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    Generally grouchy response from Tories to this sensible article, summarised as "We do too care about infrastructure" and "You lot weren't any better anyway". It's certainly true that one of the few identifiable strategic differences at the election was that Osborne wasn't willing to borrow to invest and Balls was. Whatever the merits of that, it certainly gives a basis for questioning where the money for the infrastructure body will come from: we are being offered sizzle rather than steak, and the pundits who liked Cameron's speech also queried how the pleasant words would actually be translated into reality.

    I see no reason to criticise Adonis for taking the job, but pointing out the apparent lack of serious backing for it is legitimate. If we're proved right and Adonis resigns in frustration three years from now, that'll be politically relevant. If the Government proves us wrong by stumping up for the investment after all, that's fine too, in the national interest.

    LOL you built no houses, no roads and no airports when in government but you are experts in infrastructure ?

    Total bollocks Nick, you were so bad you make Osborne look good.
    Very very true. Brown spent "investment" money on welfare payments and extra wages in the public sector's admin jobs. Money that should have been spent on roads. Prescott even promised to halve car journeys! That started to happen when the economy went into the toilet.
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    JEOJEO Posts: 3,656
    antifrank said:

    @JosiasJessop A heartwarming story. But what about all the lives that the little runts disrupted while they were "finding themselves"? Are they not to be taken into consideration also?

    This is the problem with the light punishments for crime proponents. Sure giving someone a community sentence might drop the chance they reoffend in the next year from 50% to 40%. But if you have them out on the streets for an extra year, you're still increasing the chance there will be at least one victim from the criminal from 0% to 40%. So why should we put the criminal before the victim?
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    Morris_DancerMorris_Dancer Posts: 61,006
    P1 looking a bit worthless due to the diesel spillage. P2 might be rainy. So, that could make drawing conclusion for qualifying difficult, and based solely on P3.
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    John_M said:

    German integration of asylum seekers going well

    "Asylbewerber suchen sich zunehmend selbst ihren Wohnsitz aus, ziehen in den Zügen die Notbremsen, um einfach auszusteigen, weigern sich, in Busse einzusteigen, es gibt Unruhen bis hin zu Hungerstreiks in den Flüchtlingsheimen, weil das Essen angeblich nicht schmeckt oder nicht so entschieden wird, wie der Asylsuchende es will"

    Asylum seekers are increasingly demanding a home fot themselves, they pull the emergency brakes on trains simply to get off, refuse to get on buses and cause disturbances in the refugee homes right up to hunger strikes because ostensibly they don't like the taste of the food or it's not served they way the the asylumseeker wants.

    http://www.faz.net/aktuell/politik/fluechtlingskrise/horst-seehofer-es-gibt-hungerstreiks-in-den-fluechtlingsheimen-13847121.html

    Merkel has a bit of a problem atm

    Well, if you arrive at the land of milk and honey and find that it's not as you thought, then it's disappointing all round.

    Good morning all. Merkel's decision is going to haunt Germany for years. We've had around 1 million net migration this decade. They're doing more than that in a year. The idea that solving a demographic problem via mass immigration is going to be tested to destruction. My view has always been that proponents of that idea are just indulging in a ponzi scheme.

    We have to stop foisting our issues onto our children and grandchildren, whether that's managing finances, dealing with the elderly or infrastructure investment (fuelled by borrowing). As David H. says, less current spending, more capital spending. Not both. If that means higher taxes, then so be it.
    I fail to see how this is about demographics, that's a red herring, Germany could have imported millions of easily integratable East Europeans at any time in the last 20 years.

    This is about Merkel's grande geste.

    And it is going to be a problem.

    Germans were (are) opposed to economic migration from Eastern Europe; but - apparently - not to offering asylum to refugees. Merkel saw an opportunity and took it. Whether it works, though, is another thing. It does depend on sustained goodwill, which may prove tricky.

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    DavidL said:

    antifrank said:

    @JosiasJessop A heartwarming story. But what about all the lives that the little runts disrupted while they were "finding themselves"? Are they not to be taken into consideration also?

    Being a good parent is at least as hard as getting rid of the structural deficit. Having had 3 goes at it now I am increasingly of the view that nature is at least as important as nurture and the underlying character of the child will determine much of their behaviour.
    (angst ridden father of two, smiled)
    ... Fill you with the faults they had and add some extra just for you.
    Larkin.

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    JEOJEO Posts: 3,656

    https://www.rt.com/news/318074-eu-russia-relations-improve-juncker/

    Juncker says EU Russian relations must improve and Washington can't dictate. The peice quotes the speech directly for those who automatically disbelieve anything sullied by being reported by RT. The views expressed will be of no surprise to those who follow these issues closely. That such a senior figure has had the cojones to say this publicly will.

    Juncker is the worse type of Eurocrat. Its interesting that your Putinism comes above your euroscepticisn.
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    Moderates like Don "Jack Jones, My Political Hero" Brind?

    Well that's a novel definition, I'll give you that.



    If Adonis resigns in three years time it will not be politically relevant if the Labour party remains in its current state of myopic self-indulgence. One day you will realise this Nick. But I guess it might take a few years and several electoral drubbings. It's extraordinary how those inside the Corbyn bubble can't see how totally irrelevant Labour has become.

    Yes, we'll have to agree to disagree. I don't think there's any doubt that the many hostages to fortune produced by a lifetime on the left of Labour make it difficult for Corbyn. Equally I think many moderates in Labour are quietly surprised that the total meltdown predicted after the initial onslaught hasn't happened: positive suppport for Corbyn remains significantly higher than Ed was managing in the latter years (though Tories think he's terrible), and party polling is around what it was at the election.

    So most moderates, like Don, are giving it a fair try and putting forward constructive suggestions. Your standard reaction (3 times on this thread alone) has become "Aaargh, no, we're all doomed". Give it a rest!
    Comrade, here is your monthly cheque from mother Russia for services rendered.
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    JEOJEO Posts: 3,656

    John_M said:

    German integration of asylum seekers going well

    "Asylbewerber suchen sich zunehmend selbst ihren Wohnsitz aus, ziehen in den Zügen die Notbremsen, um einfach auszusteigen, weigern sich, in Busse einzusteigen, es gibt Unruhen bis hin zu Hungerstreiks in den Flüchtlingsheimen, weil das Essen angeblich nicht schmeckt oder nicht so entschieden wird, wie der Asylsuchende es will"

    Asylum seekers are increasingly demanding a home fot themselves, they pull the emergency brakes on trains simply to get off, refuse to get on buses and cause disturbances in the refugee homes right up to hunger strikes because ostensibly they don't like the taste of the food or it's not served they way the the asylumseeker wants.

    http://www.faz.net/aktuell/politik/fluechtlingskrise/horst-seehofer-es-gibt-hungerstreiks-in-den-fluechtlingsheimen-13847121.html

    Merkel has a bit of a problem atm

    Well, if you arrive at the land of milk and honey and find that it's not as you thought, then it's disappointing all round.

    Good morning all. Merkel's decision is going to haunt Germany for years. We've had around 1 million net migration this decade. They're doing more than that in a year. The idea that solving a demographic problem via mass immigration is going to be tested to destruction. My view has always been that proponents of that idea are just indulging in a ponzi scheme.

    We have to stop foisting our issues onto our children and grandchildren, whether that's managing finances, dealing with the elderly or infrastructure investment (fuelled by borrowing). As David H. says, less current spending, more capital spending. Not both. If that means higher taxes, then so be it.
    I fail to see how this is about demographics, that's a red herring, Germany could have imported millions of easily integratable East Europeans at any time in the last 20 years.

    This is about Merkel's grande geste.

    And it is going to be a problem.

    Germans were (are) opposed to economic migration from Eastern Europe; but - apparently - not to offering asylum to refugees. Merkel saw an opportunity and took it. Whether it works, though, is another thing. It does depend on sustained goodwill, which may prove tricky.

    It depends on sustained goodwill from the migrants. Given many are angry young men who riot when they get what they want, that will be trickier.

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    NickPalmerNickPalmer Posts: 21,369
    HYUFD said:



    Corbyn has higher negatives than Ed though

    Absolutely, and that will help Tory turnout. But essentially it doesn't matter too much if, say, Flightpath thinks Corbyn is appalling but merely thought Ed was useless. You win elections by getting people who like you to vote, and if nobody much cares you lose.

    Huffington Post has done an interesting two-day poll immediately after the Cameron speech illustrating the issue. On the one hand, 38% agree with Cameron that Corbyn is pro-terrorist (apparently, 22% of Labour voters agree but vote Labour anyway). 62% either disagree (31%) or have no opinion. On the other hand, 29% feel that Cameron has changed the Conservative Party, while 71% feel he hadn't (41% no, 30% no opinion). Those who actually heard the whole speech are more pro-Cameron and anti-Corbyn, but it's reasonable to assume that that is a more Tory subsample than otherwise.

    That's a poll taken at peak Tory moment with Cameron all over the media. It shows the Tories in a reasonably good position - notably the madrassa and housing sbits went down well - but not a slam-dunk position.

    http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/2015/10/08/poll-david-cameron-speech-nasty-tories_n_8262526.html?utm_hp_ref=uk&ncid=newsletter-uk
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    dr_spyndr_spyn Posts: 11,290
    edited October 2015

    Brilliant front page in The Times...two lead stories encapsulated by the centre page picture

    Ethics of Coke.
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    AlastairMeeksAlastairMeeks Posts: 30,340

    HYUFD said:



    Corbyn has higher negatives than Ed though

    Absolutely, and that will help Tory turnout. But essentially it doesn't matter too much if, say, Flightpath thinks Corbyn is appalling but merely thought Ed was useless. You win elections by getting people who like you to vote, and if nobody much cares you lose.

    Huffington Post has done an interesting two-day poll immediately after the Cameron speech illustrating the issue. On the one hand, 38% agree with Cameron that Corbyn is pro-terrorist (apparently, 22% of Labour voters agree but vote Labour anyway). 62% either disagree (31%) or have no opinion. On the other hand, 29% feel that Cameron has changed the Conservative Party, while 71% feel he hadn't (41% no, 30% no opinion). Those who actually heard the whole speech are more pro-Cameron and anti-Corbyn, but it's reasonable to assume that that is a more Tory subsample than otherwise.

