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edited August 2015 in General

imagepoliticalbetting.com » Blog Archive » Remember the Saturday when the Telegraph and Sky News both declared that Alan Johnson had won the deputy leader election

Remember June 2007? So many Labour MPs had chickened out of doing other than nominate Brown for leader that there weren’t enough left for another candidate to go on the ballot. The result – the party got what the polling indicated was a leader who was an electoral liability – not someone who could lead them into a fourth successive general election victory.

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    MattWMattW Posts: 18,563
    1st?
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    PlatoPlato Posts: 15,724
    edited August 2015
    Second, as a lady should do :wink:

    @HurstLlama - loved your Jethro Tull pen-pic, I last saw them in about 1984.
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    Morris_DancerMorris_Dancer Posts: 60,984
    A shade ungallant title.

    FPT: Mr. Tyson, not offended at all. Some years ago [which does make me feel old...] I was almost certainly the youngest chap in a certain chatroom. Upon enquiry, I found the others thought (on average) I was 30-40, a few that I might be an OAP. I was about 17-18 at the time.

    FPT: Ms. Apocalypse, dare I ask how old you thought I might be?
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    At one school I taught at the single mother of a pupil married a boy in the sixth form. When this was announced at a staff briefing, the sixth- former's form teacher inquired whether he should expect absence notes from the sixth former's mother or his wife. This was followed by the younger pupil's teacher asking whether he would get absence notes from the boy's mother or his step-father in the sixth form.
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    The_ApocalypseThe_Apocalypse Posts: 7,830
    edited August 2015

    A shade ungallant title.

    FPT: Mr. Tyson, not offended at all. Some years ago [which does make me feel old...] I was almost certainly the youngest chap in a certain chatroom. Upon enquiry, I found the others thought (on average) I was 30-40, a few that I might be an OAP. I was about 17-18 at the time.

    FPT: Ms. Apocalypse, dare I ask how old you thought I might be?

    I thought you were in your 40s - especially since you're quite a big F1 fan (a lot of older people seem to be into it)! :smiley:
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    HurstLlamaHurstLlama Posts: 9,098
    edited August 2015
    Plato said:

    Second, as a lady should do :wink:

    Now, now, Miss Plato, as you well know, a lady should always arrive last but come first. And with that I am off to put the hoover around before Herself gets home and starts shouting.
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    PlatoPlato Posts: 15,724
    That's like an episode of Jeremy Kyle!

    At one school I taught at the single mother of a pupil married a boy in the sixth form. When this was announced at a staff briefing, the sixth- former's form teacher inquired whether he should expect absence notes from the sixth former's mother or his wife. This was followed by the younger pupil's teacher asking whether he would get absence notes from the boy's mother or his step-father in the sixth form.

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    JEOJEO Posts: 3,656
    Interesting stuff on the Calais migrant crisis on BBC News. One very intelligent sounding migrant, a Sudanese engineer, had decided it was now too risky to get to Britain, and that the less aggressive migrants had agreed with him. He said about 60% were now committed to going to Britain come what may, 20% had decided to apply for asylum in France, and 20% would hang about and try to get to the UK if they got the chance.

    Also, Harriet Harman is calling for the government to get compensation from France for the British businesses that are in danger of going out of business. While that's unexpected from Labour, it still seems fair. The French can't go on not policing crime and expect it's ok that British companies just suffer the damage. What is the EU for if British companies can't get redress from France not doing its basic government responsibilities?
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    FinancierFinancier Posts: 3,916
    Just to respond to some posts (have been doing a few hours of writing)

    Re: minimum age for HoL: I hesitated between 35 then 40 and then 45. It is really based on interviewing candidates for jobs. Many a younger person's education today has left them without a wide general knowledge (certainly far less than I had at 18) or even a wide knowledge of their specialism We need people with wide knowledge and experience and so tend to be recruiting those with grey hair or no hair.
    I well appreciate the problems of those having loans for tuition fees and maintenance but remain amazed at those who seem to spend a lot of money on alcohol and going out - something I could never afford on my uni scholarships.

    Re: Gigs: Had to rescue family from the mud at WOMAD last weekend, but that place felt weird - a time-warp of would-be hippies. Presume the Proms don't count as a gig.

    Re: Older men and younger women: Interesting how it changes over time - in the 1700s and 1800s it was quite common for men of 50 or 60 to marry ladies in the early 20s - the men had made their fortune by then. Of course it is said, that many lades like to 'mate' with the bad and thrilling guys but want the steady and secure ones as fathers for their children. However, it is not unknown nowadays when a man loses a well paid job, that he is divorced if he can no longer keep his wife in the manner to which she has become accustomed.
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    FinancierFinancier Posts: 3,916

    Plato said:

    Second, as a lady should do :wink:

    Now, now, Miss Plato, as you well know, a lady should always arrive last but come first. And with that I am off to put the hoover around before Herself gets home and starts shouting.
    Don't you have a nice Polish young lady who does that for you?
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    Morris_DancerMorris_Dancer Posts: 60,984
    Ms. Apocalypse, I suppose that's not too bad.

    I do seem to have made a habit of advanced ageing. Started shaving when I was 12, and recently started shaving my head (hair was thinning and it was starting to enter the realms of comedy).
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    david_herdsondavid_herdson Posts: 17,419
    On topic, yes, it may well be enough for Yvette. The corollary is, if Burnham goes out second, does that improve Corbyn's chances?
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    Morris_DancerMorris_Dancer Posts: 60,984
    Incidentally, Mr. Llama, what breed of hound are you set to acquire?
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    PlatoPlato Posts: 15,724
    Speaking of deputy leader - is Tom Watson now nailed on? He seemed a long way ahead last week.
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    Ms. Apocalypse, I suppose that's not too bad.

    I do seem to have made a habit of advanced ageing. Started shaving when I was 12, and recently started shaving my head (hair was thinning and it was starting to enter the realms of comedy).

    You're like the reverse Benjamin Button :grin:

    Some of the girls in my primary school had already begun wearing bras by year 5/6, so I think advanced aging may be not be rare....
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    Morris_DancerMorris_Dancer Posts: 60,984
    Miss Plato, displeased to hear that Mister Toad is set to become a more common creature on the television. Ghastly fellow.

    Ms. Apocalypse, worth noting that girls do mature more quickly than boys (plus there's a desire, at that age, to be as grown-up as possible).

    Anyway, I hope it levels off. I'd prefer to outlive Alexander the Great, if possible.
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    PlatoPlato Posts: 15,724
    Bras in the Infants?

    Golly, that sounds weird. I think I was 11 and one of the first in my class in the late 70s.

    Ms. Apocalypse, I suppose that's not too bad.

    I do seem to have made a habit of advanced ageing. Started shaving when I was 12, and recently started shaving my head (hair was thinning and it was starting to enter the realms of comedy).

    You're like the reverse Benjamin Button :grin:

    Some of the girls in my primary school had already begun wearing bras by year 5/6, so I think advanced aging may be not be rare....
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    Sean_FSean_F Posts: 35,850
    Financier said:

    Just to respond to some posts (have been doing a few hours of writing)

    Re: minimum age for HoL: I hesitated between 35 then 40 and then 45. It is really based on interviewing candidates for jobs. Many a younger person's education today has left them without a wide general knowledge (certainly far less than I had at 18) or even a wide knowledge of their specialism We need people with wide knowledge and experience and so tend to be recruiting those with grey hair or no hair.
    I well appreciate the problems of those having loans for tuition fees and maintenance but remain amazed at those who seem to spend a lot of money on alcohol and going out - something I could never afford on my uni scholarships.

    Re: Gigs: Had to rescue family from the mud at WOMAD last weekend, but that place felt weird - a time-warp of would-be hippies. Presume the Proms don't count as a gig.

    Re: Older men and younger women: Interesting how it changes over time - in the 1700s and 1800s it was quite common for men of 50 or 60 to marry ladies in the early 20s - the men had made their fortune by then. Of course it is said, that many lades like to 'mate' with the bad and thrilling guys but want the steady and secure ones as fathers for their children. However, it is not unknown nowadays when a man loses a well paid job, that he is divorced if he can no longer keep his wife in the manner to which she has become accustomed.

    It was also not uncommon in past ages for old widows to marry young men. They got someone to look after them, and they got an inheritance.
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    Corbyn's nomination has probably cost Burnham this race. Votes that would have gone to him first-preference are now going to Corbyn first-preference and Burnham will be vying for second with Cooper.

    Even if Burnham manages to come second on first preferences, Kendall will break for Cooper and so its Cooper-Corbyn for the final round. Cooper could yet win this despite being third place in round one and potentially 15 points below Corbyn on first preferences.
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    PlatoPlato Posts: 15,724
    Mr Dancer - he really is a slug. He always looks like he needs a good wash.

    Miss Plato, displeased to hear that Mister Toad is set to become a more common creature on the television. Ghastly fellow.

    Ms. Apocalypse, worth noting that girls do mature more quickly than boys (plus there's a desire, at that age, to be as grown-up as possible).

    Anyway, I hope it levels off. I'd prefer to outlive Alexander the Great, if possible.

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    JEOJEO Posts: 3,656
    edited August 2015
    @rcs1000

    I understand that tariffs are less important these days than non-tariff barriers, which your 1% issue does not covered. I was under the impression that Iceland was very big into financial services, that it was what they had effectively replaced fishing with as their primary industry. Would you mind discussing the pros and cons of the ISDS issue a little more? I would like to form an opinion on it, but most of the commentary has been simplistic. I have heard the argument that it is need to prevent the sort of shadowy protectionism that France does. Is there some middle way that could be done?

    I'm also surprised that the US is in a position to do a take it or leave it deal. It seems like Obama needs a win on this more than anyone else does, at least for global geopolitics reasons.

