids shouldn’t focus on gender or sexual identity.

    That is common sense and on behalf of constituents who’ve contacted me, I’ve raised this with the council.
    https://twitter.com/Douglas4Moray/status/1666006173932290048?s=20

    Is Roaster Ross going to get outraged by pantomimes?
    His argument seems to be pantomime dames don't push gender ideology
    I don't think Drag Queen Story Hour does either. This is just Moray copying US nonsense.
    'Encouraging children to develop a love of reading through imaginative story time, while promoting inclusion, diversity and acceptance...' Now nobody wants intolerance but 6 and under is rather young to be discussing Trans
    We teach kinds younger than that that there are different sexes. Is that wrong too?
    Well there are, that is a biological fact
    And there are transgender people. That is a sociological fact.
    Only through surgery and even with that and hormones treatment trans cyclists are no longer allowed to compete in female races as even with hormone suppression they still have an advantage over female cyclists
    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/cycling/65718748
    No, transgender people are transgender even without undergoing surgery.

    Maybe if you'd been taught this stuff at a younger age you'd be a little more clued in to the facts.
    So you want to teach 6 year olds they are transgender? No wonder you on the left are out of touch!
    You're confusing being taught that you are something, with being taught about other people. No wonder the Tories are out of touch with humanity.
    It is not appropriate for 6 year olds or even older primary school children. It should be a secondary school issue only
    Bollocks.

    I literally head the same arguments made about not exposing kids to gay ideology when Section 28 was a thing.

    My then 4 year old only had one question about attending a same sex wedding.

    'Which one of you throws the bouquet, and can you make sure my dad catches it?'
    I have a 5 year old and it's not appropriate to discuss sexual intercourse at that age.
    Your five year old presumably knows that there are men and women. They don't need to hear about intercourse to have an understanding of that fact. They don't need to know about penetration to understand that some couples are different genders and some couples are the same gender. They don't need to know what adults do with their genitals to know that sometimes people are born as one gender but prefer to live as another.

    You don't need to deliver all the yucky truth about everything all at once.
    Personally I wouldn't allow any sex education or discussion of gender identity in schools until pupils are 11 or over and have reached puberty
    Wait until kids have hit puberty before discussing puberty?

    Talk about waiting until the horse has bolted before closing the door.
    Unless you are a paedophile kids shoudn't be engaging in or discussing sex until they have reached puberty absolutely
    Kids absolutely shouldn't be engaging in sex until they are young adults.

    They should however be learning about it, at appropriate levels, before their hormones go wild rather than afterwards.
    NO they should not. Absolutely not. They should only start to learn about sex, only at an appropriate level, from age 11 and only in more detail from 16, the age of consent
    Okay.

    So, when my eldest daughter was ten, one of her schoolfriends came to visit. She was the same age.

    She (the schoolfriend) was extremely inappropriate towards me, to the point where I immediately went to get my wife and asked her to stay near me for the duration of this girl's visit, so she (the schoolfriend) never got to see me alone. This successfully dissuaded her from doing it any more (other than a few comments that got our eyebrows raising).

    Should her parents have spoken to her about sex and what was and was not appropriate? I thought they should; she'd obviously picked up what she had from conversations with other children and what appeared to be early hormones. Personally, I thought she was going to be very vulnerable to any adult with paedophilic tendencies.

    I take it you disagree?
    Clearly an illustration of too much sexualisation of young people in our culture generally, when we didn't have as much sex in the media and more traditional Christian family values it was less of an issue
    This particular event happened twenty years ago.

    Kids have always talked between each other about sex. Discussions on that happened when I was a child in the Seventies, and this particular event happened twenty years ago.

    Sexual abuse of children was more prevalent in the Seventies, Sixties, and Fifties - it was just brushed under the carpet and not discussed. Less sex in the media, more Christian family values, and more children getting abused and raped.

    People just preferred to go into denial. That same tendency is visible in some today.
    I remember late 70s/early 80s a house 'catching on fire' near me. The fire brigade turned up but the police wouldn't let them do anything until they'd carted out a whole load of 'paperwork'. Turned out the guy who lived there was a known kiddy-fiddler and also a friend of various councillors.

    Paperwork mysteriously disappeared shortly after and nothing more said.
    Wouldn't it have been simpler to let said paperwork burn?
    The suspicion was that it contained a lot of 'paperwork' that some people enjoyed.
  • Big_G_NorthWalesBig_G_NorthWales Posts: 63,657
    HYUFD said:

    Can we please get HYUFamilyvaluesD out on the stump? Lets get that Tory % down below 20%.

    He certainly does not represent my views but then the little englander right of the conservative party is a big problem for the party
    Many Irish Catholic nationalists would agree with me on this
    Not sure how relevant they are to the UK conservative party
  • Sunil_PrasannanSunil_Prasannan Posts: 52,156
    HYUFD said:

    Can we please get HYUFamilyvaluesD out on the stump? Lets get that Tory % down below 20%.

    He certainly does not represent my views but then the little englander right of the conservative party is a big problem for the party
    Many Irish Catholic nationalists would agree with me on this
    "The Brits partitioned MY country too, you know!" :lol:
  • ydoethurydoethur Posts: 71,780

    HYUFD said:

    Can we please get HYUFamilyvaluesD out on the stump? Lets get that Tory % down below 20%.

    He certainly does not represent my views but then the little englander right of the conservative party is a big problem for the party
    Many Irish Catholic nationalists would agree with me on this
    Not sure how relevant they are to the UK conservative party
    Surely the more pertinent question is how 'many' of those are left?
  • MalmesburyMalmesbury Posts: 51,177
    ydoethur said:

    Tolerance of shoplifting is being taken to extremes in the USA.

    https://twitter.com/nypost/status/1665813094616924161

    Lululemon’s CEO stands by his decision to axe two employees who called the police while three masked men robbed a Georgia outpost, citing the company’s “zero-tolerance policy” for intervening with a robbery as a reason for firing the workers.

    Bloody good job @Cyclefree 's son doesn't work for that company.
    What actually happening is this

    1) in the US, any company that doesn’t have a very strict policy of employees not physically interacting with robbers, will get sued to oblivion by employees who get themselves injured.
    2) in the past, tolerating employing fighting back has been taken a evidence of the actual company policy being to fight back
    3) because of health costs, juries award big settlements against companies when employees get injured.

    So the company in this case is actually protecting themselves and their insurance costs.
  • rcs1000rcs1000 Posts: 57,662
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    Ross not keen on drag Queen story time

    @Douglas4Moray
    It’s totally inappropriate to hold a show like this for kids under the age of six.

    Story time for babies and young kids shouldn’t focus on gender or sexual identity.

    That is common sense and on behalf of constituents who’ve contacted me, I’ve raised this with the council.
    https://twitter.com/Douglas4Moray/status/1666006173932290048?s=20

    Is Roaster Ross going to get outraged by pantomimes?
    His argument seems to be pantomime dames don't push gender ideology
    I don't think Drag Queen Story Hour does either. This is just Moray copying US nonsense.
    'Encouraging children to develop a love of reading through imaginative story time, while promoting inclusion, diversity and acceptance...' Now nobody wants intolerance but 6 and under is rather young to be discussing Trans
    We teach kinds younger than that that there are different sexes. Is that wrong too?
    Well there are, that is a biological fact
    And there are transgender people. That is a sociological fact.
    Only through surgery and even with that and hormones treatment trans cyclists are no longer allowed to compete in female races as even with hormone suppression they still have an advantage over female cyclists
    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/cycling/65718748
    No, transgender people are transgender even without undergoing surgery.

    Maybe if you'd been taught this stuff at a younger age you'd be a little more clued in to the facts.
    So you want to teach 6 year olds they are transgender? No wonder you on the left are out of touch!
    You're confusing being taught that you are something, with being taught about other people. No wonder the Tories are out of touch with humanity.
    It is not appropriate for 6 year olds or even older primary school children. It should be a secondary school issue only
    Bollocks.

    I literally head the same arguments made about not exposing kids to gay ideology when Section 28 was a thing.

    My then 4 year old only had one question about attending a same sex wedding.

    'Which one of you throws the bouquet, and can you make sure my dad catches it?'
    I have a 5 year old and it's not appropriate to discuss sexual intercourse at that age.
    Your five year old presumably knows that there are men and women. They don't need to hear about intercourse to have an understanding of that fact. They don't need to know about penetration to understand that some couples are different genders and some couples are the same gender. They don't need to know what adults do with their genitals to know that sometimes people are born as one gender but prefer to live as another.

    You don't need to deliver all the yucky truth about everything all at once.
    Personally I wouldn't allow any sex education or discussion of gender identity in schools until pupils are 11 or over and have reached puberty
    Wait until kids have hit puberty before discussing puberty?

    Talk about waiting until the horse has bolted before closing the door.
    Unless you are a paedophile kids shoudn't be engaging in or discussing sex until they have reached puberty absolutely
    Kids absolutely shouldn't be engaging in sex until they are young adults.

    They should however be learning about it, at appropriate levels, before their hormones go wild rather than afterwards.
    NO they should not. Absolutely not. They should only start to learn about sex, only at an appropriate level, from age 11 and only in more detail from 16, the age of consent
    Okay.

    So, when my eldest daughter was ten, one of her schoolfriends came to visit. She was the same age.

    She (the schoolfriend) was extremely inappropriate towards me, to the point where I immediately went to get my wife and asked her to stay near me for the duration of this girl's visit, so she (the schoolfriend) never got to see me alone. This successfully dissuaded her from doing it any more (other than a few comments that got our eyebrows raising).

    Should her parents have spoken to her about sex and what was and was not appropriate? I thought they should; she'd obviously picked up what she had from conversations with other children and what appeared to be early hormones. Personally, I thought she was going to be very vulnerable to any adult with paedophilic tendencies.

    I take it you disagree?
    Clearly an illustration of too much sexualisation of young people in our culture generally, when we didn't have as much sex in the media and more traditional Christian family values it was less of an issue
    This particular event happened twenty years ago.

    Kids have always talked between each other about sex. Discussions on that happened when I was a child in the Seventies, and this particular event happened twenty years ago.

    Sexual abuse of children was more prevalent in the Seventies, Sixties, and Fifties - it was just brushed under the carpet and not discussed. Less sex in the media, more Christian family values, and more children getting abused and raped.

    People just preferred to go into denial. That same tendency is visible in some today.
    Is there any evidence there was more paedophilia in the fifties? I highly doubt it, we also had lower divorce rates, higher marriage rates and a birthrate above replacement level
    The Catholic Church waves "hello!"

    And yes, there is ample evidence. People aged 60-79 are much more likely to report having been abused as a child than people aged 20 to 39.
    Stats for that? Say what you like about the Catholic church, at least they promote traditional marriage and having children and the family
    How much sexual abuse is acceptable if you promote traditional marriage?
  • TimSTimS Posts: 13,217
    Hmm, so an awks situation in the S household this evening. My wife is downstairs dialled into a zoom council planning meeting about a proposed development right behind our house. That’s right, literally IMBY.

    It’s a pile on, the righteously indignant residents objecting to loss of light, building disruption, change of roofline in conservation area, blocked access, you name it.

    I am absolutely fine with the development as we need more residential construction, and the plans look nice enough, certainly the bits that will look over our garden.

    But I am staying extremely silent. When faced the NIMBY blob you have to know what’s good for you.
  • Big_G_NorthWalesBig_G_NorthWales Posts: 63,657
    ydoethur said:

    HYUFD said:

    Can we please get HYUFamilyvaluesD out on the stump? Lets get that Tory % down below 20%.

    He certainly does not represent my views but then the little englander right of the conservative party is a big problem for the party
    Many Irish Catholic nationalists would agree with me on this
    Not sure how relevant they are to the UK conservative party
    Surely the more pertinent question is how 'many' of those are left?
    Some of us hope for sanity and a one nation party to rise after GE24
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    Ross not keen on drag Queen story time

    @Douglas4Moray
    It’s totally inappropriate to hold a show like this for kids under the age of six.

    Story time for babies and young kids shouldn’t focus on gender or sexual identity.

    That is common sense and on behalf of constituents who’ve contacted me, I’ve raised this with the council.
    https://twitter.com/Douglas4Moray/status/1666006173932290048?s=20

    Is Roaster Ross going to get outraged by pantomimes?
    His argument seems to be pantomime dames don't push gender ideology
    I don't think Drag Queen Story Hour does either. This is just Moray copying US nonsense.
    'Encouraging children to develop a love of reading through imaginative story time, while promoting inclusion, diversity and acceptance...' Now nobody wants intolerance but 6 and under is rather young to be discussing Trans
    We teach kinds younger than that that there are different sexes. Is that wrong too?
    Well there are, that is a biological fact
    And there are transgender people. That is a sociological fact.
    Only through surgery and even with that and hormones treatment trans cyclists are no longer allowed to compete in female races as even with hormone suppression they still have an advantage over female cyclists
    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/cycling/65718748
    No, transgender people are transgender even without undergoing surgery.

    Maybe if you'd been taught this stuff at a younger age you'd be a little more clued in to the facts.
    So you want to teach 6 year olds they are transgender? No wonder you on the left are out of touch!
    You're confusing being taught that you are something, with being taught about other people. No wonder the Tories are out of touch with humanity.
    It is not appropriate for 6 year olds or even older primary school children. It should be a secondary school issue only
    Bollocks.

    I literally head the same arguments made about not exposing kids to gay ideology when Section 28 was a thing.

    My then 4 year old only had one question about attending a same sex wedding.

    'Which one of you throws the bouquet, and can you make sure my dad catches it?'
    I have a 5 year old and it's not appropriate to discuss sexual intercourse at that age.
    Your five year old presumably knows that there are men and women. They don't need to hear about intercourse to have an understanding of that fact. They don't need to know about penetration to understand that some couples are different genders and some couples are the same gender. They don't need to know what adults do with their genitals to know that sometimes people are born as one gender but prefer to live as another.

    You don't need to deliver all the yucky truth about everything all at once.
    Personally I wouldn't allow any sex education or discussion of gender identity in schools until pupils are 11 or over and have reached puberty
    Wait until kids have hit puberty before discussing puberty?

    Talk about waiting until the horse has bolted before closing the door.
    Unless you are a paedophile kids shoudn't be engaging in or discussing sex until they have reached puberty absolutely
    Kids absolutely shouldn't be engaging in sex until they are young adults.

    They should however be learning about it, at appropriate levels, before their hormones go wild rather than afterwards.
    NO they should not. Absolutely not. They should only start to learn about sex, only at an appropriate level, from age 11 and only in more detail from 16, the age of consent
    Wow, just wow. Wait until they're past the age of consent before learning about it properly?

    Recipe for teenage pregnancies that.
    Is this the world you want, HYUFD?

    https://news.yahoo.com/colorado-rep-lauren-boebert-36-011800351.html

    Colorado representative Lauren Boebert, 36, announced she’s going to be a grandmother next month.

    The Republican firebrand made the declaration earlier this week at a Moms for America event, from which video started making the rounds Thursday.

    “Not only am I mom of four boys, but come April, I will be a GG to a brand new grandson,” she beamed.

    Newsweek reports that the child’s father is Boebert’s 17-year-old son, Tyler.