    That's a poll taken at peak Tory moment with Cameron all over the media. It shows the Tories in a reasonably good position - notably the madrassa and housing sbits went down well - but not a slam-dunk position.

    http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/2015/10/08/poll-david-cameron-speech-nasty-tories_n_8262526.html?utm_hp_ref=uk&ncid=newsletter-uk
    The data point that should terrify you in that poll is that 22% of Labour supporters think that Jeremy Corbyn holds a “security-threatening, terrorist-sympathising, Britain-hating" ideology. It doesn't exactly sound as though you can necessarily count on their vote.
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    flightpath01flightpath01 Posts: 4,903
    The Tory party are locked into trying to undo the impossible to sustain increase in Labour spending between 2000 and 2010. 50% increase in 10 years in real terms. The increase in welfare payments was all part of that. Look at the figures. During a period of growth over 10 years of Labour rule spending on welfare increased unjustifiably. Yet all Mr Brind can do is sneer at attempts to make work pay (conveniently ignoring the increase in tax allowances and the minimum wage) and persuade the nation to live within its means.

    I am old enough to remember John Prescott putting a halt to road building back in 1997, thereby continuing Norwich's isolation from the world. Mr Brind is a comedian.
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    TheuniondivvieTheuniondivvie Posts: 40,261
    edited October 2015

    Being able to paint is not necessarily virtuous.

    But it might represent an unintended benefit for the world; if only AH had been moderately successful (as an artist)..
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    Casino_RoyaleCasino_Royale Posts: 55,648

    Generally grouchy response from Tories to this sensible article, summarised as "We do too care about infrastructure" and "You lot weren't any better anyway". It's certainly true that one of the few identifiable strategic differences at the election was that Osborne wasn't willing to borrow to invest and Balls was. Whatever the merits of that, it certainly gives a basis for questioning where the money for the infrastructure body will come from: we are being offered sizzle rather than steak, and the pundits who liked Cameron's speech also queried how the pleasant words would actually be translated into reality.

    I see no reason to criticise Adonis for taking the job, but pointing out the apparent lack of serious backing for it is legitimate. If we're proved right and Adonis resigns in frustration three years from now, that'll be politically relevant. If the Government proves us wrong by stumping up for the investment after all, that's fine too, in the national interest.

    Because its partisan bullshit written as partisan bullshit with no betting insight.

    It's Mike's blog, and not my call, but Don Brind's articles offer me nothing. Henry G Mason and Hopi Sen - once of this parish - are both strong supporters of Labour, but offer usual tips and perspectives to punters.

    I'd prefer a thread written by Roger or tyson - at least it would be entertaining.
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    NickPalmerNickPalmer Posts: 21,369
    On kids, we're all anecdotal as it's hard to agree what good child behaviour is, let alone measure which countries display it. My 2p worth is that we've shaken off the reputation that we used to have of actively disliking kids (I remember an article in a Sunday broadsheet suggesting seriously that Baden-Powell might have had paedophile leanings since "It is not normal to like children unless they are your own"), but we're still a bit neurotic about them, simultaneously wanting to treat them as innocent darlings and mature adults. The general drift is undoubtedly to the latter - you have to be very cocooned these days to be innocent in any way beyond the age of 7 or so.

    Inner London kids (who I mostly see now) generally seem OK to me in everyday life (no idea what they're like at home) - more boisterous than adults, pretty streetwise and probably willing to try anything once without too many regrets, but very few actually nasty.

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    Casino_RoyaleCasino_Royale Posts: 55,648
    edited October 2015
    Roger said:

    OT. But sort of following Don's musings.......

    I've been pondering why French children are so different from English ones. Visiting art galleries in France you see large parties of young and very young schoolchildren being genuinely fascinated by the art. Not only are they there and interested but very well behaved

    (They also dress in their own clothes more often than not with considerable flair).

    It's so noticable that I googled 'behaviour of French schoolchildren' and apparently it's a well known fact that French children are better behaved than their English counterparts though the reasons seem vague.

    One of the least attractive features of the UK (apart from the weather the chauvinism the obeasity and the philistinism) is the prurience which is much less obvious in France. I wonder whether it's the general desire to repress which was so evident during the Tory Party Conference which is at the heart of it?


    French schoolchildren in London are the worst behaved and rudest of them all.

    This is also one of the most pompous posts you've ever written, btw.
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    JEO said:

    antifrank said:

    @JosiasJessop A heartwarming story. But what about all the lives that the little runts disrupted while they were "finding themselves"? Are they not to be taken into consideration also?

    This is the problem with the light punishments for crime proponents. Sure giving someone a community sentence might drop the chance they reoffend in the next year from 50% to 40%. But if you have them out on the streets for an extra year, you're still increasing the chance there will be at least one victim from the criminal from 0% to 40%. So why should we put the criminal before the victim?
    Because, the vast majority of criminals are people who reoffend again, again, and again. Dozens of occasions in some cases.

    Taking people out of that cycle is therefore far more valuable than delaying it by a year.
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    runnymederunnymede Posts: 2,536
    It's certainly true that one of the few identifiable strategic differences at the election was that Osborne wasn't willing to borrow to invest and Balls was

    zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzpin
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    DavidL said:

    antifrank said:

    @JosiasJessop A heartwarming story. But what about all the lives that the little runts disrupted while they were "finding themselves"? Are they not to be taken into consideration also?

    Being a good parent is at least as hard as getting rid of the structural deficit. Having had 3 goes at it now I am increasingly of the view that nature is at least as important as nurture and the underlying character of the child will determine much of their behaviour.
    (angst ridden father of two, smiled)
    ... Fill you with the faults they had and add some extra just for you.
    Larkin.

    Unaccustomed as I am to casting a positive light..

    This Be The Converse - Adrian Mitchell

    They tuck you up, your Mum and Dad,
    They read you Peter Rabbit, too.
    They give you all the treats they had
    And add some extra, just for you.

    They were tucked up when they were small,
    (Pink perfume, blue tobacco-smoke),
    By those whose kiss healed any fall,
    Whose laughter doubled any joke.

    Man hands on happiness to man.
    It deepens like a coastal shelf.
    So love your parents all you can
    And have some cheerful kids yourself.
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    flightpath01flightpath01 Posts: 4,903
    To DavidL at 8.40 -
    Yes
    Cogent cohesive and correct.
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    Casino_RoyaleCasino_Royale Posts: 55,648
    DavidL said:

    There are many flaws in Don's piece, most of which we have discussed before.

    Firstly, one of the reasons the government can still borrow cheaply despite still having the worst deficit in Europe is that the markets accept that they are serious about addressing it. Borrowing lots of additional "cheap" money would dangerously undermine that.

    Secondly, one of the many major problems left by the Brown disaster is that far too much of our government expenditure goes on current spending. It is just incoherent and irrational to expect the government to spend a lot more on, say, WTC, and on infrastructure. These are choices and the government has chosen correctly.

    Thirdly, after the latest revisals to the GDP figures the argument that austerity somehow reduced growth gets ever more untenable. Growth in the UK has matched that of the US since 2010 and is by far the best in the EU. The idea that it would have been sustainable to borrow even more, drive demand even more and somehow generate additional growth that was somehow going to magically produce the extra tax revenues to pay for it all is just stupid. It is no longer even an arguable position, it is stupid.

    The fact is that the easy tax revenues of the bubble in the City and plentiful north sea oil are gone and they are not coming back. Our deficit was much more structural than was appreciated at the time and is much harder to eliminate as a result. This means real cuts along with tax increases are going to be needed to rebalance our economy onto some sustainable footing. This will not be easy or politically popular but it is absolutely necessary.

    So where does that leave the ambitions of Osborne? If this new body is to have a new budget rather than simply making better use of the old one he will have to bear down even harder on current expenditure to release resources for capital spending. I think there is no doubt that he wants to do that. Whether he finds that politically doable will be an interesting question.

    Osborne is good with strategy, rabbits, sorting longstanding outrages in the tax system and recognising the value of infrastructure investment - so he's perfect for building a strong economy. But, for me, Conservativism is about more than just the money.

    I'm not sure Osborne has an answer to that yet.
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    Casino_RoyaleCasino_Royale Posts: 55,648

    On kids, we're all anecdotal as it's hard to agree what good child behaviour is, let alone measure which countries display it. My 2p worth is that we've shaken off the reputation that we used to have of actively disliking kids (I remember an article in a Sunday broadsheet suggesting seriously that Baden-Powell might have had paedophile leanings since "It is not normal to like children unless they are your own"), but we're still a bit neurotic about them, simultaneously wanting to treat them as innocent darlings and mature adults. The general drift is undoubtedly to the latter - you have to be very cocooned these days to be innocent in any way beyond the age of 7 or so.

    Inner London kids (who I mostly see now) generally seem OK to me in everyday life (no idea what they're like at home) - more boisterous than adults, pretty streetwise and probably willing to try anything once without too many regrets, but very few actually nasty.

    I find other people's kids highly irritating, except for my own nephews. I also remember how much of an obnoxious brat I was as a kid, and my wife was semi-jokingly referred to as a "devil-child" by her father.

    My wife now wants to start a family. I think about all that, and then have all my work colleagues and friends make 'jokes' about having no more sleep anymore, and how your whole life changes forever.