    @The_Apocalypse @Philip_Thomson

    When I was at university, there was a friend of mine who was just 18 who had a relationship with an army man in his 30s. She was very naive and he clearly manipulated her lack of experience. Eventually it turned out he was married with children, and had several of these student mistresses. It all made me very uncomfortable. I would maybe have a sliding scale starting with a one year exception for 15 year olds to maybe a six year one for 20 year olds. I know 18 is now the accepted definition of adulthood, but I think the evidence is increasingly showing that the adolescent brain does not stop developing until their early 20s. Certainly a lot of university graduates these days do not seem ready for adulthood. Modern helicopter parenting does not help.
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    Financier said:

    Just to respond to some posts (have been doing a few hours of writing)

    Re: minimum age for HoL: I hesitated between 35 then 40 and then 45. It is really based on interviewing candidates for jobs. Many a younger person's education today has left them without a wide general knowledge (certainly far less than I had at 18) or even a wide knowledge of their specialism We need people with wide knowledge and experience and so tend to be recruiting those with grey hair or no hair.
    I well appreciate the problems of those having loans for tuition fees and maintenance but remain amazed at those who seem to spend a lot of money on alcohol and going out - something I could never afford on my uni scholarships.

    Not all people are the same, judge the individual as an individual. I know some people in their 40s who are less mature, experienced or responsible than some people in their 20s. Even if on average older generations are more experienced that will not be a hard and fast rule.

    Don't judge everyone by a category. That's like Ed Milliband asking a Sikh Conservative will he be ensuring "we "(Labour) get the Sikh vote.
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    @Morris_Dancer I did once say this to guy who I went to school with (when we were doing A-Levels) and he literally refused to believe that girls matured older than boys. Tbf, I guess certain parts of twitter regarding Justin Bieber and One Direction undermine that argument....

    @Plato Yeah, though tbf the girls were around the age of 10/11 (year 5 is 9-10 years, year 6 10-11 for clarification).
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    @JEO
    I still don't quite feel like an 'adult' and I'm 21! I think many who are 18, may be adult in age but they are nowhere near an adult in mentality. I felt like a child until about 20 - so only a year ago :grimace: I think a lot of us (including me, tbh) are completely terrified when going into the adult world and having to deal with all of the responsibilities. I was (and still am) a mummy's girl, so that probably doesn't help!

    On your story, I'm not remotely surprised. This is why I'm very wary when older guys are interested.

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    JEO said:

    @The_Apocalypse @Philip_Thomson

    When I was at university, there was a friend of mine who was just 18 who had a relationship with an army man in his 30s. She was very naive and he clearly manipulated her lack of experience. Eventually it turned out he was married with children, and had several of these student mistresses. It all made me very uncomfortable. I would maybe have a sliding scale starting with a one year exception for 15 year olds to maybe a six year one for 20 year olds. I know 18 is now the accepted definition of adulthood, but I think the evidence is increasingly showing that the adolescent brain does not stop developing until their early 20s. Certainly a lot of university graduates these days do not seem ready for adulthood. Modern helicopter parenting does not help.

    While possibly somewhat creepy or uncomfortable your 18 year old friend was an adult and so can make her own choices. She's also definitely physically an adult and not a child. More government is not the answer here.

    I think a lot of adults (not just young adults) are not ready to be adults either. The welfare state has infantilised a lot of people, if the government pays for your home and expenses and basically doles out pocket money regularly to live on without ever working then there's almost no reason for some people to grow up.

    But while I don't think the government needs to get involved as far as a sliding scale as to what I find comfortable, the general rule of thumb I've heard is 50% of the oldest partners age plus seven. At 16 that means 15, at 18 that means 16, at 24 it means 19 and at 30 means 22.
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    PlatoPlato Posts: 15,724
    At the risk of this thread turning you into a lab specimen for youth - is it accurate to say that most youngsters are very familiar with online porn/think its depicting real-life blah blah?

    I reflexively assume its a lot of media hyperbole and a bit of truth [that's no different to how it was when I was a teenager], but what do I know.

    If I had young female children, they'd never be allowed to dress in the highly provocative ways many do today. And I'm no prig.

    @JEO
    I still don't quite feel like an 'adult' and I'm 21! I think many who are 18, may be adult in age but they are nowhere near an adult in mentality. I felt like a child until about 20 - so only a year ago :grimace: I think a lot of us (including me, tbh) are completely terrified when going into the adult world and having to deal with all of the responsibilities. I was (and still am) a mummy's girl, so that probably doesn't help!

    On your story, I'm not remotely surprised. This is why I'm very wary when older guys are interested.

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    FPT Tyson re Fleetwood Mac.

    They were brilliant. Far better than I had expected or hoped. I am a big fan anyway in all their incarnations but they certainly didn't disappoint. Lindsey Buckingham showed just what an under-rated guitarist he is and Mick Fleetwood was just astonishing in his energy given he is 68. Of the two female singers Stevie Nicks has probably been the one who has struggled most to retain her voice and can't hit the high notes anymore but it kind of didn't matter given her style of singing. Christine McVie was incredible and her voice lived up to her maiden name.

    The set list (23 tracks in total) has a lot of Rumours in it of course but also a wide spread across all of the 70s-90s Fleetwood Mac albums.

    Highlight - in spite of all the great Rumour's stuff has to have been Lindsey Buckingham guitar solo on I'm So Afraid.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TDwg28bSjoI
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    foxinsoxukfoxinsoxuk Posts: 23,548

    @JEO
    I still don't quite feel like an 'adult' and I'm 21! I think many who are 18, may be adult in age but they are nowhere near an adult in mentality. I felt like a child until about 20 - so only a year ago :grimace: I think a lot of us (including me, tbh) are completely terrified when going into the adult world and having to deal with all of the responsibilities. I was (and still am) a mummy's girl, so that probably doesn't help!

    On your story, I'm not remotely surprised. This is why I'm very wary when older guys are interested.

    I am not sure that I feel an adult and I am middle aged! A lot of people wish to be Peter Pan, and never grow old judging by Latitude. It is possible to be very responsible at work yet quite radical in other contexts.

    You can hold onto the fashions, keep up with the music scene etc, but the hardest thing to hold onto is the idealism of youth. It is far too easy to become cynical, and nothing ages a person faster.
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    ThomasNasheThomasNashe Posts: 4,980
    On topic, I remember that I voted for Harman, though I can't altogether remember why I put her above Johnson. Probably because - as has been observed here before - she is something of a trooper, and has the kind of qualities one looks for in a lieutenant rather than a general.
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    CarlottaVanceCarlottaVance Posts: 59,678
    FPT the canard that "once in a generation" on Scottish Independence referendums was "just one man's view" - it was the view of both the UK and Scottish Governments:

    http://www.scotland.org/about-scotland/government-timeline/

    But I know it's pointless to argue facts with people of faith....
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    TomTom Posts: 273
    Still think it's very wide open. It is not impossible that kendall beats cooper in round 1 - her nominations are in places with lots of members - middle class london constituencies - and after this week her supporters will be the most motivated of the reality based community in the party. If cooper does get through she may well beat burnham in round 2 as kendall votes break for her but possibly less well placed to beat corbyn. On the polls and nominations final round looks very close - don't think anyone knows whether the social media insurgency will translate into votes a la Scotland or not a la England.
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    Morris_DancerMorris_Dancer Posts: 60,984
    Mr. Foxinsox, the idealism of youth?

    I never had that. I recall being pro-corporal punishment as a child (I've since mellowed on that particular front, largely because I think it's open to abuse).
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    CromwellCromwell Posts: 236

    Corbyn's nomination has probably cost Burnham this race. Votes that would have gone to him first-preference are now going to Corbyn first-preference and Burnham will be vying for second with Cooper.

    Even if Burnham manages to come second on first preferences, Kendall will break for Cooper and so its Cooper-Corbyn for the final round. Cooper could yet win this despite being third place in round one and potentially 15 points below Corbyn on first preferences.

    Corbyn's nomination has probably cost Burnham this race. Votes that would have gone to him first-preference are now going to Corbyn first-preference and Burnham will be vying for second with Cooper.

    Even if Burnham manages to come second on first preferences, Kendall will break for Cooper and so its Cooper-Corbyn for the final round. Cooper could yet win this despite being third place in round one and potentially 15 points below Corbyn on first preferences.

    =======================

    Corbyn mania has spooked and is in the process of unifying the opposition...Burnham is a limp and pathetic weather vane who lacks confidence and has a personality unsuitable for a leadership role
    The voters are going to sober up to the dangers that Corbyn represents and are going to elect Cooper as the compromise candidate and the first female leader ...mark my words !

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    ThomasNasheThomasNashe Posts: 4,980
    Tom said:

    Still think it's very wide open. It is not impossible that kendall beats cooper in round 1 - her nominations are in places with lots of members - middle class london constituencies - and after this week her supporters will be the most motivated of the reality based community in the party. If cooper does get through she may well beat burnham in round 2 as kendall votes break for her but possibly less well placed to beat corbyn. On the polls and nominations final round looks very close - don't think anyone knows whether the social media insurgency will translate into votes a la Scotland or not a la England.

    I wonder if all the tweeters for Corbyn have actually remembered/ bothered to take out affiliate membership?
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    FinancierFinancier Posts: 3,916
    edited August 2015

    @JEO
    I still don't quite feel like an 'adult' and I'm 21! I think many who are 18, may be adult in age but they are nowhere near an adult in mentality. I felt like a child until about 20 - so only a year ago :grimace: I think a lot of us (including me, tbh) are completely terrified when going into the adult world and having to deal with all of the responsibilities. I was (and still am) a mummy's girl, so that probably doesn't help!

    On your story, I'm not remotely surprised. This is why I'm very wary when older guys are interested.