    Boebert’s announcement comes just days after she called for the elimination of “comprehensive sex ed” in public schools, according to Raw Story.
    The son was 17 when he became a father, 100 years ago that wouldn't have been uncommon when we had more traditional family values and over the age of consent in his state
    Would you mind answering the question? Is this the world you want now, today, not 100 years ago? Yes or no?
    Plenty of things were better in the 1920s
    I'm pretty conservative in my tastes.
    Yet I can't think of a single thing that was better in the 1920s.
    Train services, perhaps.
    Far superior cloche hats. Wax cylinder tech was amazing. And you could post a handwritten note to "Mssrs Politicalbetting, NW1 0GH" and have it appear in print just a few months later.
    The postal service. Postcards would arrive the day they were sent, multiple deliveries per day.
  • viewcodeviewcode Posts: 22,424

    rcs1000 said:

    Carnyx said:

    HYUFD said:

    Farooq said:

    HYUFD said:

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    HYUFD said:

    Ross not keen on drag Queen story time

    @Douglas4Moray
    It’s totally inappropriate to hold a show like this for kids under the age of six.

    Story time for babies and young kids shouldn’t focus on gender or sexual identity.

    That is common sense and on behalf of constituents who’ve contacted me, I’ve raised this with the council.
    https://twitter.com/Douglas4Moray/status/1666006173932290048?s=20

    Is Roaster Ross going to get outraged by pantomimes?
    His argument seems to be pantomime dames don't push gender ideology
    I don't think Drag Queen Story Hour does either. This is just Moray copying US nonsense.
    'Encouraging children to develop a love of reading through imaginative story time, while promoting inclusion, diversity and acceptance...' Now nobody wants intolerance but 6 and under is rather young to be discussing Trans
    We teach kinds younger than that that there are different sexes. Is that wrong too?
    Well there are, that is a biological fact
    I'll also let you into another fact.

    The average human being has one testicle.
    On a point of PB pedantry: 1.08 testicles, apparently.
    The gap between the number of men and women isn't anywhere near that big. I think you probably mean 1.008 testicles.
    And I sometimes wonder why I am addicted to pb. All of life is here! The range of discussion from US politics to the average number of testicles of people across the world. And that’s before we get to AV.
    Just wait until we get to the average number of legs. 😀
  • rcs1000rcs1000 Posts: 57,662
    Leon said:

    At some point you will need to erect a special PB statue to me



    “US urged to reveal UFO evidence after claim that it has intact alien vehicles
    Whistleblower former intelligence official says government posseses ‘intact and partially intact’ craft of non-human origin”

    https://www.theguardian.com/world/2023/jun/06/whistleblower-ufo-alien-tech-spacecraft


    “Biden ‘knew of Ukrainian plan to attack Nord Stream’ three months before explosion
    Washington Post reports that European intelligence service told CIA Ukrainian military was planning attack”


    https://www.theguardian.com/business/2023/jun/06/biden-knew-of-plan-to-attack-nord-stream-three-months-before-explosion

    So you now accept it wasn't the US which blew up Nordstream?
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    Ross not keen on drag Queen story time

    @Douglas4Moray
    It’s totally inappropriate to hold a show like this for kids under the age of six.

    Story time for babies and young kids shouldn’t focus on gender or sexual identity.

    That is common sense and on behalf of constituents who’ve contacted me, I’ve raised this with the council.
    https://twitter.com/Douglas4Moray/status/1666006173932290048?s=20

    Is Roaster Ross going to get outraged by pantomimes?
    His argument seems to be pantomime dames don't push gender ideology
    I don't think Drag Queen Story Hour does either. This is just Moray copying US nonsense.
    'Encouraging children to develop a love of reading through imaginative story time, while promoting inclusion, diversity and acceptance...' Now nobody wants intolerance but 6 and under is rather young to be discussing Trans
    We teach kinds younger than that that there are different sexes. Is that wrong too?
    Well there are, that is a biological fact
    And there are transgender people. That is a sociological fact.
    Only through surgery and even with that and hormones treatment trans cyclists are no longer allowed to compete in female races as even with hormone suppression they still have an advantage over female cyclists
    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/cycling/65718748
    No, transgender people are transgender even without undergoing surgery.

    Maybe if you'd been taught this stuff at a younger age you'd be a little more clued in to the facts.
    So you want to teach 6 year olds they are transgender? No wonder you on the left are out of touch!
    You're confusing being taught that you are something, with being taught about other people. No wonder the Tories are out of touch with humanity.
    It is not appropriate for 6 year olds or even older primary school children. It should be a secondary school issue only
    Bollocks.

    I literally head the same arguments made about not exposing kids to gay ideology when Section 28 was a thing.

    My then 4 year old only had one question about attending a same sex wedding.

    'Which one of you throws the bouquet, and can you make sure my dad catches it?'
    I have a 5 year old and it's not appropriate to discuss sexual intercourse at that age.
    Your five year old presumably knows that there are men and women. They don't need to hear about intercourse to have an understanding of that fact. They don't need to know about penetration to understand that some couples are different genders and some couples are the same gender. They don't need to know what adults do with their genitals to know that sometimes people are born as one gender but prefer to live as another.

    You don't need to deliver all the yucky truth about everything all at once.
    Personally I wouldn't allow any sex education or discussion of gender identity in schools until pupils are 11 or over and have reached puberty
    Wait until kids have hit puberty before discussing puberty?

    Talk about waiting until the horse has bolted before closing the door.
    Unless you are a paedophile kids shoudn't be engaging in or discussing sex until they have reached puberty absolutely
    Kids absolutely shouldn't be engaging in sex until they are young adults.

    They should however be learning about it, at appropriate levels, before their hormones go wild rather than afterwards.
    NO they should not. Absolutely not. They should only start to learn about sex, only at an appropriate level, from age 11 and only in more detail from 16, the age of consent
    Okay.

    So, when my eldest daughter was ten, one of her schoolfriends came to visit. She was the same age.

    She (the schoolfriend) was extremely inappropriate towards me, to the point where I immediately went to get my wife and asked her to stay near me for the duration of this girl's visit, so she (the schoolfriend) never got to see me alone. This successfully dissuaded her from doing it any more (other than a few comments that got our eyebrows raising).

    Should her parents have spoken to her about sex and what was and was not appropriate? I thought they should; she'd obviously picked up what she had from conversations with other children and what appeared to be early hormones. Personally, I thought she was going to be very vulnerable to any adult with paedophilic tendencies.

    I take it you disagree?
    Clearly an illustration of too much sexualisation of young people in our culture generally, when we didn't have as much sex in the media and more traditional Christian family values it was less of an issue
    This particular event happened twenty years ago.

    Kids have always talked between each other about sex. Discussions on that happened when I was a child in the Seventies, and this particular event happened twenty years ago.

    Sexual abuse of children was more prevalent in the Seventies, Sixties, and Fifties - it was just brushed under the carpet and not discussed. Less sex in the media, more Christian family values, and more children getting abused and raped.

    People just preferred to go into denial. That same tendency is visible in some today.
    I remember late 70s/early 80s a house 'catching on fire' near me. The fire brigade turned up but the police wouldn't let them do anything until they'd carted out a whole load of 'paperwork'. Turned out the guy who lived there was a known kiddy-fiddler and also a friend of various councillors.

    Paperwork mysteriously disappeared shortly after and nothing more said.
    Wouldn't it have been simpler to let said paperwork burn?
    The suspicion was that it contained a lot of 'paperwork' that some people enjoyed.
    Oh I see.
    Maybe I needed educating on such matters from an earlier age?
  • turbotubbsturbotubbs Posts: 17,694
    Leon said:

    “The non-human intelligence phenomenon is real. We are not alone,” Grey said. “Retrievals of this kind are not limited to the United States. This is a global phenomenon, and yet a global solution continues to elude us.”

    😎😶

    And on we rumble, endless attention seeking whistle blowers with no evidence. Keep believing, Leon, keep believing.
  • BartholomewRobertsBartholomewRoberts Posts: 22,415
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    Ross not keen on drag Queen story time

    @Douglas4Moray
    It’s totally inappropriate to hold a show like this for kids under the age of six.

    Story time for babies and young kids shouldn’t focus on gender or sexual identity.

    That is common sense and on behalf of constituents who’ve contacted me, I’ve raised this with the council.
    https://twitter.com/Douglas4Moray/status/1666006173932290048?s=20

    Is Roaster Ross going to get outraged by pantomimes?
    His argument seems to be pantomime dames don't push gender ideology
    I don't think Drag Queen Story Hour does either. This is just Moray copying US nonsense.
    'Encouraging children to develop a love of reading through imaginative story time, while promoting inclusion, diversity and acceptance...' Now nobody wants intolerance but 6 and under is rather young to be discussing Trans
    We teach kinds younger than that that there are different sexes. Is that wrong too?
    Well there are, that is a biological fact
    And there are transgender people. That is a sociological fact.
    Only through surgery and even with that and hormones treatment trans cyclists are no longer allowed to compete in female races as even with hormone suppression they still have an advantage over female cyclists
    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/cycling/65718748
    No, transgender people are transgender even without undergoing surgery.

    Maybe if you'd been taught this stuff at a younger age you'd be a little more clued in to the facts.
    So you want to teach 6 year olds they are transgender? No wonder you on the left are out of touch!
    You're confusing being taught that you are something, with being taught about other people. No wonder the Tories are out of touch with humanity.
    It is not appropriate for 6 year olds or even older primary school children. It should be a secondary school issue only
    Bollocks.

    I literally head the same arguments made about not exposing kids to gay ideology when Section 28 was a thing.

    My then 4 year old only had one question about attending a same sex wedding.

    'Which one of you throws the bouquet, and can you make sure my dad catches it?'
    I have a 5 year old and it's not appropriate to discuss sexual intercourse at that age.
    Your five year old presumably knows that there are men and women. They don't need to hear about intercourse to have an understanding of that fact. They don't need to know about penetration to understand that some couples are different genders and some couples are the same gender. They don't need to know what adults do with their genitals to know that sometimes people are born as one gender but prefer to live as another.

    You don't need to deliver all the yucky truth about everything all at once.
    Personally I wouldn't allow any sex education or discussion of gender identity in schools until pupils are 11 or over and have reached puberty
    Wait until kids have hit puberty before discussing puberty?

    Talk about waiting until the horse has bolted before closing the door.
    Unless you are a paedophile kids shoudn't be engaging in or discussing sex until they have reached puberty absolutely
    Kids absolutely shouldn't be engaging in sex until they are young adults.

    They should however be learning about it, at appropriate levels, before their hormones go wild rather than afterwards.
    NO they should not. Absolutely not. They should only start to learn about sex, only at an appropriate level, from age 11 and only in more detail from 16, the age of consent
    Okay.

    So, when my eldest daughter was ten, one of her schoolfriends came to visit. She was the same age.

    She (the schoolfriend) was extremely inappropriate towards me, to the point where I immediately went to get my wife and asked her to stay near me for the duration of this girl's visit, so she (the schoolfriend) never got to see me alone. This successfully dissuaded her from doing it any more (other than a few comments that got our eyebrows raising).

    Should her parents have spoken to her about sex and what was and was not appropriate? I thought they should; she'd obviously picked up what she had from conversations with other children and what appeared to be early hormones. Personally, I thought she was going to be very vulnerable to any adult with paedophilic tendencies.

    I take it you disagree?
    When I was a teenager abroad we moved to a rural home the next door neighbours were cultists. A cult called "The Family of Jesus Christ". There were two families, both part of the cult, who lived in the house next door and between the two families they had 24 children, including a newborn and they had grandchildren too. The adult children and grandchildren didn't live in the house, so the kids in the house (about 14 of the 24) included many around my age that we befriended.

    The children were homeschooled and the Family including the teenage girls and young women engaged in a practice called Flirty Fishing, though it had supposedly been dropped by The Family by then.

    Not long after we'd moved in we had some of the kids next door come around to our house to play and my dad asked one of the girls what she wanted to be when she was older. Her answer was to live in a house with doors.

    They were not paedophiles, but things were not right either. I was a teenager at that point, about 14 so a couple of years below age of consent, but was educated enough to know that things were not right and have alarm bells going off. Which is what people need in dangerous situations, including with those who are more predatory, you never know when your children might suddenly be in contact with people who are not whom they should be. Had I not lived through that myself, I'd have thought cultists were things you saw on TV, not seemingly normal-looking people that you could suddenly live next door to.

    If you wait until people are 16 before discussing things, it might by then be well too late. Especially if people with bad intentions are around, to prey on the uneducated and vulnerable.
  • Big_G_NorthWalesBig_G_NorthWales Posts: 63,657
    TimS said:

    Hmm, so an awks situation in the S household this evening. My wife is downstairs dialled into a zoom council planning meeting about a proposed development right behind our house. That’s right, literally IMBY.

    It’s a pile on, the righteously indignant residents objecting to loss of light, building disruption, change of roofline in conservation area, blocked access, you name it.

    I am absolutely fine with the development as we need more residential construction, and the plans look nice enough, certainly the bits that will look over our garden.

    But I am staying extremely silent. When faced the NIMBY blob you have to know what’s good for you.

    And there lies the problem

    It is much like tax rises, ok as long as they do not affect me !!!!
  • dixiedeandixiedean Posts: 29,481
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    Ross not keen on drag Queen story time

    @Douglas4Moray
    It’s totally inappropriate to hold a show like this for kids under the age of six.

    Story time for babies and young kids shouldn’t focus on gender or sexual identity.

    That is common sense and on behalf of constituents who’ve contacted me, I’ve raised this with the council.
    https://twitter.com/Douglas4Moray/status/1666006173932290048?s=20

    Is Roaster Ross going to get outraged by pantomimes?
    His argument seems to be pantomime dames don't push gender ideology
    I don't think Drag Queen Story Hour does either. This is just Moray copying US nonsense.
    'Encouraging children to develop a love of reading through imaginative story time, while promoting inclusion, diversity and acceptance...' Now nobody wants intolerance but 6 and under is rather young to be discussing Trans
    We teach kinds younger than that that there are different sexes. Is that wrong too?
    Well there are, that is a biological fact
    And there are transgender people. That is a sociological fact.
    Only through surgery and even with that and hormones treatment trans cyclists are no longer allowed to compete in female races as even with hormone suppression they still have an advantage over female cyclists
    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/cycling/65718748
    No, transgender people are transgender even without undergoing surgery.

    Maybe if you'd been taught this stuff at a younger age you'd be a little more clued in to the facts.
    So you want to teach 6 year olds they are transgender? No wonder you on the left are out of touch!
    You're confusing being taught that you are something, with being taught about other people. No wonder the Tories are out of touch with humanity.
    It is not appropriate for 6 year olds or even older primary school children. It should be a secondary school issue only
    Bollocks.

    I literally head the same arguments made about not exposing kids to gay ideology when Section 28 was a thing.

    My then 4 year old only had one question about attending a same sex wedding.

    'Which one of you throws the bouquet, and can you make sure my dad catches it?'
    I have a 5 year old and it's not appropriate to discuss sexual intercourse at that age.
    Your five year old presumably knows that there are men and women. They don't need to hear about intercourse to have an understanding of that fact. They don't need to know about penetration to understand that some couples are different genders and some couples are the same gender. They don't need to know what adults do with their genitals to know that sometimes people are born as one gender but prefer to live as another.

    You don't need to deliver all the yucky truth about everything all at once.
    Personally I wouldn't allow any sex education or discussion of gender identity in schools until pupils are 11 or over and have reached puberty
    Wait until kids have hit puberty before discussing puberty?

    Talk about waiting until the horse has bolted before closing the door.
    Unless you are a paedophile kids shoudn't be engaging in or discussing sex until they have reached puberty absolutely
    If you want to protect children from paedophiles you need to teach them well before puberty how to be alert to the sorts of behaviour which indicate someone who may want to harm them. One of those indicators may well be people seeking to sexualise a child or encourage them to behave in an inappropriately sexual way or to densitise them to adults doing so in front of a child.

    On drag, there are drag acts which are harmless fun - like pantomime dames etc.., But there are some which are very sexualised and simply not appropriate for children. So it depends which ones we are talking about. Saying that all drag acts should be banned is as daft as saying that all are appropriate for children. Some are; some aren't.