    Frankly, it puts me off. It sounds shit.
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    MarqueeMarkMarqueeMark Posts: 50,144
    JEO said:

    John_M said:

    German integration of asylum seekers going well

    "Asylbewerber suchen sich zunehmend selbst ihren Wohnsitz aus, ziehen in den Zügen die Notbremsen, um einfach auszusteigen, weigern sich, in Busse einzusteigen, es gibt Unruhen bis hin zu Hungerstreiks in den Flüchtlingsheimen, weil das Essen angeblich nicht schmeckt oder nicht so entschieden wird, wie der Asylsuchende es will"

    Asylum seekers are increasingly demanding a home fot themselves, they pull the emergency brakes on trains simply to get off, refuse to get on buses and cause disturbances in the refugee homes right up to hunger strikes because ostensibly they don't like the taste of the food or it's not served they way the the asylumseeker wants.

    http://www.faz.net/aktuell/politik/fluechtlingskrise/horst-seehofer-es-gibt-hungerstreiks-in-den-fluechtlingsheimen-13847121.html

    Merkel has a bit of a problem atm

    Well, if you arrive at the land of milk and honey and find that it's not as you thought, then it's disappointing all round.

    Good morning all. Merkel's decision is going to haunt Germany for years. We've had around 1 million net migration this decade. They're doing more than that in a year. The idea that solving a demographic problem via mass immigration is going to be tested to destruction. My view has always been that proponents of that idea are just indulging in a ponzi scheme.

    We have to stop foisting our issues onto our children and grandchildren, whether that's managing finances, dealing with the elderly or infrastructure investment (fuelled by borrowing). As David H. says, less current spending, more capital spending. Not both. If that means higher taxes, then so be it.
    I fail to see how this is about demographics, that's a red herring, Germany could have imported millions of easily integratable East Europeans at any time in the last 20 years.

    This is about Merkel's grande geste.

    And it is going to be a problem.

    Germans were (are) opposed to economic migration from Eastern Europe; but - apparently - not to offering asylum to refugees. Merkel saw an opportunity and took it. Whether it works, though, is another thing. It does depend on sustained goodwill, which may prove tricky.

    It depends on sustained goodwill from the migrants. Given many are angry young men who riot when they get what they want, that will be trickier.

    I get the impression that many kind-hearted Germans thought they were doing the right thing to atone for their nation's past sins by willingly opening their doors to a cuddly Gremlin. Unfortunately nobody told them not to get them wet or feed them after midnight....
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    flightpath01flightpath01 Posts: 4,903
    antifrank said:

    HYUFD said:



    Corbyn has higher negatives than Ed though

    Absolutely, and that will help Tory turnout. But essentially it doesn't matter too much if, say, Flightpath thinks Corbyn is appalling but merely thought Ed was useless. You win elections by getting people who like you to vote, and if nobody much cares you lose.

    Huffington Post has done an interesting two-day poll immediately after the Cameron speech illustrating the issue. On the one hand, 38% agree with Cameron that Corbyn is pro-terrorist (apparently, 22% of Labour voters agree but vote Labour anyway). 62% either disagree (31%) or have no opinion. On the other hand, 29% feel that Cameron has changed the Conservative Party, while 71% feel he hadn't (41% no, 30% no opinion). Those who actually heard the whole speech are more pro-Cameron and anti-Corbyn, but it's reasonable to assume that that is a more Tory subsample than otherwise.

    That's a poll taken at peak Tory moment with Cameron all over the media. It shows the Tories in a reasonably good position - notably the madrassa and housing sbits went down well - but not a slam-dunk position.

    http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/2015/10/08/poll-david-cameron-speech-nasty-tories_n_8262526.html?utm_hp_ref=uk&ncid=newsletter-uk
    The data point that should terrify you in that poll is that 22% of Labour supporters think that Jeremy Corbyn holds a “security-threatening, terrorist-sympathising, Britain-hating" ideology. It doesn't exactly sound as though you can necessarily count on their vote.
    Cameron did not lift his speech from the draft of a failed speech writer which had been hawked around and rejected for the last 20 years.
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    malcolmgmalcolmg Posts: 42,076

    Mr. Antifrank, many years ago I attended a very small theatre performance (a friend of my mother had the lead), and there was an obnoxious little creature running up and down the aisle, which echoed magnificently, during the performance.

    The temptation to stick my leg out was significant. [I didn't].

    wimp
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    flightpath01flightpath01 Posts: 4,903

    Roger said:

    OT. But sort of following Don's musings.......
    I've been pondering why French children are so different from English ones. Visiting art galleries in France you see large parties of young and very young schoolchildren being genuinely fascinated by the art. Not only are they there and interested but very well behaved
    ....... One of the least attractive features of the UK (apart from the weather the chauvinism the obeasity and the philistinism) is the prurience which is much less obvious in France. I wonder whether it's the general desire to repress which was so evident during the Tory Party Conference which is at the heart of it?

    Classic example of how lefties hate their country.
    And a pathetic excuse for the crass ignorant vulger spittle strewn and violent behaviour of lefty yobbos hell bent on their bogus protests.
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    malcolmgmalcolmg Posts: 42,076
    watford30 said:

    Morning all,

    So we have a cross party group including people from Con, Lab and UKIP launching today Vote to Leave.
    Then there is Farage and UKIPs one party LEAVE.EU. Farage justified the reason for LEAVE.EU because no other group advocated leaving and the group Carswell supported was not BOO. Now that reason has been removed, will Farage end his backing of LEAVE.EU to unite in one group? Sadly no.

    Farage, party of one, your table is ready....

    Morning all,

    It may all turn out to be irrelevant. I can foresee a situation where Cameron postpones an EU vote next year because of escalating war in Syria into which we have been dragged by Russian intervention.
    Upset at them killing too many Islamists?
    Russia isn't bring picky - they're killing anyone, not just Islamists.

    Collateral damage has always been acceptable to the Kremlin, even on home territory.
    UK just pays other people to do it for them and pretends they are chivalrous and caring.
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    MarqueeMarkMarqueeMark Posts: 50,144

    DavidL said:

    There are many flaws in Don's piece, most of which we have discussed before.

    Firstly, one of the reasons the government can still borrow cheaply despite still having the worst deficit in Europe is that the markets accept that they are serious about addressing it. Borrowing lots of additional "cheap" money would dangerously undermine that.

    Secondly, one of the many major problems left by the Brown disaster is that far too much of our government expenditure goes on current spending. It is just incoherent and irrational to expect the government to spend a lot more on, say, WTC, and on infrastructure. These are choices and the government has chosen correctly.

    Thirdly, after the latest revisals to the GDP figures the argument that austerity somehow reduced growth gets ever more untenable. Growth in the UK has matched that of the US since 2010 and is by far the best in the EU. The idea that it would have been sustainable to borrow even more, drive demand even more and somehow generate additional growth that was somehow going to magically produce the extra tax revenues to pay for it all is just stupid. It is no longer even an arguable position, it is stupid.

    The fact is that the easy tax revenues of the bubble in the City and plentiful north sea oil are gone and they are not coming back. Our deficit was much more structural than was appreciated at the time and is much harder to eliminate as a result. This means real cuts along with tax increases are going to be needed to rebalance our economy onto some sustainable footing. This will not be easy or politically popular but it is absolutely necessary.

    So where does that leave the ambitions of Osborne? If this new body is to have a new budget rather than simply making better use of the old one he will have to bear down even harder on current expenditure to release resources for capital spending. I think there is no doubt that he wants to do that. Whether he finds that politically doable will be an interesting question.

    Osborne is good with strategy, rabbits, sorting longstanding outrages in the tax system and recognising the value of infrastructure investment - so he's perfect for building a strong economy. But, for me, Conservativism is about more than just the money.

    I'm not sure Osborne has an answer to that yet.
    You can't fix the "more" until you've fixed the money. Conservatives have this in their DNA.

    Labour? Not so much...

    Tories scrimp and scrape all year, then battle round the shops to find that toy their kid desperately wants for Christmas.

    Labour writes a wish list to Santa.
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    TOPPINGTOPPING Posts: 41,403
    Has my computer got a virus? Why have I been redirected to Mumsnet? Not that I doubt the child-rearing expertise of PBers..

    NPXMPX2 reminds me of Winnie a bit, which is not not a compliment.
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    flightpath01flightpath01 Posts: 4,903
    HYUFD said:

    'A labour man doing a labour job' - very well put. Last term the soft left policies were aparently the Lib Dem's fault. This term the are a cunning ruse to wrong foot the Labour party. PM trotting out the same hackneyed pro-EU arguments. Between Labour's swing to the left and the Conservative's strategic manoeuvres to the left, the political ground has just been massively shifted leftward. I believe it's what Tory supporters call 'winning'.

    As opposed to the right-wing leadership of Hague, IDS and Howard which is what Tory supporters call 'losing'
    The Tories are occupying the centre ground. From the centre you can look left and right in modest comfort. From either extereme all you get is a crick in your neck which proves ultimately untreatable.
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    blackburn63blackburn63 Posts: 4,492
    watford30 said:

    John_M said:

    German integration of asylum seekers going well

    "Asylbewerber suchen sich zunehmend selbst ihren Wohnsitz aus, ziehen in den Zügen die Notbremsen, um einfach auszusteigen, weigern sich, in Busse einzusteigen, es gibt Unruhen bis hin zu Hungerstreiks in den Flüchtlingsheimen, weil das Essen angeblich nicht schmeckt oder nicht so entschieden wird, wie der Asylsuchende es will"

    Asylum seekers are increasingly demanding a home fot themselves, they pull the emergency brakes on trains simply to get off, refuse to get on buses and cause disturbances in the refugee homes right up to hunger strikes because ostensibly they don't like the taste of the food or it's not served they way the the asylumseeker wants.

    http://www.faz.net/aktuell/politik/fluechtlingskrise/horst-seehofer-es-gibt-hungerstreiks-in-den-fluechtlingsheimen-13847121.html

    Merkel has a bit of a problem atm

    Good morning all. Well, if you arrive at the land of milk and honey and find that it's not as you thought, then it's disappointing all round.

    Merkel's decision is going to haunt Germany for years. We've had around 1 million net migration this decade. They're doing more than that in a year. The idea that solving a demographic problem via mass immigration is going to be tested to destruction. My view has always been that proponents of that idea are just indulging in a ponzi scheme.

