For it to be successful I would suggest it has to be permanent. Otherwise it has, by definition, failed at some point. Of course, there may be rare examples where the two partners decide to separate … (View Post)

Leon, to be brutally frank here, I have mostly been very successful in my relationships where you, by your own admission sadly, have not. Whatever your thoughts on dating and whatever your track reco… (View Post)

A large proportion of young men have almost always been socially awkward - certainly since the start of the 20th century. Just go read PG Wodehouse. Almost invariably the bright ones are the women an… (View Post)

All of which kind of ignores the fact that many men and women are attracted to each other for reasons other than their looks. Yes, in a nightclub or bar obviously the first thing that catches the eye… (View Post)

Stopping caring is what worked for me. Off the back of an abortive engagement (I came home early from a rig to find someone else brushing their teeth in my bathroom) I stopped worrying about women fo… (View Post)