    I would also hope that any group - drag or no - wishing to get close to children are properly and thoroughly checked out first. I recently listened to the documentary "In Dark Corners" on iPlayer Sounds about prolific paedophile teachers in some well-known public schools and how they targeted vulnerable children and moved from school to school. It is a horrific story and we'd be naive in thinking it is not still happening. Safeguarding is simply not taken seriously enough in practice. Child abusers will do whatever it takes to get close to children in order to abuse them and behave like parasites on more respectable institutions, groups and movements in order to achieve their aims. We would do well to remember that and not dismiss such concerns as moral panics, as the IICSA final report (and earlier ones) clearly state.
    An IICSA final report which is being proudly swept under a bulging carpet by the Party of @HYUFD.
  • LeonLeon Posts: 56,606
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    Leon said:

    At some point you will need to erect a special PB statue to me



    “US urged to reveal UFO evidence after claim that it has intact alien vehicles
    Whistleblower former intelligence official says government posseses ‘intact and partially intact’ craft of non-human origin”

    https://www.theguardian.com/world/2023/jun/06/whistleblower-ufo-alien-tech-spacecraft


    “Biden ‘knew of Ukrainian plan to attack Nord Stream’ three months before explosion
    Washington Post reports that European intelligence service told CIA Ukrainian military was planning attack”


    https://www.theguardian.com/business/2023/jun/06/biden-knew-of-plan-to-attack-nord-stream-three-months-before-explosion

    So you now accept it wasn't the US which blew up Nordstream?
    I always said the US - or more likely a U.S. proxy. So America has plausible deniability

    The idea Ukraine would do this without American approval and probable help is nuts.

    Also, dude, ALIENS
  • Sunil_PrasannanSunil_Prasannan Posts: 52,156
    edited June 2023
    HYUFD said:

    Can we please get HYUFamilyvaluesD out on the stump? Lets get that Tory % down below 20%.

    He certainly does not represent my views but then the little englander right of the conservative party is a big problem for the party
    Many Irish Catholic nationalists would agree with me on this
    The right-wing Nationalists of Aontu only got 1% of the vote and ZERO councillors in NI this year, compared to the Lefty Nationalists of SF/SDLP/IRSP/WP/PBP who got 41% and 185 councillors.
  • ohnotnowohnotnow Posts: 4,034
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    Ross not keen on drag Queen story time

    @Douglas4Moray
    It’s totally inappropriate to hold a show like this for kids under the age of six.

    Story time for babies and young kids shouldn’t focus on gender or sexual identity.

    That is common sense and on behalf of constituents who’ve contacted me, I’ve raised this with the council.
    https://twitter.com/Douglas4Moray/status/1666006173932290048?s=20

    Is Roaster Ross going to get outraged by pantomimes?
    His argument seems to be pantomime dames don't push gender ideology
    I don't think Drag Queen Story Hour does either. This is just Moray copying US nonsense.
    'Encouraging children to develop a love of reading through imaginative story time, while promoting inclusion, diversity and acceptance...' Now nobody wants intolerance but 6 and under is rather young to be discussing Trans
    We teach kinds younger than that that there are different sexes. Is that wrong too?
    Well there are, that is a biological fact
    And there are transgender people. That is a sociological fact.
    Only through surgery and even with that and hormones treatment trans cyclists are no longer allowed to compete in female races as even with hormone suppression they still have an advantage over female cyclists
    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/cycling/65718748
    No, transgender people are transgender even without undergoing surgery.

    Maybe if you'd been taught this stuff at a younger age you'd be a little more clued in to the facts.
    So you want to teach 6 year olds they are transgender? No wonder you on the left are out of touch!
    You're confusing being taught that you are something, with being taught about other people. No wonder the Tories are out of touch with humanity.
    It is not appropriate for 6 year olds or even older primary school children. It should be a secondary school issue only
    Bollocks.

    I literally head the same arguments made about not exposing kids to gay ideology when Section 28 was a thing.

    My then 4 year old only had one question about attending a same sex wedding.

    'Which one of you throws the bouquet, and can you make sure my dad catches it?'
    I have a 5 year old and it's not appropriate to discuss sexual intercourse at that age.
    Your five year old presumably knows that there are men and women. They don't need to hear about intercourse to have an understanding of that fact. They don't need to know about penetration to understand that some couples are different genders and some couples are the same gender. They don't need to know what adults do with their genitals to know that sometimes people are born as one gender but prefer to live as another.

    You don't need to deliver all the yucky truth about everything all at once.
    Personally I wouldn't allow any sex education or discussion of gender identity in schools until pupils are 11 or over and have reached puberty
    Wait until kids have hit puberty before discussing puberty?

    Talk about waiting until the horse has bolted before closing the door.
    Unless you are a paedophile kids shoudn't be engaging in or discussing sex until they have reached puberty absolutely
    Kids absolutely shouldn't be engaging in sex until they are young adults.

    They should however be learning about it, at appropriate levels, before their hormones go wild rather than afterwards.
    NO they should not. Absolutely not. They should only start to learn about sex, only at an appropriate level, from age 11 and only in more detail from 16, the age of consent
    Okay.

    So, when my eldest daughter was ten, one of her schoolfriends came to visit. She was the same age.

    She (the schoolfriend) was extremely inappropriate towards me, to the point where I immediately went to get my wife and asked her to stay near me for the duration of this girl's visit, so she (the schoolfriend) never got to see me alone. This successfully dissuaded her from doing it any more (other than a few comments that got our eyebrows raising).

    Should her parents have spoken to her about sex and what was and was not appropriate? I thought they should; she'd obviously picked up what she had from conversations with other children and what appeared to be early hormones. Personally, I thought she was going to be very vulnerable to any adult with paedophilic tendencies.

    I take it you disagree?
    Clearly an illustration of too much sexualisation of young people in our culture generally, when we didn't have as much sex in the media and more traditional Christian family values it was less of an issue
    This particular event happened twenty years ago.

    Kids have always talked between each other about sex. Discussions on that happened when I was a child in the Seventies, and this particular event happened twenty years ago.

    Sexual abuse of children was more prevalent in the Seventies, Sixties, and Fifties - it was just brushed under the carpet and not discussed. Less sex in the media, more Christian family values, and more children getting abused and raped.

    People just preferred to go into denial. That same tendency is visible in some today.
    I remember late 70s/early 80s a house 'catching on fire' near me. The fire brigade turned up but the police wouldn't let them do anything until they'd carted out a whole load of 'paperwork'. Turned out the guy who lived there was a known kiddy-fiddler and also a friend of various councillors.

    Paperwork mysteriously disappeared shortly after and nothing more said.
    Wouldn't it have been simpler to let said paperwork burn?
    The suspicion was that it contained a lot of 'paperwork' that some people enjoyed.
    Oh I see.
    Maybe I needed educating on such matters from an earlier age?
    WITCH! BURN THE WITCH!
  • WestieWestie Posts: 426
    edited June 2023
    Leon said:

    “The non-human intelligence phenomenon is real. We are not alone,” Grey said. “Retrievals of this kind are not limited to the United States. This is a global phenomenon, and yet a global solution continues to elude us.”

    😎😶

    World Government now! Or perhaps one's already in place, given that "retrievals" are worldwide and no country has broken ranks yet.* (Joke, just in case anyone thought otherwise.)

    * Exception: Kalmykia under Kirsan Ilyumzhinov:
    https://youtu.be/OnedpGJx3Yk
  • viewcodeviewcode Posts: 22,424
    HYUFD said:

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    Ross not keen on drag Queen story time

    @Douglas4Moray
    It’s totally inappropriate to hold a show like this for kids under the age of six.

    Story time for babies and young kids shouldn’t focus on gender or sexual identity.

    That is common sense and on behalf of constituents who’ve contacted me, I’ve raised this with the council.
    https://twitter.com/Douglas4Moray/status/1666006173932290048?s=20

    Is Roaster Ross going to get outraged by pantomimes?
    His argument seems to be pantomime dames don't push gender ideology
    I don't think Drag Queen Story Hour does either. This is just Moray copying US nonsense.
    'Encouraging children to develop a love of reading through imaginative story time, while promoting inclusion, diversity and acceptance...' Now nobody wants intolerance but 6 and under is rather young to be discussing Trans
    We teach kinds younger than that that there are different sexes. Is that wrong too?
    Well there are, that is a biological fact
    And there are transgender people. That is a sociological fact.
    Only through surgery and even with that and hormones treatment trans cyclists are no longer allowed to compete in female races as even with hormone suppression they still have an advantage over female cyclists
    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/cycling/65718748
    No, transgender people are transgender even without undergoing surgery.

    Maybe if you'd been taught this stuff at a younger age you'd be a little more clued in to the facts.
    So you want to teach 6 year olds they are transgender? No wonder you on the left are out of touch!
    You're confusing being taught that you are something, with being taught about other people. No wonder the Tories are out of touch with humanity.
    It is not appropriate for 6 year olds or even older primary school children. It should be a secondary school issue only.

    78% of UK voters for instance oppose allowing gender reassignment surgery for under 16s and 68% oppose allowing under 16s hormone treatment
    https://yougov.co.uk/topics/society/articles-reports/2022/07/20/where-does-british-public-stand-transgender-rights
    I don't think the drag queens are reading books about gender reassignment surgery, HYUFD. I should imagine it's things like hungry hippos or suchlike.
  • ydoethurydoethur Posts: 71,780
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    Ross not keen on drag Queen story time

    @Douglas4Moray
    It’s totally inappropriate to hold a show like this for kids under the age of six.

    Story time for babies and young kids shouldn’t focus on gender or sexual identity.

    That is common sense and on behalf of constituents who’ve contacted me, I’ve raised this with the council.
    https://twitter.com/Douglas4Moray/status/1666006173932290048?s=20

    Is Roaster Ross going to get outraged by pantomimes?
    His argument seems to be pantomime dames don't push gender ideology
    I don't think Drag Queen Story Hour does either. This is just Moray copying US nonsense.
    'Encouraging children to develop a love of reading through imaginative story time, while promoting inclusion, diversity and acceptance...' Now nobody wants intolerance but 6 and under is rather young to be discussing Trans
    We teach kinds younger than that that there are different sexes. Is that wrong too?
    Well there are, that is a biological fact
    And there are transgender people. That is a sociological fact.
    Only through surgery and even with that and hormones treatment trans cyclists are no longer allowed to compete in female races as even with hormone suppression they still have an advantage over female cyclists
    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/cycling/65718748
    No, transgender people are transgender even without undergoing surgery.

    Maybe if you'd been taught this stuff at a younger age you'd be a little more clued in to the facts.
    So you want to teach 6 year olds they are transgender? No wonder you on the left are out of touch!
    You're confusing being taught that you are something, with being taught about other people. No wonder the Tories are out of touch with humanity.
    It is not appropriate for 6 year olds or even older primary school children. It should be a secondary school issue only
    Bollocks.

    I literally head the same arguments made about not exposing kids to gay ideology when Section 28 was a thing.

    My then 4 year old only had one question about attending a same sex wedding.

    'Which one of you throws the bouquet, and can you make sure my dad catches it?'
    I have a 5 year old and it's not appropriate to discuss sexual intercourse at that age.
    Your five year old presumably knows that there are men and women. They don't need to hear about intercourse to have an understanding of that fact. They don't need to know about penetration to understand that some couples are different genders and some couples are the same gender. They don't need to know what adults do with their genitals to know that sometimes people are born as one gender but prefer to live as another.

    You don't need to deliver all the yucky truth about everything all at once.
    Personally I wouldn't allow any sex education or discussion of gender identity in schools until pupils are 11 or over and have reached puberty
    Wait until kids have hit puberty before discussing puberty?

    Talk about waiting until the horse has bolted before closing the door.
    Unless you are a paedophile kids shoudn't be engaging in or discussing sex until they have reached puberty absolutely
    If you want to protect children from paedophiles you need to teach them well before puberty how to be alert to the sorts of behaviour which indicate someone who may want to harm them. One of those indicators may well be people seeking to sexualise a child or encourage them to behave in an inappropriately sexual way or to densitise them to adults doing so in front of a child.

    On drag, there are drag acts which are harmless fun - like pantomime dames etc.., But there are some which are very sexualised and simply not appropriate for children. So it depends which ones we are talking about. Saying that all drag acts should be banned is as daft as saying that all are appropriate for children. Some are; some aren't.

    I would also hope that any group - drag or no - wishing to get close to children are properly and thoroughly checked out first. I recently listened to the documentary "In Dark Corners" on iPlayer Sounds about prolific paedophile teachers in some well-known public schools and how they targeted vulnerable children and moved from school to school. It is a horrific story and we'd be naive in thinking it is not still happening. Safeguarding is simply not taken seriously enough in practice. Child abusers will do whatever it takes to get close to children in order to abuse them and behave like parasites on more respectable institutions, groups and movements in order to achieve their aims. We would do well to remember that and not dismiss such concerns as moral panics, as the IICSA final report (and earlier ones) clearly state.
    OFSTED does not carry out fairly simple safeguarding checks on its inspectors, worryingly, and there have been multiple incidents where inspectors who should not have been working with children have caused harm.

    I raised this with the DfE as the body responsible for monitoring them, to which they replied it was a procedural issue for OFSTED (which incidentally isn't correct). Because, ultimately, like OFSTED, they don't care about or even understand safeguarding.

    If you doubt that statement, read these two stories:

    https://www.tes.com/magazine/archive/exclusive-shock-ofsted-chiefs-lack-knowledge-peer-abuse-guidance

    https://www.tes.com/magazine/news/general/ofsted-nude-pupil-pictures-not-safeguarding-issue
  • SandyRentoolSandyRentool Posts: 22,238
    Leon said:

    At some point you will need to erect a special PB statue to me



    “US urged to reveal UFO evidence after claim that it has intact alien vehicles
    Whistleblower former intelligence official says government posseses ‘intact and partially intact’ craft of non-human origin”

    https://www.theguardian.com/world/2023/jun/06/whistleblower-ufo-alien-tech-spacecraft


    “Biden ‘knew of Ukrainian plan to attack Nord Stream’ three months before explosion
    Washington Post reports that European intelligence service told CIA Ukrainian military was planning attack”


    https://www.theguardian.com/business/2023/jun/06/biden-knew-of-plan-to-attack-nord-stream-three-months-before-explosion

    Another Bob Lazar. Not even a bolt or a washer to back up the claim.
  • BenpointerBenpointer Posts: 34,806
    Leon said:

    At some point you will need to erect a special PB statue to me



    “US urged to reveal UFO evidence after claim that it has intact alien vehicles
    Whistleblower former intelligence official says government posseses ‘intact and partially intact’ craft of non-human origin”

    https://www.theguardian.com/world/2023/jun/06/whistleblower-ufo-alien-tech-spacecraft


    “Biden ‘knew of Ukrainian plan to attack Nord Stream’ three months before explosion
    Washington Post reports that European intelligence service told CIA Ukrainian military was planning attack”


    https://www.theguardian.com/business/2023/jun/06/biden-knew-of-plan-to-attack-nord-stream-three-months-before-explosion

    I thought you said it was the Americans who attacked Nordstream.
  • TimSTimS Posts: 13,217

    TimS said:

    Hmm, so an awks situation in the S household this evening. My wife is downstairs dialled into a zoom council planning meeting about a proposed development right behind our house. That’s right, literally IMBY.

    It’s a pile on, the righteously indignant residents objecting to loss of light, building disruption, change of roofline in conservation area, blocked access, you name it.

    I am absolutely fine with the development as we need more residential construction, and the plans look nice enough, certainly the bits that will look over our garden.