    We have to stop foisting our issues onto our children and grandchildren, whether that's managing finances, dealing with the elderly or infrastructure investment (fuelled by borrowing). As David H. says, less current spending, more capital spending. Not both. If that means higher taxes, then so be it.
    One of the biggest lies in modern politics is we need population growth so youngsters can fund old people, if that were true the population would need to grow infinitely.

    snip

    The State Pension Ponzi Scheme. Totally unsustainable as many are now discovering. Some had worked it out years ago, but their warning cries were ignored.

    Spot on, politicians are stupid almost without exception

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    JosiasJessopJosiasJessop Posts: 39,072

    On kids, we're all anecdotal as it's hard to agree what good child behaviour is, let alone measure which countries display it. My 2p worth is that we've shaken off the reputation that we used to have of actively disliking kids (I remember an article in a Sunday broadsheet suggesting seriously that Baden-Powell might have had paedophile leanings since "It is not normal to like children unless they are your own"), but we're still a bit neurotic about them, simultaneously wanting to treat them as innocent darlings and mature adults. The general drift is undoubtedly to the latter - you have to be very cocooned these days to be innocent in any way beyond the age of 7 or so.

    Inner London kids (who I mostly see now) generally seem OK to me in everyday life (no idea what they're like at home) - more boisterous than adults, pretty streetwise and probably willing to try anything once without too many regrets, but very few actually nasty.

    I find other people's kids highly irritating, except for my own nephews. I also remember how much of an obnoxious brat I was as a kid, and my wife was semi-jokingly referred to as a "devil-child" by her father.

    My wife now wants to start a family. I think about all that, and then have all my work colleagues and friends make 'jokes' about having no more sleep anymore, and how your whole life changes forever.

    Frankly, it puts me off. It sounds shit.
    As someone new to this lark, it's also tremendous fun (and I speak after a rather sleepless night).

    It's also the greatest responsibility you will ever have.
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    TudorRoseTudorRose Posts: 1,662
    Nick - "My 2p worth is that we've shaken off the reputation that we used to have of actively disliking kids (I remember an article in a Sunday broadsheet suggesting seriously that Baden-Powell might have had paedophile leanings since "It is not normal to like children unless they are your own"), but we're still a bit neurotic about them, simultaneously wanting to treat them as innocent darlings and mature adults."

    And therein lies the problem with the Labour party; use of the word 'we' where it ought to be 'I'. Until Labour realises that we're all different (and, yes, I do dislike kids) then it will be swamped by the self-delusion that 'we' all agree with whatever the current appropriate socio-economic model says 'we' should conform with. The EU operates on pretty much the same basis and I rather fear that Cameron has similar tendencies from his most recent speech.
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    Plato_SaysPlato_Says Posts: 11,822
    edited October 2015
    Quite. I mentioned on here a few weeks ago about the attitude of alleged refugees breaking down fences in Croatia et al - there wasn't any patient waiting - within 36 hrs it was all violence and yelling/stone throwing.

    Frankly, I thought that bode ill at the time, this was a large group of people who simply didn't think they needed to behave - or that their entitled attitude to pick and choose where they lived was going to be a serious problem.

    I feel very sorry for all the countries effected by Mrs Merkel. If official estimates are accurate - Germany could be looking at over 7m arrivals/family joiners from all sorts of alien cultures. It's a nightmare.

    I get the impression that many kind-hearted Germans thought they were doing the right thing to atone for their nation's past sins by willingly opening their doors to a cuddly Gremlin. Unfortunately nobody told them not to get them wet or feed them after midnight....

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    Morris_DancerMorris_Dancer Posts: 61,006
    Mr. G, not unlike Allah, my mercy is greater than my wrath.
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    MarqueeMarkMarqueeMark Posts: 50,144
    TOPPING said:


    NPXMPX2 reminds me of Winnie a bit, which is not not a compliment.

    The Pooh?

    Or Mandela?

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    felixfelix Posts: 15,125



    If Adonis resigns in three years time it will not be politically relevant if the Labour party remains in its current state of myopic self-indulgence. One day you will realise this Nick. But I guess it might take a few years and several electoral drubbings. It's extraordinary how those inside the Corbyn bubble can't see how totally irrelevant Labour has become.

    Yes, we'll have to agree to disagree. I don't think there's any doubt that the many hostages to fortune produced by a lifetime on the left of Labour make it difficult for Corbyn. Equally I think many moderates in Labour are quietly surprised that the total meltdown predicted after the initial onslaught hasn't happened: positive suppport for Corbyn remains significantly higher than Ed was managing in the latter years (though Tories think he's terrible), and party polling is around what it was at the election.

    So most moderates, like Don, are giving it a fair try and putting forward constructive suggestions. Your standard reaction (3 times on this thread alone) has become "Aaargh, no, we're all doomed". Give it a rest!

    My standard reaction remains genuine astonishment that the Labour party has so wilfully made itself so utterly irrelevant. I'll keep saying that, you keep saying how everyone is pleasantly surprised things aren't even worse. One day we'll agree I was right about Corbyn and you were wrong. In the meantime the Tories have free rein to do as they wish without fear of electoral consequence.

    I must say the arrogance of Mr. Palmer is yet another new development in his post-political transformation.
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    malcolmgmalcolmg Posts: 42,076

    Mr. G, not unlike Allah, my mercy is greater than my wrath.

    You should have done it MD
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    FrankBoothFrankBooth Posts: 9,058

    Don is right that the Tories are creating many hostages to fortune. Or would be in normal circumstances. Tax credits, housing, the Northern powerhouse, infrastructure, the living wage and immigration are all areas in which the rhetoric could well turn out to be very different to the reality. However, in choosing an unelectable leader Labour has - irresponsibly and self-indulgently - given the Tories a free ticket. Short of an unprecedented economic catastrophe or some other highly improbable development, as long as the Corbyn left are in charge a Labour victory in 2020 is impossible. The Tories even have the space now to have a humdinger of a row over Europe. The Labour party has denied the country a serious opposition. It is unforgiveable.

    They are of course keen students of the 'master'. I'm sure they are well aware that lofty speeches aren't enough and within two or three years I'd expect to see a new delivery unit noisily set up inside No.10 to let the public know just how serious they really are about getting things done.
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    RogerRoger Posts: 18,899
    CR

    "French schoolchildren in London are the worst behaved and rudest of them all."

    Maybe it's the culture shock? They arrive for lessons in the morning kiss everyone they meet and the police arrive......
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    flightpath01flightpath01 Posts: 4,903

    Don is right that the Tories are creating many hostages to fortune. Or would be in normal circumstances. Tax credits, housing, the Northern powerhouse, infrastructure, the living wage and immigration are all areas in which the rhetoric could well turn out to be very different to the reality. However, in choosing an unelectable leader Labour has - irresponsibly and self-indulgently - given the Tories a free ticket. Short of an unprecedented economic catastrophe or some other highly improbable development, as long as the Corbyn left are in charge a Labour victory in 2020 is impossible. The Tories even have the space now to have a humdinger of a row over Europe. The Labour party has denied the country a serious opposition. It is unforgiveable.

    Who would be a "serious opposition"? Nigel Farage? The "centre left" clearly has minimal support in the country, being simply a vehicle for a few hundred careerists, whichever flag they fly under.
    Indeed, I am beginning to think that not only the Labour Party but parliamentary democracy itself is an idea whose time has gone.
    It's a thought.
    In those circumstances I would be happy to put myself forward as leader.
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    runnymederunnymede Posts: 2,536
    Because, the vast majority of criminals are people who reoffend again, again, and again. Dozens of occasions in some cases.

    Yep, so why not just bang them up for five years at a time. Then they can't reoffend.
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    JEOJEO Posts: 3,656

    On kids, we're all anecdotal as it's hard to agree what good child behaviour is, let alone measure which countries display it. My 2p worth is that we've shaken off the reputation that we used to have of actively disliking kids (I remember an article in a Sunday broadsheet suggesting seriously that Baden-Powell might have had paedophile leanings since "It is not normal to like children unless they are your own"), but we're still a bit neurotic about them, simultaneously wanting to treat them as innocent darlings and mature adults. The general drift is undoubtedly to the latter - you have to be very cocooned these days to be innocent in any way beyond the age of 7 or so.

    Inner London kids (who I mostly see now) generally seem OK to me in everyday life (no idea what they're like at home) - more boisterous than adults, pretty streetwise and probably willing to try anything once without too many regrets, but very few actually nasty.

    I find other people's kids highly irritating, except for my own nephews. I also remember how much of an obnoxious brat I was as a kid, and my wife was semi-jokingly referred to as a "devil-child" by her father.

    My wife now wants to start a family. I think about all that, and then have all my work colleagues and friends make 'jokes' about having no more sleep anymore, and how your whole life changes forever.

    Frankly, it puts me off. It sounds shit.
    It should definitely not be done lightly. And it is often exhausting. But, for me, it was also the most rewarding thing I've ever done. It doesn't matter how tired you are, one smile from the little blighter makes it all feel worth it.

    And, not to come across the arrogant parent, but after we had our first, it made me feel like I'd be wasting my life before it on meaningless trivial stuff. I'm not disrespecting anyone else's choices with that, just saying how my own life felt to me.
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    Morris_DancerMorris_Dancer Posts: 61,006
    Practice has finished, for what it's worth, but this piece on the BBC livefeed was interesting:
    "When we were speaking to Christian Horner about 90 minutes ago he was meant to go on to the pitwall, he was taken into the Red Bull hospitality by Bernie Ecclestone and they have just finished talking. It was Christian, Helmut Marko and Bernie in a big meeting. When Bernie came back out he gave David a nod, a wink, and a thumbs up."
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    david_herdsondavid_herdson Posts: 17,422
    John_M said:

    German integration of asylum seekers going well

    "Asylbewerber suchen sich zunehmend selbst ihren Wohnsitz aus, ziehen in den Zügen die Notbremsen, um einfach auszusteigen, weigern sich, in Busse einzusteigen, es gibt Unruhen bis hin zu Hungerstreiks in den Flüchtlingsheimen, weil das Essen angeblich nicht schmeckt oder nicht so entschieden wird, wie der Asylsuchende es will"

    Asylum seekers are increasingly demanding a home fot themselves, they pull the emergency brakes on trains simply to get off, refuse to get on buses and cause disturbances in the refugee homes right up to hunger strikes because ostensibly they don't like the taste of the food or it's not served they way the the asylumseeker wants.

    http://www.faz.net/aktuell/politik/fluechtlingskrise/horst-seehofer-es-gibt-hungerstreiks-in-den-fluechtlingsheimen-13847121.html

    Merkel has a bit of a problem atm

    Good morning all. Well, if you arrive at the land of milk and honey and find that it's not as you thought, then it's disappointing all round.