    I am not sure that I feel an adult and I am middle aged! A lot of people wish to be Peter Pan, and never grow old judging by Latitude. It is possible to be very responsible at work yet quite radical in other contexts.

    You can hold onto the fashions, keep up with the music scene etc, but the hardest thing to hold onto is the idealism of youth. It is far too easy to become cynical, and nothing ages a person faster.
    Yes, experience blunts idealism, but as long as it does not blunt aspiration and a thirst for knowledge, then you are OK. I found that experience builds confidence which can be an asset in many would-be-awkward situations.
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    Plato said:

    At the risk of this thread turning you into a lab specimen for youth - is it accurate to say that most youngsters are very familiar with online porn/think its depicting real-life blah blah?

    I reflexively assume its a lot of media hyperbole and a bit of truth [that's no different to how it was when I was a teenager], but what do I know.

    If I had young female children, they'd never be allowed to dress in the highly provocative ways many do today. And I'm no prig.

    It's fair to say most teens have seen online porn, yes - probably by about 14 I'd say, maybe even younger. C4 have done another of their sex education documentary shows (I think it'll be on next week) and it claims that by 12/13 teens have seen online porn.

    I think a lot of young boys, at the very least want to recreate some of things they see in porn, in real life. Quite a few are obsessed with anal and 'facials'. I don't think wanting to do these things is necessarily a bad thing, but I think a lot of girls feel under pressure to do things that they aren't comfortable with, and I think that's more worrying.
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    foxinsoxukfoxinsoxuk Posts: 23,548

    Mr. Foxinsox, the idealism of youth?

    I never had that. I recall being pro-corporal punishment as a child (I've since mellowed on that particular front, largely because I think it's open to abuse).

    I had plenty, and still have some. It is one of the appealing things about Corbyn. He has a naive belief in the possibility of a better world without wars or nuclear weapons, where there is an answer to poverty and equality for all. Possibly completely delusional of course, but nice to have a politician who still believes in the fundamental goodness of people despite 30 years in the House of Commons.
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    @JEO
    I still don't quite feel like an 'adult' and I'm 21! I think many who are 18, may be adult in age but they are nowhere near an adult in mentality. I felt like a child until about 20 - so only a year ago :grimace: I think a lot of us (including me, tbh) are completely terrified when going into the adult world and having to deal with all of the responsibilities. I was (and still am) a mummy's girl, so that probably doesn't help!

    On your story, I'm not remotely surprised. This is why I'm very wary when older guys are interested.

    I am not sure that I feel an adult and I am middle aged! A lot of people wish to be Peter Pan, and never grow old judging by Latitude. It is possible to be very responsible at work yet quite radical in other contexts.

    You can hold onto the fashions, keep up with the music scene etc, but the hardest thing to hold onto is the idealism of youth. It is far too easy to become cynical, and nothing ages a person faster.
    It is definitely easy to become cynical - I've found myself becoming quite a bit cynical about life in general, but I think you can't let yourself be too down. In life you have to be optimistic, otherwise what is the point?
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    Morris_DancerMorris_Dancer Posts: 60,984
    Mr. Foxinsox, hey, relentless cynicism can be appealing too.

    A world without wars is only possible in a world which has seen the human race extirpated.
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    CharlesCharles Posts: 35,758
    Plato said:

    Bras in the Infants?

    Golly, that sounds weird. I think I was 11 and one of the first in my class in the late 70s.

    Ms. Apocalypse, I suppose that's not too bad.

    I do seem to have made a habit of advanced ageing. Started shaving when I was 12, and recently started shaving my head (hair was thinning and it was starting to enter the realms of comedy).

    You're like the reverse Benjamin Button :grin:

    Some of the girls in my primary school had already begun wearing bras by year 5/6, so I think advanced aging may be not be rare....
    Year 5/6 is, I think aged 9/10
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    Cromwell said:

    Corbyn's nomination has probably cost Burnham this race. Votes that would have gone to him first-preference are now going to Corbyn first-preference and Burnham will be vying for second with Cooper.

    Even if Burnham manages to come second on first preferences, Kendall will break for Cooper and so its Cooper-Corbyn for the final round. Cooper could yet win this despite being third place in round one and potentially 15 points below Corbyn on first preferences.

    Corbyn's nomination has probably cost Burnham this race. Votes that would have gone to him first-preference are now going to Corbyn first-preference and Burnham will be vying for second with Cooper.

    Even if Burnham manages to come second on first preferences, Kendall will break for Cooper and so its Cooper-Corbyn for the final round. Cooper could yet win this despite being third place in round one and potentially 15 points below Corbyn on first preferences.

    =======================

    Corbyn mania has spooked and is in the process of unifying the opposition...Burnham is a limp and pathetic weather vane who lacks confidence and has a personality unsuitable for a leadership role
    The voters are going to sober up to the dangers that Corbyn represents and are going to elect Cooper as the compromise candidate and the first female leader ...mark my words !

    Electing a female leader was relevant 40 years ago. It is no accomplishment in 2015.
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    TheWhiteRabbitTheWhiteRabbit Posts: 12,388

    Plato said:

    At the risk of this thread turning you into a lab specimen for youth - is it accurate to say that most youngsters are very familiar with online porn/think its depicting real-life blah blah?

    I reflexively assume its a lot of media hyperbole and a bit of truth [that's no different to how it was when I was a teenager], but what do I know.

    If I had young female children, they'd never be allowed to dress in the highly provocative ways many do today. And I'm no prig.

    It's fair to say most teens have seen online porn, yes - probably by about 14 I'd say, maybe even younger. C4 have done another of their sex education documentary shows (I think it'll be on next week) and it claims that by 12/13 teens have seen online porn.

    I think a lot of young boys, at the very least want to recreate some of things they see in porn, in real life. Quite a few are obsessed with anal and 'facials'. I don't think wanting to do these things is necessarily a bad thing, but I think a lot of girls feel under pressure to do things that they aren't comfortable with, and I think that's more worrying.
    I think 14 or 15 would be average for boys. I can't say for girls. I'd say by 18 the percentage must be in the 80s or 90s.

    I don't know about this re-enacting part though. I would say it was probably a fairly rare thing occurrence. I don't think it's a tidal wave, certainly. After all, porn-type scenarios don't exactly come up every day.

    Perhaps the more difficult question is whether there is a more subtle effect whereby it creates some sort of general level of disrespect. But contrary to press reports, all the stats say that is getter better - not worse.

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    tlg86tlg86 Posts: 25,190

    Mr. Foxinsox, the idealism of youth?

    I never had that. I recall being pro-corporal punishment as a child (I've since mellowed on that particular front, largely because I think it's open to abuse).

    I had plenty, and still have some. It is one of the appealing things about Corbyn. He has a naive belief in the possibility of a better world without wars or nuclear weapons, where there is an answer to poverty and equality for all. Possibly completely delusional of course, but nice to have a politician who still believes in the fundamental goodness of people despite 30 years in the House of Commons.
    The problem with the likes of Corbyn and certainly his disciples is that they don't see the goodness in people who hold different political views to them.
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    PlatoPlato Posts: 15,724
    Sounds like nothing's changed much in 30-odd years except the delivery medium used to be VHS or magazines. Though I never heard anyone mention anal in common office chat until the mid-90s! Now it seems hardly taboo.

    Plato said:

    At the risk of this thread turning you into a lab specimen for youth - is it accurate to say that most youngsters are very familiar with online porn/think its depicting real-life blah blah?

    I reflexively assume its a lot of media hyperbole and a bit of truth [that's no different to how it was when I was a teenager], but what do I know.

    If I had young female children, they'd never be allowed to dress in the highly provocative ways many do today. And I'm no prig.

    It's fair to say most teens have seen online porn, yes - probably by about 14 I'd say, maybe even younger. C4 have done another of their sex education documentary shows (I think it'll be on next week) and it claims that by 12/13 teens have seen online porn.

    I think a lot of young boys, at the very least want to recreate some of things they see in porn, in real life. Quite a few are obsessed with anal and 'facials'. I don't think wanting to do these things is necessarily a bad thing, but I think a lot of girls feel under pressure to do things that they aren't comfortable with, and I think that's more worrying.
    I think 14 or 15 would be average for boys. I can't say for girls. I'd say by 18 the percentage must be in the 80s or 90s.

    I don't know about this re-enacting part though. I would say it was probably a fairly rare thing occurrence. I don't think it's a tidal wave, certainly. After all, porn-type scenarios don't exactly come up every day.

    Perhaps the more difficult question is whether there is a more subtle effect whereby it creates some sort of general level of disrespect. But contrary to press reports, all the stats say that is getter better - not worse.

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    Plato said:

    At the risk of this thread turning you into a lab specimen for youth - is it accurate to say that most youngsters are very familiar with online porn/think its depicting real-life blah blah?

    I reflexively assume its a lot of media hyperbole and a bit of truth [that's no different to how it was when I was a teenager], but what do I know.

    If I had young female children, they'd never be allowed to dress in the highly provocative ways many do today. And I'm no prig.

    It's fair to say most teens have seen online porn, yes - probably by about 14 I'd say, maybe even younger. C4 have done another of their sex education documentary shows (I think it'll be on next week) and it claims that by 12/13 teens have seen online porn.

    I think a lot of young boys, at the very least want to recreate some of things they see in porn, in real life. Quite a few are obsessed with anal and 'facials'. I don't think wanting to do these things is necessarily a bad thing, but I think a lot of girls feel under pressure to do things that they aren't comfortable with, and I think that's more worrying.
    I think 14 or 15 would be average for boys. I can't say for girls. I'd say by 18 the percentage must be in the 80s or 90s.

    I don't know about this re-enacting part though. I would say it was probably a fairly rare thing occurrence. I don't think it's a tidal wave, certainly. After all, porn-type scenarios don't exactly come up every day.