    But I am staying extremely silent. When faced the NIMBY blob you have to know what’s good for you.

    And there lies the problem

    It is much like tax rises, ok as long as they do not affect me !!!!
    I think / suspect there are many more people like me, privately yimbys, who want an easy life so don’t rock the boat with the neighbours because the nimbys are always louder.
  • Sunil_PrasannanSunil_Prasannan Posts: 52,156
    Leon said:

    rcs1000 said:

    Leon said:

    At some point you will need to erect a special PB statue to me



    “US urged to reveal UFO evidence after claim that it has intact alien vehicles
    Whistleblower former intelligence official says government posseses ‘intact and partially intact’ craft of non-human origin”

    https://www.theguardian.com/world/2023/jun/06/whistleblower-ufo-alien-tech-spacecraft


    “Biden ‘knew of Ukrainian plan to attack Nord Stream’ three months before explosion
    Washington Post reports that European intelligence service told CIA Ukrainian military was planning attack”


    https://www.theguardian.com/business/2023/jun/06/biden-knew-of-plan-to-attack-nord-stream-three-months-before-explosion

    So you now accept it wasn't the US which blew up Nordstream?
    I always said the US - or more likely a U.S. proxy. So America has plausible deniability

    The idea Ukraine would do this without American approval and probable help is nuts.

    Also, dude, ALIENS
    They'd have to be pretty long-lived aliens in order to travel seriously vast interstellar distances.
  • SandyRentoolSandyRentool Posts: 22,238
    Leon said:

    “The non-human intelligence phenomenon is real. We are not alone,” Grey said. “Retrievals of this kind are not limited to the United States. This is a global phenomenon, and yet a global solution continues to elude us.”

    😎😶

    Grey? An interview with an actual EBE.
  • Big_G_NorthWalesBig_G_NorthWales Posts: 63,657
    edited June 2023
    Farooq said:

    You shouldn't teach children about road safety until they're old enough to drive

    I am not not sure if @HYUFD has children and he certainly hasn't grandchildren and they both have a huge influence on how you interact with them on sex education and many other subjects

    We have always answered our children and grandchildren with honest advice and not influenced by any prejeuduces

    Indeed the playground will colour a lot of their attitudes and they need to be treated almost as an adult
  • LeonLeon Posts: 56,606

    Leon said:

    “The non-human intelligence phenomenon is real. We are not alone,” Grey said. “Retrievals of this kind are not limited to the United States. This is a global phenomenon, and yet a global solution continues to elude us.”

    😎😶

    And on we rumble, endless attention seeking whistle blowers with no evidence. Keep believing, Leon, keep believing.
    My point has always been that we are witnessing increasingly inexplicable behaviour from American officials - military, political, intel - which CAN only be explained if 1 you accept they are all going mad, 2 there is some incredibly massive psyops operation (who? When? Why?), or 3 they genuinely have evidence of non-human intelligence

    Any of these explanations is surpassingly
    interesting. They all remain possible. Recent evidence points more towards explanation 3
  • viewcodeviewcode Posts: 22,424

    My heart has joined the Thousand for MightyAlex stopped running today. 😞

    Treat him well Lord Frith.

    It took me a moment to get this. Sorry about your rabbit, @MoonRabbit
  • solarflaresolarflare Posts: 3,752
    viewcode said:

    HYUFD said:

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    HYUFD said:

    Ross not keen on drag Queen story time

    @Douglas4Moray
    It’s totally inappropriate to hold a show like this for kids under the age of six.

    Story time for babies and young kids shouldn’t focus on gender or sexual identity.

    That is common sense and on behalf of constituents who’ve contacted me, I’ve raised this with the council.
    https://twitter.com/Douglas4Moray/status/1666006173932290048?s=20

    Is Roaster Ross going to get outraged by pantomimes?
    His argument seems to be pantomime dames don't push gender ideology
    I don't think Drag Queen Story Hour does either. This is just Moray copying US nonsense.
    'Encouraging children to develop a love of reading through imaginative story time, while promoting inclusion, diversity and acceptance...' Now nobody wants intolerance but 6 and under is rather young to be discussing Trans
    We teach kinds younger than that that there are different sexes. Is that wrong too?
    Well there are, that is a biological fact
    And there are transgender people. That is a sociological fact.
    Only through surgery and even with that and hormones treatment trans cyclists are no longer allowed to compete in female races as even with hormone suppression they still have an advantage over female cyclists
    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/cycling/65718748
    No, transgender people are transgender even without undergoing surgery.

    Maybe if you'd been taught this stuff at a younger age you'd be a little more clued in to the facts.
    So you want to teach 6 year olds they are transgender? No wonder you on the left are out of touch!
    You're confusing being taught that you are something, with being taught about other people. No wonder the Tories are out of touch with humanity.
    It is not appropriate for 6 year olds or even older primary school children. It should be a secondary school issue only.

    78% of UK voters for instance oppose allowing gender reassignment surgery for under 16s and 68% oppose allowing under 16s hormone treatment
    https://yougov.co.uk/topics/society/articles-reports/2022/07/20/where-does-british-public-stand-transgender-rights
    I don't think the drag queens are reading books about gender reassignment surgery, HYUFD. I should imagine it's things like hungry hippos or suchlike.
    Gateway drug innit
  • HYUFDHYUFD Posts: 123,987
    Farooq said:

    You shouldn't teach children about road safety until they're old enough to drive

    You don't teach children how to drive a car until they are old enough to drive ie 17 certainly
  • ohnotnowohnotnow Posts: 4,034

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    Ross not keen on drag Queen story time

    @Douglas4Moray
    It’s totally inappropriate to hold a show like this for kids under the age of six.

    Story time for babies and young kids shouldn’t focus on gender or sexual identity.

    That is common sense and on behalf of constituents who’ve contacted me, I’ve raised this with the council.
    https://twitter.com/Douglas4Moray/status/1666006173932290048?s=20

    Is Roaster Ross going to get outraged by pantomimes?
    His argument seems to be pantomime dames don't push gender ideology
    I don't think Drag Queen Story Hour does either. This is just Moray copying US nonsense.
    'Encouraging children to develop a love of reading through imaginative story time, while promoting inclusion, diversity and acceptance...' Now nobody wants intolerance but 6 and under is rather young to be discussing Trans
    We teach kinds younger than that that there are different sexes. Is that wrong too?
    Well there are, that is a biological fact
    And there are transgender people. That is a sociological fact.
    Only through surgery and even with that and hormones treatment trans cyclists are no longer allowed to compete in female races as even with hormone suppression they still have an advantage over female cyclists
    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/cycling/65718748
    No, transgender people are transgender even without undergoing surgery.

    Maybe if you'd been taught this stuff at a younger age you'd be a little more clued in to the facts.
    So you want to teach 6 year olds they are transgender? No wonder you on the left are out of touch!
    You're confusing being taught that you are something, with being taught about other people. No wonder the Tories are out of touch with humanity.
    It is not appropriate for 6 year olds or even older primary school children. It should be a secondary school issue only
    Bollocks.

    I literally head the same arguments made about not exposing kids to gay ideology when Section 28 was a thing.

    My then 4 year old only had one question about attending a same sex wedding.

    'Which one of you throws the bouquet, and can you make sure my dad catches it?'
    I have a 5 year old and it's not appropriate to discuss sexual intercourse at that age.
    Your five year old presumably knows that there are men and women. They don't need to hear about intercourse to have an understanding of that fact. They don't need to know about penetration to understand that some couples are different genders and some couples are the same gender. They don't need to know what adults do with their genitals to know that sometimes people are born as one gender but prefer to live as another.

    You don't need to deliver all the yucky truth about everything all at once.
    Personally I wouldn't allow any sex education or discussion of gender identity in schools until pupils are 11 or over and have reached puberty
    Wait until kids have hit puberty before discussing puberty?

    Talk about waiting until the horse has bolted before closing the door.
    Unless you are a paedophile kids shoudn't be engaging in or discussing sex until they have reached puberty absolutely
    Kids absolutely shouldn't be engaging in sex until they are young adults.

    They should however be learning about it, at appropriate levels, before their hormones go wild rather than afterwards.
    NO they should not. Absolutely not. They should only start to learn about sex, only at an appropriate level, from age 11 and only in more detail from 16, the age of consent
    Okay.

    So, when my eldest daughter was ten, one of her schoolfriends came to visit. She was the same age.

    She (the schoolfriend) was extremely inappropriate towards me, to the point where I immediately went to get my wife and asked her to stay near me for the duration of this girl's visit, so she (the schoolfriend) never got to see me alone. This successfully dissuaded her from doing it any more (other than a few comments that got our eyebrows raising).

    Should her parents have spoken to her about sex and what was and was not appropriate? I thought they should; she'd obviously picked up what she had from conversations with other children and what appeared to be early hormones. Personally, I thought she was going to be very vulnerable to any adult with paedophilic tendencies.

    I take it you disagree?
    When I was a teenager abroad we moved to a rural home the next door neighbours were cultists. A cult called "The Family of Jesus Christ". There were two families, both part of the cult, who lived in the house next door and between the two families they had 24 children, including a newborn and they had grandchildren too. The adult children and grandchildren didn't live in the house, so the kids in the house (about 14 of the 24) included many around my age that we befriended.

    The children were homeschooled and the Family including the teenage girls and young women engaged in a practice called Flirty Fishing, though it had supposedly been dropped by The Family by then.

    Not long after we'd moved in we had some of the kids next door come around to our house to play and my dad asked one of the girls what she wanted to be when she was older. Her answer was to live in a house with doors.

    They were not paedophiles, but things were not right either. I was a teenager at that point, about 14 so a couple of years below age of consent, but was educated enough to know that things were not right and have alarm bells going off. Which is what people need in dangerous situations, including with those who are more predatory, you never know when your children might suddenly be in contact with people who are not whom they should be. Had I not lived through that myself, I'd have thought cultists were things you saw on TV, not seemingly normal-looking people that you could suddenly live next door to.

    If you wait until people are 16 before discussing things, it might by then be well too late. Especially if people with bad intentions are around, to prey on the uneducated and vulnerable.
    The local 'big house' where I grew up was owned at the time by some odd US-spawned evangelical 'church' (100% not a cult.... 110% even). It was an exciting time for the West of Scotland with a heady mix of heroin and 'caring' pastors trying to 'help' 'rescue' 'troubled' children who would, in unrelated information, in no way be believed by social services.

  • ydoethurydoethur Posts: 71,780

    Leon said:

    At some point you will need to erect a special PB statue to me



    “US urged to reveal UFO evidence after claim that it has intact alien vehicles
    Whistleblower former intelligence official says government posseses ‘intact and partially intact’ craft of non-human origin”

    https://www.theguardian.com/world/2023/jun/06/whistleblower-ufo-alien-tech-spacecraft


    “Biden ‘knew of Ukrainian plan to attack Nord Stream’ three months before explosion
    Washington Post reports that European intelligence service told CIA Ukrainian military was planning attack”


    https://www.theguardian.com/business/2023/jun/06/biden-knew-of-plan-to-attack-nord-stream-three-months-before-explosion

    I thought you said it was the Americans who attacked Nordstream.
    We had a poster on here once called @SeanT who used to predict every possible outcome to something so he could say he foresaw it.

    Haven't seen him in years, gather he's busy with the day job, but I miss the old git. His drunken ramblings added a certain zest to the site, especially that time he told me 'I respectfully suggest I don't give a tankard full of warm donkey spunk what you think.'
  • ydoethurydoethur Posts: 71,780
    HYUFD said:

    Farooq said:

    You shouldn't teach children about road safety until they're old enough to drive

    You don't teach children how to drive a car until they are old enough to drive ie 17 certainly
    I learned to drive by the time I was fourteen.
  • WestieWestie Posts: 426
    ydoethur said:

    Cyclefree said:

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    Ross not keen on drag Queen story time

    @Douglas4Moray
    It’s totally inappropriate to hold a show like this for kids under the age of six.

    Story time for babies and young kids shouldn’t focus on gender or sexual identity.

    That is common sense and on behalf of constituents who’ve contacted me, I’ve raised this with the council.
    https://twitter.com/Douglas4Moray/status/1666006173932290048?s=20

    Is Roaster Ross going to get outraged by pantomimes?
    His argument seems to be pantomime dames don't push gender ideology
    I don't think Drag Queen Story Hour does either. This is just Moray copying US nonsense.
    'Encouraging children to develop a love of reading through imaginative story time, while promoting inclusion, diversity and acceptance...' Now nobody wants intolerance but 6 and under is rather young to be discussing Trans
    We teach kinds younger than that that there are different sexes. Is that wrong too?
    Well there are, that is a biological fact
    And there are transgender people. That is a sociological fact.
    Only through surgery and even with that and hormones treatment trans cyclists are no longer allowed to compete in female races as even with hormone suppression they still have an advantage over female cyclists
    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/cycling/65718748
    No, transgender people are transgender even without undergoing surgery.

    Maybe if you'd been taught this stuff at a younger age you'd be a little more clued in to the facts.
    So you want to teach 6 year olds they are transgender? No wonder you on the left are out of touch!
    You're confusing being taught that you are something, with being taught about other people. No wonder the Tories are out of touch with humanity.
    It is not appropriate for 6 year olds or even older primary school children. It should be a secondary school issue only
    Bollocks.

    I literally head the same arguments made about not exposing kids to gay ideology when Section 28 was a thing.

    My then 4 year old only had one question about attending a same sex wedding.

    'Which one of you throws the bouquet, and can you make sure my dad catches it?'
    I have a 5 year old and it's not appropriate to discuss sexual intercourse at that age.
    Your five year old presumably knows that there are men and women. They don't need to hear about intercourse to have an understanding of that fact. They don't need to know about penetration to understand that some couples are different genders and some couples are the same gender. They don't need to know what adults do with their genitals to know that sometimes people are born as one gender but prefer to live as another.

    You don't need to deliver all the yucky truth about everything all at once.
    Personally I wouldn't allow any sex education or discussion of gender identity in schools until pupils are 11 or over and have reached puberty
    Wait until kids have hit puberty before discussing puberty?

    Talk about waiting until the horse has bolted before closing the door.
    Unless you are a paedophile kids shoudn't be engaging in or discussing sex until they have reached puberty absolutely
    If you want to protect children from paedophiles you need to teach them well before puberty how to be alert to the sorts of behaviour which indicate someone who may want to harm them. One of those indicators may well be people seeking to sexualise a child or encourage them to behave in an inappropriately sexual way or to densitise them to adults doing so in front of a child.

    On drag, there are drag acts which are harmless fun - like pantomime dames etc.., But there are some which are very sexualised and simply not appropriate for children. So it depends which ones we are talking about. Saying that all drag acts should be banned is as daft as saying that all are appropriate for children. Some are; some aren't.

    I would also hope that any group - drag or no - wishing to get close to children are properly and thoroughly checked out first. I recently listened to the documentary "In Dark Corners" on iPlayer Sounds about prolific paedophile teachers in some well-known public schools and how they targeted vulnerable children and moved from school to school. It is a horrific story and we'd be naive in thinking it is not still happening. Safeguarding is simply not taken seriously enough in practice. Child abusers will do whatever it takes to get close to children in order to abuse them and behave like parasites on more respectable institutions, groups and movements in order to achieve their aims. We would do well to remember that and not dismiss such concerns as moral panics, as the IICSA final report (and earlier ones) clearly state.
    OFSTED does not carry out fairly simple safeguarding checks on its inspectors, worryingly, and there have been multiple incidents where inspectors who should not have been working with children have caused harm.