    Merkel's decision is going to haunt Germany for years. We've had around 1 million net migration this decade. They're doing more than that in a year. The idea that solving a demographic problem via mass immigration is going to be tested to destruction. My view has always been that proponents of that idea are just indulging in a ponzi scheme.

    We have to stop foisting our issues onto our children and grandchildren, whether that's managing finances, dealing with the elderly or infrastructure investment (fuelled by borrowing). As David H. says, less current spending, more capital spending. Not both. If that means higher taxes, then so be it.
    It's DavidL that should get the credit for putting forward that view this morning. I agree with him.
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    Casino_RoyaleCasino_Royale Posts: 55,648

    On kids, we're all anecdotal as it's hard to agree what good child behaviour is, let alone measure which countries display it. My 2p worth is that we've shaken off the reputation that we used to have of actively disliking kids (I remember an article in a Sunday broadsheet suggesting seriously that Baden-Powell might have had paedophile leanings since "It is not normal to like children unless they are your own"), but we're still a bit neurotic about them, simultaneously wanting to treat them as innocent darlings and mature adults. The general drift is undoubtedly to the latter - you have to be very cocooned these days to be innocent in any way beyond the age of 7 or so.

    Inner London kids (who I mostly see now) generally seem OK to me in everyday life (no idea what they're like at home) - more boisterous than adults, pretty streetwise and probably willing to try anything once without too many regrets, but very few actually nasty.

    I find other people's kids highly irritating, except for my own nephews. I also remember how much of an obnoxious brat I was as a kid, and my wife was semi-jokingly referred to as a "devil-child" by her father.

    My wife now wants to start a family. I think about all that, and then have all my work colleagues and friends make 'jokes' about having no more sleep anymore, and how your whole life changes forever.

    Frankly, it puts me off. It sounds shit.
    As someone new to this lark, it's also tremendous fun (and I speak after a rather sleepless night).

    It's also the greatest responsibility you will ever have.
    Thanks. It scares the living daylights out of me. I don't feel remotely qualified or ready. And I don't get enough sleep as it is.
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    CyclefreeCyclefree Posts: 25,227
    Good manners need to be taught to children - not for reasons of etiquette - but because, fundamentally, they are about kindness to others around you. So just as we make space on buses for parents with buggies to make life easier for them it is incumbent on parents to teach their children not to screech and throw bread rolls at us.

    Without good manners we could not live together in any sort of bearable way in the public space.

    Indulging children is doing them no favours because they will never learn any sort of self-discipline otherwise. Mind you, even if you do teach them (or think you do) they turn into teenagers and seem to forget everything they've ever learnt. Or maybe that's just mine.......
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    Casino_RoyaleCasino_Royale Posts: 55,648

    DavidL said:

    There are many flaws in Don's piece, most of which we have discussed before.

    Firstly, one of the reasons the government can still borrow cheaply despite still having the worst deficit in Europe is that the markets accept that they are serious about addressing it. Borrowing lots of additional "cheap" money would dangerously undermine that.

    Secondly, one of the many major problems left by the Brown disaster is that far too much of our government expenditure goes on current spending. It is just incoherent and irrational to expect the government to spend a lot more on, say, WTC, and on infrastructure. These are choices and the government has chosen correctly.

    Thirdly, after the latest revisals to the GDP figures the argument that austerity somehow reduced growth gets ever more untenable. Growth in the UK has matched that of the US since 2010 and is by far the best in the EU. The idea that it would have been sustainable to borrow even more, drive demand even more and somehow generate additional growth that was somehow going to magically produce the extra tax revenues to pay for it all is just stupid. It is no longer even an arguable position, it is stupid.

    The fact is that the easy tax revenues of the bubble in the City and plentiful north sea oil are gone and they are not coming back. Our deficit was much more structural than was appreciated at the time and is much harder to eliminate as a result. This means real cuts along with tax increases are going to be needed to rebalance our economy onto some sustainable footing. This will not be easy or politically popular but it is absolutely necessary.

    So where does that leave the ambitions of Osborne? If this new body is to have a new budget rather than simply making better use of the old one he will have to bear down even harder on current expenditure to release resources for capital spending. I think there is no doubt that he wants to do that. Whether he finds that politically doable will be an interesting question.

    Osborne is good with strategy, rabbits, sorting longstanding outrages in the tax system and recognising the value of infrastructure investment - so he's perfect for building a strong economy. But, for me, Conservativism is about more than just the money.

    I'm not sure Osborne has an answer to that yet.
    You can't fix the "more" until you've fixed the money. Conservatives have this in their DNA.

    Labour? Not so much...

    Tories scrimp and scrape all year, then battle round the shops to find that toy their kid desperately wants for Christmas.

    Labour writes a wish list to Santa.
    I mean social policy, cultural matters, foreign policy, constitutional reform, leadership on values and mapping out a national destiny.
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    malcolmgmalcolmg Posts: 42,076

    Don is right that the Tories are creating many hostages to fortune. Or would be in normal circumstances. Tax credits, housing, the Northern powerhouse, infrastructure, the living wage and immigration are all areas in which the rhetoric could well turn out to be very different to the reality. However, in choosing an unelectable leader Labour has - irresponsibly and self-indulgently - given the Tories a free ticket. Short of an unprecedented economic catastrophe or some other highly improbable development, as long as the Corbyn left are in charge a Labour victory in 2020 is impossible. The Tories even have the space now to have a humdinger of a row over Europe. The Labour party has denied the country a serious opposition. It is unforgiveable.

    They are of course keen students of the 'master'. I'm sure they are well aware that lofty speeches aren't enough and within two or three years I'd expect to see a new delivery unit noisily set up inside No.10 to let the public know just how serious they really are about getting things done.
    For sure we are getting lots of rhetoric but as usual we will get few results.
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    flightpath01flightpath01 Posts: 4,903

    On kids, we're all anecdotal as it's hard to agree what good child behaviour is, let alone measure which countries display it. My 2p worth is that we've shaken off the reputation that we used to have of actively disliking kids (I remember an article in a Sunday broadsheet suggesting seriously that Baden-Powell might have had paedophile leanings since "It is not normal to like children unless they are your own"), but we're still a bit neurotic about them, simultaneously wanting to treat them as innocent darlings and mature adults. The general drift is undoubtedly to the latter - you have to be very cocooned these days to be innocent in any way beyond the age of 7 or so.

    Inner London kids (who I mostly see now) generally seem OK to me in everyday life (no idea what they're like at home) - more boisterous than adults, pretty streetwise and probably willing to try anything once without too many regrets, but very few actually nasty.

    I find other people's kids highly irritating, except for my own nephews. I also remember how much of an obnoxious brat I was as a kid, and my wife was semi-jokingly referred to as a "devil-child" by her father.

    My wife now wants to start a family. I think about all that, and then have all my work colleagues and friends make 'jokes' about having no more sleep anymore, and how your whole life changes forever.

    Frankly, it puts me off. It sounds shit.
    As someone new to this lark, it's also tremendous fun (and I speak after a rather sleepless night).

    It's also the greatest responsibility you will ever have.
    We need responsible people to have children. Go to it.
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    flightpath01flightpath01 Posts: 4,903

    DavidL said:

    There are many flaws in Don's piece, most of which we have discussed before.

    Firstly, one of the reasons the government can still borrow cheaply despite still having the worst deficit in Europe is that the markets accept that they are serious about addressing it. Borrowing lots of additional "cheap" money would dangerously undermine that.

    Secondly, one of the many major problems left by the Brown disaster is that far too much of our government expenditure goes on current spending. It is just incoherent and irrational to expect the government to spend a lot more on, say, WTC, and on infrastructure. These are choices and the government has chosen correctly.

    Thirdly, after the latest revisals to the GDP figures the argument that austerity somehow reduced growth gets ever more untenable. Growth in the UK has matched that of the US since 2010 and is by far the best in the EU. The idea that it would have been sustainable to borrow even more, drive demand even more and somehow generate additional growth that was somehow going to magically produce the extra tax revenues to pay for it all is just stupid. It is no longer even an arguable position, it is stupid.

    The fact is that the easy tax revenues of the bubble in the City and plentiful north sea oil are gone and they are not coming back. Our deficit was much more structural than was appreciated at the time and is much harder to eliminate as a result. This means real cuts along with tax increases are going to be needed to rebalance our economy onto some sustainable footing. This will not be easy or politically popular but it is absolutely necessary.

    So where does that leave the ambitions of Osborne? If this new body is to have a new budget rather than simply making better use of the old one he will have to bear down even harder on current expenditure to release resources for capital spending. I think there is no doubt that he wants to do that. Whether he finds that politically doable will be an interesting question.

    Osborne is good with strategy, rabbits, sorting longstanding outrages in the tax system and recognising the value of infrastructure investment - so he's perfect for building a strong economy. But, for me, Conservativism is about more than just the money.

    I'm not sure Osborne has an answer to that yet.
    You can't fix the "more" until you've fixed the money. Conservatives have this in their DNA.

    Labour? Not so much...

    Tories scrimp and scrape all year, then battle round the shops to find that toy their kid desperately wants for Christmas.

    Labour writes a wish list to Santa.
    My granddaughters favourite book is the Argus Catalogue.
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    FensterFenster Posts: 2,115
    Cyclefree said:

    Good manners need to be taught to children - not for reasons of etiquette - but because, fundamentally, they are about kindness to others around you. So just as we make space on buses for parents with buggies to make life easier for them it is incumbent on parents to teach their children not to screech and throw bread rolls at us.

    Without good manners we could not live together in any sort of bearable way in the public space.