    Perhaps the more difficult question is whether there is a more subtle effect whereby it creates some sort of general level of disrespect. But contrary to press reports, all the stats say that is getter better - not worse.

    I'm thinking more of specific sex acts than scenarios tbh.

    I don't actually think stuff like anal happens that often, just that a lot of boys want that kind of stuff. As for girls, it's difficult - most girls seem fairly coy as to whether they've viewed porn or not. On the stats - do know where you saw/got them?
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    PlatoPlato Posts: 15,724
    edited August 2015
    If Labour gets a M/M ticket, I wonder how their female supporters will feel?

    Cromwell said:

    Corbyn's nomination has probably cost Burnham this race. Votes that would have gone to him first-preference are now going to Corbyn first-preference and Burnham will be vying for second with Cooper.

    Even if Burnham manages to come second on first preferences, Kendall will break for Cooper and so its Cooper-Corbyn for the final round. Cooper could yet win this despite being third place in round one and potentially 15 points below Corbyn on first preferences.

    Corbyn's nomination has probably cost Burnham this race. Votes that would have gone to him first-preference are now going to Corbyn first-preference and Burnham will be vying for second with Cooper.

    Even if Burnham manages to come second on first preferences, Kendall will break for Cooper and so its Cooper-Corbyn for the final round. Cooper could yet win this despite being third place in round one and potentially 15 points below Corbyn on first preferences.

    =======================

    Corbyn mania has spooked and is in the process of unifying the opposition...Burnham is a limp and pathetic weather vane who lacks confidence and has a personality unsuitable for a leadership role
    The voters are going to sober up to the dangers that Corbyn represents and are going to elect Cooper as the compromise candidate and the first female leader ...mark my words !

    Electing a female leader was relevant 40 years ago. It is no accomplishment in 2015.
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    @Plato I don't know about nothing changing in 30 years. Porn is far more accessible than ever before, and stuff like anal, threesomes, facials, isn't really taboo. I also think there's are certain body-image expectations created by online porn tbh.
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    PlatoPlato Posts: 15,724
    I just can't get used to this new fangled stuff :wink:
    Charles said:

    Plato said:

    Bras in the Infants?

    Golly, that sounds weird. I think I was 11 and one of the first in my class in the late 70s.

    Ms. Apocalypse, I suppose that's not too bad.

    I do seem to have made a habit of advanced ageing. Started shaving when I was 12, and recently started shaving my head (hair was thinning and it was starting to enter the realms of comedy).

    You're like the reverse Benjamin Button :grin:

    Some of the girls in my primary school had already begun wearing bras by year 5/6, so I think advanced aging may be not be rare....
    Year 5/6 is, I think aged 9/10
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    malcolmgmalcolmg Posts: 41,979

    FPT the canard that "once in a generation" on Scottish Independence referendums was "just one man's view" - it was the view of both the UK and Scottish Governments:

    http://www.scotland.org/about-scotland/government-timeline/

    But I know it's pointless to argue facts with people of faith....

    You just cannot get over your fixation
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    PlatoPlato Posts: 15,724
    @Charles - I see some great results are being claimed for the ebola vaccine. Has this been on your radar? http://www.thetimes.co.uk/tto/health/news/article4514459.ece
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    rcs1000rcs1000 Posts: 54,001
    Charles said:

    Plato said:

    Bras in the Infants?

    Golly, that sounds weird. I think I was 11 and one of the first in my class in the late 70s.

    Ms. Apocalypse, I suppose that's not too bad.

    I do seem to have made a habit of advanced ageing. Started shaving when I was 12, and recently started shaving my head (hair was thinning and it was starting to enter the realms of comedy).

    You're like the reverse Benjamin Button :grin:

    Some of the girls in my primary school had already begun wearing bras by year 5/6, so I think advanced aging may be not be rare....
    Year 5/6 is, I think aged 9/10
    First year of infants is reception, when you turn 5. You turn 6 in year 1.

    In year 5 you turn 10, and in year 6 you turn 11...
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    William_HWilliam_H Posts: 346
    Plato said:

    If Labour gets a M/M ticket, I wonder how their female supporters will feel?

    Cromwell said:

    Corbyn's nomination has probably cost Burnham this race. Votes that would have gone to him first-preference are now going to Corbyn first-preference and Burnham will be vying for second with Cooper.

    Even if Burnham manages to come second on first preferences, Kendall will break for Cooper and so its Cooper-Corbyn for the final round. Cooper could yet win this despite being third place in round one and potentially 15 points below Corbyn on first preferences.

    Corbyn's nomination has probably cost Burnham this race. Votes that would have gone to him first-preference are now going to Corbyn first-preference and Burnham will be vying for second with Cooper.

    Even if Burnham manages to come second on first preferences, Kendall will break for Cooper and so its Cooper-Corbyn for the final round. Cooper could yet win this despite being third place in round one and potentially 15 points below Corbyn on first preferences.

    =======================

    Corbyn mania has spooked and is in the process of unifying the opposition...Burnham is a limp and pathetic weather vane who lacks confidence and has a personality unsuitable for a leadership role
    The voters are going to sober up to the dangers that Corbyn represents and are going to elect Cooper as the compromise candidate and the first female leader ...mark my words !

    Electing a female leader was relevant 40 years ago. It is no accomplishment in 2015.
    Pleased because they're really rather keen on Corbyn?
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    rcs1000rcs1000 Posts: 54,001
    @JEO, Iceland's banks all went bust! Fishing is definitely the largest export earner in Iceland
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    @William_H Believe me, this is not the case for all female Labour supporters. I certainly don't think Jezza is 'sexy'. It's a bit like the Milifandom thing. Purely a phenomenon of the internet.
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    TheWhiteRabbitTheWhiteRabbit Posts: 12,388

    Plato said:

    At the risk of this thread turning you into a lab specimen for youth - is it accurate to say that most youngsters are very familiar with online porn/think its depicting real-life blah blah?

    I reflexively assume its a lot of media hyperbole and a bit of truth [that's no different to how it was when I was a teenager], but what do I know.

    If I had young female children, they'd never be allowed to dress in the highly provocative ways many do today. And I'm no prig.

    It's fair to say most teens have seen online porn, yes - probably by about 14 I'd say, maybe even younger. C4 have done another of their sex education documentary shows (I think it'll be on next week) and it claims that by 12/13 teens have seen online porn.

    I think a lot of young boys, at the very least want to recreate some of things they see in porn, in real life. Quite a few are obsessed with anal and 'facials'. I don't think wanting to do these things is necessarily a bad thing, but I think a lot of girls feel under pressure to do things that they aren't comfortable with, and I think that's more worrying.
    I think 14 or 15 would be average for boys. I can't say for girls. I'd say by 18 the percentage must be in the 80s or 90s.

    I don't know about this re-enacting part though. I would say it was probably a fairly rare thing occurrence. I don't think it's a tidal wave, certainly. After all, porn-type scenarios don't exactly come up every day.

    Perhaps the more difficult question is whether there is a more subtle effect whereby it creates some sort of general level of disrespect. But contrary to press reports, all the stats say that is getter better - not worse.

    I'm thinking more of specific sex acts than scenarios tbh.

    I don't actually think stuff like anal happens that often, just that a lot of boys want that kind of stuff. As for girls, it's difficult - most girls seem fairly coy as to whether they've viewed porn or not. On the stats - do know where you saw/got them?
    There has been a general downward trend in domestic violence including sexual assault, for example:

    http://www.ons.gov.uk/ons/dcp171776_352362.pdf

    Not the sort of figure you'd expect if the greater accessibility of hardcore pornography (the availablity of softer forms being high for many years) were leading to a big problem.

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    HurstLlamaHurstLlama Posts: 9,098

    Ok. Hoovering done, herself home and didn't shout at me and now settled with a cup of tea and a warm cat.

    Incidentally, Mr. Llama, what breed of hound are you set to acquire?

    A fair question, Mr. D., for preference something on the Beagle line would do very well. However to be fair on the hound and our neighbours to say nothing of our sanity I would need to find the right breeder. That said, HD2, much missed from this site, reminds me that pet dogs should be obtained from Rescue Centres and he has a very good point. So it will probably be something beagle(ish) size or, more likely, the mutt that Herself falls in love with.
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    William_HWilliam_H Posts: 346

    @William_H Believe me, this is not the case for all female Labour supporters. I certainly don't think Jezza is 'sexy'. It's a bit like the Milifandom thing. Purely a phenomenon of the internet.

    I was referring to his apparent popularity with women in the Yougov poll (47% on First Preference, 57% on final) rather than his alleged sex appeal.

    In fact, both the male candidates do better with women than men in that poll on first preference, and there's no marked differences between gender in the deputy leadership
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    There has been a general downward trend in domestic violence including sexual assault, for example:

    http://www.ons.gov.uk/ons/dcp171776_352362.pdf

    Not the sort of figure you'd expect if the greater accessibility of hardcore pornography (the availablity of softer forms being high for many years) were leading to a big problem.

    Hmmm, I don't know whether that is a great measure. These kind of crimes tend to be private crimes, and therefore can be signifcantly under-reported. General disrespect can also occur on a less extreme end of things. For example, on something like anal - where I've heard several ''accidentally letting it slip in stories'' (more like deliberately) it's doubtful that women are going to go to the police to report sexual assault, despite the fact that it's occurred without a woman's consent, and is evidence of someone clearly going beyond a woman's boundaries.

    Them there's things like this: http://www.theguardian.com/society/2015/jan/22/number-rapes-police-england-wales-rises-31-percent#comments
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    TheWhiteRabbitTheWhiteRabbit Posts: 12,388

    There has been a general downward trend in domestic violence including sexual assault, for example:

    http://www.ons.gov.uk/ons/dcp171776_352362.pdf

    Not the sort of figure you'd expect if the greater accessibility of hardcore pornography (the availablity of softer forms being high for many years) were leading to a big problem.