    I raised this with the DfE as the body responsible for monitoring them, to which they replied it was a procedural issue for OFSTED (which incidentally isn't correct). Because, ultimately, like OFSTED, they don't care about or even understand safeguarding.

    If you doubt that statement, read these two stories:

    https://www.tes.com/magazine/archive/exclusive-shock-ofsted-chiefs-lack-knowledge-peer-abuse-guidance

    https://www.tes.com/magazine/news/general/ofsted-nude-pupil-pictures-not-safeguarding-issue
    Those well-known public schools were outside the state sector and therefore not inspected by Ofsted anyway.

    A boarding school is a machine for generating sexual abuse of children. People talk about stranger danger... What about sending your children to LIVE "looked after" by strangers who obviously don't love them?
  • noneoftheabovenoneoftheabove Posts: 23,156
    HYUFD said:

    Farooq said:

    You shouldn't teach children about road safety until they're old enough to drive

    You don't teach children how to drive a car until they are old enough to drive ie 17 certainly
    But can you teach them the keys go snuggly into the ignition or where the petrol nozzle goes?
  • dixiedeandixiedean Posts: 29,481
    London Irish gone now.

    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/rugby-union/65819546

    3 of 13 Premiership sides bust in a season.
    Plenty of taxpayer Covid loans to Rugby Union, too.
  • Scott_xPScott_xP Posts: 36,106
    Leon said:

    Leon said:

    “The non-human intelligence phenomenon is real. We are not alone,” Grey said. “Retrievals of this kind are not limited to the United States. This is a global phenomenon, and yet a global solution continues to elude us.”

    😎😶

    And on we rumble, endless attention seeking whistle blowers with no evidence. Keep believing, Leon, keep believing.
    My point has always been that we are witnessing increasingly inexplicable behaviour from American officials - military, political, intel - which CAN only be explained if 1 you accept they are all going mad, 2 there is some incredibly massive psyops operation (who? When? Why?), or 3 they genuinely have evidence of non-human intelligence

    Any of these explanations is surpassingly
    interesting. They all remain possible. Recent evidence points more towards explanation 3
    It's a well known fact (recorded in lots of historical documents) that alien lifeforms having traveled billions of miles through space to reach Earth reveal themselves almost exclusively to humans living in North America...
  • Big_G_NorthWalesBig_G_NorthWales Posts: 63,657
    TimS said:

    TimS said:

    Hmm, so an awks situation in the S household this evening. My wife is downstairs dialled into a zoom council planning meeting about a proposed development right behind our house. That’s right, literally IMBY.

    It’s a pile on, the righteously indignant residents objecting to loss of light, building disruption, change of roofline in conservation area, blocked access, you name it.

    I am absolutely fine with the development as we need more residential construction, and the plans look nice enough, certainly the bits that will look over our garden.

    But I am staying extremely silent. When faced the NIMBY blob you have to know what’s good for you.

    And there lies the problem

    It is much like tax rises, ok as long as they do not affect me !!!!
    I think / suspect there are many more people like me, privately yimbys, who want an easy life so don’t rock the boat with the neighbours because the nimbys are always louder.
    I am absolutely certain you are right on that
  • HYUFD said:

    Farooq said:

    You shouldn't teach children about road safety until they're old enough to drive

    You don't teach children how to drive a car until they are old enough to drive ie 17 certainly
    You do teach them basics from a young age. My kids have known since before they could even read that red means stop, green means go, yellow means be safe [that's how I explained amber to my kids] and my youngest still says that out loud while we're at the lights.

    They know to look both ways before crossing the road.

    You learn age appropriate stuff from being toddlers through to adults. Its a progression, not keep kids ignorant of everything until 17 and then start education.
  • HYUFDHYUFD Posts: 123,987
    rcs1000 said:

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    Ross not keen on drag Queen story time

    @Douglas4Moray
    It’s totally inappropriate to hold a show like this for kids under the age of six.

    Story time for babies and young kids shouldn’t focus on gender or sexual identity.

    That is common sense and on behalf of constituents who’ve contacted me, I’ve raised this with the council.
    https://twitter.com/Douglas4Moray/status/1666006173932290048?s=20

    Is Roaster Ross going to get outraged by pantomimes?
    His argument seems to be pantomime dames don't push gender ideology
    I don't think Drag Queen Story Hour does either. This is just Moray copying US nonsense.
    'Encouraging children to develop a love of reading through imaginative story time, while promoting inclusion, diversity and acceptance...' Now nobody wants intolerance but 6 and under is rather young to be discussing Trans
    We teach kinds younger than that that there are different sexes. Is that wrong too?
    Well there are, that is a biological fact
    And there are transgender people. That is a sociological fact.
    Only through surgery and even with that and hormones treatment trans cyclists are no longer allowed to compete in female races as even with hormone suppression they still have an advantage over female cyclists
    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/cycling/65718748
    No, transgender people are transgender even without undergoing surgery.

    Maybe if you'd been taught this stuff at a younger age you'd be a little more clued in to the facts.
    So you want to teach 6 year olds they are transgender? No wonder you on the left are out of touch!
    You're confusing being taught that you are something, with being taught about other people. No wonder the Tories are out of touch with humanity.
    It is not appropriate for 6 year olds or even older primary school children. It should be a secondary school issue only
    Bollocks.

    I literally head the same arguments made about not exposing kids to gay ideology when Section 28 was a thing.

    My then 4 year old only had one question about attending a same sex wedding.

    'Which one of you throws the bouquet, and can you make sure my dad catches it?'
    I have a 5 year old and it's not appropriate to discuss sexual intercourse at that age.
    Your five year old presumably knows that there are men and women. They don't need to hear about intercourse to have an understanding of that fact. They don't need to know about penetration to understand that some couples are different genders and some couples are the same gender. They don't need to know what adults do with their genitals to know that sometimes people are born as one gender but prefer to live as another.

    You don't need to deliver all the yucky truth about everything all at once.
    Personally I wouldn't allow any sex education or discussion of gender identity in schools until pupils are 11 or over and have reached puberty
    Wait until kids have hit puberty before discussing puberty?

    Talk about waiting until the horse has bolted before closing the door.
    Unless you are a paedophile kids shoudn't be engaging in or discussing sex until they have reached puberty absolutely
    Kids absolutely shouldn't be engaging in sex until they are young adults.

    They should however be learning about it, at appropriate levels, before their hormones go wild rather than afterwards.
    NO they should not. Absolutely not. They should only start to learn about sex, only at an appropriate level, from age 11 and only in more detail from 16, the age of consent
    Okay.

    So, when my eldest daughter was ten, one of her schoolfriends came to visit. She was the same age.

    She (the schoolfriend) was extremely inappropriate towards me, to the point where I immediately went to get my wife and asked her to stay near me for the duration of this girl's visit, so she (the schoolfriend) never got to see me alone. This successfully dissuaded her from doing it any more (other than a few comments that got our eyebrows raising).

    Should her parents have spoken to her about sex and what was and was not appropriate? I thought they should; she'd obviously picked up what she had from conversations with other children and what appeared to be early hormones. Personally, I thought she was going to be very vulnerable to any adult with paedophilic tendencies.

    I take it you disagree?
    Clearly an illustration of too much sexualisation of young people in our culture generally, when we didn't have as much sex in the media and more traditional Christian family values it was less of an issue
    This particular event happened twenty years ago.

    Kids have always talked between each other about sex. Discussions on that happened when I was a child in the Seventies, and this particular event happened twenty years ago.

    Sexual abuse of children was more prevalent in the Seventies, Sixties, and Fifties - it was just brushed under the carpet and not discussed. Less sex in the media, more Christian family values, and more children getting abused and raped.

    People just preferred to go into denial. That same tendency is visible in some today.
    Is there any evidence there was more paedophilia in the fifties? I highly doubt it, we also had lower divorce rates, higher marriage rates and a birthrate above replacement level
    The Catholic Church waves "hello!"

    And yes, there is ample evidence. People aged 60-79 are much more likely to report having been abused as a child than people aged 20 to 39.
    Stats for that? Say what you like about the Catholic church, at least they promote traditional marriage and having children and the family
    How much sexual abuse is acceptable if you promote traditional marriage?
    Only ever a small minority of Catholic priests were paedophiles
  • ydoethurydoethur Posts: 71,780
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    Ross not keen on drag Queen story time

    @Douglas4Moray
    It’s totally inappropriate to hold a show like this for kids under the age of six.

    Story time for babies and young kids shouldn’t focus on gender or sexual identity.

    That is common sense and on behalf of constituents who’ve contacted me, I’ve raised this with the council.
    https://twitter.com/Douglas4Moray/status/1666006173932290048?s=20

    Is Roaster Ross going to get outraged by pantomimes?
    His argument seems to be pantomime dames don't push gender ideology
    I don't think Drag Queen Story Hour does either. This is just Moray copying US nonsense.
    'Encouraging children to develop a love of reading through imaginative story time, while promoting inclusion, diversity and acceptance...' Now nobody wants intolerance but 6 and under is rather young to be discussing Trans
    We teach kinds younger than that that there are different sexes. Is that wrong too?
    Well there are, that is a biological fact
    And there are transgender people. That is a sociological fact.
    Only through surgery and even with that and hormones treatment trans cyclists are no longer allowed to compete in female races as even with hormone suppression they still have an advantage over female cyclists
    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/cycling/65718748
    No, transgender people are transgender even without undergoing surgery.

    Maybe if you'd been taught this stuff at a younger age you'd be a little more clued in to the facts.
    So you want to teach 6 year olds they are transgender? No wonder you on the left are out of touch!
    You're confusing being taught that you are something, with being taught about other people. No wonder the Tories are out of touch with humanity.
    It is not appropriate for 6 year olds or even older primary school children. It should be a secondary school issue only
    Bollocks.

    I literally head the same arguments made about not exposing kids to gay ideology when Section 28 was a thing.

    My then 4 year old only had one question about attending a same sex wedding.

    'Which one of you throws the bouquet, and can you make sure my dad catches it?'
    I have a 5 year old and it's not appropriate to discuss sexual intercourse at that age.
    Your five year old presumably knows that there are men and women. They don't need to hear about intercourse to have an understanding of that fact. They don't need to know about penetration to understand that some couples are different genders and some couples are the same gender. They don't need to know what adults do with their genitals to know that sometimes people are born as one gender but prefer to live as another.

    You don't need to deliver all the yucky truth about everything all at once.
    Personally I wouldn't allow any sex education or discussion of gender identity in schools until pupils are 11 or over and have reached puberty
    Wait until kids have hit puberty before discussing puberty?

    Talk about waiting until the horse has bolted before closing the door.
    Unless you are a paedophile kids shoudn't be engaging in or discussing sex until they have reached puberty absolutely
    If you want to protect children from paedophiles you need to teach them well before puberty how to be alert to the sorts of behaviour which indicate someone who may want to harm them. One of those indicators may well be people seeking to sexualise a child or encourage them to behave in an inappropriately sexual way or to densitise them to adults doing so in front of a child.

    On drag, there are drag acts which are harmless fun - like pantomime dames etc.., But there are some which are very sexualised and simply not appropriate for children. So it depends which ones we are talking about. Saying that all drag acts should be banned is as daft as saying that all are appropriate for children. Some are; some aren't.

    I would also hope that any group - drag or no - wishing to get close to children are properly and thoroughly checked out first. I recently listened to the documentary "In Dark Corners" on iPlayer Sounds about prolific paedophile teachers in some well-known public schools and how they targeted vulnerable children and moved from school to school. It is a horrific story and we'd be naive in thinking it is not still happening. Safeguarding is simply not taken seriously enough in practice. Child abusers will do whatever it takes to get close to children in order to abuse them and behave like parasites on more respectable institutions, groups and movements in order to achieve their aims. We would do well to remember that and not dismiss such concerns as moral panics, as the IICSA final report (and earlier ones) clearly state.
    OFSTED does not carry out fairly simple safeguarding checks on its inspectors, worryingly, and there have been multiple incidents where inspectors who should not have been working with children have caused harm.

    I raised this with the DfE as the body responsible for monitoring them, to which they replied it was a procedural issue for OFSTED (which incidentally isn't correct). Because, ultimately, like OFSTED, they don't care about or even understand safeguarding.

    If you doubt that statement, read these two stories:

    https://www.tes.com/magazine/archive/exclusive-shock-ofsted-chiefs-lack-knowledge-peer-abuse-guidance

    https://www.tes.com/magazine/news/general/ofsted-nude-pupil-pictures-not-safeguarding-issue
    Those well-known public schools were outside the state sector and therefore not inspected by Ofsted anyway.

    A boarding school is a machine for generating sexual abuse of children. People talk about stranger danger... What about sending your children to LIVE "looked after" by strangers who obviously don't love them?
    OFSTED does inspect some private schools, although you're right those probably wouldn't be included as routine. HMC schools are inspected by the ISI, who would - astonishingly - make Simon Case look competent.

    However, they can intervene if they suspect serious shortcomings the ISI is overlooking. Ampleforth springs to mind as a recent example.

    It doesn't however excuse them putting a paedophile into a classroom themselves.
  • ohnotnowohnotnow Posts: 4,034
    Leon said:

    Leon said:

    “The non-human intelligence phenomenon is real. We are not alone,” Grey said. “Retrievals of this kind are not limited to the United States. This is a global phenomenon, and yet a global solution continues to elude us.”

    😎😶

    And on we rumble, endless attention seeking whistle blowers with no evidence. Keep believing, Leon, keep believing.
    My point has always been that we are witnessing increasingly inexplicable behaviour from American officials - military, political, intel - which CAN only be explained if 1 you accept they are all going mad, 2 there is some incredibly massive psyops operation (who? When? Why?), or 3 they genuinely have evidence of non-human intelligence

    Any of these explanations is surpassingly
    interesting. They all remain possible. Recent evidence points more towards explanation 3
    Have you ever seen Jon Ronson's "Crazy Rulers of the World"? I rewatched it during the 2015/2016 US election fever-dream and found it quite therapeutic. In a way.
  • rcs1000rcs1000 Posts: 57,662
    It's a really, really bad idea for kids to get their first sex education from YouPorn.

    Because that is what's going to happen if we follow @HYUFD's suggestions.

    (Also: has anyone else seen Euphoria. Man that's disturbing.)
  • HYUFDHYUFD Posts: 123,987
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    You shouldn't teach children about road safety until they're old enough to drive

    You don't teach children how to drive a car until they are old enough to drive ie 17 certainly
    I learned to drive by the time I was fourteen.
    Not with a license to drive on a public highway
  • rcs1000rcs1000 Posts: 57,662
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    Ross not keen on drag Queen story time

    @Douglas4Moray
    It’s totally inappropriate to hold a show like this for kids under the age of six.

    Story time for babies and young kids shouldn’t focus on gender or sexual identity.

    That is common sense and on behalf of constituents who’ve contacted me, I’ve raised this with the council.
    https://twitter.com/Douglas4Moray/status/1666006173932290048?s=20

    Is Roaster Ross going to get outraged by pantomimes?
    His argument seems to be pantomime dames don't push gender ideology
    I don't think Drag Queen Story Hour does either. This is just Moray copying US nonsense.
    'Encouraging children to develop a love of reading through imaginative story time, while promoting inclusion, diversity and acceptance...' Now nobody wants intolerance but 6 and under is rather young to be discussing Trans
    We teach kinds younger than that that there are different sexes. Is that wrong too?
    Well there are, that is a biological fact
    And there are transgender people. That is a sociological fact.
    Only through surgery and even with that and hormones treatment trans cyclists are no longer allowed to compete in female races as even with hormone suppression they still have an advantage over female cyclists
    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/cycling/65718748
    No, transgender people are transgender even without undergoing surgery.