    Indulging children is doing them no favours because they will never learn any sort of self-discipline otherwise. Mind you, even if you do teach them (or think you do) they turn into teenagers and seem to forget everything they've ever learnt. Or maybe that's just mine.......

    Well said.

    I'm certainly no father-of-the-year and my kids are spoilt but I won't have any cheek or impoliteness. I'm a rugby-boy and like all rugby players I had the petulance and cheek battered out of me. But, I swear a lot! Not at the children, but just generally.

    My wife kicks my backside for swearing but sometimes tolerates my boy answering her back (my daughter isn't old enough yet, but she will answer back soon...) and I don't get that.

    I think it's very difficult to stop a kid from growing up swearing, especially in a working class, valleys area like this, but I can make him be nice to people. And he is, to be fair.

    Ironically, he's scared to death of swearing because my sister is a policewoman and my wife got my sister to put the handcuffs on me for swearing :)
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    TOPPINGTOPPING Posts: 41,403
    edited October 2015

    TOPPING said:


    NPXMPX2 reminds me of Winnie a bit, which is not not a compliment.

    The Pooh?

    Or Mandela?

    Willie's wife
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    SquareRootSquareRoot Posts: 7,095
    runnymede said:

    Because, the vast majority of criminals are people who reoffend again, again, and again. Dozens of occasions in some cases.

    Yep, so why not just bang them up for five years at a time. Then they can't reoffend.

    Why stop there.. put them in camps with barbed wire and have armed guards in towers to make sure that they cannot escape and then make them work till they drop . Your type of social justice ...
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    JEOJEO Posts: 3,656
    Cyclefree said:

    Good manners need to be taught to children - not for reasons of etiquette - but because, fundamentally, they are about kindness to others around you. So just as we make space on buses for parents with buggies to make life easier for them it is incumbent on parents to teach their children not to screech and throw bread rolls at us.

    Without good manners we could not live together in any sort of bearable way in the public space.

    Indulging children is doing them no favours because they will never learn any sort of self-discipline otherwise. Mind you, even if you do teach them (or think you do) they turn into teenagers and seem to forget everything they've ever learnt. Or maybe that's just mine.......

    It always depresses me when I commute from the home counties to London. The difference in the levels of respect between the station I get on and get off at often makes me sit up.
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    Casino_RoyaleCasino_Royale Posts: 55,648
    JEO said:

    On kids, we're all anecdotal as it's hard to agree what good child behaviour is, let alone measure which countries display it. My 2p worth is that we've shaken off the reputation that we used to have of actively disliking kids (I remember an article in a Sunday broadsheet suggesting seriously that Baden-Powell might have had paedophile leanings since "It is not normal to like children unless they are your own"), but we're still a bit neurotic about them, simultaneously wanting to treat them as innocent darlings and mature adults. The general drift is undoubtedly to the latter - you have to be very cocooned these days to be innocent in any way beyond the age of 7 or so.

    Inner London kids (who I mostly see now) generally seem OK to me in everyday life (no idea what they're like at home) - more boisterous than adults, pretty streetwise and probably willing to try anything once without too many regrets, but very few actually nasty.

    I find other people's kids highly irritating, except for my own nephews. I also remember how much of an obnoxious brat I was as a kid, and my wife was semi-jokingly referred to as a "devil-child" by her father.

    My wife now wants to start a family. I think about all that, and then have all my work colleagues and friends make 'jokes' about having no more sleep anymore, and how your whole life changes forever.

    Frankly, it puts me off. It sounds shit.
    It should definitely not be done lightly. And it is often exhausting. But, for me, it was also the most rewarding thing I've ever done. It doesn't matter how tired you are, one smile from the little blighter makes it all feel worth it.

    And, not to come across the arrogant parent, but after we had our first, it made me feel like I'd be wasting my life before it on meaningless trivial stuff. I'm not disrespecting anyone else's choices with that, just saying how my own life felt to me.
    I'm sure (I hope) I will feel the same - but I need to get there first. I just don't feel a desperate need to have them - is this normal?

    At the moment, most existing parents think they're being funny but they're basically just putting me off and not helping.
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    JEOJEO Posts: 3,656
    edited October 2015


    Because, the vast majority of criminals are people who reoffend again, again, and again. Dozens of occasions in some cases.

    But that's the case even for people that have community sentences. It thus seems better for the public well-being overall to keep them off the streets. We could at least have a three strikes approach: if you don't reform after given two chances, then you should be kept off the streets for at least your 20s and early 30s.

    Of course, we could better improve the conditions on jails to still encourage learning and reform while behind bars.
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    Scott_PScott_P Posts: 51,453
    @SunNation: The #piggate co-author admits her source "could have been slightly deranged" http://t.co/O09nIv7QJG http://t.co/Pt34359OgA
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    dr_spyndr_spyn Posts: 11,290
    Britain Elects ‏@britainelects 5m5 minutes ago
    Sandford & the Wittenhams (South Oxfordshire) result:
    CON - 42.8% (-4.4)
    LDEM - 36.7% (+16.4)
    LAB - 13.1% (-3.7)
    GRN - 7.4% (-8.3)

    Greens and Labour doing well.
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    runnymede said:

    Because, the vast majority of criminals are people who reoffend again, again, and again. Dozens of occasions in some cases.

    Yep, so why not just bang them up for five years at a time. Then they can't reoffend.

    Why stop there.. put them in camps with barbed wire and have armed guards in towers to make sure that they cannot escape and then make them work till they drop . Your type of social justice ...
    This would be something the Germans would know nothing about?
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    PulpstarPulpstar Posts: 76,002
    dr_spyn said:

    Britain Elects ‏@britainelects 5m5 minutes ago
    Sandford & the Wittenhams (South Oxfordshire) result:
    CON - 42.8% (-4.4)
    LDEM - 36.7% (+16.4)
    LAB - 13.1% (-3.7)
    GRN - 7.4% (-8.3)

    Greens and Labour doing well.

    Decent result for the Lib Dems. but this will be their problem come 2020 - they are just SO far behind everywhere now.
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    JosiasJessopJosiasJessop Posts: 39,072
    edited October 2015

    Thanks. It scares the living daylights out of me. I don't feel remotely qualified or ready. And I don't get enough sleep as it is.

    I don't know about other people, but we've developed coping strategies to do with lack of sleep. Fortunately the little 'uns sleep is improving now he's 15 months.

    As for being qualified, remotely or otherwise: we felt exactly the same way. It's only when you see the mothers who work as nursery nurses struggle to cope with their first-born that you realise that there are no qualifications, and you are never quite ready.

    You'll learn to cope with the downsides. But do not forget the upsides either. I can operate for an entire day on one of his smiles, and his laughter covers up the smell of any number of nasty bio-warfare nappies.

    Well, nearly. ;)

    It really is the most tremendous great fun. Despite having chucked in work, my existence (perhaps not the best way of putting it) is so much bigger than it was before.
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    JEOJEO Posts: 3,656
    Casino_Royale,

    I think it depends on the individual but it is normal for a lot of men. I think it also depends on what your own family background was like. I think people that had very warm and close relationships with their own parents and siblings look forward to it more.

    In terms of what parents say, you need to realise that all parents want to do is talk about their child and how fantastic he is, and how he did this amazing thing yesterday. But we know we come across as boring self-obsessed drones when we do that. So we shield ourselves from that criticism by joking about it being a negative.

    I do think it's right that you wait until you're ready, as there will be the odd occasion you resent your child and you want to minimise that. But it's for sure the best thing I've ever done, and the vast majority of parents who planned their children will say the same.
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    NickPalmerNickPalmer Posts: 21,369
    To those who don't like us nattering about kids - hey, live with it. Some days we natter about travel, or SeanT's books, or trains, or whatever. There are slow political days and we're not all obsessive. TudorRose in particular seems convinced that Everything Is Political, just like the most dedicated leftist.

    FWIW I think that parental interest is decisive, more than level of indulgence or strictness. If you essentially see your parents as senior partners who want you to succeed and be happy, you're unlikely to go seriously wrong. If you get the impression that they're not that interested, then you will follow whatever other influences you encounter instead.
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    Plato_SaysPlato_Says Posts: 11,822
    I'm allergic to children. Never liked them for more about 20 mins. And we decided that neither of us wanted or was right temperamentally for them. I have no idea how any parent holds down a job with a young one. I've hand-reared puppies from birth and feeding them every two hours for 4 weeks left me a zombie.

    I can manage a couple of weeks - but the idea of months and months of this just fills me with horror. I'm simply not cut out for it. The biohazard aspect doesn't bother me at all and have acres of patience - but just not for grizzling.

    Thanks. It scares the living daylights out of me. I don't feel remotely qualified or ready. And I don't get enough sleep as it is.

    I don't know about other people, but we've developed coping strategies to do with lack of sleep. Fortunately the little 'uns sleep is improving now he's 15 months.

    As for being qualified, remotely or otherwise: we felt exactly the same way. It's only when you see the mothers who work as nursery nurses struggle to cope with their first-born that you realise that there are no qualifications, and you are never quite ready.

    You'll learn to cope with the downsides. But do not forget the upsides either. I can operate for an entire day on one of his smiles, and his laughter covers up the smell of any number of nasty bio-warfare nappies.

    It really is the most tremendous great fun. Despite having chucked in work, my existence (perhaps not the best way of putting it) is so much bigger than it was before.

    Well, nearly. ;)
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    In response to the OP (not read any of the thread yet) the notion that we should spend more because interest rates are low is completely self-defeating and backwards. It makes two critical mistakes.

    1: Inflation is also rock bottom. This means debt is not getting eroded by inflation so any increase (which is already considerable) is serious.
    2: Interest rates are rock bottom because the market has faith that the government is serious in tackling the deficit.

    If confidence is lost then the interest rates would shoot up while still potentially having zero inflation to erode debt. That is a very dangerous game and anyone who is proposing it has not learnt any lessons from the last decade.
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    MarqueeMarkMarqueeMark Posts: 50,144
    Scott_P said:

    @SunNation: The #piggate co-author admits her source "could have been slightly deranged" http://t.co/O09nIv7QJG http://t.co/Pt34359OgA

    And destroys any chance of being considered a journalist. She's a fictional novelist.

