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Re: Why there might not be an immediate polling boost for Labour if Burnham becomes PM
Just boarded a train in Andy's Manchester. Headed for Andy's Makerfield?
Re: Why there might not be an immediate polling boost for Labour if Burnham becomes PM
Well I'm reassured by that. Your posts describing the risks to women and children of biological males are about 90%+ focused on trans women, so you can perhaps understand why a foray into commenting on the risks posed by gay men wasn't entirely unexpected.No. Read it again. Carefully this time. I said that of all the factors listed - white, male, teacher, gay - there was only one which is a well known risk factor: being male. Not being gay.Yes but let's not ignore the sentiments behind the post."Varley's evil and graphic sexual abuse is beyond contempt. I don't believe a general extrapolation should be made because Varley was either, white, male, a teacher or gay."You raise many good points as to whether social workers did X or Y.
Well, one of those characteristics is a risk factor for crime - and particularly for sexual crimes against children: being male. His partner was also convicted of various offences. And he, Varley, was not just a teacher but safeguarding lead at his school.
That does not mean that no men should ever adopt. It should mean that those doing the due diligence need to be very very thorough in their assessment - of character, history, motivation, lifestyle, ability to look after a baby, understanding of what looking after a very young baby involves and ability to do so - ie the emotional resilience to cope with a baby's needs and helping him thrive and develop, family support, female involvement, friends, hobbies etc etc . And not just all that.
Those doing the due diligence need a sceptical investigative mind.
The adoption went through pretty quickly. How good, how extensive was the due diligence? Did they pick up his extensive viewing of seriously revolting porn? Did they ask to look at his and his partner's computer and phones? Did they take too much comfort from the fact that he was a teacher and safeguarding lead and so relied on that rather than carry out their own inquiries? This is a classic trap and one which fraudsters and wrongdoers of all types exploit: they get past one check and then never get properly checked again because everyone else relies on that one check. And was this couple really the best set of adoptive parents to be found in Oldham?
Even very intelligent people can be horrifyingly naive about offenders and offences and what stones to turn over to look for them. And very naive about the lengths deviant people like Varley and his partner will go to to satisfy their deviancy.
Remember this case when people start talking about making surrogacy even easier than it is. There are far fewer checks than with adoptions and there has already been one horrific case in the US of two men buying a surrogate baby for the purpose of sexual abuse. Babies are not commodities to be bought and sold.
My experience from interacting with them over adult social care is they are under intense time pressure as the caseload is bonkers.
Is she arguing gay men looking to adopt should be subjected to more scrutiny than straight men who are in a relationship with a woman? Because they are innately more dangerous? I suspect she is.
When doing checks, the scrutiny of the men should be very very thorough. And that applies to whether the man is straight, gay, in a relationship or single. Heterosexual men abuse children too.
It is the maleness which is the risk factor. Not the sexuality.
The sentiment behind my post was triggered by the apparent lack of effective due diligence. Because it has been my experience from the thousands of investigations I have done that, when you uncover a wrong'un, there is always a clue, usually several, many of them red flags, that the person was a wrong' un and, that for a variety of reasons these were either not spotted or, if spotted, not acted on. I will be interested to see what the Serious Case Review will show here.
And it was a private adoption agency which placed this baby with this couple, which may also be a factor. The agency is still operating. How competent and effective are they?
I'm a father of a gay son who would very much like to have children one day.
MelonB
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Re: Why there might not be an immediate polling boost for Labour if Burnham becomes PM
Matches involving Switzerland often seem to be boring affairs with no more than 1 or 2 goals being scored.They are always 90 minutes exactly though and end spot on time
Re: Why there might not be an immediate polling boost for Labour if Burnham becomes PM
Draw bias on the straight Course at Ascot today was insane.And Royal Ascot and Queens tennis. This is a ridiculous period for sports nuts, of which I am one.Why not relax a bit and catch some of the US Open golf?I have a test match, 2 teams to cheer on at the WC, some excellent women's T20 matches and the small matter of an ongoing trial. Its a hectic schedule and I am getting worn out.I know, I am also watching Scotland being competitive in the women's T20 world cup right now.This whole World Cup in which Scotland are competitive, plus by elections, and A level marking is very inconvenient for me. When will Burnham condemn?My plan is early night tonight as tomorrow has the Scotland match which kicks off at 11pm.It is tempting just to stay up and watch football, not gonna lie.Are we expecting about 4am declarations for Makerfield? Trying to time my power nap and fit in some exam marking.The Mexico vs South Korea match at 0200 sounds quite competitive if you are planning an all-nighter.
Presumably the Scottish seats will be a similar time.
I cancelled all my meetings for tomorrow, I told the CEO, COO, and CFO, soz the meeting has to take place on Monday.
They might just be tempted to overwater the Stands rail to try to equalise it.
Re: Why there might not be an immediate polling boost for Labour if Burnham becomes PM
Surely, Labour should know by now if it has got its vote out?Are we expecting about 4am declarations for Makerfield? Trying to time my power nap and fit in some exam marking.4am at the earliest, probably.
Re: Why there might not be an immediate polling boost for Labour if Burnham becomes PM
When was the last time we had such an important, pivotal election this close to the summer solsticeA new dusk has set, has it not?
It's going to be light after the poll closes
Re: Why there might not be an immediate polling boost for Labour if Burnham becomes PM
Young women now have 'close to zero' risk of cervical cancer death after HPV jabThat is wonderful news. Hopefully is also helping to lower the risk of a certain sub-set of head and neck cancers, too.... (Though obviously it doesn't do much for the smokers and the drunks)
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c621z28z138o
Sadly there will always be some mad bastards that will be anti-vax come what may, and thanks to the internet there will be occasional cut-through so there will be the odd person that refuses the HPV jab and dies needlessly as a result, but overall this is great news!
GIN1138
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Re: Why there might not be an immediate polling boost for Labour if Burnham becomes PM
As Oakes once said, I may be some time. Really not sure what has caused offence here....Its only statistics though...Go to your room young man, and don't come back down until you can tell me what you did wrong.
DavidL
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Re: Why there might not be an immediate polling boost for Labour if Burnham becomes PM
When was the last time we had such an important, pivotal election this close to the summer solstice
It's going to be light after the poll closes
It's going to be light after the poll closes
Re: Why there might not be an immediate polling boost for Labour if Burnham becomes PM
1970 - exactly 56 years to the day.When was the last time we had such an important, pivotal election this close to the summer solsticeThe 1987 general election?
It's going to be light after the poll closes
11th of June.
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