    Maybe if you'd been taught this stuff at a younger age you'd be a little more clued in to the facts.
    So you want to teach 6 year olds they are transgender? No wonder you on the left are out of touch!
    You're confusing being taught that you are something, with being taught about other people. No wonder the Tories are out of touch with humanity.
    It is not appropriate for 6 year olds or even older primary school children. It should be a secondary school issue only
    Bollocks.

    I literally head the same arguments made about not exposing kids to gay ideology when Section 28 was a thing.

    My then 4 year old only had one question about attending a same sex wedding.

    'Which one of you throws the bouquet, and can you make sure my dad catches it?'
    I have a 5 year old and it's not appropriate to discuss sexual intercourse at that age.
    Your five year old presumably knows that there are men and women. They don't need to hear about intercourse to have an understanding of that fact. They don't need to know about penetration to understand that some couples are different genders and some couples are the same gender. They don't need to know what adults do with their genitals to know that sometimes people are born as one gender but prefer to live as another.

    You don't need to deliver all the yucky truth about everything all at once.
    Personally I wouldn't allow any sex education or discussion of gender identity in schools until pupils are 11 or over and have reached puberty
    Wait until kids have hit puberty before discussing puberty?

    Talk about waiting until the horse has bolted before closing the door.
    Unless you are a paedophile kids shoudn't be engaging in or discussing sex until they have reached puberty absolutely
    Kids absolutely shouldn't be engaging in sex until they are young adults.

    They should however be learning about it, at appropriate levels, before their hormones go wild rather than afterwards.
    NO they should not. Absolutely not. They should only start to learn about sex, only at an appropriate level, from age 11 and only in more detail from 16, the age of consent
    Okay.

    So, when my eldest daughter was ten, one of her schoolfriends came to visit. She was the same age.

    She (the schoolfriend) was extremely inappropriate towards me, to the point where I immediately went to get my wife and asked her to stay near me for the duration of this girl's visit, so she (the schoolfriend) never got to see me alone. This successfully dissuaded her from doing it any more (other than a few comments that got our eyebrows raising).

    Should her parents have spoken to her about sex and what was and was not appropriate? I thought they should; she'd obviously picked up what she had from conversations with other children and what appeared to be early hormones. Personally, I thought she was going to be very vulnerable to any adult with paedophilic tendencies.

    I take it you disagree?
    Clearly an illustration of too much sexualisation of young people in our culture generally, when we didn't have as much sex in the media and more traditional Christian family values it was less of an issue
    This particular event happened twenty years ago.

    Kids have always talked between each other about sex. Discussions on that happened when I was a child in the Seventies, and this particular event happened twenty years ago.

    Sexual abuse of children was more prevalent in the Seventies, Sixties, and Fifties - it was just brushed under the carpet and not discussed. Less sex in the media, more Christian family values, and more children getting abused and raped.

    People just preferred to go into denial. That same tendency is visible in some today.
    Is there any evidence there was more paedophilia in the fifties? I highly doubt it, we also had lower divorce rates, higher marriage rates and a birthrate above replacement level
    The Catholic Church waves "hello!"

    And yes, there is ample evidence. People aged 60-79 are much more likely to report having been abused as a child than people aged 20 to 39.
    Stats for that? Say what you like about the Catholic church, at least they promote traditional marriage and having children and the family
    How much sexual abuse is acceptable if you promote traditional marriage?
    Only ever a small minority of Catholic priests were paedophiles
    What proportion is acceptable? One in twenty? One in ten?
  • RochdalePioneersRochdalePioneers Posts: 28,972
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    Ross not keen on drag Queen story time

    @Douglas4Moray
    It’s totally inappropriate to hold a show like this for kids under the age of six.

    Story time for babies and young kids shouldn’t focus on gender or sexual identity.

    That is common sense and on behalf of constituents who’ve contacted me, I’ve raised this with the council.
    https://twitter.com/Douglas4Moray/status/1666006173932290048?s=20

    Is Roaster Ross going to get outraged by pantomimes?
    His argument seems to be pantomime dames don't push gender ideology
    I don't think Drag Queen Story Hour does either. This is just Moray copying US nonsense.
    'Encouraging children to develop a love of reading through imaginative story time, while promoting inclusion, diversity and acceptance...' Now nobody wants intolerance but 6 and under is rather young to be discussing Trans
    We teach kinds younger than that that there are different sexes. Is that wrong too?
    Well there are, that is a biological fact
    And there are transgender people. That is a sociological fact.
    Only through surgery and even with that and hormones treatment trans cyclists are no longer allowed to compete in female races as even with hormone suppression they still have an advantage over female cyclists
    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/cycling/65718748
    No, transgender people are transgender even without undergoing surgery.

    Maybe if you'd been taught this stuff at a younger age you'd be a little more clued in to the facts.
    So you want to teach 6 year olds they are transgender? No wonder you on the left are out of touch!
    You're confusing being taught that you are something, with being taught about other people. No wonder the Tories are out of touch with humanity.
    It is not appropriate for 6 year olds or even older primary school children. It should be a secondary school issue only
    Bollocks.

    I literally head the same arguments made about not exposing kids to gay ideology when Section 28 was a thing.

    My then 4 year old only had one question about attending a same sex wedding.

    'Which one of you throws the bouquet, and can you make sure my dad catches it?'
    I have a 5 year old and it's not appropriate to discuss sexual intercourse at that age.
    Your five year old presumably knows that there are men and women. They don't need to hear about intercourse to have an understanding of that fact. They don't need to know about penetration to understand that some couples are different genders and some couples are the same gender. They don't need to know what adults do with their genitals to know that sometimes people are born as one gender but prefer to live as another.

    You don't need to deliver all the yucky truth about everything all at once.
    Personally I wouldn't allow any sex education or discussion of gender identity in schools until pupils are 11 or over and have reached puberty
    Wait until kids have hit puberty before discussing puberty?

    Talk about waiting until the horse has bolted before closing the door.
    Unless you are a paedophile kids shoudn't be engaging in or discussing sex until they have reached puberty absolutely
    Kids absolutely shouldn't be engaging in sex until they are young adults.

    They should however be learning about it, at appropriate levels, before their hormones go wild rather than afterwards.
    NO they should not. Absolutely not. They should only start to learn about sex, only at an appropriate level, from age 11 and only in more detail from 16, the age of consent
    Okay.

    So, when my eldest daughter was ten, one of her schoolfriends came to visit. She was the same age.

    She (the schoolfriend) was extremely inappropriate towards me, to the point where I immediately went to get my wife and asked her to stay near me for the duration of this girl's visit, so she (the schoolfriend) never got to see me alone. This successfully dissuaded her from doing it any more (other than a few comments that got our eyebrows raising).

    Should her parents have spoken to her about sex and what was and was not appropriate? I thought they should; she'd obviously picked up what she had from conversations with other children and what appeared to be early hormones. Personally, I thought she was going to be very vulnerable to any adult with paedophilic tendencies.

    I take it you disagree?
    Clearly an illustration of too much sexualisation of young people in our culture generally, when we didn't have as much sex in the media and more traditional Christian family values it was less of an issue
    This particular event happened twenty years ago.

    Kids have always talked between each other about sex. Discussions on that happened when I was a child in the Seventies, and this particular event happened twenty years ago.

    Sexual abuse of children was more prevalent in the Seventies, Sixties, and Fifties - it was just brushed under the carpet and not discussed. Less sex in the media, more Christian family values, and more children getting abused and raped.

    People just preferred to go into denial. That same tendency is visible in some today.
    Is there any evidence there was more paedophilia in the fifties? I highly doubt it, we also had lower divorce rates, higher marriage rates and a birthrate above replacement level
    The Catholic Church waves "hello!"

    And yes, there is ample evidence. People aged 60-79 are much more likely to report having been abused as a child than people aged 20 to 39.
    Stats for that? Say what you like about the Catholic church, at least they promote traditional marriage and having children and the family
    How much sexual abuse is acceptable if you promote traditional marriage?
    Traditional Family Values
    Wife is property
    Marital Rape
    Bloke has affairs

    Vote Conservative apparently.
  • CyclefreeCyclefree Posts: 25,328
    Leon said:

    At some point you will need to erect a special PB statue to me



    “US urged to reveal UFO evidence after claim that it has intact alien vehicles
    Whistleblower former intelligence official says government posseses ‘intact and partially intact’ craft of non-human origin”

    https://www.theguardian.com/world/2023/jun/06/whistleblower-ufo-alien-tech-spacecraft


    “Biden ‘knew of Ukrainian plan to attack Nord Stream’ three months before explosion
    Washington Post reports that European intelligence service told CIA Ukrainian military was planning attack”


    https://www.theguardian.com/business/2023/jun/06/biden-knew-of-plan-to-attack-nord-stream-three-months-before-explosion

    I have, my darling Leon, already grown one in your honour.


  • ydoethurydoethur Posts: 71,780

    HYUFD said:

    Farooq said:

    You shouldn't teach children about road safety until they're old enough to drive

    You don't teach children how to drive a car until they are old enough to drive ie 17 certainly
    But can you teach them the keys go snuggly into the ignition or where the petrol nozzle goes?
    You can't do the latter any more. Children aren't allowed to handle fuel pumps.

    It's probably a sensible precaution but I must admit I enjoyed helping refuel the car under supervision.
  • viewcodeviewcode Posts: 22,424
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    Ross not keen on drag Queen story time

    @Douglas4Moray
    It’s totally inappropriate to hold a show like this for kids under the age of six.

    Story time for babies and young kids shouldn’t focus on gender or sexual identity.

    That is common sense and on behalf of constituents who’ve contacted me, I’ve raised this with the council.
    https://twitter.com/Douglas4Moray/status/1666006173932290048?s=20

    Is Roaster Ross going to get outraged by pantomimes?
    His argument seems to be pantomime dames don't push gender ideology
    I don't think Drag Queen Story Hour does either. This is just Moray copying US nonsense.
    'Encouraging children to develop a love of reading through imaginative story time, while promoting inclusion, diversity and acceptance...' Now nobody wants intolerance but 6 and under is rather young to be discussing Trans
    We teach kinds younger than that that there are different sexes. Is that wrong too?
    Well there are, that is a biological fact
    And there are transgender people. That is a sociological fact.
    Only through surgery and even with that and hormones treatment trans cyclists are no longer allowed to compete in female races as even with hormone suppression they still have an advantage over female cyclists
    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/cycling/65718748
    No, transgender people are transgender even without undergoing surgery.

    Maybe if you'd been taught this stuff at a younger age you'd be a little more clued in to the facts.
    So you want to teach 6 year olds they are transgender? No wonder you on the left are out of touch!
    You're confusing being taught that you are something, with being taught about other people. No wonder the Tories are out of touch with humanity.
    It is not appropriate for 6 year olds or even older primary school children. It should be a secondary school issue only
    Bollocks.

    I literally head the same arguments made about not exposing kids to gay ideology when Section 28 was a thing.

    My then 4 year old only had one question about attending a same sex wedding.

    'Which one of you throws the bouquet, and can you make sure my dad catches it?'
    I have a 5 year old and it's not appropriate to discuss sexual intercourse at that age.
    Your five year old presumably knows that there are men and women. They don't need to hear about intercourse to have an understanding of that fact. They don't need to know about penetration to understand that some couples are different genders and some couples are the same gender. They don't need to know what adults do with their genitals to know that sometimes people are born as one gender but prefer to live as another.

    You don't need to deliver all the yucky truth about everything all at once.
    Personally I wouldn't allow any sex education or discussion of gender identity in schools until pupils are 11 or over and have reached puberty
    Wait until kids have hit puberty before discussing puberty?

    Talk about waiting until the horse has bolted before closing the door.
    Unless you are a paedophile kids shoudn't be engaging in or discussing sex until they have reached puberty absolutely
    Kids absolutely shouldn't be engaging in sex until they are young adults.

    They should however be learning about it, at appropriate levels, before their hormones go wild rather than afterwards.
    NO they should not. Absolutely not. They should only start to learn about sex, only at an appropriate level, from age 11 and only in more detail from 16, the age of consent
    Wow, just wow. Wait until they're past the age of consent before learning about it properly?

    Recipe for teenage pregnancies that.
    Is this the world you want, HYUFD?

    https://news.yahoo.com/colorado-rep-lauren-boebert-36-011800351.html

    Colorado representative Lauren Boebert, 36, announced she’s going to be a grandmother next month.

    The Republican firebrand made the declaration earlier this week at a Moms for America event, from which video started making the rounds Thursday.

    “Not only am I mom of four boys, but come April, I will be a GG to a brand new grandson,” she beamed.

    Newsweek reports that the child’s father is Boebert’s 17-year-old son, Tyler.

    Boebert’s announcement comes just days after she called for the elimination of “comprehensive sex ed” in public schools, according to Raw Story.
    The son was 17 when he became a father, 100 years ago that wouldn't have been uncommon when we had more traditional family values and over the age of consent in his state
    Would you mind answering the question? Is this the world you want now, today, not 100 years ago? Yes or no?
    Plenty of things were better in the 1920s
    I'm pretty conservative in my tastes.
    Yet I can't think of a single thing that was better in the 1920s.
    Train services, perhaps.
    Before Leon gets there, architecture. Council housing built in the 1930s are brilliant. Your 1910s Coronation St terraces last for decades, centuries even.
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    Ross not keen on drag Queen story time

    @Douglas4Moray
    It’s totally inappropriate to hold a show like this for kids under the age of six.

    Story time for babies and young kids shouldn’t focus on gender or sexual identity.

    That is common sense and on behalf of constituents who’ve contacted me, I’ve raised this with the council.
    https://twitter.com/Douglas4Moray/status/1666006173932290048?s=20

    Is Roaster Ross going to get outraged by pantomimes?
    His argument seems to be pantomime dames don't push gender ideology
    I don't think Drag Queen Story Hour does either. This is just Moray copying US nonsense.
    'Encouraging children to develop a love of reading through imaginative story time, while promoting inclusion, diversity and acceptance...' Now nobody wants intolerance but 6 and under is rather young to be discussing Trans
    We teach kinds younger than that that there are different sexes. Is that wrong too?
    Well there are, that is a biological fact
    And there are transgender people. That is a sociological fact.
    Only through surgery and even with that and hormones treatment trans cyclists are no longer allowed to compete in female races as even with hormone suppression they still have an advantage over female cyclists
    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/cycling/65718748
    No, transgender people are transgender even without undergoing surgery.

    Maybe if you'd been taught this stuff at a younger age you'd be a little more clued in to the facts.
    So you want to teach 6 year olds they are transgender? No wonder you on the left are out of touch!
    You're confusing being taught that you are something, with being taught about other people. No wonder the Tories are out of touch with humanity.
    It is not appropriate for 6 year olds or even older primary school children. It should be a secondary school issue only
    Bollocks.

    I literally head the same arguments made about not exposing kids to gay ideology when Section 28 was a thing.

    My then 4 year old only had one question about attending a same sex wedding.

    'Which one of you throws the bouquet, and can you make sure my dad catches it?'
    I have a 5 year old and it's not appropriate to discuss sexual intercourse at that age.
    Your five year old presumably knows that there are men and women. They don't need to hear about intercourse to have an understanding of that fact. They don't need to know about penetration to understand that some couples are different genders and some couples are the same gender. They don't need to know what adults do with their genitals to know that sometimes people are born as one gender but prefer to live as another.

    You don't need to deliver all the yucky truth about everything all at once.
    Personally I wouldn't allow any sex education or discussion of gender identity in schools until pupils are 11 or over and have reached puberty
    Wait until kids have hit puberty before discussing puberty?