    Hmmm, I don't know whether that is a great measure. These kind of crimes tend to be private crimes, and therefore can be signifcantly under-reported. General disrespect can also occur on a less extreme end of things. For example, on something like anal - where I've heard several ''accidentally letting it slip in stories'' (more like deliberately) it's doubtful that women are going to go to the police to report sexual assault, despite the fact that it's occurred without a woman's consent, and is evidence of someone clearly going beyond a woman's boundaries.

    Them there's things like this: http://www.theguardian.com/society/2015/jan/22/number-rapes-police-england-wales-rises-31-percent#comments
    The ONS stats I linked are from the CSEW, which is victim-led and not subject to significant under-reporting (although this as your link alludes, is improving, so if anything the CSEW should be going up, when it is going down)>
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    Morris_DancerMorris_Dancer Posts: 60,984
    Mr. Llama, aye, my three hounds were all rescues.

    We got very lucky with the first, who was the best of dogs. The second was a bit noisy and hyper, and she had fleas which we discovered the very night we got her (despite the RSPCA signing off that she was entirely fine).

    A slightly older (one year plus) dog may have the advantage of being house-trained [one hopes] but also might have the drawback of having picked up bad habits. A good rescue place will advise you honestly about this.
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    HurstLlamaHurstLlama Posts: 9,098
    Financier said:

    Plato said:

    Second, as a lady should do :wink:

    Now, now, Miss Plato, as you well know, a lady should always arrive last but come first. And with that I am off to put the hoover around before Herself gets home and starts shouting.
    Don't you have a nice Polish young lady who does that for you?
    Chance would be a fine thing, Mr. Financier. Herself regards any woman who has an able bodied husband but who still needs domestic help as a traitor to her gender.

    When herself had her cancer my (then) firm's welfare dept. arranged and paid for "Ladies that Do", a domestic services company, to take on all housework, including washing and ironing, until Herself had fully recovered on the grounds that as a man I was incapable and anyway I had a seven year old to look after and a job to do.

    Herself went into hospital on the Sunday evening, had a mastectomy on the Monday, was home on Wednesday and digging the garden on Thursday. On the Friday she phoned Welfare Dept. and told them to cancel Ladies that Do because her husband was more than capable of doing all that was required.
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    fitalassfitalass Posts: 4,279
    You have finally succumbed and decided to get a dog too, welcome to the crazy world of cats and dogs. If only I had had a camera to hand to catch our collie Holly's reaction when she went up to investigate the cat basket when we brought home our two new five month old kitties. Priceless.


    Ok. Hoovering done, herself home and didn't shout at me and now settled with a cup of tea and a warm cat.

    Incidentally, Mr. Llama, what breed of hound are you set to acquire?

    A fair question, Mr. D., for preference something on the Beagle line would do very well. However to be fair on the hound and our neighbours to say nothing of our sanity I would need to find the right breeder. That said, HD2, much missed from this site, reminds me that pet dogs should be obtained from Rescue Centres and he has a very good point. So it will probably be something beagle(ish) size or, more likely, the mutt that Herself falls in love with.
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    The_ApocalypseThe_Apocalypse Posts: 7,830
    edited August 2015

    There has been a general downward trend in domestic violence including sexual assault, for example:

    http://www.ons.gov.uk/ons/dcp171776_352362.pdf

    Not the sort of figure you'd expect if the greater accessibility of hardcore pornography (the availablity of softer forms being high for many years) were leading to a big problem.

    Hmmm, I don't know whether that is a great measure. These kind of crimes tend to be private crimes, and therefore can be signifcantly under-reported. General disrespect can also occur on a less extreme end of things. For example, on something like anal - where I've heard several ''accidentally letting it slip in stories'' (more like deliberately) it's doubtful that women are going to go to the police to report sexual assault, despite the fact that it's occurred without a woman's consent, and is evidence of someone clearly going beyond a woman's boundaries.

    Them there's things like this: http://www.theguardian.com/society/2015/jan/22/number-rapes-police-england-wales-rises-31-percent#comments
    The ONS stats I linked are from the CSEW, which is victim-led and not subject to significant under-reporting (although this as your link alludes, is improving, so if anything the CSEW should be going up, when it is going down)>
    I don't see how it being victim-led would mean it wouldn't be subject to under-reporting - rape is a crime in which many victims feel a sense of shame and embarrassment, so I don't see why they would be likely to tell a victim survey they've been raped.

    Sexual crimes also tend to be under-reported in victim surveys, too.

    As for the link: I'd say that's the police line. How do they know that the number of rapes aren't genuinely increasing, as opposed to simply more women coming forward? They are just basing it on victim surveys.

    EDIT: Also as far as I'm aware, the CSEW, like other crime surveys don't include under 16s.
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    HurstLlamaHurstLlama Posts: 9,098
    Wotcha, Mrs. Lass,

    How are the kittens getting on? I saw that first picture of two balls of fur but nothing since.

    I don't know that we will go the full cat and dog route. The dog can certainly only happen after Thomas the Rescue has gone through the final cat flap (which, alas, I don't think will be too long). Could I really cope with two new kittens and a pup? Dunno and I am not sure I would want to find out.
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    TheWhiteRabbitTheWhiteRabbit Posts: 12,388

    There has been a general downward trend in domestic violence including sexual assault, for example:

    http://www.ons.gov.uk/ons/dcp171776_352362.pdf

    Not the sort of figure you'd expect if the greater accessibility of hardcore pornography (the availablity of softer forms being high for many years) were leading to a big problem.

    Hmmm, I don't know whether that is a great measure. These kind of crimes tend to be private crimes, and therefore can be signifcantly under-reported. General disrespect can also occur on a less extreme end of things. For example, on something like anal - where I've heard several ''accidentally letting it slip in stories'' (more like deliberately) it's doubtful that women are going to go to the police to report sexual assault, despite the fact that it's occurred without a woman's consent, and is evidence of someone clearly going beyond a woman's boundaries.

    Them there's things like this: http://www.theguardian.com/society/2015/jan/22/number-rapes-police-england-wales-rises-31-percent#comments
    The ONS stats I linked are from the CSEW, which is victim-led and not subject to significant under-reporting (although this as your link alludes, is improving, so if anything the CSEW should be going up, when it is going down)>
    I don't see how it being victim-led would mean it wouldn't be subject to under-reporting - rape is a crime in which many victims feel a sense of shame and embarrassment, so I don't see why they would be likely to tell a victim survey they've been raped.

    Sexual crimes also tend to be under-reported in victim surveys, too.

    As for the link: I'd say that's the police line. How do they know that the number of rapes aren't genuinely increasing, as opposed to simply more women coming forward? They are just basing it on victim surveys.

    EDIT: Also as far as I'm aware, the CSEW, like other crime surveys don't include under 16s.
    The figures are hight enough they can give us a trend. Unless you think that women are increasingly under-reporting things to the CSEW, which I don't believe.
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    foxinsoxukfoxinsoxuk Posts: 23,548
    edited August 2015

    Wotcha, Mrs. Lass,

    How are the kittens getting on? I saw that first picture of two balls of fur but nothing since.

    I don't know that we will go the full cat and dog route. The dog can certainly only happen after Thomas the Rescue has gone through the final cat flap (which, alas, I don't think will be too long). Could I really cope with two new kittens and a pup? Dunno and I am not sure I would want to find out.

    I have kept cats and dogs together. My theory is to get the puppy while you have the older cat. The pup then learns that he is below the cat in the household pecking order, particularly if the cat chastises him when he gets too bouncy. Once he is full size he retains this sense of place.

    My cat regularly bosses around my Border Terrier having been brought up together. They often play together too, and he is protective of her by chasing off other cats. They sometimes even hunt squirrels together, with him flushing the varmints towards her.
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    PulpstarPulpstar Posts: 75,929
    Porn is wildly unrealistic, you just can't get a plumber in that quickly.
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    There has been a general downward trend in domestic violence including sexual assault, for example:

    http://www.ons.gov.uk/ons/dcp171776_352362.pdf

    Not the sort of figure you'd expect if the greater accessibility of hardcore pornography (the availablity of softer forms being high for many years) were leading to a big problem.

    Hmmm, I don't know whether that is a great measure. These kind of crimes tend to be private crimes, and therefore can be signifcantly under-reported. General disrespect can also occur on a less extreme end of things. For example, on something like anal - where I've heard several ''accidentally letting it slip in stories'' (more like deliberately) it's doubtful that women are going to go to the police to report sexual assault, despite the fact that it's occurred without a woman's consent, and is evidence of someone clearly going beyond a woman's boundaries.

    Them there's things like this: http://www.theguardian.com/society/2015/jan/22/number-rapes-police-england-wales-rises-31-percent#comments
    The ONS stats I linked are from the CSEW, which is victim-led and not subject to significant under-reporting (although this as your link alludes, is improving, so if anything the CSEW should be going up, when it is going down)>
    I don't see how it being victim-led would mean it wouldn't be subject to under-reporting - rape is a crime in which many victims feel a sense of shame and embarrassment, so I don't see why they would be likely to tell a victim survey they've been raped.

    Sexual crimes also tend to be under-reported in victim surveys, too.

    As for the link: I'd say that's the police line. How do they know that the number of rapes aren't genuinely increasing, as opposed to simply more women coming forward? They are just basing it on victim surveys.