    "Speaking at the Cheltenham Literature Festival, Ms Oakeshott told the audience: “I think [the question about burden of proof] rests on a really false premise, which is that things that are written in books need to have the same standard — if you like to use that word — as things that are written in newspapers.”

    She added: “You might just as well say: ‘Well, you couldn’t have put that in Barbie Princess magazine.’

    “Would I have got that story into The Sunday Times? Well, I reckon it probably could have been a diary story, expressed much more euphemistically.”
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    John_MJohn_M Posts: 7,503
    edited October 2015

    JEO said:

    On kids, we're all anecdotal as it's hard to agree what good child behaviour is, let alone measure which countries display it. My 2p worth is that we've shaken off the reputation that we used to have of actively disliking kids (I remember an article in a Sunday broadsheet suggesting seriously that Baden-Powell might have had paedophile leanings since "It is not normal to like children unless they are your own"), but we're still a bit neurotic about them, simultaneously wanting to treat them as innocent darlings and mature adults. The general drift is undoubtedly to the latter - you have to be very cocooned these days to be innocent in any way beyond the age of 7 or so.

    Inner London kids (who I mostly see now) generally seem OK to me in everyday life (no idea what they're like at home) - more boisterous than adults, pretty streetwise and probably willing to try anything once without too many regrets, but very few actually nasty.

    I find other people's kids highly irritating, except for my own nephews. I also remember how much of an obnoxious brat I was as a kid, and my wife was semi-jokingly referred to as a "devil-child" by her father.

    My wife now wants to start a family. I think about all that, and then have all my work colleagues and friends make 'jokes' about having no more sleep anymore, and how your whole life changes forever.

    Frankly, it puts me off. It sounds shit.
    It should definitely not be done lightly. And it is often exhausting. But, for me, it was also the most rewarding thing I've ever done. It doesn't matter how tired you are, one smile from the little blighter makes it all feel worth it.

    And, not to come across the arrogant parent, but after we had our first, it made me feel like I'd be wasting my life before it on meaningless trivial stuff. I'm not disrespecting anyone else's choices with that, just saying how my own life felt to me.
    I'm sure (I hope) I will feel the same - but I need to get there first. I just don't feel a desperate need to have them - is this normal?

    At the moment, most existing parents think they're being funny but they're basically just putting me off and not helping.
    Personally I found parenting delightful between ages 3-14 and 18 onwards. I'm sorry to say I don't really like young teenagers or babies :).
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    dr_spyndr_spyn Posts: 11,290
    Britain Elects ‏@britainelects 4m4 minutes ago
    EU referendum poll:
    Remain: 44% (-1)
    Leave: 39% (+1)
    (via ICM / 07 Oct)
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    TheWhiteRabbitTheWhiteRabbit Posts: 12,388
    edited October 2015
    JEO said:


    Because, the vast majority of criminals are people who reoffend again, again, and again. Dozens of occasions in some cases.

    But that's the case even for people that have community sentences. It thus seems better for the public well-being overall to keep them off the streets. We could at least have a three strikes approach: if you don't reform after given two chances, then you should be kept off the streets for at least your 20s and early 30s.

    Of course, we could better improve the conditions on jails to still encourage learning and reform while behind bars.
    That would be a disaster.

    Petty criminals shouldn't be incentivised to escalate by treating the same way as those who have committed serious crimes.

    Nor should we tell petty criminals that society has given up on them; that is a common feeling for those behind bars - particularly from an early age - and the most successful rehabilitiation schemes really challenge it. We want them to become a successful part of society, and we have to work on a way to get them there.

    I'm not prepared to lock away tens of thousands of young people in the way you suggest.

    I think you missed my original point: rehabvilitation can't take everyone out of the cycle. But each individual it can remove helps prevent many more crimes than simply putting their life of crime on hold for a year.
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    blackburn63blackburn63 Posts: 4,492
    All this talk of parenting is tosh, its been going on for centuries it really is no big deal. I fully anticipate a Celebrity Pareting Contest soon where people prove how much they love their badly dressed, poorly behaved awful little brats by telling us about their 3 weeks in Disneyland.
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    DecrepitJohnLDecrepitJohnL Posts: 13,300
    edited October 2015

    My granddaughters favourite book is the Argus Catalogue.

    Then Christmas shopping is easy for you this year: as many £5 Argos vouchers as you think appropriate tucked into their latest catalogue should keep her occupied for many hours and will teach her valuable lessons about choice, resource allocation and magic money trees.
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    PulpstarPulpstar Posts: 76,002
    My better half doesn't have kids. She has horses. They both need their shit clearing out and cost a fortune - horse crap smells alot better than baby poo though ;p.

    Best of luck with the kids, Casino Royale :D
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    Morris_DancerMorris_Dancer Posts: 61,006
    One feels the time is right to remind the site that the reoffending rate of criminals who are fired into the heart of the sun is 0%.
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    JosiasJessopJosiasJessop Posts: 39,072

    I'm allergic to children. Never liked them for more about 20 mins. And we decided that neither of us wanted or was right temperamentally for them. I have no idea how any parent holds down a job with a young one. I've hand-reared puppies from birth and feeding them every two hours for 4 weeks left me a zombie.

    I can manage a couple of weeks - but the idea of months and months of this just fills me with horror. I'm simply not cut out for it. The biohazard aspect doesn't bother me at all and have acres of patience - but just not for grizzling.

    Thanks. It scares the living daylights out of me. I don't feel remotely qualified or ready. And I don't get enough sleep as it is.

    I don't know about other people, but we've developed coping strategies to do with lack of sleep. Fortunately the little 'uns sleep is improving now he's 15 months.

    As for being qualified, remotely or otherwise: we felt exactly the same way. It's only when you see the mothers who work as nursery nurses struggle to cope with their first-born that you realise that there are no qualifications, and you are never quite ready.

    You'll learn to cope with the downsides. But do not forget the upsides either. I can operate for an entire day on one of his smiles, and his laughter covers up the smell of any number of nasty bio-warfare nappies.

    It really is the most tremendous great fun. Despite having chucked in work, my existence (perhaps not the best way of putting it) is so much bigger than it was before.

    Well, nearly. ;)
    When we met, Mrs J felt pretty much as you do. Yet as she approached forty and realised now-or-never territory was a few years away, she slowly changed her mind.

    And she's a great mother. Immensely protective (as Turkish mothers tend to be), and intensely loving.

    There has been one very notable change. Before we had Robert, she lived for work. Now she can hardly wait to get home. Something she shares with much of the new fathers I know.
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    John_MJohn_M Posts: 7,503
    dr_spyn said:

    Britain Elects ‏@britainelects 4m4 minutes ago
    EU referendum poll:
    Remain: 44% (-1)
    Leave: 39% (+1)
    (via ICM / 07 Oct)

    Let's hope we can persuade people of the merits of an independent UK. All we really need is for Juncker, Hollande et al to keep opening their mouths.

    I do hope we don't end up with the argument centred entirely around immigration. We're always going to be a desirable destination for immigrants because, by George, it's Great Britain, best country in the world.

    It's simply that the UK can't best look after its own interests while tethered to 27 countries whose own interests don't necessarily coincide with ours, 18 of whom apparently want to be a single country - with another 7 candidates waiting in the wings. Every crisis of the modern era has shown how flaccid the EU's decision making mechanisms are.
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    JonathanJonathan Posts: 20,913
    Kids are great. They get you out of your comfort zone, challenge you in every way and stop you getting set in your ways.

    It's worth it for the bath toys alone.
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    Beverley_CBeverley_C Posts: 6,256

    German integration of asylum seekers going well
    ...
    Asylum seekers are increasingly demanding a home fot themselves, they pull the emergency brakes on trains simply to get off, refuse to get on buses and cause disturbances in the refugee homes right up to hunger strikes because ostensibly they don't like the taste of the food or it's not served they way the the asylumseeker wants.

    Maybe Roger could check for us and see if they were raised as English children. Foreigners, after all, behave with far more decorum......

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    CD13CD13 Posts: 6,351

    I think kids are easier when they're grandchildren. You can be proud of them when you want and give them back when they're a nuisance.
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    chestnutchestnut Posts: 7,341
    edited October 2015
    dr_spyn said:

    Britain Elects ‏@britainelects 4m4 minutes ago
    EU referendum poll:
    Remain: 44% (-1)
    Leave: 39% (+1)
    (via ICM / 07 Oct)

    Leave has a big lead among 45+ age groups.

    Remain is based on the young.

    The enthusiasm and solidity of the respective votes are also heavily loaded towards Leave.

    http://www.icmunlimited.com/data/media/pdf/Final data-region.pdf
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    Morris_DancerMorris_Dancer Posts: 61,006
    Witchsmeller Pursuivant under attack:
    http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-34484611
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    JosiasJessopJosiasJessop Posts: 39,072
    edited October 2015
    The nurse who was treated for Ebola last year has been re-admitted to a specialist unit in London.

    http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-34483584
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    CarnyxCarnyx Posts: 39,913
    ydoethur said:

    ydoethur said:

    "Steve Richards underlines the gap between Osborne’s ambition and his budget plans. “It does not cost very much money to hire Lord Adonis to run an Infrastructure Commission, but it is very expensive to build infrastructure"

    Typical Labour thinking. How much did all those railways in the 19th century cost the government?

    The price of the Board of Trade Railways Inspectorate.

    On the other hand, as very few railways ever paid dividends, it could be argued that it lost money via taxes that would have been paid had more financially attractive options been taken. (This is of course one reason why outside Britain the vast majority of railways were built with government aid.)

    That being said, as they fuelled rapid economic growth, it could be argued such things were paid for in other ways and by other industries, especially coal.
    Many investors, particularly in the two railway bubbles, lost their shirts. But the country as a whole has benefited from those losses many times over.