    Talk about waiting until the horse has bolted before closing the door.
    Unless you are a paedophile kids shoudn't be engaging in or discussing sex until they have reached puberty absolutely
    Kids absolutely shouldn't be engaging in sex until they are young adults.

    They should however be learning about it, at appropriate levels, before their hormones go wild rather than afterwards.
    NO they should not. Absolutely not. They should only start to learn about sex, only at an appropriate level, from age 11 and only in more detail from 16, the age of consent
    Wow, just wow. Wait until they're past the age of consent before learning about it properly?

    Recipe for teenage pregnancies that.
    Is this the world you want, HYUFD?

    https://news.yahoo.com/colorado-rep-lauren-boebert-36-011800351.html

    Colorado representative Lauren Boebert, 36, announced she’s going to be a grandmother next month.

    The Republican firebrand made the declaration earlier this week at a Moms for America event, from which video started making the rounds Thursday.

    “Not only am I mom of four boys, but come April, I will be a GG to a brand new grandson,” she beamed.

    Newsweek reports that the child’s father is Boebert’s 17-year-old son, Tyler.

    Boebert’s announcement comes just days after she called for the elimination of “comprehensive sex ed” in public schools, according to Raw Story.
    The son was 17 when he became a father, 100 years ago that wouldn't have been uncommon when we had more traditional family values and over the age of consent in his state
    Would you mind answering the question? Is this the world you want now, today, not 100 years ago? Yes or no?
    Plenty of things were better in the 1920s
    I'm pretty conservative in my tastes.
    Yet I can't think of a single thing that was better in the 1920s.
    Train services, perhaps.
    Job prospects in imperial bureaucracies.
  • HYUFDHYUFD Posts: 123,987
    rcs1000 said:

    It's a really, really bad idea for kids to get their first sex education from YouPorn.

    Because that is what's going to happen if we follow @HYUFD's suggestions.

    (Also: has anyone else seen Euphoria. Man that's disturbing.)

    I suggested sex education from 11 not never. Children shouldn't be watching YouPorn before 11 either and ideally not before 16 and only irresponsible parents would allow their children to watch pornography so young
  • Big_G_NorthWalesBig_G_NorthWales Posts: 63,657
    HYUFD said:

    Farooq said:

    You shouldn't teach children about road safety until they're old enough to drive

    You don't teach children how to drive a car until they are old enough to drive ie 17 certainly
    Utter nonsense

    My father had me driving his car on a disused airfield when I was 13 and he taught me well as I actually passed my test on my 17th birthday, celebrating it by a high speed run from Berwick to the Scottish border (90 mph +)
  • dixiedeandixiedean Posts: 29,481
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    Ross not keen on drag Queen story time

    @Douglas4Moray
    It’s totally inappropriate to hold a show like this for kids under the age of six.

    Story time for babies and young kids shouldn’t focus on gender or sexual identity.

    That is common sense and on behalf of constituents who’ve contacted me, I’ve raised this with the council.
    https://twitter.com/Douglas4Moray/status/1666006173932290048?s=20

    Is Roaster Ross going to get outraged by pantomimes?
    His argument seems to be pantomime dames don't push gender ideology
    I don't think Drag Queen Story Hour does either. This is just Moray copying US nonsense.
    'Encouraging children to develop a love of reading through imaginative story time, while promoting inclusion, diversity and acceptance...' Now nobody wants intolerance but 6 and under is rather young to be discussing Trans
    We teach kinds younger than that that there are different sexes. Is that wrong too?
    Well there are, that is a biological fact
    And there are transgender people. That is a sociological fact.
    Only through surgery and even with that and hormones treatment trans cyclists are no longer allowed to compete in female races as even with hormone suppression they still have an advantage over female cyclists
    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/cycling/65718748
    No, transgender people are transgender even without undergoing surgery.

    Maybe if you'd been taught this stuff at a younger age you'd be a little more clued in to the facts.
    So you want to teach 6 year olds they are transgender? No wonder you on the left are out of touch!
    You're confusing being taught that you are something, with being taught about other people. No wonder the Tories are out of touch with humanity.
    It is not appropriate for 6 year olds or even older primary school children. It should be a secondary school issue only
    Bollocks.

    I literally head the same arguments made about not exposing kids to gay ideology when Section 28 was a thing.

    My then 4 year old only had one question about attending a same sex wedding.

    'Which one of you throws the bouquet, and can you make sure my dad catches it?'
    I have a 5 year old and it's not appropriate to discuss sexual intercourse at that age.
    Your five year old presumably knows that there are men and women. They don't need to hear about intercourse to have an understanding of that fact. They don't need to know about penetration to understand that some couples are different genders and some couples are the same gender. They don't need to know what adults do with their genitals to know that sometimes people are born as one gender but prefer to live as another.

    You don't need to deliver all the yucky truth about everything all at once.
    Personally I wouldn't allow any sex education or discussion of gender identity in schools until pupils are 11 or over and have reached puberty
    Wait until kids have hit puberty before discussing puberty?

    Talk about waiting until the horse has bolted before closing the door.
    Unless you are a paedophile kids shoudn't be engaging in or discussing sex until they have reached puberty absolutely
    Kids absolutely shouldn't be engaging in sex until they are young adults.

    They should however be learning about it, at appropriate levels, before their hormones go wild rather than afterwards.
    NO they should not. Absolutely not. They should only start to learn about sex, only at an appropriate level, from age 11 and only in more detail from 16, the age of consent
    Okay.

    So, when my eldest daughter was ten, one of her schoolfriends came to visit. She was the same age.

    She (the schoolfriend) was extremely inappropriate towards me, to the point where I immediately went to get my wife and asked her to stay near me for the duration of this girl's visit, so she (the schoolfriend) never got to see me alone. This successfully dissuaded her from doing it any more (other than a few comments that got our eyebrows raising).

    Should her parents have spoken to her about sex and what was and was not appropriate? I thought they should; she'd obviously picked up what she had from conversations with other children and what appeared to be early hormones. Personally, I thought she was going to be very vulnerable to any adult with paedophilic tendencies.

    I take it you disagree?
    Clearly an illustration of too much sexualisation of young people in our culture generally, when we didn't have as much sex in the media and more traditional Christian family values it was less of an issue
    This particular event happened twenty years ago.

    Kids have always talked between each other about sex. Discussions on that happened when I was a child in the Seventies, and this particular event happened twenty years ago.

    Sexual abuse of children was more prevalent in the Seventies, Sixties, and Fifties - it was just brushed under the carpet and not discussed. Less sex in the media, more Christian family values, and more children getting abused and raped.

    People just preferred to go into denial. That same tendency is visible in some today.
    Is there any evidence there was more paedophilia in the fifties? I highly doubt it, we also had lower divorce rates, higher marriage rates and a birthrate above replacement level
    The Catholic Church waves "hello!"

    And yes, there is ample evidence. People aged 60-79 are much more likely to report having been abused as a child than people aged 20 to 39.
    Stats for that? Say what you like about the Catholic church, at least they promote traditional marriage and having children and the family
    How much sexual abuse is acceptable if you promote traditional marriage?
    Only ever a small minority of Catholic priests were paedophiles
    And those that were only for a small minority of the day.
  • ydoethurydoethur Posts: 71,780
    HYUFD said:

    ydoethur said:

    HYUFD said:

    Farooq said:

    You shouldn't teach children about road safety until they're old enough to drive

    You don't teach children how to drive a car until they are old enough to drive ie 17 certainly
    I learned to drive by the time I was fourteen.
    Not with a license to drive on a public highway
    No, but that wasn't what you said.

    (Incidentally that doesn't seem to be stopping them at the moment, as tragically illustrated in Ely the other week.)
  • kle4kle4 Posts: 96,591
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    Ross not keen on drag Queen story time

    @Douglas4Moray
    It’s totally inappropriate to hold a show like this for kids under the age of six.

    Story time for babies and young kids shouldn’t focus on gender or sexual identity.

    That is common sense and on behalf of constituents who’ve contacted me, I’ve raised this with the council.
    https://twitter.com/Douglas4Moray/status/1666006173932290048?s=20

    Is Roaster Ross going to get outraged by pantomimes?
    His argument seems to be pantomime dames don't push gender ideology
    I don't think Drag Queen Story Hour does either. This is just Moray copying US nonsense.
    'Encouraging children to develop a love of reading through imaginative story time, while promoting inclusion, diversity and acceptance...' Now nobody wants intolerance but 6 and under is rather young to be discussing Trans
    We teach kinds younger than that that there are different sexes. Is that wrong too?
    Well there are, that is a biological fact
    And there are transgender people. That is a sociological fact.
    Only through surgery and even with that and hormones treatment trans cyclists are no longer allowed to compete in female races as even with hormone suppression they still have an advantage over female cyclists
    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/cycling/65718748
    No, transgender people are transgender even without undergoing surgery.

    Maybe if you'd been taught this stuff at a younger age you'd be a little more clued in to the facts.
    So you want to teach 6 year olds they are transgender? No wonder you on the left are out of touch!
    You're confusing being taught that you are something, with being taught about other people. No wonder the Tories are out of touch with humanity.
    It is not appropriate for 6 year olds or even older primary school children. It should be a secondary school issue only
    Bollocks.

    I literally head the same arguments made about not exposing kids to gay ideology when Section 28 was a thing.

    My then 4 year old only had one question about attending a same sex wedding.

    'Which one of you throws the bouquet, and can you make sure my dad catches it?'
    I have a 5 year old and it's not appropriate to discuss sexual intercourse at that age.
    Your five year old presumably knows that there are men and women. They don't need to hear about intercourse to have an understanding of that fact. They don't need to know about penetration to understand that some couples are different genders and some couples are the same gender. They don't need to know what adults do with their genitals to know that sometimes people are born as one gender but prefer to live as another.

    You don't need to deliver all the yucky truth about everything all at once.
    Personally I wouldn't allow any sex education or discussion of gender identity in schools until pupils are 11 or over and have reached puberty
    Wait until kids have hit puberty before discussing puberty?

    Talk about waiting until the horse has bolted before closing the door.
    Unless you are a paedophile kids shoudn't be engaging in or discussing sex until they have reached puberty absolutely
    Kids absolutely shouldn't be engaging in sex until they are young adults.

    They should however be learning about it, at appropriate levels, before their hormones go wild rather than afterwards.
    NO they should not. Absolutely not. They should only start to learn about sex, only at an appropriate level, from age 11 and only in more detail from 16, the age of consent
    Okay.

    So, when my eldest daughter was ten, one of her schoolfriends came to visit. She was the same age.

    She (the schoolfriend) was extremely inappropriate towards me, to the point where I immediately went to get my wife and asked her to stay near me for the duration of this girl's visit, so she (the schoolfriend) never got to see me alone. This successfully dissuaded her from doing it any more (other than a few comments that got our eyebrows raising).

    Should her parents have spoken to her about sex and what was and was not appropriate? I thought they should; she'd obviously picked up what she had from conversations with other children and what appeared to be early hormones. Personally, I thought she was going to be very vulnerable to any adult with paedophilic tendencies.

    I take it you disagree?
    Clearly an illustration of too much sexualisation of young people in our culture generally, when we didn't have as much sex in the media and more traditional Christian family values it was less of an issue
    This particular event happened twenty years ago.

    Kids have always talked between each other about sex. Discussions on that happened when I was a child in the Seventies, and this particular event happened twenty years ago.

    Sexual abuse of children was more prevalent in the Seventies, Sixties, and Fifties - it was just brushed under the carpet and not discussed. Less sex in the media, more Christian family values, and more children getting abused and raped.

    People just preferred to go into denial. That same tendency is visible in some today.
    Is there any evidence there was more paedophilia in the fifties? I highly doubt it, we also had lower divorce rates, higher marriage rates and a birthrate above replacement level
    The Catholic Church waves "hello!"

    And yes, there is ample evidence. People aged 60-79 are much more likely to report having been abused as a child than people aged 20 to 39.
    Stats for that? Say what you like about the Catholic church, at least they promote traditional marriage and having children and the family
    How much sexual abuse is acceptable if you promote traditional marriage?
    Only ever a small minority of Catholic priests were paedophiles
    And yet the institution protected them and many priests who must have known did nothing.
  • RochdalePioneersRochdalePioneers Posts: 28,972
    dixiedean said:

    London Irish gone now.

    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/rugby-union/65819546

    3 of 13 Premiership sides bust in a season.
    Plenty of taxpayer Covid loans to Rugby Union, too.

    Meh, Union. All is well in proper Rugby.
  • viewcodeviewcode Posts: 22,424
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    Ross not keen on drag Queen story time

    @Douglas4Moray
    It’s totally inappropriate to hold a show like this for kids under the age of six.

    Story time for babies and young kids shouldn’t focus on gender or sexual identity.

    That is common sense and on behalf of constituents who’ve contacted me, I’ve raised this with the council.
    https://twitter.com/Douglas4Moray/status/1666006173932290048?s=20

    Is Roaster Ross going to get outraged by pantomimes?
    His argument seems to be pantomime dames don't push gender ideology
    I don't think Drag Queen Story Hour does either. This is just Moray copying US nonsense.
    'Encouraging children to develop a love of reading through imaginative story time, while promoting inclusion, diversity and acceptance...' Now nobody wants intolerance but 6 and under is rather young to be discussing Trans
    We teach kinds younger than that that there are different sexes. Is that wrong too?
    Well there are, that is a biological fact
    And there are transgender people. That is a sociological fact.
    Only through surgery and even with that and hormones treatment trans cyclists are no longer allowed to compete in female races as even with hormone suppression they still have an advantage over female cyclists
    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/cycling/65718748
    No, transgender people are transgender even without undergoing surgery.

    Maybe if you'd been taught this stuff at a younger age you'd be a little more clued in to the facts.
    So you want to teach 6 year olds they are transgender? No wonder you on the left are out of touch!
    You're confusing being taught that you are something, with being taught about other people. No wonder the Tories are out of touch with humanity.
    It is not appropriate for 6 year olds or even older primary school children. It should be a secondary school issue only
    Bollocks.

    I literally head the same arguments made about not exposing kids to gay ideology when Section 28 was a thing.

    My then 4 year old only had one question about attending a same sex wedding.

    'Which one of you throws the bouquet, and can you make sure my dad catches it?'
    I have a 5 year old and it's not appropriate to discuss sexual intercourse at that age.
    Your five year old presumably knows that there are men and women. They don't need to hear about intercourse to have an understanding of that fact. They don't need to know about penetration to understand that some couples are different genders and some couples are the same gender. They don't need to know what adults do with their genitals to know that sometimes people are born as one gender but prefer to live as another.

    You don't need to deliver all the yucky truth about everything all at once.
    Personally I wouldn't allow any sex education or discussion of gender identity in schools until pupils are 11 or over and have reached puberty
    Wait until kids have hit puberty before discussing puberty?

    Talk about waiting until the horse has bolted before closing the door.
    Unless you are a paedophile kids shoudn't be engaging in or discussing sex until they have reached puberty absolutely
    Kids absolutely shouldn't be engaging in sex until they are young adults.

    They should however be learning about it, at appropriate levels, before their hormones go wild rather than afterwards.
    NO they should not. Absolutely not. They should only start to learn about sex, only at an appropriate level, from age 11 and only in more detail from 16, the age of consent
    Wow, just wow. Wait until they're past the age of consent before learning about it properly?

    Recipe for teenage pregnancies that.
    Is this the world you want, HYUFD?

    https://news.yahoo.com/colorado-rep-lauren-boebert-36-011800351.html

    Colorado representative Lauren Boebert, 36, announced she’s going to be a grandmother next month.

    The Republican firebrand made the declaration earlier this week at a Moms for America event, from which video started making the rounds Thursday.

    “Not only am I mom of four boys, but come April, I will be a GG to a brand new grandson,” she beamed.