    EDIT: Also as far as I'm aware, the CSEW, like other crime surveys don't include under 16s.
    The figures are hight enough they can give us a trend. Unless you think that women are increasingly under-reporting things to the CSEW, which I don't believe.
    The figures being high don't really exclude issues that I mentioned regarding under-reporting, though.
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    PlatoPlato Posts: 15,724
    edited August 2015
    A bit depressing, but well worth a read http://www.spectator.co.uk/features/9595082/im-done-with-this-guilt-trip-lets-hold-charities-to-account/
    Earlier this year, I received the annual letter saying ‘It’s your sponsored child’s birthday soon, please sign this card’ — a card bearing puzzle games. It occurred to me that he had to be getting a bit old for this. I looked up his date of birth and he was about to turn 18. So I rang the charity and asked whether they had made a mistake and should be informing me that my stint had come to an end. But the call centre was adamant that the arrangement should continue. When I asked what the boy was doing that still required support, they said the field centre was hard to get word back from. I told them I would be grateful if they could try because, quite honestly, if this were my own son I wouldn’t be offering to support him financially for very much longer.

    A few weeks later, I rang again and asked if they had found anything out. I was told that my sponsored child was ‘still in education’. Fine, I said. Do we know what he is studying? No. Do we know how long he was going to be studying? No. The point was, they said, it was very important that my support did not dry up when the child turned 18 because if it did then he could get into gangs or drugs...
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    HurstLlamaHurstLlama Posts: 9,098

    Wotcha, Mrs. Lass,

    How are the kittens getting on? I saw that first picture of two balls of fur but nothing since.

    I don't know that we will go the full cat and dog route. The dog can certainly only happen after Thomas the Rescue has gone through the final cat flap (which, alas, I don't think will be too long). Could I really cope with two new kittens and a pup? Dunno and I am not sure I would want to find out.

    I have kept cats and dogs together. My theory is to get the puppy while you have the older cat. The pup then learns that he is below the cat in the household pecking order, particularly if the cat chastises him when he gets too bouncy. Once he is full size he retains this sense of place.

    My cat regularly bosses around my Border Terrier having been brought up together. They often play together too, and he is protective of her by chasing off other cats. They sometimes even hunt squirrels together, with him flushing the varmints towards her.
    I see the theory and appreciate the soundness of its general application. However, it must surely depend on the nature of the cat and perhaps the age difference. Thomas being about 18 is very set in his ways and, being Welsh as well, I am not sure that he would not either enter a terminal sulk or just move out if a pup was introduced on his turf. A turf, let's remember, that has only been his alone since The Brute and Jessica went through the cat flap last autumn.
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    foxinsoxukfoxinsoxuk Posts: 23,548

    Wotcha, Mrs. Lass,

    How are the kittens getting on? I saw that first picture of two balls of fur but nothing since.

    I don't know that we will go the full cat and dog route. The dog can certainly only happen after Thomas the Rescue has gone through the final cat flap (which, alas, I don't think will be too long). Could I really cope with two new kittens and a pup? Dunno and I am not sure I would want to find out.

    I have kept cats and dogs together. My theory is to get the puppy while you have the older cat. The pup then learns that he is below the cat in the household pecking order, particularly if the cat chastises him when he gets too bouncy. Once he is full size he retains this sense of place.

    My cat regularly bosses around my Border Terrier having been brought up together. They often play together too, and he is protective of her by chasing off other cats. They sometimes even hunt squirrels together, with him flushing the varmints towards her.
    I see the theory and appreciate the soundness of its general application. However, it must surely depend on the nature of the cat and perhaps the age difference. Thomas being about 18 is very set in his ways and, being Welsh as well, I am not sure that he would not either enter a terminal sulk or just move out if a pup was introduced on his turf. A turf, let's remember, that has only been his alone since The Brute and Jessica went through the cat flap last autumn.
    Yes. 18 may be a little old for my theory.
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    PlatoPlato Posts: 15,724
    An old cat and a new arrival IMO isn't fair. Its two very different energy levels, someone on their territory and noisy. Also newbies hog attention.

    I'd wait if it were my kitty.

    Wotcha, Mrs. Lass,

    How are the kittens getting on? I saw that first picture of two balls of fur but nothing since.

    I don't know that we will go the full cat and dog route. The dog can certainly only happen after Thomas the Rescue has gone through the final cat flap (which, alas, I don't think will be too long). Could I really cope with two new kittens and a pup? Dunno and I am not sure I would want to find out.

    I have kept cats and dogs together. My theory is to get the puppy while you have the older cat. The pup then learns that he is below the cat in the household pecking order, particularly if the cat chastises him when he gets too bouncy. Once he is full size he retains this sense of place.

    My cat regularly bosses around my Border Terrier having been brought up together. They often play together too, and he is protective of her by chasing off other cats. They sometimes even hunt squirrels together, with him flushing the varmints towards her.
    I see the theory and appreciate the soundness of its general application. However, it must surely depend on the nature of the cat and perhaps the age difference. Thomas being about 18 is very set in his ways and, being Welsh as well, I am not sure that he would not either enter a terminal sulk or just move out if a pup was introduced on his turf. A turf, let's remember, that has only been his alone since The Brute and Jessica went through the cat flap last autumn.
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    Morris_DancerMorris_Dancer Posts: 60,984
    Miss Plato, not a cat person, but I'd agree.
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    TheWhiteRabbitTheWhiteRabbit Posts: 12,388

    There has been a general downward trend in domestic violence including sexual assault, for example:

    http://www.ons.gov.uk/ons/dcp171776_352362.pdf

    Not the sort of figure you'd expect if the greater accessibility of hardcore pornography (the availablity of softer forms being high for many years) were leading to a big problem.

    Hmmm, I don't know whether that is a great measure. These kind of crimes tend to be private crimes, and therefore can be signifcantly under-reported. General disrespect can also occur on a less extreme end of things. For example, on something like anal - where I've heard several ''accidentally letting it slip in stories'' (more like deliberately) it's doubtful that women are going to go to the police to report sexual assault, despite the fact that it's occurred without a woman's consent, and is evidence of someone clearly going beyond a woman's boundaries.

    Them there's things like this: http://www.theguardian.com/society/2015/jan/22/number-rapes-police-england-wales-rises-31-percent#comments
    The ONS stats I linked are from the CSEW, which is victim-led and not subject to significant under-reporting (although this as your link alludes, is improving, so if anything the CSEW should be going up, when it is going down)>
    I don't see how it being victim-led would mean it wouldn't be subject to under-reporting - rape is a crime in which many victims feel a sense of shame and embarrassment, so I don't see why they would be likely to tell a victim survey they've been raped.

    Sexual crimes also tend to be under-reported in victim surveys, too.

    As for the link: I'd say that's the police line. How do they know that the number of rapes aren't genuinely increasing, as opposed to simply more women coming forward? They are just basing it on victim surveys.

    EDIT: Also as far as I'm aware, the CSEW, like other crime surveys don't include under 16s.
    The figures are hight enough they can give us a trend. Unless you think that women are increasingly under-reporting things to the CSEW, which I don't believe.
    The figures being high don't really exclude issues that I mentioned regarding under-reporting, though.
    65% of respondents were prepared to report at least once incidence of sexual assault since their 16th birthday.

    But that's not my point. Even if we have to take each year's figure and double it, the trend would still be downwards.
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    DairDair Posts: 6,108
    Pulpstar said:

    Porn is wildly unrealistic, you just can't get a plumber in that quickly.

    The thing I don't understand is how manufactured porn is still "a thing" in the age of the semi-pro sites like chaturbate (which might also open some eyes of the fairly naive comments on here about how people actually function sexually).
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    HurstLlamaHurstLlama Posts: 9,098
    Plato said:

    A bit depressing, but well worth a read http://www.spectator.co.uk/features/9595082/im-done-with-this-guilt-trip-lets-hold-charities-to-account/

    Earlier this year, I received the annual letter saying ‘It’s your sponsored child’s birthday soon, please sign this card’ — a card bearing puzzle games. It occurred to me that he had to be getting a bit old for this. I looked up his date of birth and he was about to turn 18. So I rang the charity and asked whether they had made a mistake and should be informing me that my stint had come to an end. But the call centre was adamant that the arrangement should continue. When I asked what the boy was doing that still required support, they said the field centre was hard to get word back from. I told them I would be grateful if they could try because, quite honestly, if this were my own son I wouldn’t be offering to support him financially for very much longer.

    A few weeks later, I rang again and asked if they had found anything out. I was told that my sponsored child was ‘still in education’. Fine, I said. Do we know what he is studying? No. Do we know how long he was going to be studying? No. The point was, they said, it was very important that my support did not dry up when the child turned 18 because if it did then he could get into gangs or drugs...
    I am not surprised at that story, Miss P., rather too many charities, especially the international ones, are more a business for making its directors a very comfortable living than anything else. Personally, I will no longer give a penny to any but local charities save the RNLI and the Ex-Services Mental Welfare Society (and even the latter is testing my tolerance levels since it decided to change its name).
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    DairDair Posts: 6,108

    Plato said:

    A bit depressing, but well worth a read http://www.spectator.co.uk/features/9595082/im-done-with-this-guilt-trip-lets-hold-charities-to-account/

    Earlier this year, I received the annual letter saying ‘It’s your sponsored child’s birthday soon, please sign this card’ — a card bearing puzzle games. It occurred to me that he had to be getting a bit old for this. I looked up his date of birth and he was about to turn 18. So I rang the charity and asked whether they had made a mistake and should be informing me that my stint had come to an end. But the call centre was adamant that the arrangement should continue. When I asked what the boy was doing that still required support, they said the field centre was hard to get word back from. I told them I would be grateful if they could try because, quite honestly, if this were my own son I wouldn’t be offering to support him financially for very much longer.

    A few weeks later, I rang again and asked if they had found anything out. I was told that my sponsored child was ‘still in education’. Fine, I said. Do we know what he is studying? No. Do we know how long he was going to be studying? No. The point was, they said, it was very important that my support did not dry up when the child turned 18 because if it did then he could get into gangs or drugs...
    I am not surprised at that story, Miss P., rather too many charities, especially the international ones, are more a business for making its directors a very comfortable living than anything else. Personally, I will no longer give a penny to any but local charities save the RNLI and the Ex-Services Mental Welfare Society (and even the latter is testing my tolerance levels since it decided to change its name).