    ISTR reading somewhere that the Great Central from London to Sheffield - Britain's last main line - never made any money. Which was one reason it was closed.
    No, it didn't. Jack Simmons called it 'a dinosaur', because it replicated about five existing lines but was built and maintained to a much higher standard than any of them. It simply represented an empire building mentality on the part of the Manchester, Sheffield and Lincoln's chairman, nothing more - and it pretty much ruined the company.

    With that I am off to work. Have a good day.
    IIRC the Great Central was built to Continental standards (deliberately to link to a planned Channel Tunnel) - would have been a useful goods link to the Chunnel and therefore a complement to HS2. So there was a bit more to Watkin's vision than that - even if it was unsustainable in the medium term, which brings ups back to your point.
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    OldKingColeOldKingCole Posts: 32,062
    edited October 2015

    I'm allergic to children. Never liked them for more about 20 mins. And we decided that neither of us wanted or was right temperamentally for them. I have no idea how any parent holds down a job with a young one. I've hand-reared puppies from birth and feeding them every two hours for 4 weeks left me a zombie.

    I can manage a couple of weeks - but the idea of months and months of this just fills me with horror. I'm simply not cut out for it. The biohazard aspect doesn't bother me at all and have acres of patience - but just not for grizzling.

    Thanks. It scares the living daylights out of me. I don't feel remotely qualified or ready. And I don't get enough sleep as it is.

    I don't know about other people, but we've developed coping strategies to do with lack of sleep. Fortunately the little 'uns sleep is improving now he's 15 months.

    As for being qualified, remotely or otherwise: we felt exactly the same way. It's only when you see the mothers who work as nursery nurses struggle to cope with their first-born that you realise that there are no qualifications, and you are never quite ready.

    You'll learn to cope with the downsides. But do not forget the upsides either. I can operate for an entire day on one of his smiles, and his laughter covers up the smell of any number of nasty bio-warfare nappies.

    It really is the most tremendous great fun. Despite having chucked in work, my existence (perhaps not the best way of putting it) is so much bigger than it was before.

    Well, nearly. ;)
    As a grandfather, I can say, that yes, there’s fun, but later on there’s going to be all sorts of angst.

    And, eventually, I hope you’re as lucky as us and the children, as adults and now parents themselves say, well we’re trying to bring up ours as you did yours.
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    Casino_RoyaleCasino_Royale Posts: 55,648

    Thanks. It scares the living daylights out of me. I don't feel remotely qualified or ready. And I don't get enough sleep as it is.

    I don't know about other people, but we've developed coping strategies to do with lack of sleep. Fortunately the little 'uns sleep is improving now he's 15 months.

    As for being qualified, remotely or otherwise: we felt exactly the same way. It's only when you see the mothers who work as nursery nurses struggle to cope with their first-born that you realise that there are no qualifications, and you are never quite ready.

    You'll learn to cope with the downsides. But do not forget the upsides either. I can operate for an entire day on one of his smiles, and his laughter covers up the smell of any number of nasty bio-warfare nappies.

    Well, nearly. ;)

    It really is the most tremendous great fun. Despite having chucked in work, my existence (perhaps not the best way of putting it) is so much bigger than it was before.
    Thanks JJ - that's very insightful and I appreciate it.
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    blackburn63blackburn63 Posts: 4,492
    I'm happy to rehabilitate first time offenders, especially the young, we all make mistakes. But for career criminals aged 30+ there is no point wasting valuable time and resources, throw away the key.

    A friend of mine, ordinarily a liberal type, is serious when he talks of clinical research on long term inmates, as an animal lover he'd prefer to see drugs tested on rapists rather than beagles, I think he has a point.
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    Casino_RoyaleCasino_Royale Posts: 55,648
    JEO said:

    Casino_Royale,

    I think it depends on the individual but it is normal for a lot of men. I think it also depends on what your own family background was like. I think people that had very warm and close relationships with their own parents and siblings look forward to it more.

    In terms of what parents say, you need to realise that all parents want to do is talk about their child and how fantastic he is, and how he did this amazing thing yesterday. But we know we come across as boring self-obsessed drones when we do that. So we shield ourselves from that criticism by joking about it being a negative.

    I do think it's right that you wait until you're ready, as there will be the odd occasion you resent your child and you want to minimise that. But it's for sure the best thing I've ever done, and the vast majority of parents who planned their children will say the same.

    Thanks JEO. But you think the choice is up to me?

    We've been married for over 2 years, and my wife is coming up to 32. She is badgering me weekly ;-)
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    OldKingColeOldKingCole Posts: 32,062

    I'm happy to rehabilitate first time offenders, especially the young, we all make mistakes. But for career criminals aged 30+ there is no point wasting valuable time and resources, throw away the key.

    A friend of mine, ordinarily a liberal type, is serious when he talks of clinical research on long term inmates, as an animal lover he'd prefer to see drugs tested on rapists rather than beagles, I think he has a point.

    You know what the genetics of the beagles are though. Can make a difference. Too many variables in humans.
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    PulpstarPulpstar Posts: 76,002
    Tunisian Nationa dialogue quartet awarded Nobel peace prize.

    Glad I dodged the Merkel bet, bookie's paradise that market.
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    watford30watford30 Posts: 3,474

    Witchsmeller Pursuivant under attack:
    http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-34484611

    'The BBC has tried to contact Mr Watson but he has not responded.'

    He's probably enjoying a relaxing mini-break with Corbyn.
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    Casino_RoyaleCasino_Royale Posts: 55,648
    John_M said:

    JEO said:

    On kids, we're all anecdotal as it's hard to agree what good child behaviour is, let alone measure which countries display it. My 2p worth is that we've shaken off the reputation that we used to have of actively disliking kids (I remember an article in a Sunday broadsheet suggesting seriously that Baden-Powell might have had paedophile leanings since "It is not normal to like children unless they are your own"), but we're still a bit neurotic about them, simultaneously wanting to treat them as innocent darlings and mature adults. The general drift is undoubtedly to the latter - you have to be very cocooned these days to be innocent in any way beyond the age of 7 or so.

    Inner London kids (who I mostly see now) generally seem OK to me in everyday life (no idea what they're like at home) - more boisterous than adults, pretty streetwise and probably willing to try anything once without too many regrets, but very few actually nasty.

    I find other people's kids highly irritating, except for my own nephews. I also remember how much of an obnoxious brat I was as a kid, and my wife was semi-jokingly referred to as a "devil-child" by her father.

    My wife now wants to start a family. I think about all that, and then have all my work colleagues and friends make 'jokes' about having no more sleep anymore, and how your whole life changes forever.

    Frankly, it puts me off. It sounds shit.
    It should definitely not be done lightly. And it is often exhausting. But, for me, it was also the most rewarding thing I've ever done. It doesn't matter how tired you are, one smile from the little blighter makes it all feel worth it.

    And, not to come across the arrogant parent, but after we had our first, it made me feel like I'd be wasting my life before it on meaningless trivial stuff. I'm not disrespecting anyone else's choices with that, just saying how my own life felt to me.
    I'm sure (I hope) I will feel the same - but I need to get there first. I just don't feel a desperate need to have them - is this normal?

    At the moment, most existing parents think they're being funny but they're basically just putting me off and not helping.
    Personally I found parenting delightful between ages 3-14 and 18 onwards. I'm sorry to say I don't really like young teenagers or babies :).
    Funnily enough, Tony Blair said almost exactly the same thing in 'The Journey'.

    One of the few memorable things in his book, actually.
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    blackburn63blackburn63 Posts: 4,492

    I'm happy to rehabilitate first time offenders, especially the young, we all make mistakes. But for career criminals aged 30+ there is no point wasting valuable time and resources, throw away the key.

    A friend of mine, ordinarily a liberal type, is serious when he talks of clinical research on long term inmates, as an animal lover he'd prefer to see drugs tested on rapists rather than beagles, I think he has a point.

    You know what the genetics of the beagles are though. Can make a difference. Too many variables in humans.
    No reason not to give it a try, 1000s every year are paid to be clinical research guinea pigs, its how drugs come to the market.

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    Morris_DancerMorris_Dancer Posts: 61,006
    Mr. Royale, if you consider it inevitable then decide instead on what price you wish to exact.
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    PulpstarPulpstar Posts: 76,002

    Mr. Royale, if you consider it inevitable then decide instead on what price you wish to exact.

    Morris, don't take this the wrong way but have you ever had a long term relationship :D ? Best of luck "exacting a price" with your future wives & girlfriends xD
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    OldKingColeOldKingCole Posts: 32,062
    edited October 2015

    I'm happy to rehabilitate first time offenders, especially the young, we all make mistakes. But for career criminals aged 30+ there is no point wasting valuable time and resources, throw away the key.

    A friend of mine, ordinarily a liberal type, is serious when he talks of clinical research on long term inmates, as an animal lover he'd prefer to see drugs tested on rapists rather than beagles, I think he has a point.

    You know what the genetics of the beagles are though. Can make a difference. Too many variables in humans.
    No reason not to give it a try, 1000s every year are paid to be clinical research guinea pigs, its how drugs come to the market.

    Good point. On thinking about your post I have a suspicion that I have read somewhere that jail inmates ARE given the opportunity to volunteer for such tests. Somewhere, anyway.
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    Pulpstar said:

    Tunisian Nationa dialogue quartet awarded Nobel peace prize.

    Glad I dodged the Merkel bet, bookie's paradise that market.

    I had five quid on, but I got my £10 free bets to put on my bookbuilding... may or may not be a loss depending on how I account for it in my thinking.
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    Morris_DancerMorris_Dancer Posts: 61,006
    Mr. Pulpstar, ha, it's not a specialist area for me, I admit.

    On the other hand, I am blessed with relentless stubbornness.

    The point stands: if something's going to happen anyway, you may as well try to seek an advantage from it.
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    Casino_RoyaleCasino_Royale Posts: 55,648
    Pulpstar said:

    My better half doesn't have kids. She has horses. They both need their shit clearing out and cost a fortune - horse crap smells alot better than baby poo though ;p.

    Best of luck with the kids, Casino Royale :D

    Thanks. I'll need it ;-)
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