    Newsweek reports that the child’s father is Boebert’s 17-year-old son, Tyler.

    Boebert’s announcement comes just days after she called for the elimination of “comprehensive sex ed” in public schools, according to Raw Story.
    The son was 17 when he became a father, 100 years ago that wouldn't have been uncommon when we had more traditional family values and over the age of consent in his state
    Would you mind answering the question? Is this the world you want now, today, not 100 years ago? Yes or no?
    Plenty of things were better in the 1920s
    I'm pretty conservative in my tastes.
    Yet I can't think of a single thing that was better in the 1920s.
    Train services, perhaps.
    Job prospects in imperial bureaucracies.
    Seaplanes?
  • LeonLeon Posts: 56,606
    Scott_xP said:

    Leon said:

    Leon said:

    “The non-human intelligence phenomenon is real. We are not alone,” Grey said. “Retrievals of this kind are not limited to the United States. This is a global phenomenon, and yet a global solution continues to elude us.”

    😎😶

    And on we rumble, endless attention seeking whistle blowers with no evidence. Keep believing, Leon, keep believing.
    My point has always been that we are witnessing increasingly inexplicable behaviour from American officials - military, political, intel - which CAN only be explained if 1 you accept they are all going mad, 2 there is some incredibly massive psyops operation (who? When? Why?), or 3 they genuinely have evidence of non-human intelligence

    Any of these explanations is surpassingly
    interesting. They all remain possible. Recent evidence points more towards explanation 3
    It's a well known fact (recorded in lots of historical documents) that alien lifeforms having traveled billions of miles through space to reach Earth reveal themselves almost exclusively to humans living in North America...
    Recent articles make it clear this is now acknowledged as a worldwide phenomenon - IF it is real
  • ohnotnowohnotnow Posts: 4,034
    Cyclefree said:

    Leon said:

    At some point you will need to erect a special PB statue to me



    “US urged to reveal UFO evidence after claim that it has intact alien vehicles
    Whistleblower former intelligence official says government posseses ‘intact and partially intact’ craft of non-human origin”

    https://www.theguardian.com/world/2023/jun/06/whistleblower-ufo-alien-tech-spacecraft


    “Biden ‘knew of Ukrainian plan to attack Nord Stream’ three months before explosion
    Washington Post reports that European intelligence service told CIA Ukrainian military was planning attack”


    https://www.theguardian.com/business/2023/jun/06/biden-knew-of-plan-to-attack-nord-stream-three-months-before-explosion

    I have, my darling Leon, already grown one in your honour.


    This is the opening chapter of Day of the Triffids, isn't it?
  • HYUFDHYUFD Posts: 123,987
    ydoethur said:

    Westie said:

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    Ross not keen on drag Queen story time

    @Douglas4Moray
    It’s totally inappropriate to hold a show like this for kids under the age of six.

    Story time for babies and young kids shouldn’t focus on gender or sexual identity.

    That is common sense and on behalf of constituents who’ve contacted me, I’ve raised this with the council.
    https://twitter.com/Douglas4Moray/status/1666006173932290048?s=20

    Is Roaster Ross going to get outraged by pantomimes?
    His argument seems to be pantomime dames don't push gender ideology
    I don't think Drag Queen Story Hour does either. This is just Moray copying US nonsense.
    'Encouraging children to develop a love of reading through imaginative story time, while promoting inclusion, diversity and acceptance...' Now nobody wants intolerance but 6 and under is rather young to be discussing Trans
    We teach kinds younger than that that there are different sexes. Is that wrong too?
    Well there are, that is a biological fact
    And there are transgender people. That is a sociological fact.
    Only through surgery and even with that and hormones treatment trans cyclists are no longer allowed to compete in female races as even with hormone suppression they still have an advantage over female cyclists
    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/cycling/65718748
    No, transgender people are transgender even without undergoing surgery.

    Maybe if you'd been taught this stuff at a younger age you'd be a little more clued in to the facts.
    So you want to teach 6 year olds they are transgender? No wonder you on the left are out of touch!
    You're confusing being taught that you are something, with being taught about other people. No wonder the Tories are out of touch with humanity.
    It is not appropriate for 6 year olds or even older primary school children. It should be a secondary school issue only
    Bollocks.

    I literally head the same arguments made about not exposing kids to gay ideology when Section 28 was a thing.

    My then 4 year old only had one question about attending a same sex wedding.

    'Which one of you throws the bouquet, and can you make sure my dad catches it?'
    I have a 5 year old and it's not appropriate to discuss sexual intercourse at that age.
    Your five year old presumably knows that there are men and women. They don't need to hear about intercourse to have an understanding of that fact. They don't need to know about penetration to understand that some couples are different genders and some couples are the same gender. They don't need to know what adults do with their genitals to know that sometimes people are born as one gender but prefer to live as another.

    You don't need to deliver all the yucky truth about everything all at once.
    Personally I wouldn't allow any sex education or discussion of gender identity in schools until pupils are 11 or over and have reached puberty
    Wait until kids have hit puberty before discussing puberty?

    Talk about waiting until the horse has bolted before closing the door.
    Unless you are a paedophile kids shoudn't be engaging in or discussing sex until they have reached puberty absolutely
    If you want to protect children from paedophiles you need to teach them well before puberty how to be alert to the sorts of behaviour which indicate someone who may want to harm them. One of those indicators may well be people seeking to sexualise a child or encourage them to behave in an inappropriately sexual way or to densitise them to adults doing so in front of a child.

    On drag, there are drag acts which are harmless fun - like pantomime dames etc.., But there are some which are very sexualised and simply not appropriate for children. So it depends which ones we are talking about. Saying that all drag acts should be banned is as daft as saying that all are appropriate for children. Some are; some aren't.

    I would also hope that any group - drag or no - wishing to get close to children are properly and thoroughly checked out first. I recently listened to the documentary "In Dark Corners" on iPlayer Sounds about prolific paedophile teachers in some well-known public schools and how they targeted vulnerable children and moved from school to school. It is a horrific story and we'd be naive in thinking it is not still happening. Safeguarding is simply not taken seriously enough in practice. Child abusers will do whatever it takes to get close to children in order to abuse them and behave like parasites on more respectable institutions, groups and movements in order to achieve their aims. We would do well to remember that and not dismiss such concerns as moral panics, as the IICSA final report (and earlier ones) clearly state.
    OFSTED does not carry out fairly simple safeguarding checks on its inspectors, worryingly, and there have been multiple incidents where inspectors who should not have been working with children have caused harm.

    I raised this with the DfE as the body responsible for monitoring them, to which they replied it was a procedural issue for OFSTED (which incidentally isn't correct). Because, ultimately, like OFSTED, they don't care about or even understand safeguarding.

    If you doubt that statement, read these two stories:

    https://www.tes.com/magazine/archive/exclusive-shock-ofsted-chiefs-lack-knowledge-peer-abuse-guidance

    https://www.tes.com/magazine/news/general/ofsted-nude-pupil-pictures-not-safeguarding-issue
    Those well-known public schools were outside the state sector and therefore not inspected by Ofsted anyway.

    A boarding school is a machine for generating sexual abuse of children. People talk about stranger danger... What about sending your children to LIVE "looked after" by strangers who obviously don't love them?
    OFSTED does inspect some private schools, although you're right those probably wouldn't be included as routine. HMC schools are inspected by the ISI, who would - astonishingly - make Simon Case look competent.

    However, they can intervene if they suspect serious shortcomings the ISI is overlooking. Ampleforth springs to mind as a recent example.

    It doesn't however excuse them putting a paedophile into a classroom themselves.
    And many were not happy with that either

    https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2020/12/04/ampleforth-has-put-death-rowjust-cromwell-did-monasteries/
  • ydoethurydoethur Posts: 71,780
    ohnotnow said:

    Cyclefree said:

    Leon said:

    At some point you will need to erect a special PB statue to me



    “US urged to reveal UFO evidence after claim that it has intact alien vehicles
    Whistleblower former intelligence official says government posseses ‘intact and partially intact’ craft of non-human origin”

    https://www.theguardian.com/world/2023/jun/06/whistleblower-ufo-alien-tech-spacecraft


    “Biden ‘knew of Ukrainian plan to attack Nord Stream’ three months before explosion
    Washington Post reports that European intelligence service told CIA Ukrainian military was planning attack”


    https://www.theguardian.com/business/2023/jun/06/biden-knew-of-plan-to-attack-nord-stream-three-months-before-explosion

    I have, my darling Leon, already grown one in your honour.


    This is the opening chapter of Day of the Triffids, isn't it?
    Where are The Chrysalids?
  • LeonLeon Posts: 56,606
    I mean, WTAF


    “Military whistleblower goes public with claims US has secret UFO retrieval program: ‘Terrestrial arms race’”

    https://twitter.com/foxnews/status/1666076260966039552?s=46&t=bulOICNH15U6kB0MwE6Lfw
  • NigelbNigelb Posts: 72,281
    edited June 2023
    HYUFD said:

    Carnyx said:

    HYUFD said:

    Carnyx said:

    HYUFD said:

    HYUFD said:

    Personally I wouldn't allow any sex education or discussion of gender identity in schools until pupils are 11 or over and have reached puberty

    Here's a recent systematic review on sex education: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1054139X20304560

    This review found strong evidence for the effectiveness of child sex abuse prevention efforts in elementary school. Such programs typically use behavioral practice and role-play [80] and encourage parental involvement [81,82]. They teach about body ownership and children's right to control their bodies [82] and about communication and self-protection [81,82]. A strong meta-analysis of 27 preschool through Grade 5 programs [80] and a systematic review of 24 K-5 programs [83] demonstrate significant effects on a wide range of outcomes, including behaviors in simulated at-risk situations. Another large systematic review concluded that, in general, parental involvement, opportunities for practice, repeated exposure, and sensitivity to developmental level were key characteristics of effective child sex abuse programs [81].

    Improved knowledge, attitudes, skills and social–emotional outcomes related to personal safety and touch
    A systematic review of 22 North American and UK curricula for K-6 children found significant increases in knowledge across programs, improved self-protective skills, particularly among older elementary students, and emotional gains in self-esteem, self-efficacy, and feelings of safety, in approximately one third of the programs. Gains in knowledge and some social–emotional outcomes remained at 3- to 5-month follow-up [84]. In a rigorous cluster randomized study of six New York City elementary schools, Safe Touches for second and third graders showed significant improvement in knowledge of safe touch [85]. Notably, intervention–control group differences were larger when “stranger danger” items were removed, suggesting that this curriculum was able to address inappropriate touch in a more nuanced way. Stay Safe primary prevention, for 7- and 10-year-olds in Ireland, demonstrated gains in knowledge, skills, and self-esteem, maintained at 3-month follow-up. Notably, gains were greatest for the younger students [82].

    Child abuse prevention programs for second to fourth graders demonstrated significant increases in knowledge of appropriate and inappropriate touch, what to do in an inappropriate situation [86], and increased knowledge and skill to identify unsafe situations [87]. A strong randomized study in 21 urban U.S. schools found gains were maintained at 1 year, with no increase in anxiety, concluding that it is safe to discuss sensitive subjects with young children, and demonstrating the value of early education [87]. A kindergarten program showed significant improvement in knowledge of unsafe secrets and distinguishing between tattling and reporting [88], and another program conducted with 123 Latinx preschoolers demonstrated increased knowledge and skills at post-test and 3-month follow-up [89].
    Don't talk to strangers worked fine, we don't need leftwing academic studies pushing sex education and gender identity lessons in primary schools. Full stop
    DTS didn't work.

    "Talk" and "strangers" don't match the facts, in various ways. Uncle X don't want to talk when he wants playtime.
    Yes it does work and always has, just it doesn't suit the ideology of you and your fellow leftwingers who want to sexualise young childrens' education.

    Trying to use a paedophile argument is pathetic, the number of paedophile encounters is less than 1% for per 100 children and that is for social services and the police to sort out instead of yet another attempt by the left to undermine the traditional family.
    The whole idea of DTS was to avoid paedophiles ... and plainly it is not working, given the scholarly evidence presented on this thread.
    There is no 'scholarly evidence' apart from some research by 2 'professors of public health' at some minor American college and none of that at all justifies sexualisation of under 11s in education. Ross is just leading the anti Woke fightback the likes of Meloni and DeSantis and Badenoch are also leading on as the conservative right finally takes up the fight against the ultra Woke left who have been unchallenged for too long!
    You’re a strange one.
  • CyclefreeCyclefree Posts: 25,328
    Cyclefree said:

    Leon said:

    At some point you will need to erect a special PB statue to me



    “US urged to reveal UFO evidence after claim that it has intact alien vehicles
    Whistleblower former intelligence official says government posseses ‘intact and partially intact’ craft of non-human origin”

    https://www.theguardian.com/world/2023/jun/06/whistleblower-ufo-alien-tech-spacecraft


    “Biden ‘knew of Ukrainian plan to attack Nord Stream’ three months before explosion
    Washington Post reports that European intelligence service told CIA Ukrainian military was planning attack”


    https://www.theguardian.com/business/2023/jun/06/biden-knew-of-plan-to-attack-nord-stream-three-months-before-explosion

    I have, my darling Leon, already grown one in your honour.


    Though you might prefer this -

  • kle4kle4 Posts: 96,591

    HYUFD said:

    rcs1000 said:

    It's a really, really bad idea for kids to get their first sex education from YouPorn.

    Because that is what's going to happen if we follow @HYUFD's suggestions.

    (Also: has anyone else seen Euphoria. Man that's disturbing.)

    I suggested sex education from 11 not never. Children shouldn't be watching YouPorn before 11 either and ideally not before 16 and only irresponsible parents would allow their children to watch pornography so young
    Because kids always asked their parents for permission to view porn, even before the advent of the internet.

    Jesus H Christ you can not be serious. This has to be a wind up.
    Apparently other parents are sitting down of an evening and putting YouPorn on the TV during dinner or something.
  • JosiasJessopJosiasJessop Posts: 43,504
    ydoethur said:

    HYUFD said:

    Farooq said:

    You shouldn't teach children about road safety until they're old enough to drive

    You don't teach children how to drive a car until they are old enough to drive ie 17 certainly
    I learned to drive by the time I was fourteen.
    I learnt to drive on a Fergie, and then, later and more rigorously, rear-wheel steer dumpers. Going from a rear-wheel steer dumper on building sites to cars on roads was interesting.

    But... although I could 'drive', there was no way on God's earth I should have been allowed on the road at that time. There's a massive difference between being able to 'drive' and being safe on the roads.
  • HYUFDHYUFD Posts: 123,987
    edited June 2023

    HYUFD said:

    rcs1000 said:

    It's a really, really bad idea for kids to get their first sex education from YouPorn.

    Because that is what's going to happen if we follow @HYUFD's suggestions.

    (Also: has anyone else seen Euphoria. Man that's disturbing.)

    I suggested sex education from 11 not never. Children shouldn't be watching YouPorn before 11 either and ideally not before 16 and only irresponsible parents would allow their children to watch pornography so young
    Because kids always asked their parents for permission to view porn, even before the advent of the internet.

    Jesus H Christ you can not be serious. This has to be a wind up.
    There are safeguards you can put in place to ensure only family friendly internet surfing. You can also insist computers are only in living rooms within parental viewing unto adulthood and not give children smartphones too early as well
  • SandyRentoolSandyRentool Posts: 22,238
    dixiedean said:

    London Irish gone now.

    https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/rugby-union/65819546

    3 of 13 Premiership sides bust in a season.
    Plenty of taxpayer Covid loans to Rugby Union, too.

    Some of the posh lads might have to venture up north and learn to play a proper game.
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