    The level and vehemence of the Guilt Tripping on the various charity's TV adverts is just abhorrent. It needs regulated just as much as the crackdown on advertising sugary foods to kids.
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    TheWhiteRabbitTheWhiteRabbit Posts: 12,388
    I feel there are two, maybe three very different conversations going on...
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    Morris_DancerMorris_Dancer Posts: 60,984
    Mr. Dair, must agree.

    If I ever acquire sufficient income that I actually have an excess, any charitable giving will be based on my own research, not guilt-tripping adverts.
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    TheWhiteRabbitTheWhiteRabbit Posts: 12,388
    Dair said:

    Pulpstar said:

    Porn is wildly unrealistic, you just can't get a plumber in that quickly.

    The thing I don't understand is how manufactured porn is still "a thing" in the age of the semi-pro sites like chaturbate (which might also open some eyes of the fairly naive comments on here about how people actually function sexually).
    Well it's all chopped into bits and cut down to 3'05", isn't it?
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    MarqueeMarkMarqueeMark Posts: 50,125
    Plato said:

    Bras in the Infants?

    Golly, that sounds weird. I think I was 11 and one of the first in my class in the late 70s.

    Ms. Apocalypse, I suppose that's not too bad.

    I do seem to have made a habit of advanced ageing. Started shaving when I was 12, and recently started shaving my head (hair was thinning and it was starting to enter the realms of comedy).

    You're like the reverse Benjamin Button :grin:

    Some of the girls in my primary school had already begun wearing bras by year 5/6, so I think advanced aging may be not be rare....
    It's all these bloody role models in the House of Lords....
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    DairDair Posts: 6,108

    Dair said:

    Pulpstar said:

    Porn is wildly unrealistic, you just can't get a plumber in that quickly.

    The thing I don't understand is how manufactured porn is still "a thing" in the age of the semi-pro sites like chaturbate (which might also open some eyes of the fairly naive comments on here about how people actually function sexually).
    Well it's all chopped into bits and cut down to 3'05", isn't it?
    Not sure I understand what you're saying.
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    TheWhiteRabbitTheWhiteRabbit Posts: 12,388
    Dair said:

    Dair said:

    Pulpstar said:

    Porn is wildly unrealistic, you just can't get a plumber in that quickly.

    The thing I don't understand is how manufactured porn is still "a thing" in the age of the semi-pro sites like chaturbate (which might also open some eyes of the fairly naive comments on here about how people actually function sexually).
    Well it's all chopped into bits and cut down to 3'05", isn't it?
    Not sure I understand what you're saying.
    Well, the most popular online porn channels are advertising driven, based on a series of short extracts (as you may be aware). So the plumber, as it were, is largely absent. The narrative has gone.
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    HurstLlamaHurstLlama Posts: 9,098
    edited August 2015
    Dair said:

    Plato said:

    A bit depressing, but well worth a read http://www.spectator.co.uk/features/9595082/im-done-with-this-guilt-trip-lets-hold-charities-to-account/

    Earlier this year, I received the annual letter saying ‘It’s your sponsored child’s birthday soon, please sign this card’ — a card bearing puzzle games. It occurred to me that he had to be getting a bit old for this. I looked up his date of birth and he was about to turn 18. So I rang the charity and asked whether they had made a mistake and should be informing me that my stint had come to an end. But the call centre was adamant that the arrangement should continue. When I asked what the boy was doing that still required support, they said the field centre was hard to get word back from. I told them I would be grateful if they could try because, quite honestly, if this were my own son I wouldn’t be offering to support him financially for very much longer.

    A few weeks later, I rang again and asked if they had found anything out. I was told that my sponsored child was ‘still in education’. Fine, I said. Do we know what he is studying? No. Do we know how long he was going to be studying? No. The point was, they said, it was very important that my support did not dry up when the child turned 18 because if it did then he could get into gangs or drugs...
    I am not surprised at that story, Miss P., rather too many charities, especially the international ones, are more a business for making its directors a very comfortable living than anything else. Personally, I will no longer give a penny to any but local charities save the RNLI and the Ex-Services Mental Welfare Society (and even the latter is testing my tolerance levels since it decided to change its name).
    The level and vehemence of the Guilt Tripping on the various charity's TV adverts is just abhorrent. It needs regulated just as much as the crackdown on advertising sugary foods to kids.

    Agreed. The "Third Sector" really does need a shake out which has to start by a clear out of the Charity Commission. Dump the lovies out of the latter and replace them with some honest people. Then introduce a rule that says any charity that pays anyone more than £100k isn't, it is a business. I'd also ban charities from receiving any funds from HMG xor from lobbying parliament/parliamentarians.
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    malcolmgmalcolmg Posts: 41,979
    Seem to be a lot of experts on porn on pb.
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    calumcalum Posts: 3,046

    FPT the canard that "once in a generation" on Scottish Independence referendums was "just one man's view" - it was the view of both the UK and Scottish Governments:

    http://www.scotland.org/about-scotland/government-timeline/

    But I know it's pointless to argue facts with people of faith....

    Given Cameron's contribution earlier this week it will be interesting to see what impact, if any, this will have on the next few Scottish polls. I'm not sure who's advising him at the moment but his words will no doubt become one of the SNP's main attack weapons, I don't think Ruth will thank him for his intervention.

    I find the MSM's new attack line of the SNP being a cult somewhat puzzling, particularly given support levels are now in the 60% area - if anything it's the political commentators who are showing cult like behaviour as they continue to believe their own rhetoric. At GE2015 we had the "Cult of Jim Murphy" :

    http://wingsoverscotland.com/sometimes-its-just-a-spade/

    The commentators have now also been caught out by Corbyn and think they can push a "Cult of Anyone but Corbyn" - these guys are becoming increasingly irrelevant as they struggle to adapt to life outside the Westminster bubble.
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    The_ApocalypseThe_Apocalypse Posts: 7,830
    edited August 2015

    65% of respondents were prepared to report at least once incidence of sexual assault since their 16th birthday.

    But that's not my point. Even if we have to take each year's figure and double it, the trend would still be downwards.

    I don't see the 65% anywhere in the ONS link.

    I've seen this: The largest difference between the sexes was shown for sexual assault, with 19.1% of women and
    2.7% of men having experienced sexual assault (including attempts) since the age of 16 (Appendix
    table 4.01 (1.38 Mb Excel sheet); Figure 4.1).


    As for the figures, as I've said before:

    The CSWE excludes under-16s.

    There has been a rise in the number of rapes being reported, which shows the trend is no longer downwards in any case.
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    HurstLlamaHurstLlama Posts: 9,098
    malcolmg said:

    Seem to be a lot of experts on porn on pb.

    The youngsters, you may note, Mr. G..
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    DairDair Posts: 6,108

    Dair said:

    Dair said:

    Pulpstar said:

    Porn is wildly unrealistic, you just can't get a plumber in that quickly.

    The thing I don't understand is how manufactured porn is still "a thing" in the age of the semi-pro sites like chaturbate (which might also open some eyes of the fairly naive comments on here about how people actually function sexually).
    Well it's all chopped into bits and cut down to 3'05", isn't it?
    Not sure I understand what you're saying.
    Well, the most popular online porn channels are advertising driven, based on a series of short extracts (as you may be aware). So the plumber, as it were, is largely absent. The narrative has gone.
    That was my point. Sites like Chaturbate, Cam4 and Camfuze are live webcams not scenarios, with amateur and semi-amateur performances. The former is generally free to watch. It changes the game.
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    TheWhiteRabbitTheWhiteRabbit Posts: 12,388

    65% of respondents were prepared to report at least once incidence of sexual assault since their 16th birthday.

    But that's not my point. Even if we have to take each year's figure and double it, the trend would still be downwards.

    I don't see the 65% anywhere in the ONS link.

    I've seen this: The largest difference between the sexes was shown for sexual assault, with 19.1% of women and
    2.7% of men having experienced sexual assault (including attempts) since the age of 16 (Appendix
    table 4.01 (1.38 Mb Excel sheet); Figure 4.1).


    As for the figures, as I've said before:

    The CSWE excludes under-16s.

    There has been a rise in the number of rapes being reported, which shows the trend is no longer downwards in any case.
    There has been a downward trend in the CSEW over the last decade, and, as I say, if anything reporting should be getting better - so the numbers should be rising, not falling. So the actually fall might actually be bigger than it seems.

    THe comparable figure for the 65% is the 30% in this report, which gives an indiciation that underreporting is not so significant as to make a mockery of the figures, although no doubt it is there. (The 65% includes other types of sexual assault outside the domestic setting.)
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    The plumber and pizza boy narrative don't really exist anymore.

    You can get longer content other than short-extracts, but they are usually from sites you have to sign up to/pay for. It seems that porn from these pay sites (which can range from 5 minutes to an hour or so) are being uploaded onto the 'free' sites. Narratives do exist - see cuckold porn, nannies, incest etc. That said I think the biggest change in porn (having seen some 'old' porn) is the increase in the aggressive nature towards women.
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    MarqueeMarkMarqueeMark Posts: 50,125


    Ok. Hoovering done, herself home and didn't shout at me and now settled with a cup of tea and a warm cat.

    Incidentally, Mr. Llama, what breed of hound are you set to acquire?

    A fair question, Mr. D., for preference something on the Beagle line would do very well. However to be fair on the hound and our neighbours to say nothing of our sanity I would need to find the right breeder. That said, HD2, much missed from this site, reminds me that pet dogs should be obtained from Rescue Centres and he has a very good point. So it will probably be something beagle(ish) size or, more likely, the mutt that Herself falls in love with.


    Ok. Hoovering done, herself home and didn't shout at me and now settled with a cup of tea and a warm cat.

    Incidentally, Mr. Llama, what breed of hound are you set to acquire?

    A fair question, Mr. D., for preference something on the Beagle line would do very well. However to be fair on the hound and our neighbours to say nothing of our sanity I would need to find the right breeder. That said, HD2, much missed from this site, reminds me that pet dogs should be obtained from Rescue Centres and he has a very good point. So it will probably be something beagle(ish) size or, more likely, the mutt that Herself falls in love with.
    I can't recommend wire-haired fox terriers highly enough. Whip-smart, the bark of a big dog in a medium dog's frame, brilliant with kids - plus, for those who don't want to be hoovering all day - they don't shed. They just get fluffier and fluffier....
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    JosiasJessopJosiasJessop Posts: 39,018
    Off-topic:just watching the World Orienteering Championship on BBC Alba, in combined Gaelic / English, from the beautiful town of Nairn. Surprisingly watchable.
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    DairDair Posts: 6,108

    The plumber and pizza boy narrative don't really exist anymore.

    You can get longer content other than short-extracts, but they are usually from sites you have to sign up to/pay for. It seems that porn from these pay sites (which can range from 5 minutes to an hour or so) are being uploaded onto the 'free' sites. Narratives do exist - see cuckold porn, nannies, incest etc. That said I think the biggest change in porn (having seen some 'old' porn) is the increase in the aggressive nature towards women.

    That's just not true, on pretty much any level. Sites like Motherless provide long form free porn and there is plenty of long form free availability even on semi-pay sites like xhamster. And as I said earlier, the semi-amateur live shows like Chaturbate replace scenario porn anyway.

    Scenario porn has always been mysogynistic, that's not changed. Outside of that, the problem now is that porn is increasingly controlled by the female performer and there is a strong feminist ideology which does not allow any form of female sexual expression which does not fit within their own agenda - so no BDSM, no rape fantasy, no DD/LG, etc. And all three of those are very, very common female paraphilias (in fact none of them would even qualify as paraphilias given how commonplace they are).
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    TheWhiteRabbitTheWhiteRabbit Posts: 12,388

    malcolmg said:

    Seem to be a lot of experts on porn on pb.

    The youngsters, you may note, Mr. G..
    I prefer to study the market forces of non-traditional markets, like porn, drugs, and illegal weapons.

    The_Apocalypse and Dair are right (although Dair, I don't think our points were the same).

    The largest sites by number of hits are still YouTube-style clip sites.

    There are still pay-per-view sites, catering to an older and wealthier market; frequently those with more specific interests.

    The sort of camsites Dair talks about are the new entrants, and a significant part of the market (only recently would it have been appropriate to have seen them as part of the ass market). The vast majority of them are solo performers so I'm not sure it really matches TA's argument that modern porn is more aggressive, although it is clear that the YouTube-style site caries more hardcore pornography accessible to the teenager than the top shelf ever did.
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    MattWMattW Posts: 18,563
    edited August 2015

    There has been a rise in the number of rapes being reported, which shows the trend is no longer downwards in any case.
    You have to be careful with that. There is little evidence of rape increasing.

    A large proportion of the extra "reports" are related to historic allegations, rather than contemporary assaults. And only a tiny proportion of those are being charged and found true in the courts.

    There are very good reasons why most of Europe has a stature of limitations on this stuff.

    That's one of the reasons why the Guardian "Shock horror! 30% increase in rape!" referenced earlier is both misleading and irresponsible.

    I'd make a comparison with the feminist drones who come on Newsnight regularly to tell us that 2 women a week are murdered by their intimate partners. That stat is a lie.

    The number now rounds down to one being currently under 1.5, having been about 2.5 12-15 years ago iirc.

    Not only is the number misrepresented; the direction of travel is hidden.

    It would presumably be very damaging or the likes of the Fawcett Society if all their supporters suddenly realised they were becoming much safer. My hope is that the feminist windbag is about blown out.
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    JosiasJessopJosiasJessop Posts: 39,018

    Dair said:

    Plato said:

    A bit depressing, but well worth a read http://www.spectator.co.uk/features/9595082/im-done-with-this-guilt-trip-lets-hold-charities-to-account/

    Earlier this year, I received the annual letter saying ‘It’s your sponsored child’s birthday soon, please sign this card’ — a card bearing puzzle games. It occurred to me that he had to be getting a bit old for this. I looked up his date of birth and he was about to turn 18. So I rang the charity and asked whether they had made a mistake and should be informing me that my stint had come to an end. But the call centre was adamant that the arrangement should continue. When I asked what the boy was doing that still required support, they said the field centre was hard to get word back from. I told them I would be grateful if they could try because, quite honestly, if this were my own son I wouldn’t be offering to support him financially for very much longer.

    A few weeks later, I rang again and asked if they had found anything out. I was told that my sponsored child was ‘still in education’. Fine, I said. Do we know what he is studying? No. Do we know how long he was going to be studying? No. The point was, they said, it was very important that my support did not dry up when the child turned 18 because if it did then he could get into gangs or drugs...
    I am not surprised at that story, Miss P., rather too many charities, especially the international ones, are more a business for making its directors a very comfortable living than anything else. Personally, I will no longer give a penny to any but local charities save the RNLI and the Ex-Services Mental Welfare Society (and even the latter is testing my tolerance levels since it decided to change its name).
    The level and vehemence of the Guilt Tripping on the various charity's TV adverts is just abhorrent. It needs regulated just as much as the crackdown on advertising sugary foods to kids.
    Agreed. The "Third Sector" really does need a shake out which has to start by a clear out of the Charity Commission. Dump the lovies out of the latter and replace them with some honest people. Then introduce a rule that says any charity that pays anyone more than £100k isn't, it is a business. I'd also ban charities from receiving any funds from HMG xor from lobbying parliament/parliamentarians.

    BTW (& fpt).r Llama, I think we might have been at the same Jethro Tull concert in Southampton! One of Mrs J's favourite bands.
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    HurstLlamaHurstLlama Posts: 9,098


    Ok. Hoovering done, herself home and didn't shout at me and now settled with a cup of tea and a warm cat.

    Incidentally, Mr. Llama, what breed of hound are you set to acquire?

    A fair question, Mr. D., for preference something on the Beagle line would do very well. However to be fair on the hound and our neighbours to say nothing of our sanity I would need to find the right breeder. That said, HD2, much missed from this site, reminds me that pet dogs should be obtained from Rescue Centres and he has a very good point. So it will probably be something beagle(ish) size or, more likely, the mutt that Herself falls in love with.


    Ok. Hoovering done, herself home and didn't shout at me and now settled with a cup of tea and a warm cat.

    Incidentally, Mr. Llama, what breed of hound are you set to acquire?

    A fair question, Mr. D., for preference something on the Beagle line would do very well. However to be fair on the hound and our neighbours to say nothing of our sanity I would need to find the right breeder. That said, HD2, much missed from this site, reminds me that pet dogs should be obtained from Rescue Centres and he has a very good point. So it will probably be something beagle(ish) size or, more likely, the mutt that Herself falls in love with.
    I can't recommend wire-haired fox terriers highly enough. Whip-smart, the bark of a big dog in a medium dog's frame, brilliant with kids - plus, for those who don't want to be hoovering all day - they don't shed. They just get fluffier and fluffier....
    It does look a spiffing dog, Mr. Mark, and in the right size range. However, a fox-terrier? Jerome K Jerome in Three Men in a Boat described the breed as having naturally three times the original sin of any other (Montmorency, you'll no doubt recall, was a fox-terrier).
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    65% of respondents were prepared to report at least once incidence of sexual assault since their 16th birthday.

    But that's not my point. Even if we have to take each year's figure and double it, the trend would still be downwards.

    I don't see the 65% anywhere in the ONS link.

    I've seen this: The largest difference between the sexes was shown for sexual assault, with 19.1% of women and
    2.7% of men having experienced sexual assault (including attempts) since the age of 16 (Appendix
    table 4.01 (1.38 Mb Excel sheet); Figure 4.1).


    As for the figures, as I've said before:

    The CSWE excludes under-16s.

    There has been a rise in the number of rapes being reported, which shows the trend is no longer downwards in any case.
    There has been a downward trend in the CSEW over the last decade, and, as I say, if anything reporting should be getting better - so the numbers should be rising, not falling. So the actually fall might actually be bigger than it seems.

    THe comparable figure for the 65% is the 30% in this report, which gives an indiciation that underreporting is not so significant as to make a mockery of the figures, although no doubt it is there. (The 65% includes other types of sexual assault outside the domestic setting.)
    I've not seen in the ONS link that the sexual assault figure I put in italics only specifies sexual assault in domestic settings (indeed, given that sexual assault in the cases where the victim doesn't know the perpetrator is mentioned, I'd suggest otherwise - and that these such figures are from the 19.7% of women who have reported sexual assault) - it appears to reference sexual assault in general. I also don't see how the 30% means that under-reporting isn't significant, either. The 30% figure also appears to be a summary of domestic abuse generally (so violent and sexual crime) as opposed to just sexual assault, too - so given that, I wouldn't say that 30% is an indication that under-reporting is not significant.

    As for the downward trend; again the CSWE doesn't include under-16s - and given that much of changes regarding attitudes towards sex affect this demographic, that is pretty significant. The survey pretty much admits that young women in particular, are at most at risk of sexual assault. The main evidence sighted that the rise in the number of reports in rape isn't a genuine rise is victim surveys - and given that they are affected by the fact sensitive crimes tend to be under-reported, this is not an appropriate basis to claim that the rise in reported rapes isn't genuine. Otherwise, we have to ask why suddenly have reported rapes risen in the last year or so, but not over a long period if it's merely a case that reporting has improved.



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